Reddit reviews: The best male masturbators

We found 540 Reddit comments discussing the best male masturbators. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 170 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the top 20.

Top Reddit comments about Sex Toys - Male Masturbators:

u/BGFlyingToaster · 3 pointsr/DrugsOver30

Thanks for posting that. It was a long read but enjoyable and I couldn't resist reading a few more of your posts as well. My wife and I have been to plenty of swingers parties but not since we started doing MDMA. We tend to either roll at home or head to an EDM (dance) club.

I have some tips for you and T and you can thank me later. For so many men, having an orgasm on MDMA though regular intercourse or oral is nearly impossible. However, I didn't see you mention anywhere that T tried giving you a handjob or that you tried any toys on you. So here's the tip. Play around as you might normally do. Really enjoy each other and take care of her. Sounds like you've got that nailed. Then, when you're ready to give an orgasm an earnest try, have her give you a handjob with some lube. I know that it may seem counterintuitive but you can get a lot more friction and better simultaneous sensations from her hands than anywhere else. Oral feels incredible and it's good for a warm-up but there just isn't enough friction to get the job done for a lot of guys.

Here the other tip and the key to actually cumming and not just turning the dial to 11 and getting frustrated. Have her go slowly at first and give proper attention to the boys and such, as any good handjob should do. I'm sure that T knows how to get things done. But she needs to resist going fast and trying to make you cum until your really ready. When you get to about 8/10ths of the way there, which is as far as much people can get without any real effort, then it's game time. Make sure that you're there, though. If you kick it into gear to early then you'll just exhaust yourself and probably her, too. The point is that you have to get to 8/10 without you expecting much effort. Trust me, you'll need your energy for the last push.

Once you're at 8/10 then let her know and you both start trying like you've never tried before. Have her tighten her grip and speed up. She can switch hands when needed. And you start pushing hard to get yourself there. I think technically it's your kegel middle that you're flexing but I'm sure that you know the one. During any normal sex, it's the muscle that will make you cum faster and also tightens your sphincter. You may need to hold your breath or at least shallow breathe during the most intense moments. I'm not entirely sure why reduced oxygen makes you cum faster but it sure. Just don't go overboard and like put a bag over your head or anything. While breath play may be ok under some circumstances, this isn't the time. If you like ass play then have her side a finger or vibrator in. You guys know what you like and it may take doing several at once to push you over the edge. If you both start the final push with most of your energy reserves full and are both committed to the end result, then you'll get there and it will be the most amazing orgasm that you've ever had.

For me personally, the more MDMA that I take, the tougher it gets for me to have an orgasm. But my wife and I are still batting 1000. After more than 30 rolls, I've been able to get there every single time. It's never easy, like it is without Molly. Sometimes I have to get her to kiss me while she gives me a handjob because that extra oral stimulus is just enough to make the difference between getting there and not. And when I say that we're batting 1000, I don't mean that we never fail. Many times, especially the first several rolls or when we've taken more than the usual (which is 140 / 75 for us), I've gotten to exhausted and we had to take a break. But we'd great for 3 - 5 mins, just cuddling and kissing and then we'd try again. My wife is a trooper and a very generous woman and she's been determined to get me there every time. And I swear, every single time I have a orgasm on Molly, it feels like the most incredible experience of my entire life, including all the ones before it.

Another way that this can work is with a very strong vibrator, the Hitachi Magic Wand. Get an attachment like this one: https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Vibes-Masturbator-Attachment-Massager/dp/B007FZVKQG. Put that on and slide it over your dick with some lube. Have her start on low and then move to high when you're at 8/10. Also if she holds the magic wand vertically, kind of pinning your dick to your stomach and pushes down with it on high, that should be enough to get most guys there. That puts the bulk of the vibration right on your frenulum. Again, you're going to have to push hard and she'll have to use that other hand to pay with the boys or whatever you like, but it's doable.

For me, a handjob is always best but the magic wand usually works, too, and it can give her hands a break. I hope this helps you guys enjoy your next roll even more and I'd love to hear if it works for you.

TL;DR: Try having T give you a handjob but wait until you're 8/10ths there to really push, then give it everything you got.

u/PrettyPinkT-Rexy · 11 pointsr/relationship_advice

One of my closest friends has this same issue with her husband and they've been married for 29 years and still struggle with this, because it really is a life long thing when you know you're with the partner you want to be with.

Here's some of the things she and I have discussed that have been effective for them:

  1. Lidocaine lubricant: you can typically get this online or at any sex shop and it's very effective. Often geared towards anal penetrative purposes, so it's long lasting and generally not sticky. You can purchase different strengths of it, up to .5% lidocaine over the counter I think, possible to get higher dosage from a doctor? I'm not sure, but certainly worth asking.

  2. Stretching is important, but strangely, vaginal exercise and kegels are equally important, because just as much as we learn to control tightening this way, we can learn to relax the muscles.

  3. It's actually fun to learn self fisting, it takes time, effort and some bravery, but over time, self fist penetration and large toy training will help her to control her muscular reaction and contraction when she is penetrated and help her naturally stretch the opening of her vagina to accept you with less discomfort.

  4. Toys. Are. Your. Friend.
    Things like torso sex dolls or even just a vaginal/anal sex "doll", could be good for you to just plow away on, while you pleasure her orally, finger her, use toys, maybe even get her something like the Sybian which she can use while you pound away on your toy, and feel each other's bodies, kiss, breast and nipple and clitoral stimulation, while yours both being fulfilled to orgasm without you causing her pain or her feeling guilty and neither of you being satisfied.

