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We're almost eleven months out (OMG, HOW?) and this has been our experience:

> If you use a dresser for a changing table, do you need a way to keep the baby from falling off while you’re reaching for supplies?

• You'll figure this out really fast, but you pretty much NEVER take your hand off baby when s/he's on the changing table. It's like an alligator bred with a honey badger, and that resulting spawn is your baby - rolling and thrashing around all over the changing table. And they don't give a FUCK. SO. What works for us is having my son's Hatch changing table on the left side (husband and I are right handed) of the Ikea Hemnes dresser. One of the nice things about the Hatch is that it has a grippy bottom and nice weight to it, so it can sit directly on the dresser itself. No "box" needed to secure it. Our diaper pail is to the left, next to the dresser, for immediate disposal. Creams and bum brush and lotions and hair brush/gel are within easy reach in a wooden stand on the right side of the dresser. Wipes are in the middle of the dresser, at the foot of the hatch. We don't have a lot of electronic toys (because they drive me up the wall) but the small, light up/music playing hand toys we do have are kept in the wooden stand, within arms reach, because they're novel and interesting enough to "distract" my son (sometimes) long enough for me to change his diaper. The diapers themselves are kept in the first top left drawer of the dresser, the one right under the Hatch. Everything is within easy arms reach. I never have to step away from the dresser. One thing to keep in mind when looking for a dresser/table/whatever is width. I love that the Hemnes is nice and wide; I have enough surface area to set the dirty diaper down so I have two hands free to wipe, set his clothes, his towel, his whatever. My friend has the standard pad length/width only table and often complains about there not being "counter space."
  
  > Are diaper pails necessary over a regular trash can?
  
  
• This totally depends on your "lifestyle." For us - YES. Absolutely. I have a basset hound who LOVES to bathe in shit of any kind (WHY.) and can sniff it out from a mile away. We couldn't use a regular trash can. We couldn't use the kitchen trash can. And we certainly couldn't run out to the outside trash 15 times a day/all hours of the night. We needed something hound proof, and the Ubbi fit the bill. It's metal, so it really locks in the smell. Downside is it's more on the expensive side. Upside is that it locks nice and tight (my son is learning to walk now and loves to open everything he shouldn't but hasn't busted through this thing) AND you can use any bag in it, so over the long run you'll probably even out cost-wise anyway (refill bags for the diaper genie and/or munchkin are actually pretty expensive). It's been 11 months for us. My hound lays right next to the Ubbi while I change my son and has never once even noticed it or its contents. We take the trash out now once, max twice a week. On the other hand, my brother had a Diaper Genie with his first. They just had their second and when he mentioned needing another diaper pail I asked him what kind. His response was a resounding "ANYTHING BUT A DIAPER GENIE." Over time it basically absorbed the smell and there was nothing to be done about it. I think they have a Munchkin now, though I'm not sure how well they like it.
  
  > Should we store diaper change equipment up on an open shelf that doesn’t require hands to open a drawer?
  
  
• This is certainly an option, though I find it no problem at all opening the little drawer I store diapers in (as long as the drawer is within easy reach of the table). If you do store above, make sure it's high enough that a kicking baby won't catch a limb on it. We used to have some wire baskets that housed wash cloths and creams and rattles hanging above the middle of our dresser, but pretty low because the dresser itself is centered below a large window. Anyway, a few months in, when my son really got his stanky legs goin', he caught his toe a few times on the wire baskets so we had to take them down. sigh. We just can't have nice things.
  
  > Ambient vs task lighting? Nightlights?
  
  
• Yes. Yes. And yes. All kinds of lighting options. What works for us is having the regular room light - bright, white, whatever. It's the ceiling light. His rocking chair is in the corner opposite his crib - hanging above this I have two pendant lights with Edison bulbs. Our son slept in our room for the first 9 months, but all diaper changes took place in his room, so I kept one or two (as needed) of these Edison lights on at all times. They were great for the middle of the night diaper changes because I could walk into an already lit room that I could see perfectly in without it being too bright/blinding myself/waking my son up even more than he already was. Pro-tip - I also have a hanging pendant light with an Edison bulb on at all times in the living room, where I did his middle of the night feeds, and it worked perfectly as well. I also recommend a small tap light of some sort. I love this little lamp - I kept it on my bedside table when kiddo was in our room and could carry it around the room with me as needed, down the hallway, into the kitchen to make a bottle, whatever - all with a baby in my arms. It's now in his room and I can tap it on really quick if I need to check things out without waking him up. Along the same lines as lighting, I also recommend something like a star projector. We didn't get this until we moved our son into his room at 9M, but he loves it. Some babies end up getting distracted by these things and are unable to fall asleep with them, but in our son's case it soothes him to sleep. You'll figure out soon enough which kind of sleep environment your baby prefers.
  
  > Blackout curtains for napping?
  
  
• This is also one of those "it largely depends" type things. For us, creating our son's naptime environment was heavily influenced by what kind of environment he'd need to be able to nap in while at daycare - which was one giant classroom filled with 10-15 infants, fluorescent lighting, one solid wall of windows, and allthenoise - crying, music, classrooms filled with older babies and elementary school aged children, and constant interruption. So... we didn't bother with blackout curtains. For naps in the infant stage we kept our son in the living room - TV on, music on, lights on, "inside voices" but not too quiet. Very different than nighttime, where it was obviously darker (though still not pitch black), a white noise machine to muffle "life sounds," and in his pack n play or crib.
  
  > A recliner that’s comfy enough to doze in?
  
  
• This is kind of tricky. You want somewhere you'll be comfortable sitting in for hours at a time, all day and all night long, but not something you have to struggle to stay awake in. I ended up doing all feeds on our living room couch, which I hadn't planned on but it ended up being the most comfortable for me. My husband prefers the living room recliner. We also converted an Ikea Strandmon Wingback into a rocking chair and have this in his nursery, which is where we do reading and cuddles, and where my husband or I will sit with him as he plays with crap on the floor. The most important thing to look for, I think, is back support, neck/head support, and arm support. You need something tall enough so that your head isn't sticking up above the chair back, and you need arms that are high enough so that they can support you while you're holding, say, a bowling ball, at chest height for over an hour (bend your arm at the elbow so it's at a 90 degree angle across your chest - whether you breast or bottle feed, this is the height at which you'll hold your baby while feeding. Try to find an arm high enough to support your elbow. A boppy of some sort offers a little extra elevation, if you go that route.).
  
  > Is a light colored rug a terrible idea?
  
  
• Yeah. The era of light furnishings is probably closed for the foreseeable future. I don't know how an immobile potato gets sticky fingers and jammy toes, but they do. And it gets on everything. Also pee. And poop. And spit up. They're pretty much bodily fluid rocket launchers.
  
  Anyway. Our experience. Hopefully you find a few pearls in there that are helpful to you!

Warning - lots of text below! My baby is about 6 weeks now and I'm exclusively breastfeeding. My Medela Harmony manual pump has been fine for building a stash - I pump 1-2 times a day for the freezer and occasional bottle feedings from Dad. I think it's pretty convenient, but I'll be using a double electric pump when I go back to work (waiting to see what Tricare will cover in 2015!).

Whatever you decide to use for diapering, I'd strongly recommend getting some prefolds (I got Osocozy unbleached). They're great for burp cloths, catching milk from your other boob during letdown, etc and they're also way cheaper and more absorbent than fancy burp cloths. Personally I love prefolds and covers for diapering, but don't buy too much into any one system or brand until you know what works for you. My husband hates prefolds so now I'm having to add pockets and AIOs to appease him.

I'd get some swaddlers (at least 2; my favorite is from Nuroo but that was a gift and they're pricey, the summer infant SwaddleMe wraps are good now that she's bigger but didn't fit well until about 10 lbs). My girl lives in footed pajamas and I love the Gerber zipped ones, we found tons at goodwill for $1.50 each but if you can't find them used, they're on Amazon for $10 for a 2 pack. You're right that other people will buy clothes, but they'll pick cutesy stuff and you need some practical choices too.

Nursing pillow - I had an unexpected C section and this has been so necessary. I love the Luna Lullaby since it's big and I had a big baby.

Some kind of baby carrier, I got a Moby wrap while she's small and it's amazing for running errands (I put it on before getting in the car and pop her in before going in the store, WAY easier than a carseat and stroller).

We were gifted a used swing and it is a freaking godsend. It's the only way I get chores done since I can pop her in there and cook, do laundry, clean, etc without her crying. YMMV, some babies hate them, but buy used and you won't be out too much cash.

Wubbanub pacifier is easy to keep track of and super cute.

Pack n Play with a mattress for cosleeping (recommended to reduce SIDS risk for the first 6 months). At least 2 mini crib sheets.

Earth Mama Angel Baby nipple butter is amazing for the first couple weeks.

QuickZip crib sheets will be amazing once you use the crib.

Simba baby safety nail cutter - no bleeding!

Finally, the Itzbeen pocket nanny timer is so helpful for keeping track of feedings and diaper changes, especially in the first few weeks.

Hope this wasn't too overwhelming. Good luck!

*Edited to add links to products.

Diapers and wipes are always good -- newborn or preemie size probably. That said, some diapers just don't fit great on some kids, and some kids will have more sensitivity to certain wipes, so it's hard to say exactly which type/brand to get. "Water wipes" (https://www.amazon.com/WaterWipes-Sensitive-Wipes-Count-Packs/dp/B008KJEYLO) are a really good sensitive wipe. I wouldn't necessarily send her too many/any bigger diapers yet. They'll just take up room and might be a brand that doesn't work great. A box or two of the next size up is enough for now.

A good diaper cream will probably also be needed. I'd recommend something somewhat "natural" like https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000P16ZXK/, again to help reduce sensitivity hopefully. I would avoid petroleum jelly based ones.

Some type of burp cloths. However diaper cloths (I can't remember if that's what they are called) work great. I can't speak for this brand but something like this.. https://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-3-Ply-Prefold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVWE. They are usually like a light linen/muslin, and usually fairly large square, and plain. They're easy to clean and big enough to fold over if part gets dirty, etc, and multi-use.


I would also avoid too many clothes. Some onesies with zippers is probably all that's really needed. Maybe also a nice soft hat as well, and some muslin swaddle wraps. Additionally, a warm, soft blanket or something to cover them when they go out. They're not supposed to wear anything bulky between the child and the carseat harness (ofc, they'll need a carseat if they don't already have one -- most hospitals won't release babies without one though, especially from the nicu).

Pacifiers are good too. Kids will probably find a certain kind they prefer, but I think this is basically what hospitals almost always use https://www.amazon.com/Philips-SCF190-01-Soothie-0-3mth/dp/B0045I6IAO.



They may also be recommended a vitamin like poly-vi-sol, or possibly other things, but this is hard to buy without being able to talk to her to find out exactly what is prescribed.

Similarly, bottles, nipples, and/or breastfeeding equipment, but this is hard to buy without knowing what she and the kid prefer. However, hand sanitizer for after diaper changes, and a nice bottle brush (https://www.amazon.com/Dr-Browns-Bottle-Brush-Blue/dp/B000N0SNHY/ or https://www.amazon.com/Sponge-Bottle-Brush-Pack-Blue/dp/B07DQQFP63/) are great to have.

Some type of food/meal delivery would be awesome. Possibly even a local housecleaning or laundry service too, depending on how independent she is.

And ultimately, money can help, as well as your phone number or contact info and an openness for contact and support.

There might be more that I can't think of. At this stage it's probably as important to get things to help her directly as for the baby. She may also have some medical needs depending on how the delivery went, and all that. Feel free to pm me too with any more questions etc.

Here are a couple more pictures.

Top Five that money can buy:

1. Babyletto Hudson 3-in-1 crib. I’ve seen this crib in lots of nursery pics. It is easy to put together and sturdy. We picked ours up off Facebook Marketplace for $125, including the conversion kit.
   
   
2. Hatch Rest sound machine and night light. we got a chance to trial run this little gadget a couple days ago when a friend’s toddler napped at our house. It was nice being able to change the sounds and light colors and turn up the sound using an app on my phone. Toddler was fussing and we turned up the sound a little and he went to sleep! Magic!
   
   
3. Jellycat stuffed animals. They are just so cute. I give one to all the new babies in my life. My brother and SIL gifted this baby with one.
   
   
4. Ubbi diaper pail. I don’t have experience using it, but it calms my nerves about poop. 🤷‍♀️
   
   
5. Nambe photo frame. This was a gift. It is the sweetest little frame ever and not something I think I would have splurged on for myself, but seeing it in person, I think it would be an amazing gift for new parents and even worth buying for yourself. It’s so precious.
   
