(Part 2) Reddit mentions: The best clothing for women

1. I don't know much about you yet, but I'd really like to! You seem a lot like me from this post alone, so I want to get to know you better.
   
   
2. I don't remember where I read it, but it's really helped me (although it's a bit crude)--"If you have one foot in yesterday and one foot in tomorrow, you're pissing all over today." Apparently this was Michael J. Fox according to my quick Googling, but you can never trust the internet on these matters. The point is, it's a good reminder for me. I tend to worry about what I have done and will do, and forget to actually do things now.
   
   
3. I've committed to journaling at least once a day, and I can write as much as I want. But I have to start it off with something positive from that day. Some days, this is something awesome like "got a job" or "passed my final", and some days it's more like "I love the smell of my new body wash" or "the dog made me laugh when she ran into the door". If that's the only smile or happy thought I had that day, it's still worth writing down :) And, of course, I can write as many positive things as I wish.
   
   
4. Can I link two different items and say surprise me between them if I win? I can't decide which to link, so...this adorable waist belt or these supposedly comfy-ass leggings.
   
   I hope this contest makes you feel better from all the tips you've been given!

I totally understand. I know it's easier said that done, but I just want you to try not to worry too much, especially because you've only been on HRT for a couple months and breasts can take 2-5 years to fully develop. After that, there are always augmentation surgeries that you can look into if you feel it's necessary (and not necessarily even implants, but "corrective" stuff that can change their appearance to something you're more comfortable with.)

Have you started wearing bras at all? They'll help a lot, especially when you're out in public. They'll sort of pull everything into alignment, for lack of a better term. You don't need to buy expensive underwire ones either (in fact it would probably be kind of a waste of money at this point anyway), but there are plenty of bralettes and "lounge" bras that are cheap, comfortable and would help your situation. They also tend to come in pretty flexible sizes (ie, small/medium/large, rather than fitted sizes), so you don't need to have exact measurements and they'll still work for a while as your breasts grow. I have a few of these, which I quite like and find very comfortable, and I find that they're pretty true-to-size (you'll still want to measure yourself just to get a close estimation.) If you go this route, make sure you're ordering from either Amazon themselves, or a seller that is "Fulfilled By Amazon": this way you get free returns if something doesn't fit and it's really a no-risk purchase.

I hear that so much- the purchasing from a charity organization and just settling a bit for whatever fits and looks nice. I really do love your dress, though, and I think once it's fitted you will feel much better about it. The keyhole back is SO romantic and I love the way it flares out at the bottom! Another bride here had a similar dress and got a crinoline like this that seemed to make a world of difference in the shape.


I think the dress is quite lovely and is actually very flattering on your curves, and I adore the buttons on the back. So beautiful!

Seems like we are almost boob twins! Except my roots are pretty narrow rather than average, but also tall. My best unlined fit at the moment is Freya Ooh La La in 28D (cups run slightly big) and this Melissa Dessous 0037 in 60E (cups run slightly small) http://www.bratabase.com/browse/melissa-dessous/0037/ (the photos of 60E are not me, btw! But the bra in the photos is the one I own because I bought it off of this user haha. Just dont want to steal credit from her for adding the bra to bratabase which I am too lazy to do.) although I have to wear and extender with the Melissa Dessous because the band is freakishly small, it still fits like it was made for my tall roots and average projection and its so comfortable.

If you are looking for a foam lined bra at all, I recently purchased the Panache Cari spacer bra which has decent projection for a lined bra and is also great for accommodating my tall roots. The lined foam is a great alternative to a typical lined/moulded bra because its super smooth under tight clothes but still breathable, I can see through the foam if I hold i light behind it.

My experience with sports bras and gymnastics (which has it's own 360 concerns) has led me to search for the elusive racerback encapsulation DD+ bra. Racerbacks are only style I get support, good distribution of pressure and full range of motion in, while encapsulation personally feels much more comfortable then compression. Both the Panache Sport and Freya Active (which are very popular, so give them a try too) have j-hooks which are completely inadequate and a bit flimsy.

I've temporarily settled on the Bendon Extreme Sport. It's a cup size small for me (only goes up to a G, alas!), but the best fit I've found: great top and side support, convertible straps for a true racerback and really strange wires (they have a sort of swoosh shape when worn) that somehow work. Worth a spot on your list for sure.

Again, you're most welcome! hopefully we can find something that works.

Panache Ardour is a molded foam bra that has more depth than most such styles, so it could be worth a try. Panache Cari is a spacer-foam molded bra. Spacer foam is more flexible than traditional foam type bras. Cleo Hettie and Curvy Kate Ellace are a couple of unlined styles you could try for starters.

I don't advise that you order all these bras at once unless you have Prime and can get them all with free shipping and returns. Even then, too many at once can be confusing. Try one or two styles to start with. It's a good idea to start with one bra in two sizes, so in this case I'd say try the recommended 32F and 32FF. I'd suggest one of the unlined to start even if it's not your favourite because if you want to do a fit check it's easier to see the fit issues (or you can do a fit check without photos and describe the fit really well). But of course the choice of what to start with is up to you. There are also lots of other online sellers you can purchase from if you prefer, sucxh as Bare Necessities, Figleaves US (or UK), Herroom, and Breakout Bras to name a few. Just make sure that you can do returns if it doesn't fit. Not all places do free returns.

If you have a Nordstrom near you, you can try there or order from them online, have things shipped to your home and return in store whatever you decide against.

I have the Panache. I liked it MUCH better than the Enell which every says is the best for DD+ girls (but barf...total uni-boob situation and it is SO hot because it has a huge back strap). Honestly, I always get my sports bras a cup smaller because I hate bounce when I am working out. The cups on the Panache are pretty firm but especially if you are still losing I think that should work. The good sports bras for the DD+ are so darn expensive I'd err on the side of a little smaller.