  5. Explore other sexual activities together, maybe even try your hand at light bondage, because a lot of fulfillment is built from the suspense and anticipation for each other.
u/That_Othr_Guy · 16 pointsr/BlackPeopleTwitter

fight fire with fire. I would like to introduce to you the:

Palmpower the rocking power of the hitachi in 1/3rd the size

Cobre Libre when you want that slow build up without any work

Octopuss pulse 3 for that immediate handsless satisfaction (look for version 1.0 if you dont need the extra bells and whistles)

The Fleshlight S.T.U. looking to live the greatest episode of Blue Mountain State, look no further

Vstroker with this trusty extention your fleshing days will never be the same. Combine the vibrating power of the Libre and Pulse to the stroking motion of the Fleshlight for the best of both worlds

Fleshlight Launch Do the sensations of the Vstroker appeal to you, but looking for a more hands-off solution? the launch with over 300 posssible movements, is the epitome of male self satisfaction. Able to simulate from the shallowest blows to the deepest thrusts, Just combine with your Fleshlight and expereince what the pornstars do. Even capable of simulation what is going on screen which means it is occulus compatible. VR porn has never been the same.

Forthose who extend their play below the staff, i bring to you:

The allpurpose glass dildo and or butt plugs easy to clean and easy to use. If youre upgrading from a finger this is the way to go. Even better, you can use it on that hoe of a pussy denying woman cause the only thing she deserves is the shit coming out of you.

A prostate massager for those days you just want to leave it in and dont worry about it. tis true, the gays truly know how to have fun 😊

Last but not least:

Storage box dont wanna keep everything in plain view, hide it in a locked storage box where these hoes cant judge you

Toy cleaner dont be nasty ya lil freak. keep your shit clean

these hoes have no power over me

u/freeshavocadew · 1 pointr/AskRedditAfterDark

I can't exactly recommend to another dude what is going to be the best experience out of any. I had to Google what "Nix and Lily" were, and I see they're Bad Dragon masturbatory things. Neither comes with any movement/vibration stimulation and Nix apparently has a stumpy tail to make it more difficult to fuck or something. These toys are $95 as well.

I don't know your budget, but it may be worth trying a couple of things out if you can afford to. Different stimulation may lead to different orgasms.

For straight thrusting and east of cleaning, I use this Fleshlight Quickshot. I bought the clear version and find it's one of the easiest to use I've ever had. Was less weird to clean than a regular Fleshlight and the like, plus easier to conceal if I want, it's close to the size of a coke can. Use water-based lube.

I have also found that I can cum from using vibrations on my dick, and I use a Hitachi Magic Wand and occasionally an accessory, placing it behind my head and flexing my prostate (imagine trying to flex/move your dick or stop peeing). The first time I did this, it surprised the fuck out of me and I came HARD. Ever since I've been chasing that dragon lol. I will add that due to my size, that accessory that goes all the way thru is difficult to fit into. I'm only a little over 6 inches long and taper from my base some, kind of thick there. With a lot of patience and lube, I can just barely fit into the sleeve, it doesn't have much give. You, based on what you mention in your post and most guys probably will be able to comfortably fit into it. The vibrations are no joke, though. I went from using my hand, having the occasional partner but not one at the time, to this and it was a whole other level. I couldn't use a cock ring like I do regularly, I'd only barely be able to get my head into that sleeve and almost cry due to those bumps inside the sleeve. If you can, try it out though. You should fit and it may fuck your whole deal up. No one's going to see you for like 2 days.

I might also suggest getting some cock rings. If you've never used any before, go with silicone to start. Wood and metal are great, but not recommended for beginners. Silicone ones will stretch and wont get stuck. I recommend staying away from any that say "jelly" in the title, those are terrible and will break before long in most cases. I use the brand name Tom of Finland which was recommended by a gay friend. Definitely not exclusive to gay men, it's just a well made set of rings. I have found most of those cheap ones with the little bullet sized vibes on them break easily. The lasso-style may work as well, there's more adjust-ability at the cost of possibly pinching initially. A little practice and it gets easier. If you want to give metal ones a try, I recommend these as a set of 3. I find the smallest one is nice to use just behind my head. It can slide off easier, so don't have sex with one just behind your head!

If you occasionally like conversation, back rubs, bonding, and challenges - you can always try to find someone willing to play with your dick for you. Some prefer that, others can prefer masturbation.

u/Grand_Gamer · 3 pointsr/AskMenOver30

Sorry for the wall of text. Short answer:

I disagree with you emphatically. Many women can get off with manual stimulation alone, without penetration, so there's not a hell of a lot of reason for them to buy sex toys. But they do, because they're fun, and so do I, because they're fun.


Long answer:

I'm a married man, so I can get sex every day and good sex at least once a week. But I like toys a lot. For one thing, I really prefer hip-thrusting into a stationary target more than jerking off. I find it makes me angry to hear people calling them "pocket pussies". Real sex has a lot of advantages, but the feel of a good sex toy is better than most vaginal sex. The only time I really gave up using sex toys most days was during my first marriage when we were fucking twice a day.

Vibrators do absolutely nothing for me, but your mileage will surely vary. I hate it when Adam and Eve throws in cheap vibrators as if they're doing me a favor.

I've been improvising my own sex toys since high school and I've tried a variety of different commercial products. Simplest: A sheet of plastic wrap around two sheets of foam rubber stuck between a mattress and box springs. Frankly, sticking any masturbation sleeve in that opening makes it more fun.

Here's my harsh review of almost all of the commercial products: I melted them down. I'm probably going to kill myself with some toxic out-gassing that way. Don't try it. A home oven at 325F seems to melt most toys slowly without burning them, but the elastomers boil away, so it smells nasty and they end up less stretchy afterward. Less "fleshlike". But just as fuckable. A simple slab of rubber makes a pretty good, pretty versatile toy. It also makes a good starting point to make more complex shapes. Add a soldering iron and you can sculpture your own fuckable art. But don't. This shit is dangerous.

So instead, try and buy a good toy. I don't know why no one sells a simple rubber slab. 8"x15"x1/4" is about right. If you feel like it's too plain to sell, add some fucking ridges. Seriously, it's not complicated. That way idiots like me won't try to make their own.