   Top Five that money can’t buy:
   
   
6. The quilt hanging in the wall was made by my great grandmother and was my baby quilt! My mom surprised me with it at my shower.
   
   
7. The framed art and picture. The top is a painting of baby garibaldis (sooooo cute!), which is the state fish of California. The bottom is a photo of my husband riding on his dad’s shoulders as a toddler.
   
   
8. This book collection. We asked people to just gift baby with a book (they gave us soooo much more in addition), and we ended up with the most wonderful collection of funny and sweet books that will continue to remind us that we have an amazing family and network of friends.
   
   
9. Box full of Beany Babies. Sentimental gift to baby from my mom.
   
   
10. The yellow giraffe basket. My best friend gave us this and told me that she had bought when I was pregnant the first time (with a baby I lost to miscarriage). For some reason it just makes me so happy that there’s something meant for that baby in this room. ❤️🌈

I think some of this depends on your situation...are you cramped for space, low on cash, looking for ways to keep your life as uncluttered as possible?

That's kind of my wheelhouse. So from that perspective:

• Good convertible carseat. The bucket seats (the ones with the click-off base and carry handle) have to be upgraded at a certain point. I lucked out with my first kid. She was almost 2 before she hit 20 pounds. But My 3rd kid outgrew it at like 6 months. Lesson learned, just use the convertible. It reclines more for an infant and then stays rear-facing usually up to about 30-40 pounds (when your child is about 3 years old - the new recommendation for turning them forward facing). The cost of two seats is worth it if you have 2 vehicles and will regularly be trading off driving duties (like one spouse dropping at daycare, and the other spouse picking up). It's smarter to do two seats - so that you don't risk installing the seat incorrectly b/c of the constant shuffling.
  
  
• Sleeping space: The most basic IKEA crib is perfect. It's cheap, easy to move, a mattress can be raised and lowered, and it's fairly small, so might fit through doorways. Baby has no idea how much her crib costs. Room sharing is much easier this way, too (for parents not interested in bed sharing).
  
  
• The most basic style of flannel receiving blankets. Mostly b/c these can double as many other things. Obviously, you have traditional uses like swaddling and keeping baby warm. But I have used them as: barrier between baby and floor for diaper changes, or the grocery cart, an emergency diaper, emergency towel, emergency 'soak up whatever that gross liquid is', burp rags, nursing cover, I've soaked them in water to help cool baby down on a hot day or during a fever. (And maybe less important, but a good old fashioned style baby pin or new fashioned style pin - in case you do need to wrap up an emergency diaper...You might never need it, but I've used pins for plenty of things that aren't diapers, too.)
  
  
• All the onesies. Don't go crazy with cute outfits. There will be plenty of time for them, but when they're really small - onesies are easy to carry, easier to wash, and easier to keep track of. And when they inevitably get destroyed b/c babies are disgusting you won't feel bad leaving it in the garbage can of the Target bathroom. Get socks. And I also like the footie and footless "body suit" onesies...also called creepers, sometimes? They're just an easy all in one piece of clothing.
  
  
• Even if you're not sure about the specifics, a pack of pacifiers, a pack of bottles and a basic handheld breastpump. I know a lot of insurers started doing the bigger electric pumps, but it's a hassle if it's not something you're definitely using...and hard to pass on (creating waste) once you've used it. The manual is good for helping to pump the non-feeding breast, or just to relieve basic engorgement (this was my primary use for my last baby) or a single skipped feeding. It's also good for stimulating to help the milk come down if you're not sure if baby is triggering the letdown reflex.
  
  
• Don't buy a ton of tiny newborn diapers. Sizes 2 & 3 tend to be the more common long-term use. So if you're going to stock up on a size - do the larger ones.
  
  
• A basic carrier. Even for a newborn, this helps to be hands free. And it's pretty easy to use without help. You can find these used online or baby consignment shops if you don't want to pay full price. And if you decide you want a more expensive variety, you at least have an idea of what other features you'd wish you had or would be nice in a carrier if you have some experience with one.
  
  
• Hold off on buying a stroller...they're not that easy to use, and if you aren't going to be walking long distances on smooth pavement, they aren't ideal. You can't really use them at the grocery store, they're too big for restaurants. The carrier ends up doing some of this work for you.
  
  
• Thermometer, gas drops, diaper cream (like desitin), olive oil for skin care.
  
  Those are my go-to basics.

Since I just bought a bunch of stuff off of amazon for baby #2 today I can go over some things I found useful.

Bouncer: I didn't have one with my son, but wished I would have. I had bought two different types of fancy swings, and my son hated them (plus they are big and bulky). But a bouncer would have worked great because it is nice and portable, so things like showers would have been so much easier.

A Moby or a Mei Tai wrap: I loved these with my son. They were perfect for grocery shopping so I didn't have to lug around a giant car seat that takes up a whole shopping cart (PSA never put an infant carrier in the infant seat of a shopping cart). Plus it kept all the strangers grubby hands off my baby. It amazed me the amount of people who would just walk up and touch my sons face when he was in his car seat.

Lots of footie PJs: They are so much easier to deal with till they are about 3 months.

Night gowns for babies: Like these are awesome for nighttime. the bottom part is open so no need unbuttoning or unzipping and waking baby up even more.


Burp clothes (gerber cloth diapers): Like These. Don't waist your money on the cutesy burp clothes in stores. They are thin and horrible material. Plus they barely cover your shoulder. These are what the hospital used as burp cloths and they worked so great! They are super thick and huge (covers your whole shoulder). My son had bad acid reflux so there was a lot of spit up.

Receiving blankets I didn't use them for swaddling (my son hated to be swaddled) But they work great when used on top of a changing table cover, or on a couch/bed. They save you from having to wash the changing table cover a zillion times. And are a great to throw in the diaper bag for an outing to use on changing tables.

Boppy: I used my boppy so much! They are great for breastfeeding, but also for laying baby down for tummy time.

These were just some things that helped me. Hopefully some of it you find helpful =)

Not medical field, but I've worked with needs like this before.

The simple human can has an interior plastic liner that should prevent the plastic bag from sinking. It's not as tedious as it sounds, but when the tag is full you remove the entire liner before removing the bag of dirties, put in the clean bag, pull it taught and shove the rest of the plastic at the top through a little hole and that keeps it from falling until you're ready to remove the bag. Plastic cans won't help with that issue unfortunately.

Reusable wipes are a great idea for your situation. I used the ubbi pul liners in a 6.6 gallon sterilite step can when I cloth diapered my daughter. They say 7 gal, but it's a good tight fit on that step can and it will prevent it from falling into the can. Wash the liner with the cloths each cycle, and having a 2 pack means you always have one clean. You might be able to get away with washing the wipes 1-2x weekly depending on the specific situation, so stock up on wipe cloths based on the projected need between washings.

Ubbi Twin Pack Cloth Diaper Pail Liner, Washable and Reusable, Eco-Friendly, Water and Odor Resistant, Drawstring Closure and Door Knob Hanger, 7-Gallon, White
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00M6B9IQ8/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_x4AEDbW4BFPV9


STERILITE 10949004 Step Can, Black, 6.6 Gallon (fyi that price is currently outrageous, but you can find these at Target, Kmart, dollar general, Walmart, etc)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00COYBB3K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_ubBEDb1ZY29DD


I've used these wipes for babies

OsoCozy Flannel Baby Wipes - Reusable And Washable - 15 Pack (Unbleached) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000138GNY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_.dBEDbJJGMRYP

But I think for a mostly grown man, you could get something thicker like cheap cloth napkins, or kitchen hand towels, or those bundles of washcloths at any big box like this:

Simpli-Magic 79078 Cotton Washcloths (Pack of 24), Size: 12" x 12"
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0794SLW55/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_VqBEDbWCH8GVM

Fyi, buy the wipes in a single color that is NOTHING like your other linens, if you plan on keeping this stuff fully separated and want to ensure there isn't a potential cross contamination or stains on your nicer linens.

You can search for wash routine recommendations basically on any cloth diapering forum these days, but it usually goes something like this:

Only white vinegar in a soak and rinse cycle, then wash with a cloth diaper safe detergent (I've used Charlie's Soap for all our laundry for over 12 years but there are other brands that people swear by so check them out) with an oxygen booster (oxy clean) to disinfect and whiten. Dry as normal.

If you encounter barnyard smells in clean laundry or if he ever develops a fungal infection, bleach it all in hot water and dry it in the sun and you will be good to go. Otherwise, bleaching is overkill and will tear the linens apart in no time.

And last, I hope you recover fully from your surgery. Take care!

So this is baby # 2 and we were all about the hand me downs this time around. Would’ve liked to paint but we rent and I didn’t feel like dealing with all that. We did have a baby sprinkle and scored some big ticket items like a double stroller, infant car seat, diapers, and swing. First time mamas, let me encourage you to buy secondhand. I could’ve saved literally over a $1,000 on my first born’s nursery had I been a little more open to used items. IMO, both nurseries are just as nice except this one was substantially cheaper to create.

Not easily seen from my poor quality video are Babar prints. If you can just look past the fact that it’s a story endorsing French imperialism, one can’t resist having an elephant nursery without Babar the elephant!

Top five items:

1.) Secondhand IKEA crib; my friend used this with all three of her kids. It is the Snigler crib. Super basic but super reliable.

2.) Dresser: secondhand, purchased on Facebook marketplace. Also has changing table topper but we omitted using that and just secured the changing pad to back of dresser.

3.) Elephant decals: Wall Pops WPK0841 WPK0841 Tag... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E2XCOB4?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

LUCKKYY Elephant Family Wall Decal Removable Vinyl Wall Art Elephant Bubbles Wall Stickers Baby Nursery Wall Decor (Grey) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07C7Y4F3D/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_kbhwDbJVV9ATB

4.) Hatch sound machine: we used this with our first (still do) and it was a sleep game changer. In my opinion, the best white noise machine on market. Also doubles as an ok to wake clock and is operable from your smart phone!

Hatch Baby Rest Sound Machine, Night Light and Time-to-Rise https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XMRCC94/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_KchwDbHWZB7S4

5.) Ubbi diaper pail: we’ve tried several diaper pails over the years and this is the most smell proof and easy to use. It has a lock mechanism to prevent curious hands from digging through dirty diapers and can use regular garbage bags.

Ubbi Steel Odor Locking, No Special Bag Required Money Saving, Awards-Winning, Modern Design Registry Must-Have Diaper Pail, Gray https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00821FLSU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_eehwDb961APP4

:( That does sound hectic. My registry is kinda all over the place because I've already bought a ton of stuff, but just some suggestions of some things (FTM so no idea really if these are good or not, some were recommendations from friends, some were recommendations from various online resources).

• car seat, extra base if you have more than one car, and stroller
  
• baby carrier - I got the ergobaby 360 with infant insert but the Lillebaby 360 is also super popular.
  
• swaddles - aden & anais seem to be hugely popular.
  
• bathing supplies - washcloths, bathtub
  
• first aid kit supplies - NoseFrida, nail clipper, thermometer
  
• feeding - bottles, sterilizer (some people told me I had to have it, some said it was totally unnecessary), bottle cleaner brush, drying rack (seems like everyone else loves the Boon grass, but I don't have the counter space!) You can get a pump through your insurance if you plan to breastfeed, I ordered mine through Aeroflow. I ultimately chose the Spectra S2 over the Medela PISA because it's a closed system, which apparently means less chances of bacteria getting into the system and thus easier cleaning.
  
• burp clothes - I was told to just get a ton of cloth diapers to use as burp clothes, and to have them everywhere.
  
• diaper pail - I have two friends who say this is good enough, so I went with it. They also said to use doggie poop bags to contain the smelly diapers.
  
• humidifier
  
• Boppy for nursing
  
• Backpack style diaper bag
  
• baby may need a more convenient place to be set down other than the crib, something you can have near you in the kitchen, shower, whatever. Popular options are the rock n play, Boppy lounger, or a pack 'n play. I plan on getting the Chicco FastAsleep pack 'n play because the crib/dresser/changing station is on our 2nd floor, so I figured this could double as a changing station/napper on the first floor.
  
  Lucie's List is probably the best resource I found online.

I love theme beds, too! His crib is a convertible crib, though, so for now we're sticking with it being converted into the toddler bed. The funny thing is that he has never slept in the crib. We've been bed sharing up until now. The transition to the toddler bed should be interesting, but it's about the same height as our euro-style bed, so I think it may go better than I originally thought.

Thank you! It took awhile for us to be able to get a house. We ended up using USDA financing and I think we only paid about $2K out of pocket. We found a lovely home in a rural area, but it's still only an hour away from both Tampa and Orlando.