However, I LOVE the Freya one even better: http://www.amazon.com/Freya-Womens-Active-Underwire-Molded/dp/B00EMAO0GO This has been my go-to as I've gotten even smaller because I can wear it to work since it looks like a normal bra when I am running tight on time to get my workout in. I think I only started using this when I got down to an F cup (D4) so I'm not sure I would have liked it as much when I was larger. I started wearing the Panache at a 40GG.

The Elomi one isn't bad either. I stalk sales of all three brands. Hope this helps!

I'm gonna make you a little outfit.

fleece leggings I do own a pair of these. They are thick, and warm, but I like to dry them with my under things, because they can pill.

boots i'm wearing these right now. I've had them for over a year. They aren't as all as you'd think, but very comfy and warm.

boot socks I have these in the grey/white. They are kinda long, but I love them. They come up pretty high, so they look best with a tall boot. One button did fall off, but I fixed it. Buy these here on Amazon. I got mine as a gift from Etsy and they were $29.00. They are the exact same thing.

This one is incredibly cheap ($20 or less) and has a really wide range of sizes. It is not very snug so would not be for running but things like walking or yoga etc it would work. The top review breaks down their sizing and your size isn't listed so I'm not sure if it would be better to go for medium to match the band size or what depending on the type of support you need. Might be worn a shot for $20.

I'm a 44-46FF/G and got the 3x and love it but don't do high impact stuff. My size wasn't listed either so I took a gamble and ordered a color that was $9, lol.

Better sports bras out there? Sure, but mine was comfy and an unbelievable price and it suits my needs.

I'm gonna spam my own fashion sense, I hope you like some of what I like ;p

If you want dresses, I would recommend one size fits all dresses off Amazon. Then you don't have to worry about cups that are not filled by breasts. I really love Sakkas brand, which you can find on Amazon. I have this, for example, and the top part is stretchy so it's basically one size fits all: https://www.amazon.com/Sakkas-103141-Adara-Batik-Dress/dp/B00K1ML5JW/ref=sr_1_33?ie=UTF8&qid=1482827864&sr=8-33&keywords=sakkas+dress

Or any cheap $10-$15 dress from a place like Forever 21 is so poorly designed that it is effectively one size fits all.

Here are some cute colorful socks:

https://www.amazon.com/HSELL-Colorful-Rainbow-Argyle-Multicolors/dp/B01DSKGV92/ref=sr_1_33?ie=UTF8&qid=1482827534&sr=8-33&keywords=one+size+fits+all+dress

I know a lot of people here also love those cat thigh high socks, like these:

https://www.amazon.com/Kawaii-Cartoon-Animal-Tattoo-Stockings/dp/B0163422D4/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1482827633&sr=8-1&keywords=cat+thigh+high

I bought this in the past and I think it's kinda androgynous

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00JKF0BNC/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s02?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Cape coats are technically women's fashion but they're so obscure that I think a lot of people don't know how to gender them

https://www.amazon.com/Artka-Womens-Embroidery-Turn-down-Collar/dp/B00F8A0C5U/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1482827761&sr=8-1&keywords=cape+coats

I also really love Mordenmiss jackets (also off Amazon). They're really loose and kinda art smock-y.

I bought this pair of boots a while back and they're really, really nice!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00KAI4GL6/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I've also bought these and I get tons of compliments on them

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00OMUIWD6/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I also have this Forever 21 dino sweatshirt and I can't walk 5 minutes without getting a compliment on it. Unfortunately it isn't sold in stores anymore, but this might help give more ideas of femme clothing.

https://cdnd.lystit.com/photos/2013/10/28/forever-21-blackgold-quirky-dinosaur-sweatshirt-product-1-14521999-527549268.jpeg

I think anything that is a "Women's [traditionally male clothing]" is bound to look fairly androgynous. Like women's button downs, women's sweatshirts and sweatpants, women's leather jackets, etc.

Hey! I'm gonna paste the shopping list I used to buy things before my surgery and maybe it'll be helpful for you!

Extra strength Tylenol, frozen peas (for icing), gauze pads (I've gone through three packs of the largest band-aid brand gauze at Target), Hibiclens soap for my pre-op shower, three cases of water, throat drops, saltines, light soups, small bottles of gatorade so they're easier to lift, paper plates +disposable utensils so you don't have to do dishes, and cat food + cat litter (obviously this is specific to cat owners, but if you have a pet I suggest buying everything they need before so that you won't have to pick up anything for them at the store post-op)

Something else that might be helpful is a pack of cheap wash clothes to dry your chest after you shower since they're easier and quicker to wash than using a new full size towel every time. Paper towels are also helpful to dry your chest since they're disposable. I'm 11 days post-op, allowed to shower, and still have tape over my incisions, so I use a wash cloth to dry my chest and then blow dry my chest on low heat from a distance since I don't want the tape to retain moisture. Maternity pillows are great for sleeping- I borrowed one from a family member since I don't have any children and they're kinda pricey.

As far as post-op bras go, definitely call your surgeon's office and ask if they will provide a post-op surgical bra. My surgeon never mentioned it, but ended up providing one since I woke up in a size 38 band velcro surgical bra. I bought one Fruit of the Loom front closure bra in 38 since I knew I would be swollen. It didn't fit until 5 days post op. Here is the bra. I got it in black so that it wouldn't show any leakage, but the inside is white anyway so it didn't really matter.

Good luck with your surgery!!! :)

Well done for keeping it up so long! Running has felt weird to me for such a long time, I miss it :(

I don't know about running but i use a support belt from Amazon that's in 3 pieces (a piece round back and sides, one around front and one over top of bump) and goes together with Velcro - it offers good support for my back when lifting and doing classes. Apparently Paula Radcliffe used one like this ://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0001BUK9O/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&linkCode=ll1&tag=allabomartr0e-20&linkId=172d367b1dee8e5711d1358a33ce549f throughout her pregnancy but I don't think that would be enough support for me to prevent jiggly weirdness feelings.

