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So we had problems with this too. You sound very similar to us! Before TTC, we generally only had sex 3-5 times a month. And I was content with that; we both have busy schedules (I work full time and attend night school full time) and I was just always tired. When we decided to TTC, it was a change for us because suddenly I was ready to go every other day for the fertile week and he was having issues...keeping up... and, to be honest, it felt mechanical. So we explored a bunch of different options and he got these pills and holy hell they are a godsend. I highly recommend them if your husband would be open to that.

The other thing is, we spend a lot more time with foreplay, rather than rushing it. Which is really what we started doing once we decided to TTC. IIRC, it's recommended an average of at least 15 mins of foreplay for most women to get ready, and we were totally not doing that.

I also used to "attack" him when he would go soft or seem uninterested, and be like you; asked him all kinds of questions and just a barrage of negative feelings. I read up on it, and some forums suggested to change the way you come at him about it. Instead of getting really upset and 'attacking' him with your insecurities, stay positive! I changed my mindset and went about it more like "we'll figure it out! you'll just have to have sex with me more ;)" or something like that. And I think that greatly helped his mental state with it.

Lastly... Might be worth having his testosterone levels checked. My husband had his done at our general practioner. His results came back ok; just low end of the normal range. She recommended he lose weight and take a daily vitamin and it helped a lot! This was back in... May-June and our sex life has greatly improved! Now if we could just make a baby...

Good luck! I hope my suggestions offer you some assistance.