I love baby showers. The perspective that each person has is usually so different. And, yes, tons of well-meaning people gift impractical things. My sister got me a diaper bag that was nice, Eddie Bauer I think, but it was really just a sack with two pockets on the outside. We ended up getting the DadGear Backpack, which is the best diaper bag we've had. (I went through about 6 of them to be honest, just trying to find the right one.)

So when is your little man due? Do you have a name picked out yet?

Dad nerd time!

The gist of it is you've got an outer diaper that keeps clothing dry, and then an insert inside to soak up all the waste. I would recommend getting mostly pre-fold inserts, several outer covers, and then some pocket diapers for overnight.

Outer Diaper

Most of the ones we use are a simple water-proof outer shell. There are buttons arrayed all over it that let you size it to your baby over time. This is the piece that (usually) holds everything in and keeps clothing dry. There's also little pockets you can stuff diapers into if you'd like.


Pre-Fold Inserts

We mostly use what are called Pre-Folds which are just little squares of absorbent cloth. You wrap them around baby and then clasp them together with a little rubber thing that grips the fabric.

We also have a few pre-folds that have become too small. Now we simply fold them up into long rectangles and insert them into our pocket diapers (more on that soon)


Fitted Inserts

Some inserts are 'fitted' which just means they have buttons all over them. You don't have to use a clasp or fold them at all, you just put them on and snap them in place. They're slightly easier to use than the pre-folds but not by much.


Pocket Diapers

These are pretty cool and very absorbent. The only draw-back to them is the cover is directly exposed to pee/poop so you can't use it over and over like with the others. They're basically a normal cover but they're soft on the inside and will be put directly on the baby. There's a pocket inside them where you insert an absorbent pad. They do a surprisingly good job of wicking all of the moisture to the insert and off of the baby's skin.


Pocket Hybrid Diapers

These are like normal pocket diapers but they come with an insert sewn in to the. You can throw these on the baby by themselves and they will work just fine. We like to put an extra insert inside them to make them even more absorbent and we use them for overnight diapers.


Renting Diapers

It surprised me that this was an option, but it turned out to be really effective for us when our baby was brand new. Newborns grow fast, and they'll get too big for your newborn diapers pretty quickly. Renting some newborn diapers initially helped a lot and it wasn't as gross as it sounded. The diaper company was very careful to clean the diapers and when we got them you couldn't tell they were used.


Wet Bags

Get two large wet bags for your house and several smaller ones to take out with you. You need two large ones for the house. When one becomes full and gets carted off to the laundry room you don't want to be stuck using your small wet-bags while the big one goes through the wash.


Cleaning the Diapers

This really isn't that bad if you've got your own washer and dryer. Our baby is breastfed so the poop was basically mustard. There's no solids in there at all; it just dissolves in the water. If you use formula things may be different for you, I'm honestly not sure how that affects baby stool. I can't imagine there's much solid poop at all either way.

• Cold rinse, no soap - Gets rid of all the poop
  
• Hot wash, with soap
  
• Second cold rinse
  
• Dry
  
  Your diapers should come with care instructions. We bought 'Charlie's Soap' which has worked out well for us. You might end up needing to get their whitener product if stains bother you.
  
  We do a load of diaper laundry every 2-3 days.
  
  
  That's the long and short of it I think. I really can't think of much of a reason to use disposable diapers beyond a lack of laundry facilities. If we didn't have a washer and dryer it would be way too cumbersome to keep up with. Cloth diapers are cheaper, more reliable, more absorbent, less wasteful, and not much more difficult to use. Don't be intimidated. Get some rentals for your first one or two months, get an idea of what you like and what your daily diaper process will be and then buy your own.

Here's the rest of the pictures 😁😁

https://imgur.com/gallery/Q03hZZk

Top Five

In the living room

Graco SnugRide Click Connect 30 Travel System
Graco SnugRide Click Connect 30 travel system

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Graco-FastAction-Fold-Click-Connect-Travel-System-Bennett/374308673?wmlspartner=wlpa&selectedSellerId=0&adid=22222222228237510206&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=m&wl3=283899052272&wl4=aud-566049426705:pla-539613311477&wl5=9003876&wl6=&wl7=&wl8=&wl9=pla&wl10=8175035&wl11=online&wl12=374308673&wl13=&veh=sem&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1pblBRDSARIsACfUG10R9JBufXv4b1xe6xeFntXyvAzYwQKzGB07mpet7ccLlbFaEL0MxMIaA

(We'll probably have the stroller in the car most of the time)


Evenflo Versatile Play Space, Cool Gray

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072LTSWND/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_2zNPCb6QQMGHB

(Usually comes with a sixth panel, but we wanted to save space until we needed to add it)

Our room sharing set up

Bassinet was handed down to us all put together, and I can't find a link sorry!

Night Lights for Kids, VAVA Baby Night Light, Bedside Lamp for Breastfeeding, ABS+PC, Touch Control, Timer Setting-Pink

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HSTL75K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_MCNPCbBNG4FR6

(Not pictured)


Ubbi Money Saving, No Special Bag Required, Steel Odor Locking Diaper Pail, Gray

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00821FLSU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_byNPCbWY1Z2F8


Honeywell Mistmate Ultrasonic humidifier

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Honeywell-Mistmate-Ultrasonic-Humidifier-HUL520B-Black/37690122?wmlspartner=wlpa&adid=22222222228027316373&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=m&wl3=43910449232&wl4=aud-566049426705:pla-84286515392&wl5=9003876&wl6=&wl7=&wl8=&wl9=pla&wl10=8175035&wl11=online&wl12=37690122&wl13=&veh=sem&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1pblBRDSARIsACfUG12UXQFyrKBbTM4Eq7IlBEg7IxwOorzgvPuFbH8x7isxW8BIMyNhJ_QaAk4HEALw_wcB


Munchkin Laundry Hamper with Lid, Grey

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B077PTSZVK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_6hPPCb84MDT0G


Super Strong Folding Step Stool - 11" Height - Holds up to 300 Lb - The lightweight foldable step stool is sturdy enough to support adults & safe enough for kids. Skid resistant and open with one flip

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LZ0VCQD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_TINPCbBERP8HJ


Her side in my closet


South Shore Litte Smiley's Changing Table, Chocolate

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BFJ9S1C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_JANPCbP4FX2PG


GAGAKU Baby Diaper Caddy Organizer - Baby Shower Basket Portable Nursery Storage Bin Car Storage Basket for Wipes Toys Tote Bag

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DBXH1BP/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_3MNPCbDNHVK1V


Munchkin Warm Glow Wipe Warmer

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000CNOIQ2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_LJNPCbGX20KF4


mDesign Soft Fabric Dresser Drawer and Closet Storage Organizer Set for Child/Kids Room, Nursery, Playroom, Bedroom - Rectangular Organizer Bins with Textured Print - Set of 4 - Linen/Tan

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071P9GPV4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_czNPCbQ2QWJHZ

mDesign Soft Fabric Dresser Drawer and Closet Storage Organizer, 8 Section Divided Bin for Child/Kids Room, Nursery, Playroom, Bedroom - Textured Print with Solid Trim, 3 Pack - Gray

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06ZYC4439/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_MNNPCbH4F8YGB


Modish Labels Baby Nursery Closet Dividers, Closet Organizers, Nursery Decor, Baby Girl, Deer, Floral Antlers, Flowers, Woodland

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06WLQ8B5C/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_nBNPCbR1DRJ22


AmazonBasics Kids Velvet Hangers - 30-Pack, Pink Polka Dot

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FXNAD6U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_.HNPCbRTDQ9P5


For the kitchen

Philips AVENT Microwave Steam Sterilizer

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007VBXKG2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_mMNPCbGSZ1NJY


Boon Bundle Feeding Set

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07KGPWGZJ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_fQNPCbJJKFAD7


Gourmia Jr. Single Baby Bottle Sterilizer and Warmer, Digital Display, Dishwasher-Safe Removable Parts, JBW150, ETL-Certified

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07JZ991WH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_TQNPCbAMJZFRJ

Not Pictured items

Rustic Wood Frame Gray Felt Letter Board 10x10 inches. 440 White & Gold Letters, Months & Days Cursive Words, Additional Symbols & Emojis, 2 Letter Bags, Scissors, Vintage Stand. by whoaon

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CKT6S6G/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_qRNPCbYJZKZF8



Fisher-Price Auto Rock 'n Play Sleeper, Aqua Stone

https://www.walmart.com/ip/Fisher-Price-Auto-Rock-n-Play-Sleeper-Aqua-Stone/39577511?wmlspartner=wlpa&adid=22222222228031612947&wl0=&wl1=g&wl2=m&wl3=55217708312&wl4=pla-113855432192&wl5=9003876&wl6=&wl7=&wl8=&wl9=pla&wl10=8175035&wl11=online&wl12=39577511&wl13=&veh=sem&gclid=Cj0KCQjw1pblBRDSARIsACfUG10bahlDvXNs66-ReAkUjjQSfucHTHxORdYUyZ92T0oddQGzOtGb360aAoXjEALw_wcB


Fisher-Price Bath Tub, Rainforest Friends

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00BUO464Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_txPPCb7ZEHWCC

We have this one and we love it. It's cute but also manly ish so my husband has no problem wearing it. Plus I love that it's a backpack so it's hands free. And I get compliments on it ALL the time. Including many people who don't even realize it's a diaper bag and are surprised when they find out!

It's spacious, stands upright by itself, and stays open by itself as there's a frame in the opening.

Edit- also, it's made by a Japanese company (I believe?) and the box it comes in says "MAKE BEST BAG ENJOY HAPPY TIME" which is great for a chuckle.

Gerber Diaper Flats for Burp Cloths These are my absolute favorite burp cloths. They are thin, yet absorbent, so they're easy to pack in a diaper bag and they wash really well. They're super affordable too, like 14 for 10 I think?

Sophie the Giraffe Ugh. I have a love hate with this Giraffe. My son LOVED it, but we always lost it, therefore resulting in buying several of them. They are the most expensive, glorified chew toy, but they're easy for babies to get their mouths on.

Woombie If your baby is a swaddle baby, this thing is a life saver. You won't regret it. I like these the best because they have a zipper, no noisy velcro, no annoying snaps. I know you can find them Buy Buy Baby, Babies R Us, or Amazon. My FAVORITE swaddle! Once they have grown out of the wooombie or swaddle, I highly suggest the Zipadee Zip My son lived in this until about 13 months. I also never had to worry about blankets in his bed!

One last one.... Boon Silicon Teether Skip the mess of a mesh teether and buy this for your sanity. Super easy to clean and the perfect size. When my son was as little as 4 months and teething, we'd put a breast milk ice cube in this thing and he'd go to town. It's awesome.

I'm pregnant with my third and still using cloth. People thought the same stuff about us at first. My MIL said she wouldn't be babysitting with them but gladly does.

Side note, we used disposables before and I babysat for a friends kids who used disposables. People would say "cloth is gross" having never used it. Meanwhile I've had wayyyyy more poop explosions with disposables rather than cloth. Enough that my friends daughter would have to be bathed and outfit changed almost every time she pooped at my house. My friend told me it was common at her house too.

Gonna be honest and I was a little turned off by what people were saying at first. But we LOVE cloth over disposables any day. Now my husband and I joke around and make fun of the people at his job who complain how much disposables cost. I couldn't see adding a ton of disposables to a landfill and the chemicals that go into making disposables.

I'll help you out with any questions you have. Feel free to PM me whenever. We've used pretty much every different type and brand available and have stuck with prefolds and covers. I'd say invest in a couple prefolds if you can. I used the small size (yellow edge) from 3 months to over 2 years old. We buy from green mountain diapers or Amazon. You can get 6 of these for $13. Don't be thrown off by the 7-15lbs. That's about the size you'd use them if you wanted to wrap them around baby. We did that in an "angel fold" from newborn to 3 months and then did a trifold after. Also in terms of "prepping" we prep prefolds with regular laundry. So they get washed and dried with other stuff and not wasting the water and soap by themselves.

Oh yeah, and buying all the things.

Lucie's List (I think that's how it's spelled) is a great site where they review baby products. It's great because she will have a line up of six car seats that are similar, or three strollers, and you really get an idea of how they compare.

Also we bought our diaper bag already (going to be using it for a trip) and it's awesome. The Dad Gear backpack is super great and I can't recommend it enough. I already love it and I don't have any kids, so if you don't want one of the cute purse types, I say go for it. It's made in the US, has a great design, and I feel like it's more versatile and will last a long time. I'm like the least fashionable person ever though, so carrying around a plain backpack doesn't bother me.
https://www.amazon.com/DadGear-Backpack-Diaper-Bag-Solid/dp/B000O1SLSI the last picture is a video, and shows off it's features better.