There is one commercial sex toy I've enjoyed. It's a flesh light and I've linked it below. I'll warn you that Fleshlights are expensive for a reason. They're ridiculously huge! For hands-free fucking, I want a concave opening to guide me back into the hole. That led me to the Fleshlight Anal opening, because it has a nice dish shape around the hole. Trouble is, that hole is about 100x tighter than any real anal sex is. I loosened it with the soldering iron and it can still leave me numb if I'm in it for any length of time. The first time used the anal fleshlight, I fell asleep with my dick in it. I thought I'd lost penis. Do not attempt!

It turns out, the blue alien Fleshlight has a great opening and great texture. Just don't look at it while you're fucking it. (Unless a blue alien vagina is your thing, I guess? I don't use it for looks.) Also, it's a large diameter opening, and some of the nice interior features are deep down the hole, so if you're not well-equipped, go with something else. It works great for me.

I don't like the Fleshlight canisters at all. Yes, they can form a vacuum, (which feels nice,) but they add another thing to clean and they tend to slide all over the place unless you hold them down. They also make it noisier to use, so if you've got roommates or a spouse, you probably won't use the canister.

u/McLuhanSaidItFirst · 0 pointsr/RedPillWomen

If small size is a concern:

Size matters in a way. Karezza makes it irrelevant to a certain extent but more size is always nice for you both.

pegym.com has an overview of the effective exercises for increasing girth and length of the Hammer of Love. The operation is a dangerous waste of money because the gains are limited and exercises work better; there's almost no limit... some guys have gotten huge over the years, pills and lotions are completely ineffective.

the exercises at pegym.com also increase the quality of the erection and health of the penis (as long as he doesn't overtrain and try to go too far too fast).

Every guy on that site that has successfully increased his size, especially girth, says that his wife won't leave him alone.

Also, karezza is super-effective at increasing sexual satisfaction and compensates for smaller size and lower erectile quality. She's got a great book, too.

For premature ejaculation, a trainer like this Tenga can help him get used to the sensations without going over the edge.

And there is nothing "Creepy and weird" about you discussing this with your friends. It's great that they want to open up to you and get help. FFS please no shaming about sex.

u/notoneofyourfans · 2 pointsr/sex

If price is no object, I would go with the Fleshlight Mini Lotus. For about $80, you get the most realistic feeling toy I have ever felt. Warm that baby in a sink of hot water for about 10 minutes before use and it feels amazingly like a real vagina. Word to the wise: I would not get the anal opening one if you are circumcised. It always get caught on my foreskin and doesn't move right no matter how much lube I use (buy water based lube for ALL these toys). Right now they are actually running a promo where you can get three sleeves for the price of two. Cleaning on Fleshlights is not the easiest. You have to run water through them. My next thing is to towel dry them and put the caps on loosely so they dry. Then cornstarch them the next day. Another option that is much more cheap is the Tenga 3d. I LOVE the spiral version though there are about 4 or 5 different textures. Turn it inside out to feel excellent texture and then again for cleaning. The in between as to price and easiest to clean is the Tenga Flip Hole Black. It flips wide open for easy cleaning. But if your penis is more than 5.5" around or 8 inches long, you may find it a bit tight. The feeling, though is otherworldly. Feels absolutely NOTHING like a vagina, but in this case that is actually a good thing, haha. Good luck and I hope your wife gets better soon. She may actually like to use these with you when she feels better.

u/holybatjunk · 5 pointsr/Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

Hi! I am your friendly neighborhood male sex toy recommendation maker. /waves

I know this sounds like bullshit, but it largely depends on what you're into. If you're into kink or bondage stuff at all, congrats! That's easy! Add some restraints or ropes to your list, or collars and floggers. Nipple clamps! Whether you'd want these used on yourself or on a partner, they can be great fun!

Moving on to other things, they do sell fleshlights on amazon.

The basic, classic model is fairly reasonably priced: http://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-Original-Male-Masturbator-Pink/dp/B0026P3P7M/

While this awesome alien blue thing is pricier, but cool looking: http://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-FL6885-Alien-Male-Masturbator/dp/B004BNE1JI

But there are also sleeves that are similar products for less money, like this doc Johnson for less than ten bucks: http://www.amazon.com/Doc-Johnson-Super-Sucker-Masturbator/dp/B002X78EYC/

There's always also the option of buying fun lube or condom variants, just to be ready for ~the future~ when you are not single. Amazon seriously sells everything. Maybe something like a guidebook to sexy knots, or some of those sexual position dice?


Go wild and explore! It's a WISHlist, after all, and not everything you put on there has to be practical. Click around and see what seems interesting to you!

Although, personally, if I were a dude I'd have stuck my dick in the alien thing already.

u/fingersontheknurling · 1 pointr/fleshlight

You could've gotten a pink mini-lotus and case from the official site for 60 bucks.


and case


I did see free shipping on Amazon. I'm a stickler for free shipping myself, but I think would've been about 7 bucks tops for the basic shipping.

You'd definitely get a real one on Amazon as long as you got it from the official store


Notice who it says it's sold by? Shipped by Amazon? Didn't see that coming.

Obsession is a good sleeve. The further you can reach into the back of it, the better. The choices for the buy 2 get 1 free deal are limited, though, and don't include that one.


Avoid the original and super tight in any future purchases though.

Welcome to the pervert family.

u/HeavenPiercingDrill · 0 pointsr/bigdickproblems

Dunno about fleshlights but I had a Tenga Black a few years back, which worked great. Like Decxx said you'll probably loosen the fleshlight out after a couple times, and that happens with every toy I've known.