I've switched to swimming and while it isn't the same at all, it's actually a lot more enjoyable than I thought it would be and apparently swimming in 3rd tri helps to get baby into the right position for birth and keep them there!

It sounds like your fitter found you the right cup volume, which is awesome! The looseness at the top could just be a shape issue; most VS bras are molded cups, which cannot conform to the shape of your breasts and may be more difficult to fit absolutely perfectly. Molded cups are the least likely to show under shirts, though, and so are very useful.

If you find that you would like more support from your bras, especially as the bands stretch out over time, you could use a rixie clip to tighten the bands or sister size down to a 34DD in the future. I do recommend double checking by taking your measurements, but it sounds like you're doing pretty well =]

Oh man, this post is like my jam. I'm currently tandem feeding twins and supplemented at the start. I did not have PCOS, so I did not have that barrier to overcome. Here's what I did:

Bring to hospital: hands free pumping bra, angled flanges, hot packs, lanolin(at first, I liked the medela lanolin better since it spread a lot easier, but now I like the lasinoh lanolin ointment more. I'd buy both, and apply after every feed/pump)

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004S8MGGQ/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0085CBA90/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Day 1 - breastfeed baby as often as they want, but at least every 3 hours. This is your time to be working on latching and such. After each feed, you need to hook yourself up to the pump using your fancy new angled flanges(more comfortable, and allow you to recline while pumping - your back will KILL if you are trying to slightly lean forward all the time while pumping) and pumping bra(you do not want to sit int he hospital and be pumping for 10-15 minutes and have to hold the stupid flanges up yourself). As someone who worked NICU, has used both the spectra and the medela symphony, you'll want to go for the symphony at this point. Colostrum is thicker than normal milk - the spectra I don't think would draw the colostrum down as well as it does regular milk, so that is why I'd use the medela until your milk has come in, and for about a week or two after. When you are pumping, you should throw the hot packs towards your boobs and be massaging down towards the nipple.

The reason you are pumping at least every 3 is chances are your kid either has a crappy latch or not a strong suck, and both of those things are not going to stimulate your supply to come in the way you want it to. Not a lot of kids come out into the world and both latch strongly and suck and swallow to adequately and easily drain the boob, and that needs to happen.

For bottle feeding - the hospital we were at gave Similac Supplementation, and we used that until we were off formula. We used it with the hospital Similac slow flow nipple that screwed onto the ready feed bottle, and then used Dr Brown premie nipples at home. So, the shape of the nipple you use for bottle feeding isn't actually that important in my opinion. I'd say the bigger thing would be flow - definitely want slow flow/premie nipple in whatever brand you pick, and then technique. For technique, do not put the baby in your arms cradling them and then point the nipple at the back of their mouth like you are the virgin mary feeding the baby jesus. Instead, put them in an elevated sidelying position, and then angle the nipple sort of towards the top of their head. Basically, you're trying to mimic the boob nipple position with the bottle nipple position, and by having them sidelying you're also mimicking how they breastfeed.

We did 15 mls of formula starting around 24 hours of life after each breastfeeding attempt. This gradually did increase to an ounce. I had enough supply in by day 6 or 7 to stop supplementing with formula after each feed(I still pumped after each feed for breastmilk). I stopped supplementing altogether around a week and a half, but continued pumping so my husband could give a bottle a night while I slept for a couple hours.

Which actually, that's another part of this everyone overlooks. There is this oh poo poo new mothers shouldn't be sleeping and need to be awake every hour to feed/pump/whatever. You should do this for the first couple of days, but honestly, for your sanity, you need to pick a 3-4 hour block of your life to be uninterrupted and unconscious and have someone else feed and care for the baby. If you are in the throws of breastfeed/supplement/pump, you're not getting a lot of sleep, and are going to need a window somewhere to actually sleep. 3-4 hours sounds like nothing now, but when you are consistently getting 20-30 minutes, it's life changing.

On a random note, I saw from comments you want to use the Spectra S2 - I strongly believe in angled flanges, so here's the adapter to go from medela to Spectra so you can continue to use angled flanges.
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DGEDVUM/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o05_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

When it comes to formula, I'd keep a couple things in mind. Your baby literally has NO taste experiences in their life(other than amniotic fluid). Therefore, breastmilk and formula will be all they know. Think of it like the kid with food allergies - you taste their allergen free brownie and think it's disgusting but they love it because they don't know any better. We switched formula on kids fairly often in the NICU for various reasons, and typically we had babies be fussy for a feed or two and then settle into the new stuff if they were going to fuss at all over the change. Therefore, I'd use whatever they give you, but have a box of formula at home that is unopened and returnable.

I'm not an expert, and I don't know much about Comexim, but I had the same question I asked about a Freya bra. I was told that it isn't recommended to wear a bra band larger than you normally wear just to get the wires right. Wearing it larger than you need will just lead to other fit problems; riding up in the back and tissue spilling out the bottom of the front, strap issues, etc.

However, since the one you're having difficulty with is a 65 and you prefer 70 bands, try out the sister size in a 70. It'll probably have wider wires than the 65, but you won't be sacrificing for other fit issues you might stumble upon in the 75.

I don't know how the wires run in Comexim, but check out Bratabase for the model in question to see the wire width and compare that width between the different sister sizes in question. That'll give you a better idea before buying. And ultimately it's all about your comfort and what you like. If you try the 70 and find the wires still narrow and you decide to try the 75, but the band is too large, you could always alter the band smaller or use a Rixie Clip Good luck! :)

Edited for spelling

Going braless is fine, but bras are often vilified in this subreddit, mostly only because they don't fit well. It's not the poster's fault or the bra's fault, but it's not right to do that, and I can't just stand by when it's happening.