You don't need 3 swings/rockers - pick one.

You don't need 2 strollers - pick one.

You don't need 2 activity mats - pick one.

You don't need 2 cribs - pick one.

You don't need 2 mattresses - pick one.

You have 3 different bottle types; I'd recommend choosing just one and not bother getting another brand unless your baby has issues with that one. You don't want to unbox, sanitize, etc. and risk not being able to return the other set.

I don't see the point of those "wet and dry wipes" organizer pouches; a ziploc bag works just fine if you want to carry small amounts of wipes with you.

As far as baby carriers go, I recommend Lillebaby over Infantino, hands down. They sell some of their styles in Target, but you can get more on the Lillebaby website or Amazon. You may want opinions from /r/babywearing, or go to a local Babywearing International meeting to try out carriers before choosing one.

Things I don't see:

• Washcloths
  
• Towel/robe
  
• First aid essentials (thermometer, nail clipper, Nose Frida, baby Tylenol, baby Motrin, diaper rash cream, Aquafor, hair brush, shampoo, etc.)
  
• More sheet sets. My daughter just had a nose bleed last night and that means we only have one more fitted sheet that isn't stained in some way. Get more! Haha.
  
• Baby monitor - totally a personal choice, but I recommend one.
  
• Muselin blankets or swaddles. I know you have the velcro swaddles, which are great, but sometimes baby just needs a light blanket in the car seat or in their swing. Even though my daughter is almost 2, we still have a swaddle cloth in her diaper bag. I use it to cover the ground if she wants to play on the floor somewhere that's filthy (like an airport terminal).
  
• Burp cloths. We always used these tri-fold diapers as burp cloths - they're not trendy-looking, but they're cheap and very effective.
  
• Other basic clothing items like footie PJs, pants, hats (since you're having a winter baby, assuming you're in the northern hemisphere), etc.
  
  I always recommend Lucie's List when it comes to having a basic, not-overdone registry. They talk about essentials (not fluff) and sort things by price.
  
  You may also want to post this in /r/beyondthebump rather than here, since everyone in Beyond The Bump have already had a kid.
  
  Good luck!

I don't remember exactly, but it was probably around 2 months when my daughters started sleeping longer stretches and needed more absorbency.

Prefolds have way more absorbency than microfiber inserts, so I'd recommend using prefolds to stuff your pockets at night (and yes, you will probably need to double stuff those too, especially as your daughter grows and sleeps longer at night). I LOVE OsoCozy prefolds they last forever :)

You can try adding a wool cover to your pocket at night as well. When treated with lanolin, wool covers become waterproof. I've used EcoPosh wool covers for infants and had great success. Learn to Cloth Diaper has some lanolizing instructions with pictures. Hope it helps!

Hooray! I love cloth diapers. So this is my opinion/advice:

Newborn (up to 10-12 lbs): Save money, go basic. Get like 30 prefolds newborn to small size, I liked bamboo because they were super soft and stretched a bit, but 100% cottons good too. Then 4 covers, my favorite is Mini Blueberry cover. Plus a few snappies. This will get you through the first 1-3 months depending on baby's birth size.

From there: I love Bumgenius. They work, they wash nicely, and my daughter likes them (she's 2 and actually tells me). I think 12-15 can get through a day or two of diapers, so that's laundry every day to day and a half. I love freetimes and would do the bulk of these diapers as those, plus 2-3 pocket diapers with some medium sized prefolds. The pockets are nice because when baby starts sleeping longer at night (still peeing a lot) the extra layers is necessary.

Other things: Cloth diaper friendly butt paste (I use CJs butter, fine for little dryness, if you have a bad rash on your hands, get serious with hardcore stuff and just use disposable diapers) a bajillion little wash cloths, and two bags to collect dirty diapers in (2 because one will be in the wash/dryer for 3 hours each day), plus a little waterproof bag with a zipper for when you're out of the house.

That's all I can think of - let me know if you have any specific questions!

We have loved any and all toys made by the company called Green toys because they are made from recycled materials and they are safe in the sense that there is no small parts, no chemicals in the plastic and if my son(s) chews on them I'm not worried. My Step-MIL actually introduced me to them and I am so glad they did. Amazon has a bunch just search "Green Toys".

http://www.amazon.com/aden-anais-Muslin-Stroller-Blanket/dp/B00BMMOKYW/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1394632384&sr=1-1&keywords=aden+and+anais+stroller+blanket We have two of these blankets and I love them. They are the muslin cloth so keeps baby warm but not thick enough to overheat. Plus I love the fact that they are huge which makes them great to cover baby in the carseat or have a floor blanket.

http://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-Count-Flatfold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVVA/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1394632645&sr=1-1&keywords=gerber+cloth+diapers We used these when my oldest was an infant and using them again with my youngest. We primarily use them as burp clothes but we've also used them as wash clothes for cleaning hands and faces. I'm sure there many more uses for them--like turning them into cleaning rags when you no longer need them for baby purposes.

For toddler dishes we really like these http://www.amazon.com/dp/B007HZBOFG/ref=wl_it_dp_o_pC_nS_ttl?_encoding=UTF8&colid=1VA53QENRTP66&coliid=I2TQV3KCX2FQSF. The same company makes bowls and sippy cups and I believe utensils (for spoons and forks we use a set made by Oxo). They are durable, and made from recycled materials. They are dishwasher safe I believe (idk because we don't currently have a dishwasher). My son has been known to throw them on the floor and in the sink and they have yet to crack/break. Definitely worth the money in my opinion. Amazon carries them and some Target stores do.

I have a PPB Sashay Satchel and it's fine for quick trips but it wouldn't work super well for a longer outing unless you used disposables for those outings or kept some extra cloth diapers somewhere else (like in the car) so they weren't all in the diaper bag at the same time. Also as far as downsides go I do have a couple of things I wish it had like an insulated pouch for bottles and just more pockets in general on the inside of the bag. Smaller items tend to be very difficult to find. What I love about the PPB bag is that you don't look at it and think "oh that's a diaper bag." I feel like it's "nice enough," so to speak, to be something I could take with me as a purse for pretty much anything I'd need to go do. So, ya know, if I needed to take it with me to a wedding or something I'd be OK with that. I'd feel a little strange carrying around some of the other diaper bags I've looked at.

My husband has the Graco Gotham diaper backpack and it has more than enough room for a couple of diapers, change of clothes, wet bag, bottle, pacifier, wipes, changing pad, and whatever else. It has an insulated bottle pouch which is nice. It has so many pockets and such so it's really easy to keep it organized. Honestly if I were making a longer trip out with baby I'd prefer to have my husband's diaper bag over mine.

I know a lot of ladies on here just use a regular backpack so that's always an option also.

Mitten cuff onesies are our favorite to use on our little one. Especially when he was just born, it was too hard to trim his nails and having the option to cover his hands without dealing with mittens made it so easy. We also don't use much of the pajamas that covers their legs because the less buttons you have to deal with in the middle of the night, the better.


Gerber Unisex-Baby Newborn 3 Pack Longsleeve Mitten Cuff Onesies Brand, White, 0-3 Months https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007C2PVT4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IdtQDb99VDGMH


You'll definitely need more burp cloths. I have about 30 and could use more. Cloth diapers as burp cloths are great since they're so absorbent. We use these the most.


Gerber Birdseye 3-Ply Prefold Cloth Diapers, White, 10 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007VBYVWE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_cGtQDbV795PPP


Our baby also loves his Wubbanub and they're nice so baby can practice grabbing things and they don't roll off baby as easily as a regular pacifier would. They have a ton of different animals.


WubbaNub Infant Pacifier - Baby Penguin https://www.amazon.com/dp/B018HJ0TXI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_LPtQDbK2J7FFW


But really overall your registry looks good! You have a great variety of different sized clothes so that's good. The Dr. Brown's bottles are also great, I would just suggest having a large bowl in your sink to soak all the parts without them touching everything else in the sink. Or if you have a divided sink maybe use just one side for baby things. The only extras I would suggest are a small nail kit to keep in your diaper bag, baby blankets to cover baby up in his car seat or to swaddle, and Aquaphor when lotion isn't enough. Hope that helps!

I was/am in the exact same boat - first kid, limited funds, starting from scratch, going through reviews and prices drove me insane. It took me probably three months to get my registry together, and, even then, I am still switching things up, lol.

lucieslist.com was invaluable while picking everything out. I highly recommend you check it out.

What we have bought ourselves that fit our tight budget:

Graco Comfy Cruiser Travel System. We had already decided to go with that car seat, given that it seems to be the top-rated budget option, and the stroller ended up being a much-needed bonus. We go on walks a lot, so it works for us. If you don't need the stroller, the seat itself is, I think, only ~$100.

The Pack N Play, which I've heard from literally everyone and their mother is almost a necessity.

Because we don't have an IKEA near us to get our hands on a swanky $99 crib, we bought this DaVinci crib. We still only ended up paying $100 for it, as we found it on sale, however, we would have paid the $200 for it, given that the reviews are good, and, when compared to some other cribs that cost $400 and up, the price isn't bad at all.

As for the rest of the registry, we have on there a Moby wrap (affordable baby wearing, yay!), nail clippers, outlet plugs, nursing pads, a wipes case, a baby tub, baby wash, assorted crib sheets, waterproof crib sheets, Pack N Play mattress, and sheets to go with, crib mattress (we actually bought this one when we found it on sale for $20, and it's just fine), receiving blankets, dirty diaper bags (because we aren't getting a diaper pail, just a small can with a seal-able lid), changing pad, and a cover to go with, pacifiers, Dr. Brown's Gia Nursing Pillow, a bottle brush, bottle warmer, thermometer, booger sucker, camera to monitor the baby, and a few other assorted things that I couldn't really find a definitive "best in class" for, so pick at your own discretion: diaper bag, swaddles (although I've read good things about the Summer Infant brand), bottles (we're going with Phillips Avent), a bouncer (we got this one), and a swing.

I agonized over this stuff for what felt like forever, lol, so I hope it helps you and saves you some hair-pulling. It's all so overwhelming!

I also have a bunch of stuff on my registry that is inexpensive ($10-$25) for friends and if my coworkers decide to do a shower here which they have done for other new moms in the past. Here are some of the things I have on mine
Sleeping gowns so you don't have to unsnap the onesie for midnight changes

A baby tub

Tub Thermometer

Baby thermometer

Nose Frieda which others have mentioned

preferred bath/care products

Cloth diaps which make fantastic burp cloths/cleanup

Nursing pillow also good for tummy time


Plus some other odds and ends. People will also buy stuff that they like, so you'll probably get stuff that was not on your list and that is ok. You can also request to have a "diapers n wipes" shower which a friend did since she was on her 4th child, and she probably got 2 months worth of diapers and wipes out of it if not more. Also, make sure you get multiple covers for your changing pad, it'll be nice to have more than 1 when it needs washing! Congratulations!

Assume that you'll go through 3 outfits/day in the newborn stage - up to 3 months or so. Figure out how often you are ok doing laundry, and that will help you figure out how many outfits you need. Sleep 'n plays are my personal favorite, but grab a bunch of onesies (short and long sleeve, assuming you're in the US) and a bunch of footed pants. Personally speaking, I HATE baby socks - they fall off too easily; footed pants solves that. Maybe a couple of rompers (one piece shorts/short sleeves) for extra hot days.

We never did newborn clothes - my kids were 7lbs 7oz and 6lbs 2oz. Consignment stores made it easy/budget friendly to grab a couple things in the next size up, so we'd have a couple things to get by while we purchased more.

For other things in the nursery (crib sheets, changing pad covers), 3 was our magic number. We figured one would be on the crib/pad, one would be in the laundry, and one would be clean in case kiddo barfed/pooped/peed on it.

For our August baby in New England, we also had four muslin blankets (47"x47") - that let us keep her covered, but not overheated.

Also, 15 or so cloth diapers worked best for us for burp cloths. A lot of the ones specifically marketed as burp cloths weren't very absorbent.

If you are having a boy, I'd recommend these for "air superiority," as my husband says. They work great for laying over baby's crotch during diaper changes and preventing "fountains."

Pregnancy: Liked Old Navy Maternity I loved wearing foldover waist things like capri pants, skirts, and pants. Though for work I was able to keep wearing my pre-pregnancy pants as my fat redistributed and they are elastic waist anyway. And the Old Navy Maternity tank tops are amazing, I still wear them after giving birth. I also wore Poise pads to catch my pee leaks, they worked great.

Did not like Ginger gum, that shit's gross.