The thing about the Tenga Black is that you can squeeze it directly with your hand, so as long as you put in effort it'll never go loose.
Here's anamazon page for one: https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-THF002-Flip-Hole-Black/dp/B002L16IRA

They also got some youtube videos that'll make you giddy to watch. I got mine for $50, so if you want one lower than this amazon price you gotta search around for 10 mins but you'll find it. The size measurements are 8 inches + the mound at the tip, so you'll be good there. TBH dude I think your girth will cause some issues with the entrance like mine did but look past it and it's a great tool.

To give you an idea about how good it feels, I've never cum in any of my gfs (thanks to hellish italian stamina and+ circumcision) but this thing reliably did.

What do you think dude?

u/multiple_o · 2 pointsr/SexToys

I have two attachments. I forget what one of them is called, but it is similar to this one. That's the one that is so intense I can barely last. Granted, as I said above, I haven't used it while using the dimmer, so I might enjoy it more with that.

I've also used it by itself with no attachment. I find that it feels amazing at first but after a while I just go numb and don't feel much. I still orgasm pretty quickly (2-3 minutes) but the way there isn't that great, and neither is the orgasm.

Lastly, I have the gee-whiz attachment (for prostate). I have two problems with that one. The first, is the same as above. It feels great, and I mean great (the best feeling I've felt, really), for about 15 seconds. After that I kind of go numb. I'm unable to get prostate orgasms with this attachment, and I've tried a few times (I also have no problem having prostate orgasms). The second problem is that it's too limp, so if I start contracting my butt, it gets easily pushed out. I hope I'll eventually get the hang of it.

All in all, if I could have my money back for these 3 pieces, I'd take it. Now that I have it, I'll try and experiment and find ways to make it work.

Hope that helps.

u/MerryFrolics · 1 pointr/SexToys

The best deals on men's sex toys this week are:


  • Fleshlight Original Pink Lady is $46.84 on Amazon (sold by ILF, the official Fleshlight company).
  • Fleshlight Ice Clear Crystal Lady is $41.45 on Amazon (sold by ILF, the official Fleshlight company).
  • VStroker has some big deals: VStroker is $39.95, Fleshlight Vortex with VStroker is $69.95, and Fleshlight STU with VStroker is $79.95.​


  • Fleshlight has specials on Fleshlight Girls combos, compact models, STU, and Alien.
  • Lovehoney has a 2-butt-plugs-for-$25 deal and students get 20% off everything (these deals work only through the links on my blog).
  • PinkCherry has 25% off everything with coupon code PINK25 + they have a huge blowout department with masturbation sleeves, butt plugs, prostate massagers, cock rings, lubes, and condoms.
  • Fleshjack has Collector's Corner products 40% off, and Jake Orion products are 25% off.
  • Tantus has new and improved Ryder butt plug 15% off with coupon code RYDER.
  • Shevibe has 15% off Fuze sex toys.

    You can find the complete list of all deals on my blog.


u/JoeMarron · 3 pointsr/bigdickproblems

Sex is clearly better but from a purely physical standpoint this pretty much feels as good as a real vagina IMO http://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4/ref=sr_1_2?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1420941734&sr=1-2&keywords=tenga+3d. There's no need to warm it up, just pour some lube in and you're good to go. I don't even bother to clean it immediately after. It's fine just sitting around until you feel like cleaning it and when you do it takes a couple minutes at the most. I've never had consistent sex without a condom however so take my opinion with a grain of salt.

u/mildlyincoherent · 3 pointsr/sex

If you get a clear one you can watch him, which some girls get turned on by. If you get one without the hard case you'll be able to grip him with your hand, which you might have fun with. There's also a ton of knock off ones for pretty cheap (e.g. https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B00190LIII/ is super cheap and feels pretty good).

u/ruduki2 · 2 pointsr/onaholes

Amazon's selection isn't great and $26 isn't a lot.

$26 would go farther on toydemon.com for example.

Seriously looking through the page it's like just big name brands like Fleshlight and Pocket Pussy, and then weird no-name Chinese brands.

I have one of these and it's adequate. It's very easy to clean, it's got a good simple texture, but it's not as soft as my other toys so I don't use it much anymore (but if you like them kind of firm, then it's not a bad choice)

And there a bunch like this one or this one that don't have a real name, just a list of keywords meant to trigger in a search, that... are probably softer than the pocket pussy I linked.

I dunno, if you had a "normal" purchase you could make on Amazon, and then justify spending your $26 at ToyDemon you could get like this one or this one (I have this one it's good)

u/hubby_throw_away · 8 pointsr/MGTOW

I highly recommend Tenga 3d sleeves, https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4

They are super soft, very easy to clean, they provide additional exciting sensations that you can't get with a doll or a woman (rotation is awesome, for example), and very inexpensive.

If you're undecided, try a Tenga Egg first, it's just 6$.

u/haltbro · 0 pointsr/SexToys

check this out: http://www.amazon.com/Sensuelle-Homme-Rechargeable-Prostate-Massager/dp/B00IYRX0NA/ref=lh_ni_t?ie=UTF8&psc=1&smid=A2I62GM5EJ7ZAQ

amazon has it cheaper (50% cheaper) than anyone else. i recently purchased one a few months ago. i was skeptical due to the low price and getting a fake product, but i was able to contact the seller and they assured me it was 100% legit. it's a great product and i love it. it's kinda like the revo2. i dont have a revo2 so i can't compare but there are some people that have both and have written reviews and comparisons.

u/k9moonmoon · 1 pointr/news

I support the use of penile masturbating aid to help any man relieve himself sexually that wants to, and think they should be just as acceptable socially as gynological masturbating aids.

If you don't want the social aspect of sexual contact with another person, more power to you and your choice of healthy sexual outlets.

The Tenga Spiral seems a good choice in my experience with male partners.

Tenga 3d Sleeve - Spiral for Male Masturbation https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005C2NUY4/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_q6IbAbNZGNFHK

u/pickles12341 · 3 pointsr/askgaybros

I'm totes strait and found this on random...man do I love the toys though.