30C is designed for the same breast volume as 32B, but it has a tighter band, not surprised it feels tight. It could be that you need very shallow 30Ds with wide wires and not a lot of forward projection - shallow breasts sometimes also need a bigger size than measurements predict. "D cup" isn't huge. Here's a well fitting shallow 30D. And here's another.

Your description of cup fit sounds like too narrow wires preventing all of your breast tissue getting into the cups. It's a bit like a party hat sitting on your head, it is to small, but it's empty because your head doesn't fit in it. The cup isn't too big, it's wrongly shaped, too narrow and too forward projecting.

A good thing about brands with a big size range is a lot of their straps tend to be fully adjustable.

Natori Feathers Contour Plunge is considered one of the comfiest bras out there. Calvin Klein Customized Lift demis are liked by many. Aerie bras by and large are great - you could try a 32C on tightest hooks in store and if it works order 30D online, I don't think they stock 30 bands in stores.

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Have you tried Curvy Kate? Their padded styles - like the Daily Boost/Daily Dream and Arizona - tend to run wide and shallow in the DD end of the spectrum, and the brand in general gives good shape and lift. The bands are a bit inconsistent, but the rule seems to be the darker the color the tighter the band.

As for half cups, try the Cleo Juna - it also runs a bit wide and shallow, and according to Bratabase gives great cleavage in your size range. Also the Curvy Kate Ritzy.

Edit: Forgot the Parfait Charlotte, one of the most famous/infamous wide, shallow bras with va-va-voom. The band runs snug, so this could be a great fit for you.

I second the wired sports bra. I have the Frey’s wired sports bra - in 38 G and it’s amazing. It doesn’t look like a sports bra, so no uniboob. It’s super supportative - I can go running in it, (or running after my kids in grocery store) or wear it out for girls night and no one can tell. It would work great under scrubs tops. I got mine on amazon.

Edit - here’s the link (I hope it works) amazon link

I just bought these from Amazon and they have a lot of stretch and fit my 32 week bump with room to grow! They seem super comfy though I haven't worn them all day yet. They don't fit weird in crotch or legs either like some tights I've bought. They're super thick and seem really warm. Good luck, I searched forever and ended up buying those and also this pair, which I ended up returning because the crotch is really weird and they were hard to put on (too tight).

Edit: the ones I bought are 'one size fits most' and I'm about 5'3" and a size 8-10 or medium in most things (US sizing). They have plenty of room and plenty of length.

I actually have 3 sets
these ones which are small 36 B/C cups that I’ll wear out to a club when my wife and I are feeling frisky. Perky and stay in place real nice.

these ones that are about a 38D are great for dressing up and letting men fuck you real good! My wife loves watching men fuck me hard while dressed up in these. A bit too big to really enjoy at a club though.

and these monsters I have just for myself. They are about a 40D. I’ve been fucked in these before, but it’s really a lot of work. Mostly, these are for sissy hypno bimbo time. I LOVE dressing up in these, getting blazed on some pot in the garage and cranking up some sissy hypno in the garage while real men fuck my wife upstairs. I love hearing men grunt and my wife moan while all bimbo’d out. Sometimes men will join me for a bowl or two, compliment my wife’s pussy, and let me know how often they cum in her.

There was a sale, so I bought some maternity underwear on Amazon. Wow. They are amazing. Highly recommend. No more elastic squeezing my bladder. No underwear stretching. And they're really cute! I wouldn't mind wearing them after pregnancy is over! I liked them so much, I had to buy another pack because I can't stand my normal underwear anymore!

Giftpocket Women's Under the Bump Maternity Panties Underwear, Pack of 5, Assorted Random Designs and Colors, XL https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GCA3N82/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apap_aMr4NYebwx9iJ
(If anyone ends up buying these, listen to the sizing suggestion!!! I'm normally a medium, sizing told me to get XL. They fit like a dream)

Ok, definitely look at B.Tempt'd then. I know Macy's has them in store (at least the one in NYC). It's owned by Wacoal, so it's usually stocked in stores where those are stocked.

I was also in LOVE with the Natori Feathers plunge (when I wore a 32D), which you should also be able to get wherever. It's "lacy" but the lace is some synthetic something-or-other that ends up working like a tshirt bra. Super comfortable and versatile.

When I was in marching band we were always wearing leggings and tights under everything to keep warm. Even if I ended up in just the leggings and my top I was still fine, it's because of how tight the fabric is to your skin. Tighter garments like leggings keep you warmer because they don't allow a breeze to get in, and if you get a pair that has a nice fuzzy lining on the inside (example for the purpose of discussion, this pair I bought on Amazon, ohmygod I love them http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B009DNWH2O/ ) you are even further securing yourself a warm and comfy fall or winter day. Granted, leggings alone can still definitely leave you cold, but a couple of good pairs can definitely save you some trouble and money in the long run.

[This dress](Milumia Women's Button Up Split Floral Print Flowy Party Maxi Dress Black M https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LL50S4K/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_joXqzb6FZ7A3H) fits like it came from Gods personal closet. It's lightweight, breathes like Egyptian cotton, and the slit goes to your knees so it's extra breezy.

It comes in literally 30 colors, you're bound to find something you like.

It makes me feel like a princess!

Also, [this skirt](Milumia Women's Bohemian Floral Print Wrap Skirt Summer Long Maxi Skirt Black XS https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01MPY9XNH/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_AsXqzbS8G79YB) fits my flowy, California cool summer aesthetic perfectly.

Hey girl! Fellow 30FF 18-year old here. I relate to all of this. There's not much I can say that will help because I'm currently struggling with the idea of a reduction too, BUT I can help with your bra-finding issues.
I searched for months to find cute bras and these are some that I currently own that are supportive, sexy, and not tooo expensive:

here

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this one is my favorite!

I apologize for the link formatting. I'm on mobile, but...Here ya go! Keep in mind, this is my own symbolism...Not necessarily about the type of fit, but more about the pattern, which "felt" right.