Postpartum: Liked Kotex pads. The squirt bottle they gave me at the hospital. Colace.

Did not like Always pads (fucking cheese grater). Those witch hazel pads didn't do much for me, neither did the numbing cream.

Baby Like Pampers Baby Dry diapers, Fisher Price Rock and Play, Nosefrida snotsucker, Fisher Price plug in swing, Chicco Keyfit 30, Chicco NextFit, Harmony Odyssey stroller, Infantino pouch feeding products, Vtech baby monitor, Cuisinart food processor, lightweight car seat toys, Ubbi diaper pail, IKEA high chair (I probably have more, but these are some of the things I love on a daily basis or have saved my sanity).

Did not like Swaddle blankets (specifically swaddling), moby wrap, boppy pillow, Graco battery operated swing, huggies diapers, and MAM bottles.

Bonus Mom Supplies Pump wipes (my pump room at work has no sink and these are perfect to use after pumping), leisure bra (I cut holes where my nipples are and I can double pump hands-free, so helpful!), and JuJuBe diaper bag (it's small and cute and I know where everything is now!)

Get one of these, seriously. So useful, and cute. People like buying useful and cute:

https://www.amazon.com/Boppy-Newborn-Lounger-Elephant-Love/dp/B014A7MABU?th=1

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I use this diaper pail and like it, it takes any garbage bags and I feel is better looking than some options out there:

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https://www.amazon.com/Ubbi-Saving-Special-Required-Locking/dp/B00821FLSU/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1537453291&sr=1-2&keywords=ubbi

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Diapers, wipes, crib sheets, crib mattress pads, changing pad, changing pad cover (depending on the kind of changing pad, some do not require them). Bottles,swing/bouncer, playmat. One of my son's early favorite was a kick and play piano:

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https://www.amazon.com/MooToys-Kick-Play-Newborn-Piano/dp/B07DWTMNKR/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1537453105&sr=1-1-spons&keywords=kick+and+play&psc=1

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Bath supplies, lotions, diaper creme. I would avoid putting clothes on there. If there is something super special you love, just buy it (if you can afford to). People will pick out whatever clothes/toyus/blankets they want. Stroller, carseat. People often refrain from asking for these more expensive things, but I think its fine. If it is something you would buy yourself, it is okay to ask for it. And honestly, the expensive stuff went off my registry first.

Graduated to dad life a month ago so I'm no expert, but personally I think a diaper bag is worth it. I got this. My wife on the other hand just uses a big beach style bag and it is really hard to find things in it, but I'm a bit OCD when it comes to organizing stuff.

The reasons I personally like a dedicated diaper bag:

• insulated pocket for bottles
  
• lots of pockets to organize stuff
  
• exterior wipe dispenser
  
• changing pad (you are going to want one of these)
  
• special clip to snap onto stroller
  
  Anyway I hope this helps. Best of luck.

this is going to sound ridiculous, but I use pre-fold cloth diapers. They're super absorbent and easy to wash. You can get them from amazon (here) or even Target/Walmart. Bonus: they're also great for cleaning other things and dusting.

We love our Ubbi diaper pail: http://www.amazon.com/Ubbi-Steel-Diaper-Pail-White/dp/B00821FLT4. Expensive but holds the odor so well and uses standard trash bags, which is nice, and lots of colors to work with your house.

We couldn't live without the Rock and Play or Ergo carrier. Sleepers with foldover mittens were a lifesaver too - Old Navy had ones that worked for us. Also, absorbent pads for the changing table! We set them on top of the changing pad cover, and just wash them when there are poop/pee incidents.

Lots of onesies - it just made sense for us early to just dress her in a onesie and call it good. Carters worked well - the Gerber ones were a bit thinner and ran small.

We used Circo receiving blankets as burp cloths because we received like seven million as gifts.

Worst purchases: lots of newborn sized clothes - she grew out of them so fast and never wore 90%! We've yet to get any use of our baby shoes, because her feet are teeny, so we stick with just socks.

I nursed my son for 18 months, including pumping at work for months 3-12.

For bottles, I'd start with the Medela ones that come with your pump. Some babies are picky and some aren't - my kiddo would take breastmilk from a garden hose. If baby is not into these, go from there.

For your pump, double check to make sure it will come with some kind of cold-storage bag and ice pack. I have the PISA tote bag one from when my 4yo was a baby, and it came with this, but I bought it myself so I don't know about the insurance options. You might also be interested in milk storage bags or some other longer-term milk storage solution as you pump more.

Finally, I'd recommend having some flat cloth diapers around in addition to nursing pads. After a few washes, they're super absorbent and perfect for spitup messes, overspray when your kiddo gets distracted and lets go of the nipple, and putting in your bra while you sleep in case you end up on your belly and start leaking!

Kimono-style shirts for while cord is still attached.

https://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-3-Ply-Prefold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVWE/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1487257675&sr=8-1&keywords=cloth+diaper
These are great as burp cloths and wiping up milk while feeding.

Muslin blankets are our favorite. I got a 4-pack of Aden & Anais blankets and we use them every day. They were good for swaddling early on. They don't take up a lot of space.

Scratch mitts! Your baby will scratch its face otherwise.

We barely used our bathtub. You could probably skip it for now and just sponge bathe your baby as needed. They don't get really dirty and frequent baths dries out their skin anyway. I sponge bathe once or twice a week.

A few pacifiers to try. Our kiddo likes the Dr. Browns.

Saline spray for when you use the Nose Frieda.

Cold mist humidifier if your air is dry.

Nursing pillow. Nipple ointment. Nursing tanks for you.

I just use a towel on the bed for diaper changes.

Subscribe to Enfamil and Similac and they'll send you formula sample containers, so you can just keep something on hand in case you need to or choose to supplement at some point.

DAPPLE! This cleans bottle parts a lot better than regular dish soap.

We absolutely love this Dad Gear backpack diaper bag (in orange). It is so well designed. There is a zipper compartment on the top that you can put 10-15 diapers in. And there is a separate compartment on the bottom that you can access from the outside that stores a package of wipes. There is one large compartment for extra clothes or larger stuff. And then 2 smaller compartments in the front. All in all, it is the perfect bag. I wish there was a more feminine version or one that had a similar thoughtfulness. But I haven't found it. So I just use this. But sometimes I would love something a bit more stylish for myself!

These are the ones I use, and cinching them closed I haven't had smell issues. If you're more interested in the dry bag route, I have 0 expertise, lol. Good luck! I'm sure someone on here has better advice for that route. :)

These are technically cloth diapers but we used them as burp rags and they're the BEST. So, so soft. And you pretty much can't have too many of them because as a new parent you're going through so much laundry.

My son is 4 and we still use them. I put one in his backpack and we use it to wipe runny noses at the park, clean up spills, emergency napkins, etc.

Also a Nose Frieda. Trust.

Hi newbie!
Congrats on the new addition! First of all, let me try to put your mind at ease by telling you there is no right or way to cloth diaper.
That said, as most have already stated, you need to run a prerinse cycle on all types of diapers before the full wash. This is to get most of the pee and any residual poop bits out so that it isn't all swishing around in the main wash (i.e. keeping your diapers from getting clean). The good news is that the pre-rinse cycle is usually pretty short. My washer is in the basement too and it never bothers me to do two cycles (pre-rinse and full wash).
Everyone's answer for the BEST inserts is going to be different. It's really a matter of preference. If you want to to start out inexpensively you can just pick up some prefolds and either use them with a snappi or just fold them and lay them into the diaper.

Yes - my mother used to say: “give me your hands.”
Now I’m an Esthetician and I get to tell other people to do that.

But yes, please, if you feel like you need to touch your face, try cleansing it instead! Get yourself some of the soft 3 ply baby diapers from Gerber on Amazon, wash your face and remove, gently with a lukewarm one of these as a washcloth. Your skin will feel much better!!

Cloth Diaper = Luxurious Feeling Washcloth

I would recommend this awesome diaper pail because you don't have to buy special bags. It just uses regular garbage bags. Save you money in the long run.

I love ours

We switched from a diaper bag to a backpack. This was recommended to us and has worked out great! (Although it looks like this is no longer available there are comparable backpacks on amazon based on your style)

The easy access wipe holder has been great when I don’t want to put the bag down in a dirty restroom (can easily reach the side while it’s on my back).

It’s also just a backpack, so no complaints from my husband.

My daughter is 7.5 months.

These were hands down the best burp cloths and we had many different types.


She lived in gowns for the first month. They're the easiest outfits to change and the quickest during middle of the night diaper changes.


Halo swaddles were our favorite. They were easy to use, and the easiest ones to transition out of when the time came.


A sound machine. We have the Hatch. Babies are SO freaking loud at night. Her noises constantly woke me up. Then when she got older she started to sleep longer with it being on loud. The light on the Hatch is great for middle of the night diaper changes.


If you're formula feeding get a formula pitcher. It saves a lot of time and reduces the foam in bottles so it reduces gas.

A Moby Wrap was indispensable for our kids. A Baby Björn or other baby-wearing apparatus also works, but those tend to get pretty expensive for the good ones that will last.

A heavy-duty diaper bag ([like this one](Graco Gotham Smart Organizer System Back Pack Diaper Bag, Black/Grey https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HZO7F98/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_CNzpybKDDB5YA)) was equally indispensable. And you can fill it with necessities like baby lotion, thermometer, a couple teething toys, or some cloth wipes.

They're going to have way more than enough clothes and toys. Everyone gifts those or hands those down.

Awesome, hope it works out!

If you want a reusable wipe recommendation, I have these and they work great! I also spray down the changing area after I'm done and use one of these to wipe it off, easy peasy.

Linking the OXO dispenser on Amazon

LOVE THESE. Seriously the best $20 I've ever spent, these also allow you to buy those bulk/refill packs of wipes that have like, 300+ wipes per bag. Saved a lot of money that way.

We have this:

http://www.amazon.com/Ubbi-10000-Diaper-Pail-White/dp/B00821FLT4/ref=sr_1_10?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1414244485&sr=1-10&keywords=Diaper+pail

Yes, it's expensive but it works! We also got it at Buy Buy Baby with a 20% off coupon which is incredibly easy to find. It uses regular trash bags so that's great, and as long as you remember to close the lid, it keeps all the smell contained. The only downside we've found is that because it's so big, it holds like a weeks worth of diapers, and then the bag is so crazy heavy when it's time to change it that I can't lift it and my husband has to do it! Not such a bad downside for me actually :)

I was given an adorable, stylish diaper bag that I registered for and my in-laws also gave my husband a dad diaper-backpack.... and the backpack is what we still use! It was Fisher Price brand, we've been really tough on it, but our son is now 28 months. My niece just is 16 months and they are still using the Columbia brand diaper-backpack from her shower. IMO a backpack is so much easier to lug around when you have an older and heavier child that wants to be carried and it is more "hands free" than carrying a shoulder bag. I'm looking into the backpacks that open up completely from the top like this one because our current one is starting to tear at the stitching. I would say it lived a full life though and it exceeded my expectations. And both the backpacks I mentioned are extremely neutral looking, they don't scream "This is for Dads only!!!!!".

We honestly bought Alva's through Amazon and they have held up better than most of our other diapers. We used pockets and the prints are pretty cute. Our son is now almost 2 and a half and he can still fit into them for night time and naps, though he started to toilet train himself about a month ago. Alva Diapers

We have this one from Graco and for the most part, I really like it. It's been with us to New York, Phoenix, and Hawaii, plus all over town and it's held up well. I don't see why it wouldn't last through at least two kids.

Pros:

• Wipe compartment: It is super convenient to have wipes always accessible on the side. I removed the case it comes with for wipes and just put in the pack of wipes directly. It can hold a whole pack of Costco size wipes!
  
• Organization: There are lots of pockets inside for diapers, bibs, toys, whatever. I like having one of the zippered sections dedicated to diapering, one for change of clothes/blankets, and one for food pouches/snacks.
  
• Insulated pocket: This is great for two bottles, or a bottle and a container of yogurt, or several bags of breastmilk + a small ice pack.
  
  Cons:
  
• Size: It's slightly too large for a quick trip to the store, slightly too small for travel. When I run errands or go for a walk, it feels silly to bring a whole backpack when all I need is some diapers, wipes, and a snack or bottle. When we went to New York and Hawaii, I was able to fit all his stuff in, but it would have been nice to have space for my own stuff too so I didn't have to carry a purse.

I just got this and I'm really impressed! Very spacious, lots of pockets, great colours and not too pricy! Plus it's super water resistant!