I own one of these. It doesn't even resemble a vagina and super easy to clean: http://www.amazon.com/Tenga-THF001-Flip-Hole-White/dp/B0017PEH6A

u/VelvetElvis · 19 pointsr/SubredditDrama

I'd totally own up to it if I'd bought it myself. Frankly the $8 Doc Johnson tube which I did buy myself is better and much easier to clean, with emphasis on the much easier to clean.


u/Trottock · 2 pointsr/SexToys

I was really happy with my Tenga 3D Spiral.

It was pretty easy to clean and held up really well until I heated it a little too much -_-

I replaced it with the Tenga 3D Polygon, which was also good, but the texture on the Spiral was better.

u/takes_a_cigarette · 3 pointsr/SexToys

Try this for the same price range. Great product, looks cool, feels better. Doc Johnson's look like redesigns of the strokers that have been around forever.
You can buy it somewhere besides Amazon if you want.

u/account4mischief · 1 pointr/masturbation

This is just slightly above your price at $27.95 (USD), but I would highly recommend it:
Fleshlight The Quickshot Vantage Adult Male Sex Toy Masturbator, Clear https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0161NZJVY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_dXwxyb64HC4V3
The open design makes for easier cleanup, imo. It's also durable if cared for properly. My only warning is: if your girth is 5.5" or more, it may make the sleeve too tight to use properly. So take a moment to measure if you don't know!

u/t6394 · 4 pointsr/smalldickproblems


If you are able to buy this it would help with both the size issue and the skin tightness. My girth is about yours and it works well for me. I can use it the normal way or roll it onto itself (so that it is half the length and twice the thickness) and this way it is actually a little tight. Its slightly better then my hand and well worth the 8 bucks for it.

u/PopcornandPorn · 8 pointsr/TopsAndBottoms

Ok , so you're young and tight, he's young and excited. First have him do more foreplay on you to loosen you up a bit. Two make sure you're using lube, spit is all well and good but the friction on the glands will make him cum quicker. Three you take control, ride him and control the pace. Four when sucking him or jerking him focus on his head, it will get him used to the overwhelming feeling of being inside you. Five. look at getting him a masturbator it will desensitize his glands which will automatically make him last longer, plus they're relatively cheap. https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/ya?ac=bia&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_bia_item&reorder_params=B0010EI2HI%2C115-6199646-6184207



Enjoy yourselves. This type of relationship is few and far between.

u/Boofster · 2 pointsr/sex

Agreed. Tenga is win.

It will make you cum buckets in minutes, no matter how good your regular stamina is :)


u/SexThrowawayKappa · 2 pointsr/sex

I bought three or four cheaper ones years ago regretted it. The fleshlight was infinitely better than all 3. I'm getting a tenga flip with my amazon gift cards this time around. My wife and I have been buying sex toys for years and own several vibrators around that price around $100, the Hitachi magic wand (cordless) and two lelo vibes as well as a few expensive plugs. It's been my experience that it's better to splurge if you can. Since you're gonna buy all 3 i'd suggest just getting something much better as with the cheaper ones there won't be much of a difference, at least in my experience.

u/ThisGuyCantReddit · 3 pointsr/Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

I want this...thing to stick my penis in.

You know, for the reason of sticking my penis in things that feel good, that's always fun. But I can always use it to hold my pens and markers and junk.

Do I get super mega extra points for turning a pervertable item into a non-pervertable item?

u/Indras1 · 1 pointr/sex

I hope I'm not the only one that got nauseated just reading the title!

Now, this is going to sound weird, but I think I have a solution. Talk to your doctor and see if it is just specifically friction that you have to avoid, or if you can masturbate via vibration.

If you've never tried it, you might not think that it will work. My wife bought one of these so that she can use her Hitachi Magic Wand on me. The feeling is definitely different, but very satisfying.

If you get the green light for vibration, any old vibrator held against the shaft for a while will let you masturbate without friction, or even touching the area near the head while it heals.

u/NotJohnHolmes · 1 pointr/SexToys

There's a jelly attachment for the wand with a sleeve on it that I've been curious about myself. I'd be interested to hear from anyone who owns one whether they like i or not. Using it seems like it would be kind of awkward...

u/my_own_tossaway · 4 pointsr/sex

I really like this one:


I like that it does not have a closed end. I makes clean up a lot easier after cumming.

u/k9centipede · 2 pointsr/relationships

Get a male sex toy. I recommend this one http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B005C2NUY4/ref=redir_mdp_mobile/279-3140023-6878125

You currently have way too much baggage with sex. A male sex toy will give you enough distance from the acts to not feel so pressured or overwelned and the new sensations of the toy will help him still orgasm.

You need to take the pressure off sex. And practice having your boundaries respected.

Get a safe word. And practice using it with him. Not even during sex. But any time. Tell him to touch your arm while watching tv and then ou say the safe word and have him stop.

u/Sidney5101 · 4 pointsr/sex

I very much enjoy This Toy, granted it's marketed for women and designed for the G spot. They have a "male" version Here.

Beyond that, I'll parrot that the Aneros Series toys are great.

u/slavicjew · 1 pointr/bigdickproblems

This is what I use: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B017B5LLNG/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

It's $20 and worth every penny. It's not as good as the real thing, but a lot better than just your hand.

u/[deleted] · 1 pointr/sex

Do you masturbate with your hands and with no lube? When I switched from by-hand to pocket pussy + lube, the intensity was off the charts. With your hand you can only stimulate the bottom of the penis with four fingers and the top with just your thumb. A pocket pussy or stroker has >20 ribs that go all the way around. Closed ended male masturbators also give you added suction (for Open Ended masturbators simply put your thumb over the ending). Another thing that helps intensify orgasms is tensing up your core muscles by thrusting. After your ejaculate, all the tension will melt away as the muscles relax. Consider buying a larger masturbator that can be humped. If you have the spare money, I highly recommend this one.

u/ExGavalonnj · 1 pointr/bigdickproblems

It lasted probably 4 months, I might have lasted longer but I threw it out when I graduated. I think this was it: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B017B5LLNG/ref=mp_s_a_1_19_s_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1524353515&sr=1-19&keywords=fleshlight
It was better than using your hand, but it required lube and effort to keep it clean/dry so I probably wouldn't get one again due to the hastel.

u/wollaawollaa · 2 pointsr/askgaybros

I bought one of these in 2017 and still use it sometimes. Feels pretty damn good. The lips aren’t pink like in the picture either if that matters to you lol

u/VaginalKnives · 1 pointr/sex

Sorry about that! They have designed a larger one-use product as well. I don't know if it actually has a larger entrance than the Flip Hole.