This felt sexy, but also like Zelda might wear it in Montgomery before NYC. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01LL50S4K/ref=sxts1?ie=UTF8&qid=1486894830&sr=1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65

This also reminded me of a modernised Montgomery. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01IXZS6HW/ref=ya_st_dp_summary

This reminded me of her first night in NYC, just being wild, but also a little sweet with the sleeves. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01LL50S4K/ref=sxts1?ie=UTF8&qid=1486894830&sr=1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_FMwebp_QL65

Again, more about symbolism than actual fit, plus I'm on a budget :), but I tried.

I bought the Medela Maternity Support Band and LOVE IT!! It's great for grocery shopping or anytime I'm going to be walking a lot. I'm normally a size 2 and have gained 50lbs with the LO and it's all belly so I get really top heavy.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0001BUK9O?pc_redir=1411019282&robot_redir=1

Same. I’m fairly thin but have a larger chest, so I had all but given up on cute little bralettes to wear around the house. Everything looked like Caroline’s sports bra. I used to laugh and say it looks like I’m stuffing sausage into its casing and failing. Then I discovered this Calvin Klein bra and OMG IM IN HEAVEN. She has no idea what she’s missing out on. Well fitting bralettes are perfection.

Caro- Do yourself a favor and buy a few of these. They’re BOMB. You’d probably be a medium like me. (Don’t be an idiot and order it too small cuz you think you’re a smol bean. I’m 5’7” and 115lbs so I’m potentially smaller than you)

Congrats on your weight loss! :) Just off the top of my head, I'm thinking the Natori Feathers in a 30DDD might be a good choice to try. Plus free shipping & returns, yay! http://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8

If you are looking for fleece leggings, I just got these D&K Monarchy High Waist Compression Slimming Thermal Leggings (get the ones that say Thermal if you want the thickest fleece option) in black on Amazon for $15 and they are amazing. First pair of fleece leggings I've worn that are actually opaque, and they actually have soft fleece inside of them as opposed to some rough fabric that masquerades as fleece. They are seamless too which makes it so much more comfortable, and the fleece is so, so soft. Only two snags are if you are sensitive to chemical smells, these might smell a bit stronger than you are used to. And the high waist may be a plus or minus depending on your preferences. But, having said that, I found these leggings way better than the Anthropologie ones that I tried previously. Highly recommend!

I'm a FTM due in August and have been wondering this! I ran a few times a week 2-5mi/run pre-pregnancy but stopped in first trimester b/c I was nauseous all the live long day. Went for first run of second trimester a few days ago and wiped out on some ice, which was super fun. Now that weather is improving and bump is getting bigger, I'm thinking of getting this, which I found recommended on a running mama blog: http://www.amazon.com/Maternity-Support-in-Nude-S-M/dp/B0001BUK9O

This hat keeps my ears so warm! I've been wearing it almost every day for the past week (I did wash it). It's super cute, plus I don't have to do as much to my hair.

I haven't gotten them yet, but a friend got these tights and says they're fantastic!

You could use a paperclip, it would likely work better than a safety pin and safer since it's not likely to stab you in the back. Also something like Panache's cari moulded bra has a racer back clip so you can convert it to a racerback. I just got one in 28G and I really like it. It is a bit minimizing and kind of shallow though so I am not sure how well it would work for you.

Everyone says to get these Fruit of the Loom bras. I was a 30GG before surgery and I got two of these bras in a size 34. They were too small after surgery. It's been three months since my surgery and the bras are still too small. I would estimate my current size is a 32DD or 32E/34D depending on the bra (my band size is bigger now). So if you get bras like these, get them way bigger.

People also recommend other sports bras from Walmart. I found that with my small band size, these rode up and caused the front to dig into my sore incisions. But you might have better luck.

I bought this bra in a larger size, like a L A/B, because that was all they had available in the shop. They altered it - took a big tuck in the back of the band so it would fit. It's okay for sleeping in. If I were doing the whole thing over again I would have ordered that Amoena bra in a M C/D ahead of time.

Spacer bras! I have the Panache Cari and I've also heard good things about the Fantasie Rebecca. They're not quite moulded cups, more like a thick, stiffer mesh that breathes well. Note that these are European sizes, so if you haven't already, head over to r/abrathatfits to find the right fit :)

I also have a rather pronounced tail of spence, and for me shoulder bras work best to keep them in check. I'd recommend the Natori Feathers - I personally haven't tried it, but it's supposedly great for shallow breasts. You may want to size up in the cup though, it's very shallow.

The ones I own are Mimi Holliday shoulder bras - I have several non-padded (narrow wires) and one padded (wide wires). Mimi's rather expensive, but from time to time, cheap ones in 28D-DD and 30C-D pop up on Amazon UK and Ebay. Their balconettes and padded plunges (actually half cups) also have very wide cups.

Agree with Amazon - for example this bra and these panties have prime shipping available AND free returns if they don't fit her well or she doesn't like them.

Also agree that if you can find the matching panties for her current bras, you'd still be doing very well by her. :)

Artka Women's Embroidery Turn-down Collar Woolen Cape Coat Green One Size https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F8A0C5U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_8Bgqyb7FMSJNM

This one is awesome with the embroidery. Can anybody recommend something a tad cheaper? I love this look!

I wore this dress to a wedding in June, and aside from being a total bear to iron, it worked out really well. I wasn't showing then, obviously, but I think it would work with a belly. And it was super comfy and flowy and totally wedding appropriate. Plus it was like $30!

Hi! I'm getting married June 8 and will have one available after that - I could get it to you in early July post-honeymoon. I actually got mine off Amazon though for like $30 if that's easier for you: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ZPMV1JC/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o07_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

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I have the small/medium size. Would you like to buy from me if this works for your timeline?

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(I also tried on this one from Amazon: https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B01EH3UV8Q/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 It has a hoop so is wider at the bottom than the one I ended up keeping).

