Reddit mentions of Davines OI All in One Milk, 4.56 Fl Oz

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I won't tell you to cut your hair, because you seem attached to keeping it long. I will say that the sides of your beard are a little patchy, and if after a while they haven't grown in I would cut it into more of a goatee shape (the front of your beard looks great). There aren't a lot of styling products that are conducive to long hair. A very light hold hair oil might make your hair a little more manageable, something like this.

Styling!
You mentioned that you dont want to "weight it down with product" and how im interpreting that is that you don't want it to look greasy or over-worked. This is fine, it's my same preference.
If you have fine hair, do the following with your head hanging down. This will help volumize your roots while you style. Keep product away from your roots. If you have regular/thick hair, do this upright.
Here's what you do -- Invest in 3 things --> moisturizer, sealer, styler.
I've tried literally hundreds of dollars worth of fucking useless products. Here is what i've found works best for me.

• STEP ONE - Moisturizer: Davines AIO Hair Lotion or LUSH R&B Lotion This will moisturize your hair without making it look greasy and weighed down. Basically this will help accentuate/define the natural texture of your hair. Try keeping it away from your roots otherwise your roots will start to look greasy. You dont want this.
  
  
• STEP TWO - Sealer: Argan oil it shouldn't cost you an arm and a leg. I find this to be a very good brand that lasts you fucking FOREVER. What argan oil does is, in addition to being very good for your hair cuticle health, it takes that moisturizer you just used and seals it into your hair. Plus it adds a little shine and a little bounce. Apply it by using LITERALLY TWO DROPS in your fingertips and rub your fingers together and just apply it mostly to the ends of your hair. Once you've done that, use that last remaining shine left on your fingers/palm to scrunch your hair, kinda like you did with the towel. Keep the oil away from your scalp. It WILL make you look greasy.
  
  
• STEP THREE - Styler: This will depend almost entirely on your hair type, but after tons of trial and error... ive found Oribe Creme for Style works great at creating hold, sealing in moisture, and still giving you hair you can run your fingers through. Its on the pricier side, in my opinion, so ive linked you to the small size if you wanna try first before committing to a large size. What i do is kind of what you did with the STEP ONE moisturizer. Squeeze out a SMALL amount...like, a quarter of an inch of product, into your fingers and rub between your fingers. Now run it through your hair, keeping it away from the roots. If you've got wavy or curly hair, do more of a scrunching motion. This is the part of the styling where you try to put your hair into a position you like. I like my hair parted on the left and pushed back, so this is what i do. Once ive brushed it back using my fingers (NOT a brush), i just walk away from the mirror and go on about my day. It is at this point, until your hair completely dry, that you just stop fucking with your hair. Dont touch it. dont move it, dont brush it. Just let it be. Once it's dry, you are free to let your hair fall forward, a little into your face or whatever. Because you pushed it back while it was drying, you'll have some nice volume at the roots, when it falls forward.
  
  
  So yeah, this may seem overwhelming, but you can cherry-pick what you are willing to do. Honestly, aside from the head massage, i literally only do the oil/hairwash/style thing once every 5 or 6 days. So it really doesnt demand that much time.
  
  
  I figure while im here, i'll also address some things i often see people commenting:
  
  F.A.Q (my opinions as answers)
  
  
• If i dont wash my hair every day, it gets so greasy: I cant begin to tell you how much damage you're causing your hair by washing every day. My secret weapon for refreshing oily hair and giving it another 3 or 4 days of wear is a dry shampoo. Batiste works great, and it comes in different colors, so if you have dark or red hair, you dont have to worry about your roots looking powdery and white. Hell, in a pinch i'll even just use a small amount of baby powder massaged into the roots of my hair. Wash your hair less.
  
  
• Dont cut your hair: This is bad advice all around, in my opinion. To keep your hair happy, you have to be mindful of split ends you may get. Going to the stylist and asking them to LITERALLY ONLY cut off your split ends every two months or so is great and should only run you about $15. They wont remove any length (be firm when saying that you only need split end removal) and your hair will constantly look healthy.
  
  
• The awkward phase is inevitable: This is and isn't true. It is absolutely true if you just let your hair grow with absolutely zero styling from a professional. This is totally fine to do! You may look like a hair bubble for a few months, but you will get longer hair in what seems like a shorter amount of time, and then once you're at a happy length, you can go get a hair cut and the stylist will give you an actual shape to your cut. HOWEVER, the route that i chose is the longer path -- but the more "stylish" path -- which means that every 4 months or so, ive gone to the stylist so at every single stage of growth, ive had a proper shape/cut. This means that my hair length isnt as long as it would be otherwise, but the great thing is that i've been able to see the possible style for my hair at every single length.
  
  
• My hair is boring: This is pretty easily remedied! Like with anything else, consult a professional. Ask any long haired friends you have, whose hair you like, who their stylist is and book an appointment! They might recommend layers, they might recommend parting your hair differently, etc. Be firm in telling them you're not interested in getting rid of length, but if your hair is fine, maybe adding volume, or if you have a SHIT TON of hair (first, congrats) maybe its a matter of taking away some weight. If you've got hair-goals, show them a picture of someone whose hair you admire. Maybe a Hemsworth or something.
  
  
  Okay...i hope this helped at all!