One guy had trouble with the Flip Hole until he used a lot of lube on it. Apparently it needs more lube than a Fleshlight.

I hope you can enjoy it anyway! Maybe over time it will get easier to enter.

u/HerKinkyLord · 4 pointsr/sex

I don't feel you need to abstain completely.

Use a toy, [this thing]( https://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-Quickshot-Vantage-Adult-Masturbator/dp/B0161NZJVY/ref=sr_1_1?fap=1&keywords=fleshlight%2Bquickshot&qid=1563843735&s=hpc&sr=1-1&th=1 ) is pretty amazing. Try jerkin without any external influences. Use your imaginaaaaation.

u/ddwood13 · 1 pointr/Random_Acts_Of_Amazon
  1. How the what in where?!?!?!?
  2. Would like to try this just to see if it enhances anything, makes it easier/more enjoyable.
  3. Kinda odd but I'd try I guess. Never thought of electro therapy could be used for sex. I used it in college in our training room to help loosen up but never thought of it as sexual.
  4. This is my selfish part talking, the wife could...help and assist :)
  5. Birthday tiara, every birthday girl needs one
u/hannioil · 1 pointr/SexToys

I've got one of these (not exactly this though but looks the same) and I'm surprised how well it works: https://www.amazon.com/Masturbator-Massage-Attachment-Hitachi-Massager/dp/B007FZVKQG
You'd need something to remote control the magic wand, like a remote controlable socket.

u/buttercup_mauler · 5 pointsr/sex

I got my SO the tenga 3d spiral and we use it together and we both love it! We were both a little put off from the "vagina" look of many other fleshlights and such, but the tenga is pretty neutral in the visual department.

u/silive · 3 pointsr/MGTOW

Get something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Male-Masturbation-Masturbator-Toys/dp/B017B5LLNG/ref=pd_sbs_121_3?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B017B5LLNG&pd_rd_r=9SQ6MWYRWE5CXABVZW38&pd_rd_w=xV4YQ&pd_rd_wg=SznKh&refRID=9SQ6MWYRWE5CXABVZW38&th=1
As far as a full-sized doll is concerned, it would be nice to sleep against a soft pliant body at night but I do not think $2K will be worth it when you can get some huge teddy bear or something for hundred bucks if that's you thing....

u/limetastic · 2 pointsr/sexover30

I bought one for my partner and he said it was an intense and interesting sensation. He liked it well enough that we upgraded to one that's much less disposable: http://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4/

u/furmensakume · 2 pointsr/MGTOW
  • I'm a virgin
  • I'm 18
  • I'm not like other girls
  • Met her at a single's bar
  • Asks you to buy her a drink
  • Disinterested in you until you pull out your wallet
  • Talking about her ex
  • Compliments your height
  • She's hanging around old, short, fat and ugly
  • Tells you she's on the pill
  • Tells you she's already pregnant so no need for protection
  • Tells you she's only been with one other guy
  • Is a female biological organism of the human species
  • Is still warm, alive and breathing
  • Has a vagina

    That's my list of red flags. You really want to get off?


    Invest in something that's not going to fuck your life up. I recommend lubricant's that aren't water based.
u/throwawayhairy89 · 1 pointr/sex

Something like this

I have that one, and it feels great.

u/blaklwyr13 · 1 pointr/sexover30

I've heard good things about the 3D line. I initially thought about a Fleshlight, and someone here mentioned that the Tenga offerings provided the same pleasure with more options at budget-friendlier prices. Amazon has a 3D Spiral (https://www.amazon.com/Tenga-3d-Sleeve-Spiral-Masturbation/dp/B005C2NUY4?th=1) for about $25...just slightly more than K-Y Yours and Mine.

Of course, I'm open to other ideas; we don't have the open space in our house for a full Liberator setup, or the space to hide it from our kids. <laugh>

u/smutblr · 1 pointr/BDSMcommunity

You can get all of that from Amazon or AliExpress. For hitachi attachments, I have a sleeve and a cup, and my guy prefers the former. There are also hitachi attachments that can be used for anal, if that's what you're into. I got this package, but I'm sure you could buy everything separately. Be careful of friction burns if you're using an uncovered hitachi head on sensitive areas!

u/anon_sexyacct · 1 pointr/SexToys

I have and really enjoy the doc Johnson "the tube"


It's a simple setup and is easy to clean since it does not have a closed tip. The sensations with it are great, but I can't last too long using it w/o cumming.

u/SirCook3141 · 1 pointr/starterpacks

Guys.... man hands, lotion, and tissues? Do your dicks a favor and buy these...

Doc Johnson Sasha Grey - ULTRASKYN - Deep Throat Pocket Pal - Close-Ended Stroker - Creates Natural Suction https://www.amazon.com/dp/B005QEP6TK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_OHCTDbNNFDD46

Shibari Personal Lubricant - Water Based 8oz Bottle https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00G5K7L24/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_-ICTDb3T25405

u/Prostateluv · 1 pointr/ProstatePlay

This is my absolute favorite toy. It can break after a few uses, but I emailed sensuelle and they send me two replacements free of charge


u/SingleChain · 1 pointr/SexToys

They come in many shapes, sizes and colours. You'd be very surprised 😅
Of course, there are ones that have a more "realistic" look to them. If that's something you're looking for.
Maybe something like this?


u/ABC_Florida · 2 pointsr/sex

Amazon has it for $80. That's supposedly the most stimulating. So it's good for practice.