Enell is my favorite for hi impact workouts, I refer to it as my boob harness 🤣 It's going to feel pretty snug on your ribs.

Is F equivalent to a DDD? If so, I use Victoria's Secret for medium-low impact workout. The way the band/cups are set up puts way less strain on my neck.

I pretty much wore cotton bralettes like those Calvin Klein ones 24/7 when I got my nipples pierced. Sports bras might be too tight and polyester isn’t as breathable as cotton. Try wearing a cotton bralette even to sleep, and just make sure you change into a clean one every day. bralettes

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00GBCTSYU/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1473444258&sr=8-1&pi=SY200_QL40&keywords=calvin+klein+bralette&dpPl=1&dpID=51yWBIKTE%2BL&ref=plSrch


That's my favorite one ever! It's a nice thin soft cotton. So comfortable.

Okay, so if I went with these, which say 44C.. I could just go out and buy a 44C bra and put them in and have a C cup? The next size up are these and they say 44G, which I think is too large.

I'm fat and large-framed so I think big breasts would be good for my body shape, but I don't want huuuge gigantic breasts because I don't want to encourage people playing with them... I'm kinda self conscious about people playing with my breasts when I know they're fake. I think a C cup at minimum would be best, maybe D or DD better, but that company doesn't have 44D's.

My family members have C cups. One got DD or DDD's and I think they're too large because she's quite skinny. Maybe D's would look great on me because I am overweight/tall/large-framed.

It's a scary thing picking out breast forms because they're $100+ and probably not returnable. Could be a $100 mistake!

These https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001O482W4/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1 are the best by far. Super thin edge and no sticky side that wears off over time. They stay on incredibly well (for me) as long as I'm wearing a fairly tight fitting top. I have had one fall off twice in the year I've had them, both times I was sweating a lot, wearing a loose top, and bending over a lot (gardening).

Extra warm infinity scarf!

Winter fleece warm leggings!

I've bought these boots for super cold winters in Ohio and they worked great.

rain and snow boots!

Lou & Grey (also sold at Loft) is made for comfort, lots of soft flowy fabric. I have foot pain and love my clarks for that. I saw a few people mentioned bras, I've had good luck with these reusable non-adhesive nipple covers though I usually wear them with a soft, non-padded bralette.

Did you take both underbust measurements (snug and tight)?

26s are pretty hard to come by. You can get them from Ewa Michalak in Poland (custom order, non-returnable, custom order fee), Comexim in Poland (custom order, non-returnable; can also buy from Wellfitting.com/Wellfitting on Amazon...higher priced but they accept returns), and Made in Preston in the UK (non-custom, returnable, kind of pricey and reviews haven't been very good). New companies Edwards & Millers and Bosom Galore will be making 26 bands but I'm not sure when they will be available.

If 28 bands are working for you, I'd stick with those. If they're a little too loose you can try buying bras that are known to fit snugger (like unpadded Cleo bras), altering the band to be smaller (see alteration tutorials link on sidebar), sewing along the band's elastic to prevent it from stretching as much (alterations link again), or using a Rixie Clip (basically the opposite of a band extender).

Which bra did you try in 28GG? If you read through the shape guide on the sidebar and give us an idea of your breast shape someone might be able to recommend some specific bras likely to work for you.

I got these. https://www.amazon.com/Nippies-Reusable-Silicone-Pasties-NON-ADHESIVE/dp/B001O482W4

They're expensive but worth it. I don't like the cheaper ones because I'm suspicious of the quality of something that'll be pressed to my skin all day!

Sometimes I will give them a quick spritz with a small spray bottle so they adhere better. They've never fallen off, but the initial adhesion can be tough if your skin is dry and/or it's super cold.

Start pumping at least once a day after your LO feeds. I made sure to have a good freezer stash for my first day back at work. Have you introduced a bottle to your LO yet? If not, do it right away so he/she gets used to it. Make sure you're not the one giving him the bottle, cause sometimes they won't take it.

Pumping hurts the first few times, but do yourself a favor and get a hands free pumping bra. LIFE CHANGER. When you have both your hands free it makes the session go so much faster. Here's the one I have:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004S8MGGQ/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Drink plenty of water, and depending on how much you get in a session, don't be afraid to go upto 20 mins. I have about three letdowns in 20 mins, each about 7 mins apart. The first time milk stopped coming out after the first letdown I was very disappointed, but then I decided to keep pumping and I had a second letdown. I usually average about 4 oz in 2 hours, sometimes more, sometimes less.

Let me know if you have any more questions!

I'm using the one that my sister wore in her wedding, so I'm not exactly sure. I think it might be the one that DB sells. (I wouldn't have bought the $80 one from them if I was buying now. If you go the Amazon route, just make sure you get one that has free returns like this. It wouldn't hurt to try it on with your dress before buying something more expensive.)

I love and swear by this specific Enell bra: https://www.amazon.com/Enell-Sports-Bra-Black-2/dp/B0009JDYVO/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1502886049&sr=8-1&keywords=enell+sports+bra ... you may want to order a 1 and a 0 and see which one you like better.

It's a bit pricey, but definitely holds everything in place.

OMG I totally feel you. I'm 34G, and finding a suitable bra was a major barrier to even trying yoga when I first got interested. I found these bras from Hanes are perfect. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YKF0A/_encoding=UTF8?coliid=I2YTNN96A7GXR2&colid=2QYW9Q32HH72Z

Not super supportive, but they keep the girls from flying all over the place and are extremely comfortable. With boobs as big as mine, they're arguably more comfortable than not wearing a bra because they keep everything in line without the slightest feeling of compression or constriction. AND they're wicked cheap! I buy 2-3 every year or so because they do stretch out a bit over time, but for the price, they're totally worth it.

I wanted the over the belly ones too but I had a hard time finding them. I got the pack of under the belly ones from amazon and they're amazing!!

