Reddit mentions of House of the Fortunate Buddhas (Brazilian Literature)

Wow, this is a terrible advice. Usuallyporn is about what pleases a man, not a women!
The best way to learn about pleasing her is reading. Most of the time the ways to please a women need to be understood and not watched (a lot of the fun bits are inside so you can't really see how to stimulate them).
You can learn about cupping, how to make her squirt (there is controversy about what comes out but in the end it is one of the most potent orgasms), the fact that you are small makes it ideal for anal, get toys to help you out (combine penetration with clitoral stimulation and you are golden) and explore other kinks (pegging usually gives the man a lot of insight about how it feels to be penetrated and it improves how they end up doing it).
Edit: regarding your endurance you can get a flesh light or a tenga egg to massage your glans until you learn how to prolong stimuli, practice edging and deny yourself cumming, it will be har in the beginning and it might lead you to cum without you even touching yourself but in the end you will have a huge improvement.

Edit2: I am going to try to put some info together:
http://www.sexpertslounge.com/2011/08/08/sex-for-noobs-anal-101/
http://www.reocities.com/WestHollywood/chelsea/3313/edging.htm
http://www.ziporn.mobi//?vid=7710
http://m.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_150/184_love_tip.html
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007235YZ4/ref=redir_mdp_mobile?ref_=sr_1_1&s=digital-text&qid=1327609592&sr=1-1
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1564785890
I'll ad some stuff later, these are not my faves but they are mind opening

Haven't read the english version, but you should really really read (and get her) this one: House of the Fortunate Buddhas