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u/Cipherx02 · 1 pointr/KotakuInAction

Honestly if you're bored or need a quick laugh look at reviews on sex products some of the funniest shit I have read in a while.

example 1

Example 2

Example 3

u/SittingWonderDuck · 13 pointsr/offlineTV

For everyone that is wonderful what a Tenga is, it's a brand that sells Japanese sex toys for men ranging


Here is an example:

Tenga Original Vacuum Cup https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000V1OPYA/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_awo8AbYPH7KG2

u/foxflyfuckery · 12 pointsr/NSFWFunny

I took this picture from another site, so I didn't have the link, but gorramit I'm not a quitter, so I found you the original. However, it's unavailable. So I found one that is.



u/fuck_keanu_reeves · 5 pointsr/AskReddit

I like this much better than the Fleshlight

u/Mr-Grim- · 4 pointsr/fleshlighters

Male Masturbator https://www.amazon.com/dp/B079HTCFQS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_D8syb7k27sXuB

I just got a new one I haven’t tried yet but it looks super similar. Kinda hesitant to post it because of that

u/xXKILLA_D21Xx · 15 pointsr/TrollYChromosome

Got myself a Tenga Flip Hole Black (the insides are actually very, very soft considering how it looks lol). Used it for the first time yesterday, and things got...messy to say the least. Felt pretty good but was a bit underwhelmed (likely used WAY too much lube) given all the rave reviews it got. Tried it again this morning while the morning wood was still going strong and it felt much better. Just realized I'd been using the thing wrong a bit wrong, apparently there's a clip you're supposed to snap onto it to lock it in place to keep it from opening so I'm going to try it again later after I get out of class.

EDIT: Yup so it was the lube, I used way more than I should have the first time I used it. Having the clip on it this definitely helped a lot (especially keeping things cleaner). But goddamn that thing felt amazing.

u/DogShitIsOnMyDick · 1 pointr/steroids
  1. For me it helps to jerk off before meeting a chick.
    2.You could also try the Fleshlight Stamina unit. https://www.amazon.de/Fleshlight-diskreter-Masturbator-Stamina-Textur-realistischem/dp/B002SQJIXO
  2. Condoms with Lidocaine also help a lot or just lidocaine cream http://www.trojanbrands.com/en/condoms/TROJAN-Extended-Condoms-with-Climax-Control-Lubricant
u/TDW2405 · 2 pointsr/asktransgender

I've heard good things about this magic wand attachment or a variation there of.


u/sunshineBillie · 1 pointr/asktransgender

The video that I saw it put to use in showed the man ejaculating twice in one session, so I mean. That seems like a decent marketing campaign to me. If you're curious:

Cock sleeve extraordinaire!

u/erikalynae · 2 pointsr/SexToys

That toy isn’t electronic and doesn’t take any batteries.

(Normally I’d also warn you against buying sex toys on Amazon because counterfeit toys and mislabeled/unsafe materials are incredibly common there, but in this case that particular product listing is from ILF/Fleshlight themselves and I don’t think they commingle their inventory so it should be safe. But it is something to be aware of in general.)

u/beattheaudio · 3 pointsr/gaybros

Tenga Fliphole Black lasts years, works well, cleans easy, drys out in under an hour depending on humidity of the room. Several different versions available. It's also much less bulky.

u/KaiserDragon · 2 pointsr/WTF


And it is just one, the picture is from a 100pack and they misused it.
I am sure you can get something free from amazon when you complain.

u/RetroEvolute · 17 pointsr/WTF

Found the real page:

P.S. Make sure to log out of amazon before clicking. It'll go into your browsing history and you'll get amazon emails about fucking alien vaginas.

u/PM_me_yo__BOOBIES · 1 pointr/sex

The Egg is actually a 1 use thing, if you didn't know. If that's all you're looking for, then I think that the Wavy, the Twister, or the Thunder look best.

If you're looking for more than just a 1 use thing, then I'd recommend maybe one of these:




Or if you want something similar but not from Tenga, I personally have used this one: http://www.amazon.com/FunZone-1600152-Vulcan-Love-Skin-Masturbator-Wet-Vagina-Vibe/dp/B005NN2FV6/ref=pd_sim_121_5?ie=UTF8&dpID=31qlFd9yzJL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL160_SR86%2C160_&refRID=05E573Z3WA40QVZNKXNG

The cool think about this is that it comes with a vibrator. While the vibrator doesn't do much for the male (or at least, for me), you can steal it from him and use it yourself.

The durability on all of these won't be great. They're not meant to last forever, but they'll last you more than one use that's for sure

u/alexpsyched · 1 pointr/AskReddit

I was gonna suggest a fleshlight but then I saw that you are married, so I'll definitely recommend you investing in one to last the long haul.

u/Mister217 · 1 pointr/SexToys

The Flip Hole Black does have some similarities to a blowjob actually. It actually does feel like 10 tongues are sucking on you. It's a very intense experience though. I can barely move this thing when I'm coming, it's really that intense.

u/ri-no · 2 pointsr/asktransgender

As far as attachments, you could try something like this.

u/Gneo · 5 pointsr/ShitpostXIV

true except with this (link is to an NSFW Amazon item)

u/qdot76367 · 3 pointsr/fleshlight

Interesting idea! You might want to check out some of the sleeves made for the magic wand too, they're slightly less work (and also $11 so really how can you go wrong):


u/grendal1987 · -17 pointsr/gentlemanboners

Woah! There is a person connected to that "piece of ass."