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01GCA3N82/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1485066547&sr=1-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65

Heres the pair I got:
Feminique 2400gr Silicone Breast Enhancer Forms Size 40DD/42D/44C/40B(Size 12) for Cross Dresser Nude https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01ENVOUIO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_0U93Db5GPWPP9
I can't speak to their relative quality because I haven't tried other brands but I've used them every day for a year now and they're holding up great!

> https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YKF0A/_encoding=UTF8?coliid=I2YTNN96A7GXR2&colid=2QYW9Q32HH72Z

Thank you! These look so comfy. I just ordered two because I'm not sure about size- 34DD isn't included on their chart but I'm hopeful!

When I had my reduction, I wore the front zipping sports bras from lane Bryant.. https://www.lanebryant.com/catalog/search.cmd?form_state=searchForm&keyword=Sports+bra&searchType=Typed&mboxSiteCd=LB. I don't see them on here but they zipped up the front.

Before surgery I always wore the enel sports bra, they were amazing.
https://www.amazon.com/Enell-Sports-Bra-Black-2/dp/B0009JDYVO/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1479254280&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=Enel+sports+bra

This is the cape I got from Amazon. I absolutely love it!

Anyone have a solution to back of bra band bulge showing through clothing? /r/ABraThatFits seems to always suggest tight bands - which makes the problem worse. I found if I wear a less supportive bra (like this - https://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Cozy-Seamless-Wire-Free/dp/B00L5YKF0A) then everything under my t-shirt is smoooooth, but my boobs don't look as perky. With regular underwire bras, I end up wearing looser tops which probably don't look as good on me, but I can't stand when I look in the mirror at my side and see those bulges on my back. Darker color shirts help conceal it too.

I wear these, the non-adhesive kind, once in a while. They work okay, great for when you just don't want to strap/bind your chest. They just need a bit of a wash after every few uses. I've had mine for a year and a half.

So I've seen these series of dresses get referenced on FFA a lot lately. I love them conceptually, but my style doesn't really line up with florals or too much boho. I'm really enamored with these dresses, though, and feel like that breezy aesthetic is something I could work with in the summer. (Usually being much more of a minimalistic, I-like-my-geometrics-and-hard-lines sort of gal.)

Has anyone come across a dress that they'd consider similar, albeit less high-femme?

This is my favorite bra. Bought it nearly 4 years ago, and I routinely wear it under my male clothes. Never been clocked for it other than by my wife when she's hugged me.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L5YLSQU?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

I think I ordered my first ones when I was about 3 months in. Things were just obvious enough that I figured I probably should, at least to keep things a little less...pointy-looking.

In fact, i still have those bras and still wear them. They're very comfy, and my only real complaint is that I wish they had a little padding, mostly to prevent them from bunching up a little on occasion. But they're still great options for you first bras, because they're "flexible" sizing (S/M/L instead of fitted sizes). They're the Hanes Convertible Seamless Wire-Free bras.

Honestly, I love running leggings, even for when I'm not exercising. Super comfortable and the most opaque I can find. Though they can get pretty expensive.

I also have these D&K fleece leggings http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B00F9RNVM8/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?qid=1451859243&sr=8-3&pi=SY200_QL40&keywords=thick+fleece+leggings&dpPl=1&dpID=31pwAmGX0JL&ref=plSrch which are really warm, comfy, and not see through at all. They started to pill after about the second wash so be wary of that, but I got mine for about $15

Enell makes, hands down, the best sports bra I've ever found for busty ladies, and I've tried many. It's not cute and it can be a bear to get on, but their high impact compression bra (amazon product link) is the only one that has ever worked for me. I never thought I could be a jogger because of my chest, but this one lets me! Well, it lets me try, anyway.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004S8MGGQ/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
I had this one and loved it!

If you have a little extra money, surprise her with a pump bra. It totally frees up your hands.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004S8MGGQ/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_qZKPyb8748841

There are cheaper ones, but this one works really well.

These undies are really comfy: Giftpocket Women's Under the Bump Maternity Panties Underwear, Pack of 5, Assorted Random Designs and Colors https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GCA3N82/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_BcLL4oVhAXbX5

Check out the reviews for sizing info. Also, PINK brand seamless undies are great too.

This thing is amazing. https://www.amazon.com/Rixie-Clip-Bra-Band-Tightener/dp/B00C9MMEEM it clamps onto one side of the back band, and then has a row of hooks for the other side to hook to. It can make it waaaaay smaller!

As a pregnant lady, under bump underwear:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01GCA3N82/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Y24WAbEY64X4B

It runs very small (I bought XL and am usually a M) but it's my favorite. I my own any "traditional" granny maternity underwear.

I'm going to try the Medela Support Band when running starts hurting. I've heard good things about it.

There's also this Prenatal Cradle that looks kinda intimidating but probably helpful.

Try Hains, or Calvin Klien here's another CK. Target also has some nice simple looking ones one, two, three, four, and there are a ton more just search their website for "bralette."

Bought these https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B001O482W4/ref=oh_aui_i_sh_in_o0_img?ie=UTF8&psc=1 4 years ago, same pair going strong.

> shallow/wide rooted (I'm not sure what the difference is between those,

Root width is about how far your tissue extends around your side/under your arms. It's relative to bra size - bigger band sizes have wider roots on average and larger cup sizes have wider roots on average.

Shallow breasts have a large base in respect to how far the tissue comes out from the chest wall, so they almost always have both wide roots and tall roots. Tall roots are where some of your tissue trails up from the main section of the breast and comes very close to the collarbones.

Is the Charlotte the 6901? (this one)

Well, I'm 6'0", so they'd be even bigger on you, but dunno what your preference is? I'll go check the details, I want to say they were 1000 or 1200 cc?

Edit: These are they: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01ENVOUIO/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It's grams, not cc, 2400g. Which may have been the issue, I thought it was 1200 each, but it was actually 2400 each?