I'd like a chance. I've never used (or even heard of, actually) a paysafecard, but if it works on Amazon.com, it would help me buy an amazon card to get these for my daughter.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B005DLCJX2/ref=aw_br_ov_dp_3_9?colid=3UPUNQ4TMFUHN&coliid=I2HENHU7WAC1ZU&vs=1

thanks for the chance

So we had an expensive over-the-shoulder/crossbody whatever you want to call it diaper bag. It was like $100+ - a gift from my mom as I'd have never spent that much on a diaper bag just because I dunno I'm cheap.

Had and used that bag for about 6 months. I loved all the compartments etc. And then the strap broke. The company eventually offered to send a replacement but said it would take 2-6 weeks. Started using a regular backpack in the interim and while I hated the lack of compartments I realized how much easier the backpack style was. Ended up buying a backpack one off Amazon for $50ish and haven't looked back since!

This is the one we bought - I remember it being $50 not 65 though. Bag Nation Diaper Bag Backpack with Stroller Straps, Changing Pad and Sundry Bag - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0127OZX7Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Dwm5Bb5HNGK41

TL;DR - highly recommend the backpack kind, and strongly suggest buying one actually designed to be a diaper bag - especially if you ever need to take bottles anywhere with you! The insulated bottle holders are great.

Thank you this is very helpful! Here is what I have picked out so far. Could someone tell me if I am even on the right track with these?

Are these pockets or all in ones? or is that the same thing?

These I can use under a cover or as in insert for a pocket one, is that right?

If I got the two sets above and 6 different types of covers, would that be a good start for a newborn?

I would also need wipes, would I need the pins/fasteners for these types?

Thanks!

For disposable diapers, we use and like this brand: https://www.babyadvisor.org/best-biodegradable-diapers/#Nature

We're on the third size up now, and have had pretty minimal blowouts. Really happy with them.

My wife was interested in doing cloth if it wasn't too much, but we don't have a washer which makes it harder. We use these for night time, and they work AMAZINGLY. Like kid goes through 1 or 2 the entire night (<3 months old) compared to like 4+ diaper changes. If we had our own washer/drier and didn't have to pay ~$4 a load, I'd probably say screw the single use diapers. Which I was not expecting honestly.

This is the one I got: https://www.amazon.com/Graco-Gotham-Organizer-System-Diaper/dp/B00HZO7F98/ref=zg_bs_166767011_1

I haven't tried out with baby, but I LOVE how many pockets it has, plus it has an insulated bottle pocket on the side plus a baby wipe pocket so you can quickly grab a wipe for fast clean-ups. I really avoided the over-the-shoulder style since I hate them, and backpacks just seem more comfortable. It'll be like college again lol

We bought this diaper backpack and I am not a huge fan. I use it at the airport, but refuse to wear it anywhere else. The side pockets are quite wide and I feel like I hit every seat walking down the plane aisle. And the compartments are so tiny and specific, they can be more frustrating than useful. We use Dr Brown wide bottles and they barely fit in the pockets and no way will they fit in the insulated pocket.

I wish we had just bought a nice regular backpack, but don’t want to spend more money on an item I really only use for travel.

I warned my dear wife well ahead of time that I would not be carrying a giant purse for this purpose.

She then turned up with a sweet Jeep (I love and own Jeeps) backpack with insulated pockets and even a gas-capped pocket for wipes.

It's not huge, but it fits everything we need and doesn't look odd when she's carrying it.

Under $50 on Amazon.com, here's the link.

Jeep Perfect Pockets Back Pack, Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00D4LFDYA/ref=cm_sw_r_udp_awd_RTXWtb0W2GVF1W90

Check your local Facebook market place for preloved diapers. To get a few used and play around with what you think will work best.

I’m in 7 weeks of cloth diapering my 18 (almost 19) month old. We have pockets (Alva are my fave and fit the best in our stash) — it ranges from China Cheapies , Alvababy and Moma Koala (these are smaller than Alva’s on my 27lbs toddler).

I mostly have microfiber (can’t go against the skin) with only 24 bamboo inserts <I need more!!!>. I’ve recently discovered Flour Sack Towels; check Walmart for them. I’ve been folding them for a boy and then wrapping around a microfiber insert and we’ve been lasting about 3hrs before needing a change.

At night we use Happy Flute Hemp Fitteds with an Alva cover (I purchased Happy Flute covers but they didn’t work for us).

I was gifted a bunch of pocket diapers and all in ones from my registry when I had a shower, but when it came time to actually diaper a newborn, they looked HUGE and uncomfortable.

I also didn't start cloth diapering until baby was a month old. That was just for my sanity.

I ordered a bunch of wraps and used store-bought Gerber diapers with a Snappi fastener. It took a few tries to figure out what folds worked best when she was bigger, but for the first few weeks I just folded the diaper in thirds and put it in the wrap.

Once baby was bigger and ready for daycare, I switched to the all in ones and I haven't looked back.

I have 15 diapers total now that I cycle through and that works for us (3-4 diapers used a day, washing every 2-3 days). I also use disposables at night or when traveling.

My husband and I both love this diaper bag! It fits so much into it, so many pockets, we got black so it wasn't too girly for husband to carry around, and it has stroller straps which makes carrying it around when out and about much easier! Highly recommend!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0127OZX7Q/ref=mp_s_a_1_sc_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1510239958&sr=8-1-spell&keywords=bagnation%2Bdiaper%2Bbag%2Bbackpack&th=1&psc=1

I got the dekor hands free diaper pail on amazon and the 2 pack of cloth diaper pail liners that fit it and it works great, no smells, similar to the diaper genie we used to use with our first born(we did disposables) but has waterproof (either TPU or PUL, i didn't pay attention)liner has a draw string to close up the bag in transport.

Pail: Dekor Classic Hands-Free Diaper Pail, White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00R5BVLXW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_VQ.9ybK16R9YB

And liners: Dekor Cloth Diaper Liners, 2 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00IZULWCC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_iS.9yb9C4NS8V

We are happy with it and 2 liners is necessary so you have one to use while the other is in the wash with the diapers so I'm glad it came in a 2pack

Eco Friendly, Baby Edition! More suggestions are welcome!

I'm due this winter (being induced in December), and these cloth diapers would be really green and really helpful! My mom used cloth diapers with us, and though they're a little more work, they don't put THAT much extra laundry into the wash cycle, and they save on ALL that waste that's created by baby diapers! Crazy! We do not intend to do cloth 100% of the time, but they'll be nice when baby has already had a poo that day, and we expect no more poo, so they'll be there for pee only. (How predictable is a poo cycle on a baby? We'll figure it out!)

We also want to make most of our own baby food, from local produce from a farmer's market, which cuts down on gas used to bring us our food and all the glass bottles used to store food. Here is a plastic set of little food containers.

I'm also breast feeding, so here are some breast milk storage bags. THAT'S SUPER GREEN, and cheap, because I'm not using all that awful formula.

We got this one because it's pretty neutral but still cool looking. My husband is super into backpacks so I let him do most of the research.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01M9E9UNV

Apologies in advance for the length of my response. I have no doubt someone will just send you a link for everything you need to know and it'll be awesome, but here's my personal experience, fwiw.

We got a bunch off of amazon that are ridiculously adjustable. They snap together in different ways for the adjustments, but they're basically just like disposables in how they go on and how the tabs snap to the front. Idk if links are allowed, but here's the specific ones we got:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00C7JW3GQ/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s03?ie=UTF8&psc=1

They come with a little cotton insert, but we discovered that it wasn't enough to contain the disasters that happened, so we also got additional liner thingies:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DDFOTFU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o07_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

You take the diaper (the part that looks like a regular disposable), you lay the white cotton liner thingy that came with it, and the additional bamboo liner inside (just lay it in there, we don't mess with the pockets or anything), and then stick it on the kiddo.

We check more frequently than we had to with the disposables because it's less obvious if they're wet, but when it comes time to change, you can change like you normally do and then instead of throwing away the diaper you put it in a wet bag:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01CA7LE7I/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

We just use disposable wipes and throw them away in a plastic bag if they're extra gross, or just wrapped in another wipe if they're just pee wipes. You can use cloth if you want, though, and then they'd go in the wet bag with the diapers and inserts. If there's poo, you can wipe it off into the toilet, or you can use a fancy sprayer that you attach to the waterline running to your toilet. It just stays connected to the toilet all the time and hangs up on the wall next to it. You turn it on when you need to use it. We bought one, and then almost never used it, fwiw:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B017A7GRR0/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

The diapers and inserts stay in the wet bag until you've got a couple, then you do a load of laundry. We just stick them in the machine and basically run 2 cycles, both hot, because we don't have any kind of "sterilize" option on our machine. You can dry them in the dryer, or do a clothesline or something if you have option, time, and inclination.

They're bulky, and I recommend buying a few packs of them so you don't have little nakey ones running around while you're trying to get laundry done, but I feel like they're worth it.

Sorry for the million amazon links; no affiliation or anything, that's just where we do most of our shopping, ha!

Others have already recommended the cloth diapering subreddit, but to add my experience we didn't really cloth diaper the first few weeks despite having the supplies on hand just because we were in survival mode and extra laundry was out of the question. Then we moved on to pocket diapers (which have covers and inserts - the inserts absorb the pee) with liners. The liners seemed silly at first but they make life easier without being as expensive and wasteful as a full on disposable diaper. So no, totally not dumb to switch over at this point.

Now we only occasionally cloth diaper on weekends - lately we've either been travelling or dealing with a yeasty diaper rash and I've heard that yeast in a pain to remove from a cloth diaper so disposables it is. Day care requires disposables and I've never had luck with cloth diapers overnight (I probably could if I tinkered with it more, but I'm just not that committed).

I did the math at one point and even assuming we had paid for all the cloth diaper supplies ourselves (which we didn't thanks to our registry) we would have broken even on costs just over my three month maternity leave, so every diaper now that's cloth instead of disposable is like free money, a little bit at a time. A year later and the diapers and inserts we bought are still going strong.

I didn’t necessarily look for brand as much as functionality. We bought one of the backpack style ones from Amazon and the thing is the bomb.

Bag Nation Diaper Bag Backpack... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0722W1WCT?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I’ve spilt a whole bottle in there before and it washes so easily. There’s pockets everywhere and you can fit so much stuff into it. We used this for a three month NICU stay and there’s not a single tear on the thing. It seems indestructible with endless storage.

Necessities include: diapers, wipes, hand sanitizer, ziplock bags to put dirty diapers in at doctors appointments <— no one tells you about that until you’ve got a poop diaper in your hand with nowhere to put it, change of clothes for baby, a blanket depending on the season, an extra paci or eight. I always kept a copy of baby’s birth certificate and insurance card in there too just in case. And snacks for me. : )

If your budget minded and don’t mind a backpack type bag this one is awesome. I like it more than my regular diaper bag

HaloVa Diaper Bag Multi-Function Waterproof Travel Backpack Nappy Bags for Baby Care, Large Capacity, Stylish and Durable, Orange https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XPDDJX3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_H0CYAbGP7B1BA

Hi there, here are some options:

Loafers - please check reviews before buying, I can't vouch for their comfort as I don't own any.

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Otomi inspired top or dress

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Jeep Perfect Pockets Backpack. Plenty of pockets. Side pocket for wipes, includes container too. Insulated pocket to store milk or food. Has 2 straps on top to hang on to stroller's handles, I love this feature.

http://www.amazon.com/Jeep-Perfect-Pockets-Back-Black/dp/B00D4LFDYA/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1452284947&sr=8-1&keywords=jeep+diaper+bag

Did you specifically get the dekor wet bag pail liners? I have these and they fit the pail just fine. They are a bit of a tight fit around but they definitely fit. It comes in a 2 pack so that you always have one even when you’re doing laundry.

https://www.amazon.com/Dekor-Cloth-Diaper-Perfect-Diapers/dp/B00IZULWCC

I had a C-section. Here's my list of musts:

Nipple Cream: https://www.amazon.com/Motherlove-Certified-Organic-Cracked-Nursing/dp/B0007CQ726/ref=sr_1_1_sspa?ie=UTF8&qid=1524170982&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=nipplecreams+for+breastfeeding&psc=1

Nursing Pads: https://www.amazon.com/Lansinoh-Ultimate-Protection-Nighttime-Discretion/dp/B0179BQBP0/ref=sr_1_8_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1524171034&sr=8-8&keywords=nursing+pads

Huge drinking cup so you don't have to get up so often: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01DGMBG5Q/ref=dp_prsubs_3

Nursing Bras: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B075DBJ53P/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Extra Long phone charging cords: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B074296YH3/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Burp Cloths (which are useful for a million things, I bought 3 of the 10-packs and am so glad I did):
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B007VBYVVA/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

And my MIL got me this housecoat type thing made of sweatshirt material that was longer than knee length, zipped up, and had 2 massive pockets. I lived in the thing for like a month because I couldn't stand pants after my C-section. Plus it was warm and the pockets were really handy for carrying things (phone, water bottle, burp cloths, etc) while I was holding the baby.

