Reddit mentions of Calling in "The One": 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life

For sure I know you weren't explicitly saying that you wouldn't be able to teach yourself. You just need to be very careful to avoid implicitly suggesting to yourself that you can't. And repeating statements like 'And I'm always reading how it's easier to go from having an anxious attachment to a secure attachment. And that if you have a fearful avoidant attachment, that it's much harder to turn that around once you reach a certain age' is definitely a way to subconsciously set yourself up for failure.

I think this is a great book.

https://www.amazon.com/Calling-One-Weeks-Attract-Love-ebook/dp/B000XUBE52/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1543373692&sr=8-1&keywords=calling+in+the+one

It doesn't explicitly talk about attachment styles, but that's probably better for you anyway. It's great that you've learned about attachment styles so as to get some awareness of some of your patterns. But you face a real risk of getting stuck on that label in a way that's not helpful to you. So you might be better off working with some stuff that helps you address some core issues, without reference to that label.

And if you are really serious about taking your life to the next level, check out this woman. Scroll to the bottom of that long list and start with podcast #1.

https://thelifecoachschool.com/category/podcasts/

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