I really like this bra for exactly that purpose--it fits my (fairly petite) frame, and doesn't "add much," if that makes sense.

When I was that band and cup size (38G/GG) I wore an Enell sports bra size 3. (I now wear the same one as a 34/36 G/GG in a 2). It's super effing ugly, but ZERO BOUNCE and that's really what I'm looking for for running and stuff.

Here's the Amazon link-
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0009JDYVO/ref=ox_sc_act_image_1?smid=A1TWB9WBLSXZWR&psc=1#

Don't know if you've seen/had any success with them, but several companies make front-close sports bras

I'm using this, which works great for the mostly hands-free double-sided pumping I'm doing. I sometimes stick my hand in and massage engorged areas, and that's pretty easy, but it's probably not the best choice if you want to do constant massage/compressions, since it's meant to be worn tight against your body.

Before this I was doing double-sided pumping just holding the flanges on, which is completely 100% for the birds, do not recommend ever.

Amazon has a ton of options: 1, 2, 3

They also have fuller ones for a-lines and ballgowns. I just searched "dress petticoat".

OP, since I was interested in these too but can’t shell out $2,000 for a poncho, I looked around on Amazon for similar ones. Here are a few links for items with similar vibes:

Futurino Women's Winter Boho Jacquard Plaid Hooded Poncho Cape Coverup OneSize Bronze

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01K7FQ5M4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_O-cRBbV596N21

Shineflow Womens Cardigan Batwing Hooded Casual Stylish Loose Coat Cape (Brown)

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B014O3GIGS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_k9cRBbVVDXEVH

Artka Women's Hoodie Embroidery Turn-down Collar Woolen Cape One Size Green

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F8A0C5U/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_Q.cRBbWVTWHCH

I have a brand new hands-free pumping bra (I take it back - it's a small) that I would be happy to mail to you. I got it right before my freakout/decision to stop pumping. It's this one and I've been looking for someone to give it to. Seriously. If you'd like it, PM me. (I keep editing this, but it's yours for free.)

Eeep. That is my worst fear! I do have these hand silicone [nipple cover things] (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001O482W4/ref=oh_details_o02_s00_i00?ie=UTF8&psc=1) but for some reason wearing the idea of wearing them in water doesn't make me feel at ease.

And the seams never seem to align for me. Le sigh.

I have worn these (https://www.amazon.com/Nippies-Reusable-Silicone-Pasties-NON-ADHESIVE/dp/B001O482W4) every day for about two years and love them. They are silicone and manage to stick to your skin without any adhesive. I am not sure if a ring would interfere with this sticking process at all, but I would think they would still work. Let me know if you end up trying them because I've considered getting this piercing.

It's the one in the middle in this pic:
http://i.imgur.com/kF8JALZ.jpg

And here's the Amazon link:
https://www.amazon.com/Natori-Womens-Feathers-Contour-Plunge-Bra/dp/B003MQMTZ8/ref=pd_sim_193_2?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B003MQMTZ8&pd_rd_r=YWF0XTDFR796DHHESXQJ&pd_rd_w=dn0W3&pd_rd_wg=C2TQ7&refRID=YWF0XTDFR796DHHESXQJ

Mine is the Natori Feathers. So comfortable. I wore it while I was pregnant and a size 32DDD(shallow) and then after for a little when I was nursing. Then my boobs and body shrank and I had to get rid of it. :(

I should get another one...

transmasc here -- I wore/wear this one all the time when I needed to not feel my chest. It's very thin and lightweight, good for smaller chests but if you've got particularly noticeable nips it might not hide them with a thin shirt (like those clingy super thin women's shirts). If that's an issue for you I'd look for a stretchy bralette with light padded inserts. TBH I fucking hated underwire and any scratchy material (lace, too many ribbons, etc).

Sports bras as hailed as they are for comfort actually aren't that comfortable when thing are sensitive :(

http://www.amazon.com/Hanes-Womens-Convertible-Gravel-Heather/dp/B00L5YLSQU?ie=UTF8&keywords=a%20cup%20bra&qid=1465490188&ref_=sr_1_1&sr=8-1

Here you go!

http://www.amazon.com/Parfait-Affinitas-Womens-Charlotte-Padded/dp/B00HJT5KN2

These are great

Having similar issue, be wearing some sports bra's and thought I need something less tight and one wearing now came in today. Fits fairly nice, I don't have much for breast, just keeping my nipples from rubbing.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00L5YLSQU/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&th=1

Also got a Calvin Klein Cotton Bralette, but have not worn that for more than a couple minutes, so can't vouch for it yet. (But the Calvin probably won't do too much to hide nipples if that's a concern as it seems thin, but the bra I linked In thin, but thick enough to hide nips.)

No, she's wearing those silicone pasties.

http://www.amazon.com/Nippies-Natural-Reusable-Waterproof-Silicone/dp/B001O482W4/ref=pd_sim_a_2

Found non-adhesive ones, sadly they are freaking expensive.

http://www.amazon.com/Nippies-Reusable-Silicone-Pasties-NON-ADHESIVE-/dp/B001O482W4/

If cotton liners are not your thing, not removing the cover on the sticky part of the adhesive nipple covers might also work.

I have a (sticky) Nu-Bra that I use to even out my asymetry, I never took off the cover and it works.

Not the person you asked but I have the same nipple protrusion problem. I don't think I'll ever be ok with my nipples poking out. Guys notice I hate the attention and don't like to stand out.

Anyway I use these non-adhesive silicone pasties:

Nippies Skin ORIGINAL Hypoallergenic Nipple Covers pasties. NO ADHESIVE CREME COLOR https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001O482W4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_pd0rzbJ8TYFFK

Hey, we're the same size! Can I ask you about sports bras? I'm a very petite long-distance runner (5'1, 105 pounds) so I bought Enell bras and sewed the straps a lot higher, really tight. Now my boobs don't bounce, but my shoulders and back HURT.