We bought this Jeep diaper backpack since we love the very accessible wipes holder. I highly recommend it. I've tried other bags listed here and I always come back to the style with a wipes holder like the Jeep one.

I'd really strongly recommend the Ubbi Diaper Pail.

First, it's human smell-proof. We have our changing table in our bedroom, and never had a problem with it.

Second, that lid should definitely be dog proof. It even has the locking latch so the hatch won't open, but I'd expect a beagle to bee too short for that to be an issue. Between being able to lock the hatch, and maybe put some small weights in the bottom so they can't knock it over, it'll be safe.

Third, the pail just takes normal 13gal bags. We did disposables for newborn, and our normal kitchen bags did great. We have wet bags in it now, and they're still perfect.

The only, only thing I do, and I have no evidence I need to, is leave it open when there's no bag in it to air-dry out a bit. Diapers are exothermic, and it generates some humidity in there. It's a steel pail so I'd like to think I'm offsetting future rust. I'm at least letting nasty diaper humidity get out.

New baby list tied with buttwipes

Its the only list where I have stuff prioritized... Go figure lol

Need the bedding because lenore pretty much ruined her crib set. Butt wipes? Well, yeah, that one is pretty self explanatory.

I've heard the Gerber pre folds have declined in quality. I went for the [OsoCozy] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003AJHDQW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_f3URCbTVMJ1NA) and love them. Super thick!

I currently have a 14 month old. & we have been using either of these for overnights since about 4 months old.

We use either the clotheez fitted workhorse diapers or the sustainablebabyish overnight diapers

Both with a cover of some kind (we love thristies or rumparooz covers). The workhorse diapers usually come with snaps. But we have a few without & just use snappi’s with them.

The work horse diapers work great for us. But if I know he has had extra water during the day or he nursed a ton he will absolutely get a sustainablebabyish diaper. They are a little more bulkier. The sustainablebabyish diapers also have multiple options as to stuffing with so you can add or take away bulk as needed.


Just for reference during the day we do pockets.

Here's mine - I've been happy with it.
https://www.amazon.com/Kaylaa-Premium-Breast-Luxury-Stripe/dp/B01FJ6PU3G/ref=sr_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1520013281&sr=8-3&keywords=kaylaa+breastpump+bag

Here are two that my friends have recommended. https://www.amazon.com/HaloVa-Multi-Function-Waterproof-Backpack-Capacity/dp/B06XPDDJX3/ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1520013061&sr=1-5&keywords=diaper%2Bbackpack&th=1
https://www.amazon.com/Sarah-Wells-Lizzy-Breast-Floral/dp/B06WRR81Q6/ref=sr_1_8_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1520012994&sr=8-8&keywords=breast+pump+bag

Baby Wipes - to wipe her off. Not every mess a puppy rolls in warrants a full bath. These will save you the trouble of a full blown bath while keeping puppy clean!
Might as well get some clorox wipes for your stuff :P
And paper towels, oh lord, please have tons of paper towels!

In case a generous person is willing to help out, we're running low on baby wipes and not in a great place financially right now. Thanks for any consideration :)

This wasnt super cheap ($60 USD) but me and SO are in love with it. Its high quality, and he doesnt feel like he's carrying a cheesy diaper bag...for that matter neither do I!

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M9E9UNV/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_6nkqzb1KZEZSV

Wipes or diapers would be awesome. Thanks for the contest!

Here is it on Amazon. Currently on sale for Amazon Prime Day :)

HaloVa Diaper Bag Multi-Function Waterproof Travel Backpack Nappy Bags for Baby Care, Large Capacity, Stylish and Durable, Gray https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_BkDlDbSS5CHNF

Oh! Congrats! From a quick search on Amazon, this one seems nice
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_.1nHAb18XCW0A

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0127OZX7Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_HX1OzbAP67KKQ

We use this one and I LOVE it. I can stuff so much shit in it and it clips onto the stroller and grocery carts. It's a little bulky but the only time that mattered was on the plane but I still was able to shove it under the seat in front of me. I'm really glad we went with this bag instead of the tote I was looking at before though.

Just an fyi for anyone looking, there are some really cool diaper bins out there that work to keep smells at bay without having to buy these super expensive and kinda wasteful plastic cassettes: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00821FLSU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_KTesDbDC9EJG0

You're talking about these?

I bought them just two weeks ago, ran them through a hot water wash with baby detergent. They came out flimsy like first aid gauze and they don't absorb the poor kid's spit. I would have been better off buying a pack of men's t-shirts.

Are these the same ones or is there a better version I missed?

I have this backpack diaper bag. I have two in diapers now and am due with baby #4 in March. I feel certain this bag is plenty roomy enough for everyone's diapers and wipes, change of clothes, cups, snacks, blankets, toiletries, and a few small toys and books. I've had several different types of diaper bags and this one is my favorite by far. I wouldn't call it trendy or pretty, but definitely functional with so many pockets
http://www.amazon.com/Jeep-Perfect-Pockets-Back-Black/dp/B00D4LFDYA

I bought this one for a couple reasons: Not plastic, so won't absorb odors. And doesn't take special bags or cartridges, just regular kitchen bags.

Baby's not here yet, but it seems nice and simple, comes in nice colors and can just become a regular trash can when we don't need diapers any more.

I highly recommend this backpack diaper bag. Oddly, it's made by JEEP.

It has a million pockets which makes small things easier to find. The wipes are on the side, easily accessible. And you can carry it on a plane, put it under the seat in front of you, and nothing falls out.

We aren't pregnant yet but hubby loves researching things and I think we're going to get this one DadGear Backpack Diaper Bag - Solid Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000O1SLSI/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_hNoBybCE4KPDM

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0127OZX7Q?colid=17QHSI6IX4F5V&coliid=IKRM9258Z6DV7&ref=br_ADD_TO_CART_title_link&th=1

Have this one and love it, so many pockets it helps me stay organized.

We're like four days into this cloth diapering things and what we did was ask for a bunch of prefolds (I think we have two dozen of size 1 of these) and I bought some NB covers (6) off of Nicki's Diapers (there was a sale so I think I spent like $25 -- much cheaper than what was on Amazon). So, far, so good. We did use disposables for the first week because of meconium and having to use antibiotic cream on his penis. We also registered for a large (for home) and small (for the diaper bag) [wet bags] (http://www.amazon.com/Planet-Wise-Wet-Bag-Medium/dp/B005WWIMGA/ref=sr_1_1?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1398382271&sr=1-1&keywords=wet+bag), and a diaper sprayer. You could also ask for cloth wipes (we're not there yet). Also, we received a lot of newborn and size 1 diapers at our showers (we didn't ask for them), so we haven't had to buy anything diaper-wise. We used up most of the NB diapers but haven't touched the three bags of size 1s. It's nice to have the disposables for going places during the day while we're getting used to the cloth.

Ubbi more expressive but it uses whatever bags you normally would in your kitchen. It keeps ANY smell in. It's awesome. http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00821FLT4/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1394731099&sr=8-1&pi=SY200_QL40

We have one similar to this from HaloVa (got it on Amazon) that was a lot less expensive. I can't speak to the comparative quality, but I like the size and organization. It doesn't have all the same features, like the USB charger https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_Cb0jDbR836APX

We wanted a gender neutral backpack diaper bag, since my husband and I use it equally. With my first, we had the Eddie Bauer Flannel backpack from Target. I loved the organization/pockets but didn't love how poorly it was constructed. A lot of the seams ripped and we just lived with it for a while out of laziness.

Just upgraded to this Bag Nation bag over Christmas. It's a similar style but it's higher quality construction, and has a lifetime warranty. We are really happy with it.

You could save money in less than a month with cloth diapers. I have a friend who does cloth diapers.

http://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-Flatfold-Cloth-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVVA/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1451342332&sr=8-3&keywords=cloth+diapers

As a parent, I love these!!!!
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B001QKDI48/ref=redir_mdp_mobile

They make backpack diaper bags (this is the one I got). It's really nice because you can put it under the seat on a flight and nothing falls out. And it's comfortable to wear.

I use these flannel wipes from amazon:
OsoCozy Flannel Baby Wipes - Reusable And Washable - 15 Pack (Unbleached) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000138GNY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_EucOBbD215MMN
And use a spray bottle with water and a couple drops of lavender eo, to wet them. I've heard of people cutting up old recieving blankets too, but these are a perfect size. 2 packs last me a couple days of use.
I also used to use Baby Bits in the water (coconut oil cubes with eo and something else) but they gunked up my spray bottles.

Either way, it's not like there's a way to go back in time. I'd say for OP's husband to start working ASAP. And also for OP:

> I plan to stop getting takeout food now

Do that ASAP

> Is it worth it to invest more in a deep freezer to be able to save money long term?

No. You can reuse some Chinese takeout containers, cook an entire week's worth of meals one day a week and freeze them. Why do you need some kind of special freezer?

> Cloth diapers? Or are those things not worth it with the upfront costs? What else can we do to pay this off?

Cloth diapers are $12 for 10-pack on Amazon. You can reuse them for your kids and you'll save money in the long run.

This one!

It looks like it will meet our needs as far as bringing stuff with us, and both DH and I will be comfortable (both physically and fashion-wise) carrying it.

It's all in the wrist, man. Flick your wrist to separate them.

One thing that will really help is getting a separate dispenser.

I have this thing and it does a pretty good job of only bringing them out one at a time, and the few times it pulls out two, like i said just flick the wrist and they'll fall apart from each other. You might end up with the extra one just sitting in the dispenser, but that's obviously not a big deal.

e: of course, this means you shouldn't get ones that come in their own dispenser. Get the boxes of them that have, like, wrapped bricks of them. Just tear the packaging off a brick and toss it in the bottom of the dispenser.

I ended up with this one, mostly because the reviews were good and my husband really liked it. It need up being only $51 on prime day, but I really didn't want to spend more than $50 since I feel like I already have so many bags. Main selling points were slot for phone/wallet, external wipes holder, insulated bottle holders, and stroller straps.

Do you have one of those oxo wipes holders? That thing has been the most important tool in our parenting box. OXO Tot Perfect Pull Wipes Dispenser, Gray https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0771FFWPX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_BYskDbFTY89VR

I bought this one. I really wanted a backpack style so I could baby-wear in front with the bag on my back and have my arms totally free. My other criteria were stealth, volume, and lots of pockets. I really like this particular bag because it doesn't look like a diaper bag and has so many different compartments.

I specifically got a neutral style bag so my SO wouldn't mind carrying it around. We use this Jeep bag and I love it. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00HVB36FW/ref=mp_s_a_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1474164860&sr=8-3&keywords=jeep+diaper+bag&pi=SX200_QL40&dpPl=1&dpID=41UDA%2B22%2BUL&ref=plSrch
It also comes in a backpack style https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00D4LFDYA/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1474164860&sr=8-1&keywords=jeep+diaper+bag&pi=SX200_QL40

I purchased this one and am really happy with it. I haven't used it yet, but the size, compartments, and everything else seems to be nice and compatible. Plus, my husband can carry it without it looking like a purse.

I have a stack of probably 45 cloth wipes. I got a wipe warmer as a baby shower gift so I usually pre-soak half of my cloth wipes in water (hand squeezed out) and put them in the warmer where they stay damp and the rest are dry. I got them for the same reason you did, to just throw in the pail with the cloth diapers.

I wipe and dry out the warmer about once every two weeks and have never had mold or anything.

I bought mine on Amazon - http://www.amazon.com/OsoCozy-Flannel-Baby-Wipes-Unbleached/dp/B000138GNY/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1368585868&sr=8-1&keywords=cloth+wipes because I don'y sew but I imagine making your own would be simple if you make your own diapers!

I'm registered for this diaper bag backpack that I'll use during the week while working and for any longer trips (it can carry baby stuff, my work laptop, and various other things). My mom sewed me a really awesome shoulder diaper bag that I'll use for weekends and taking to daycare with her.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0127OZX7Q?colid=1JQYVNUSOYP2V&coliid=I3AHAQI82X8Y32

Mixie bottles if formula feeding. Amazing for middle of the night feeds, no need to even get out of bed. Great for going out with baby too. No need to mix formula out in public or spend money on ready to feed bottles.

Gerber Prefold Cloth Diapers. For burp cloths. No other burp cloths compare. I had about 20 of these and used them often.