Unless you're just into disembodied asses then I'm sorry. You should know there are pretty unique sex toys specifically for you.

u/sterwhey_2_heaven · 7 pointsr/steroids

I got this one and it feels pretty good. It's supposed to be tighter than the other ones but I haven't tried any other ones so I have nothing to compare it to.

u/beyondomega · 1 pointr/sex

maybe try getting something like this and practicing with a condom etc?

failing that though.. it could be the unusual experience of wearing the condom in general. Try putting it on and just keep playing with foreplay etc. don't worry about penetration that time or the next

practice with it on, get used to it. don't think about having sex or whats 'next'. let her do it. take control maybe. lay back.. let her do everything.. you can't touch her while she teases and controls everything about things.

hope it helps!

u/Long_Dick_Guru · 1 pointr/promos

The best gift I ever received ?

Well it must have been on my 19th birthday, as I was entering my house after a long day at work I saw all of my friends, family, and my girlfriend at my house to surprise me.

My girlfriend managed to give me the best gift I've got up to that point.
Her head game is on point.

Edit: Almost forgot what I wanted, I know I don't really need it but I'm just a greedy bastard


u/Kalsiddon1 · 2 pointsr/adultvrgames

A better choice IMO would be to get one of these paired with sitting down VR porn.

u/Here_to_say_Dumbshit · 76 pointsr/todayilearned

"Originally and totally worth $49.99. On sale for $29.99.“

$12.99 on Amazon and eligible for Prime shipping. http://www.amazon.com/Sue-Johanson-Super-Head-Honcho/dp/B00190LIII

u/aqswdefrgthzjukilo · 1 pointr/sex

Not so much, i'd recommend one of these Tenga products.

u/SlippinJamesMcgill · 1 pointr/LegalAdviceUK


Lol something like this? I’d buy it but I feel as thought it’s more of a novelty item and I’d rather buy a pornstar’s real flesh light due to the higher quality.

u/rayne117 · 14 pointsr/pawg

jesus man at least start the guy off with a replica fleshlight for 1/3rd the price before you get him buying life sized dolls. plus there's VR to experiment with too. there's a lot of ways to get a sex like experience nowadays. plus you can just fly to las vegas, drive 60 miles to the county where legal brothels are allowed and pay $400-500~ for some sexxx

u/likebudda · 7 pointsr/funny

Tenga Flip Hole is like a jungle gym for your peen.

u/bigchastity · 1 pointr/chastity

May I recommend you spend $50 on the Sensuelle Homme Pro

If anal orgasm is your goal, that is the toy that will do it.

u/Rebel_Porcupine · 1 pointr/AMA

Well, for when the sex isn't available, you might want to know about this: https://www.amazon.com/Fleshlight-Original-Classic-Smooth-Texture/dp/B0026P3P7M

u/Fumonaut · 1 pointr/fleshlight

It says (Sold through: Amazon EU S.a.r.L) when I look it up in my amazon purchase history. This is the link

u/SaltedCocks · 1 pointr/starcraft

Now is my chance to earn a reddit checkmark! Keep an eye out for my blog on the Tenga Soft Tube U.S. Deep Throat Cup, Ultra.

u/This_User_Said · 193 pointsr/TumblrInAction

Plush alien facehugger $24.99

Scotchgard $10.99

Alien Fleshlight $73.88

Not letting your dreams be dreams, priceless.

u/hydraloo · 29 pointsr/NoStupidQuestions

Nervous laughs? Perhaps you are ashamed of who we are. Be proud my friend. Nsfw-ish

Edit: goddamn i gave the Canadian link...

u/bobthebobofbob · 40 pointsr/videos

Here is just the attachment or here is the attachment+wand.

u/ppp_qqq · 1 pointr/RedditorCum

Doc Johnson The Tube Not sure how durable it's going to end up being, but for $9 worth every penny

u/LordBork · 2 pointsr/badwomensanatomy

Well we made it a whole three months before it got reposted this time. At least the price has dropped now https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071RC5TBD/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Kpv1AbN7T1E74

u/swedishmatthew · 5 pointsr/USC

Let me recommend you this so you don't do anything funny to a real person.

u/ssjskipp · 1 pointr/AskRedditAfterDark

Definitely coconut oil, but I've also gotten the tenga sleeve recently and that thing is bonkers (also a bottle of their "real" lube, which has been working great)

u/sailorcire · 5 pointsr/disneyvacation

> November 13, haven't nutted since Halloween even the candles are starting to look like weird alien fleshlights

u/kiwithick · 1 pointr/jacking

If you're talking about the sleeve, it's on Amazon for ~$9 called The Tube

u/Chick_Makes_Dick · 2 pointsr/SexToys

There are attachments for wand massagers similar to this, like https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Vibes-Masturbator-Attachment-Massager/dp/B007FZVKQG although I would not buy something like this if it wasn't made of silicone so you might have to look around a bit.

u/Leporad · 2 pointsr/AskRedditAfterDark

Never tried a flesh light, aren't those things hard to clean? And it's $90 on amazon.ca, damn.

u/Notagtipsy · 2 pointsr/cringepics

Amazon has 'em for $60. Doesn't seem to include shipping, though.

u/Arx0s · 1 pointr/WTF

Dude... you could have bought a Fleshlight for cheaper... not that I would know.

u/ireferencepsychology · 1 pointr/AskReddit

Male, 23. 2 girls.

And this a few times.

u/blkdick · 1 pointr/TopsAndBottoms

Tenga Flip Hole though sometimes it feels like too much effort. What can I say...I'm lazy.

u/minhtan_93 · 3 pointsr/AskMen

Incidentally, the Fliphole is on sale on amazon for $15-ish (S&H included). i'm so glad i read your comment just now

u/throwaway745547 · 1 pointr/fleshlight

Can anyone tell me if this is official or not? I need to know rather quickly..

u/alternativejohn · 1 pointr/AdviceAnimals

I use this so I don't have the need for tissues or lotion either but do need lube.