Reddit mentions of BH Cosmetics Carli Bybel Deluxe Edition 21 Color Eyeshadow

I for one love, love, love this palette https://www.amazon.com/Cosmetics-Carli-Bybel-Deluxe-Eyeshadow/dp/B07W8BDM31/ref=mp_s_a_1_6?keywords=carli+bybel+palette&qid=1574470785&sprefix=carli+by&sr=8-6
It has highlighters as well and the pigment is stunning. Plus, it’s easy to build up and blend the colours so you can control the look better.
Also, undertones do play a huge roll with red lipsticks and I’ll be the first to admit that I’m not the best at picking out red lipsticks. Your best bet would be to go into a store and ask one of the MUA to help you figure out your undertones and which lipsticks would compliment you the best.
I used to be a dancer as well and the transition from stage makeup to everyday makeup is a process of trial and error. Sometimes I would think it looked fine and then go out and realise my eyeshadow is wayyyy too dramatic for the real world haha. Other days I would go so light it looked like I didn’t have any makeup on (and not in the cute “no makeup, makeup” way).