Also first aid type of stuff like baby tylenol, motrin, diaper rash cream, baby chest rub, snot sucker, thermometer, humidifier, etc. It was nice to have all of that on hand the first time she got sick instead of having to run to the store in the middle of the night.

We love this https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00821FLT4/

Yup! We have a clothes rack for drying inside (apartment) and it works really well. I’d probably recommend prefolds for your inserts, because you can clip them flat. I’ve found that the fancy ones that snap in tend to take a lot longer to dry at the edges, and you wind up having to dry them right-side out and then flip them inside out to finish them.

Prefolds: https://www.amazon.com/OsoCozy-Prefolds-Unbleached-Absorbent-Best-Selling/dp/B003AJHDQW

Fancy ones: https://www.amazon.com/GroVia-Certified-Organic-Cotton-Diapering/dp/B002KKQBK6

Yeah. You also need them when their outfit is covered in poop from a blowout. Place the poop clothes in a bag and then another bag over that one 😂 I have a 9 month old. Munchkin Arm & Hammer Diaper Bag Dispenser with Bags https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001QKDI48/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_dn05CbTESQP0M

Budget Mommy Cloth Diaper Starter Kit:

6 covers: http://www.alvababy.com/1pc-baby-color-snap-covers-with-double-gussets-dcb09-p-1583.html

3-pack Snappis: http://amzn.com/B00BH0QB64

30 prefolds: http://amzn.com/B007VBYVWE

Total: $68.86 – even better if you can find anything second hand.

Cut up some old t-shirts for cloth wipes and you’re covered while you learn about AIOs, AI2s, pockets, fitteds, and everything else you need to know.

https://www.amazon.com/Backpack-Multi-function-Insulated-Waterproof-Gray-5279/dp/B01M9E9UNV/ref=mp_s_a_1_7?keywords=hap%2Btim%2Bdiaper%2Bbackpack&qid=1573120521&sprefix=hap%2B&sr=8-7&th=1&psc=1

This is the one we have. It's a good bag, it's served us well.

Get a few normal Alva pocket diapers and then don't put the insert in. Makes a perfect swim diaper and fits 10-35lbs! (Then when not swimming you can put baby in one with the insert)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00C7JW3GQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_Sdj1AbAM5ZNBQ

Lots of good advice here. I agree about the need for some type of pouch(es) to give some extra organization so everything doesn't become more of a jumbled mess at the bottom of the bag.

And make sure you carry one of these: https://www.amazon.com/Munchkin-Hammer-Diaper-Dispenser-Lavender/dp/B001QKDI48?th=1

Ah! I always suggest cloth diapers as my go-to secret mom hack, and I always give them at showers. I use disposable diapers for the bum, but spit up and vomit and and pee emergencies and everything else can be handled with cheapo cloth diapers. They're just fantastic. Forget those tiny little landing-strip burp cloths, because I haven't met a baby yet that's polite enough to only projectile-spit-up in such a tiny range.

This is one I got for my SO and he likes it. We haven’t used it yet since baby will be arriving in a couple weeks.

Bag Nation Diaper Bag Backpack with Stroller Straps, Changing Pad and Sundry Bag - Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0127OZX7Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_gli5Bb97HPR0V

OXO Tot Perfect Pull Wipes Dispenser, Gray https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0771FFWPX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_XwFuDbRE6GJ5Z

I use this with the Kirkland wipes and it has been a game changer.

Here you go! I think it's this one, or if not, this is clearly very very close lol

https://www.amazon.com/Ubbi-Saving-Special-Required-Locking/dp/B00821FLSU

They say no bag required but use a regular trash bag or a grocery bag. I was going to buy plastic diapers disposable a bags to put the diaper in, and then stick them in here. Every 2 days I'd take the lid completely off and put scooped cat litter in there as well and then throw everything out. We have 2 litter boxes and only really need to scoop every other day.

I have a simple system that works for me and 4 friends so far. You just wash baby’s laundry as usual. All clothes go into the washer and dryer - no lint, pilling, shrinking, special sprayer, etc.

Process:

• Put all dirty clothes in laundry bag - diapers (poop and all), onesies, etc.
  
• Throw entire bag in washer and dryer every 2 days
  
  Shopping list:
  
• 24 OsoCozy Bamboo Prefolds size 1: OsoCozy - Prefolds Unbleached Cloth Diapers, Size 1(7-15lbs), 6 Pack - Soft, Absorbent and Durable 100% Indian Cotton Natural Infant Diapers - Highest Quality & Best-Selling Cloth Diapers Sold Online https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003AJHDQW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_hIFUCbFBD5FSK
  
• 6 Thirsties duo wraps size 1 (with snaps not Velcro): Thirsties Package, Snap Duo Wrap, Outdoor Adventure Collection Birdie Size 1 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MQDASKQ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_-IFUCbAFEH0VW
  
• 1 washable laundry bag: Planet Wise Reusable Diaper Pail Liner, Summit https://www.amazon.com/dp/B076BBGTML/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_eHFUCbQY6C7FD
  
• 24 cloth wipes: GroVia Reusable Cloth Diapering Wipes, 12 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B003X3R6TO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_8EFUCbG7G51TR
  
• Spray Bottle: Empty Amber Glass Spray Bottles with Labels (2 Pack) - 16oz Refillable Container for Essential Oils, Cleaning Products, or Aromatherapy - Durable Black Trigger Sprayer w/Mist and Stream Settings https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01G98Y1BA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_.JFUCbECR65R1
  
  Notes:
  
• You’ll wash baby’s laundry anyway, but now you’ll wash some diapers with it, too.
  
• Depending on how often you want to do laundry, buy proportionately more stuff. Example: 1 day= 3-4 wraps and 6-12 pre-folds depending on the baby’s habits.
  
• I still use size 1 pre-folds for my 22 pound baby but upgraded to size 2 wraps.
  
• I hang the bag at the changing table so I don’t even use the special diaper trash anymore. Opening the can released a bunch of gross smells but hanging the bag lets the smells air out naturally

Same here. Diaper genie drew us in because it was inexpensive initially, but they get you with all the refills you have to buy. We picked up one of these Ubbi's and while it seemed like a lot upfront we can use our kitchen garbage bags we get in bulk from Costco in it.

Those do look slightly too small for what you're going to need them for. You could just use them as general cleanup cloths though. You'd be amazed how often you'll need them around during those first few months.

We used these as our burp cloths/general cleaning cloths. I just kept a pile of them on the table with all my nursing stuff.

Protip: Buy these cheap pampers sensitive wipes that come in a big bag and never have to buy those overly expensive wet wipes again. You'll never have to worry about conserving them because you're concerned you might run out before the next run to the store. Also, they stay together like cloth so no more foreign toilet paper particles getting in places it shouldn't.

I just got them at Babies R Us? I could get, like, 10 of them for $9. That was 15 years ago, though, so maybe things are different now?

You can buy them online, though.

Flour Sack Towels x3 = $60

snappis x1 = $15

Dappi Plastic Pants x 3 = $15

For under $100, a full stash that will last you quite some time, washing every other day. You'll only need to replace the covers, which are sized. You can always get nicer covers the next time around, since you'll have the extra money you are saving from sposies.

OXO Tot Perfect Pull Wipes Dispenser, Gray https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0771FFWPX/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_JFlSDbXTP1XWK

This. Thing. Because you never just get one wipe at a time out of the packaging and it is FRUSTRATING. Lol

So, would this be something like this? https://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-3-Ply-Prefold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVWE/ref=sr_1_3_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1506274314&sr=8-3&keywords=burp+cloths

Ubbi Steel Odor Locking, No Special Bag Required Money Saving, Awards-Winning, Modern Design, Registry Must-Have Diaper Pail, White https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00821FLT4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_OXyMDbVKKQT5K

You only forget to lock it once or twice... 🤣

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01M9E9UNV/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_awdb_t1_0IuMDb31KA1ZG

I've got this backpack and really like it. $50

You can get scented disposable bags to put the diapers inside and then dump them in a can, or keep them in the diaper bag till you get home.

Works pretty well

link: http://www.amazon.com/Munchkin-Hammer-Diaper-Dispenser-Colors/dp/B001QKDI48

Check this out at Amazon.com
Graco Gotham Smart Organizer System Back Pack Diaper Bag, Black/Grey https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00HZO7F98/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_AGkqzbRX82NJX

Have a look at amazon. Here are some manly more affordable options: option 1. option 2 option 3 option 4

Another vote for towels.

I actually use the pre-folds from our cloth diaper days (something like this

They work well.http://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-Count-Flatfold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVVA/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1368345868&sr=8-1&keywords=cloth+diapers Like these.

Basically the same thing - snaps instead of elastic fasteners, 2 extra loads of laundry (we wash them twice), like the other person said and rinsing out the poop.

Also, costs way less, in the long run. We dropped about $350 on these and they'll last until our baby is potty trained.

We still keep disposables in the diaper bag for emergencies and put them on when the baby sleeps because they're more absorbent than cloth.

I got the Bag Nation backpack on a 40% off sale and I love it so far - doubles as my diaper bag/pump bag, my milk cooler fits on top of my S1 pump, no complaints so far!

We used flats on our LO for several (4?) weeks because the prefolds were so bulky. They're not expensive or hard to wash. Might be worth having some! https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007VBYVVA/ref=cm_sw_r_awd_jK5yub0ZC9ATX

It all depends on how many diapers you have. If you have 24 diapers, you will have to wash them about every two days to keep up with it. Otherwise, you will run out. The easiest diapers to use for those who have never cloth diapered before are Pocket style or All-in-one style. These are pocket style and this is exactly what I ordered. I will have 24 of them once this order arrives. If you just search Alva or LBB cloth diapers on Amazon, you can even find cheaper prices, but they can take a bit longer to arrive.

Dafuq? As a parent, there's no excuse for this. Get one of these, put used diaper in a bag, and either find a trashcan to put it in or take it home to be thrown away. The little bag helps to keep the smell contained. I know kids can be a PITA and take up all your free time, but don't inconvenience others no matter what.

HaloVa Diaper Bag https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071RLWKGQ/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_p2BlDb7ZQACD8

b&h Baby Bath Floating Duck Thermometer https://www.amazon.com/dp/B073GGVN3Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_r-BlDb2WFQSE8

SoundBub, White Noise Machine and Bluetooth Speaker https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01HP06EFW/ref=as_li_ss_tl?th=1&linkCode=sl1&tag=froourhidpl00-20&linkId=34bb9c1662cbe0b851d4aa01447e155a&language=en_US

Sarah Wells Claire Breast Pump Bag https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0714M16GL/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_WMClDbTYY2SW1

Ergobaby Carrier, 360 All Carry Positions Baby Carrier, Pure Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DFVLH4P/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_MNClDbT74AG9X

I have found of my prefolds, the GMD cloth-eez size Small (yellow edge) and size 1 Osocozy prefolds are a good length trifolded for stuffing pockets. I angel fold my prefolds with a snappi, but still keep some of these smaller ones out for stuffing pockets, at night I also put a GMD small cotton doubler in with it.

We used cloth diapers and if you get the snappi things using cloth is easier than using pull-up disposables.
We'd still use some disposables when we went out here and there, but instead of using thousands of them we used dozens.

These and these are the ones someone had recommended in a previous thread

I got these off Amazon:
Gerber Birdseye Flatfold Cloth Diapers, White, 10 Count https://www.amazon.com/dp/B007VBYVVA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_OwkkzZeRxW7bO

It's the real deal. Here's the Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/HaloVa-Multi-Function-Waterproof-Backpack-Capacity/dp/B06XPDDJX3/

Sort of.

https://www.amazon.com/Original-5-pack-Snappi-Diaper-Fasteners/dp/B004YWKWJO

http://www.amazon.com/Pampers-Sensitive-Wipes-Box-Count/dp/B005DLCJX2/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1418307872&sr=8-1&keywords=swaddler+wipes

Only $10, and even cheaper if you get it on subscription. This is what we buy for our two kids. We are NEVER without wipes for any situation.

Diapers and wipes! Saves more than $100/year over the Sam's Club price, even factoring in the Prime subscription.

Birds-eye diapers Aka: plain white (unused) diapers.
Flour sack
Edit: linky.

Skip the fancy ones and go for plain white, which are about a buck each. We bought two dozen and STILL have trouble finding a clean one sometimes!

http://www.amazon.com/Gerber-Birdseye-3-Ply-Prefold-Diapers/dp/B007VBYVWE/ref=sr_1_2_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1459366297&sr=8-2&keywords=gerber+diapers

This is the Holy Grail: https://www.amazon.com/Ubbi-Saving-Special-Required-Locking/dp/B00821FLT4