Reddit mentions of SPORTSHEETS - Under the Bed Restraint System

Anybody else into period sex? It blows my mind how many girls I talk to who are like "yeah, my ex wouldn't fuck me on my period". Like wtf, are that many guys really that afraid of blood? I fucking love it, granted I've got a blood kink and most girls aren't willing to cut you/get cut. I thinks its because I hate when people try to pretend sex is something civilized, trying to dress it up in dating apps and waxing and condoms and all that shit. Once there's blood involved, you have officially stepped of the Making-Love train, you are now FUCKING, like animals. Its the shit. Also if pulling halfway out and seeing your dick covered in blood doesn't make your heart race, you're a fucking sociopath.

Also quick shoutout to under-mattress restraints like these
https://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW
Super quick and easy if you're in a hurry and don't want to tie a bunch of fucking knots. Picked some up and tested them out on my fuckbuddy who does circus/acrobat shit. I'd been backpacking in Glacier for a month and was too exhausted to jerk off most days, I came so hard i was actually worried my dick was going to explode. She texted me later saying "If you're going to slap me around and make me cum a bunch of times, we can't fuck before I go to work, I'm literally retarded right now" lol. Stay frosty lads

Forced orgasm is just that - an orgasm brought on by unrelenting stimulation to the genitals. I don't know that there is really a best way that covers everyone since everyone's bodies are unique and respond differently.

Part of forced orgasms is that you just have to accept that there will be over stimulation and sensitivity can be uncomfortable but on the otherside of it is an amazing release. I describe it like a process of working and pushing past it.

Tips for staying quiet? Gag. We got a mouthguard over the mouth panel gag harness that has been super great with dampening sounds. We don't have kids, but live in an apartment. I'm sure our neighbors love us >.> but really we try to be respectful and quiet.

We use under the matress restraints. https://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW They come with velcro cuffs, but we have our own leather ones we clip to them. We also got climbing clips to make attaching and detaching easier. Super easy to install and you can easily hide under the matress or remove when not in use. They're affordable and well constructed imo.

But as for not getting anything new, using bondage tape to hogtie or restrict movement is fine.

session length depends on the person... how long it takes you to get there is how long it takes. that is the same with any subsequential orgasms.

word of caution - you can experience microtears and abrasions to the clit and urethra which can make you vulnerable to infections like UTI. make sure you hydrate and keep the area clean with good after care.

Ask and thous shalt receive.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000VHH5DW/ref=cm_cr_arp_mb_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8

You've got two options: spreader bars or external restraints (i.e. tie legs to bedposts). There are some convoluted rope ties that would work, but since it sounds like you're relatively new, how about something cheap and easy like this:

https://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

>would have no way to conceal it

Spreader bars don't have to look like spreader bars. Wooden dowel from Home Depot + two eye hooks. Remove eye hooks when not in use, throw the entire thing into a pvc pipe. (or just use a pvc pipe with holes drilled in it). Bam, discrete spreader bar for well under $10.

i have this
http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

SO and I arent really into BDSM or anything crazy, but its fun to tie up your partner. I wont go into too much detail... amazon has a lot of reviews on the product that all are more detailed then i have the time to write. well worth the $35.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

Is something I bought recently for use with my girlfriend. It's trivially easy to escape from if someone really wants to(you just need to pull back on the length adjuster with a finger and then you and undo the velcro with teeth or the metal clasp with a finger), yet it is very good if she wants to be restrained.

You can pull her legs/arms to the sides or above/below her in any combination.

We have used it 2-3 times now. One of the best things is to just make her wear the wrist/ankle-cuffs the entire night. She says it makes her feel very submissive to have the cuff always there and the clasps dangling.

Hmm, going through the thread you are more vanilla, which something everyone seems to be missing.

Here are some of my favorite things to do that are simple and sexy:

Tie her hands behind her back (crossed or parallel). Use rope and do it slowly (and I mean fucking slow!). Make it sensual as you stand behind her wrapping each coil of rope around her wrists. Pause, keep one hand holding the ropes and the other with a firm grasp under chin, and lightly nibble on her ear. Finish off the tie. Obviously you can't fuck her missionary, but you can bend her over something: table, counter, or even your bed and fuck her hard from behind. Make sure to use her helplessness to your advantage with proper foreplay.

Frogtie her (ankles to calves). This is a great position and opens her up for penetration. If your worried about her arms try a box tie where her arms bent at right angles behind her back. This will be more comfortable considering.

Tying her spread eagle to the bed. Simple and effective. Make sure you use the proper knot that you have seen so it doesn't cut off circulation. An alternative to this the under the bed restraint system. Works like a charm.

Don't be afraid to experiment! Bending her over and having your way with her is a great place to start, but make it unique. Surprise her when she gets home (talk to her beforehand to avoid having the same thing happen to you by a man named Bubba in county).

Let me know what you think and I can see what else is out there!

edit: Links

Use Amazon if you can though. They generally have everything you need and at a much cheaper price than other online sex toy or bondage sites. Like this, for instance. Same item, shipped new from the manufacturer, half the price.

That is where I do all my bdsm shopping.

Well, first you'll need to get some restraints. These are really good for beginners and at 14 dollars that's a hell of a bargain, I paid like 40 for mine.

Then, just ask him what he wants specifically and fulfill to the best of your ability. Communication is key here. For instance he might want to be tied a certain way (those restraints give quite a few options), he might prefer a certain style (hard vs soft), he might like toys like feathers. Don't be afraid to ask him what he likes and what he wants from the experience. Do your best to make him feel comfortable sharing this moment with you. Guys can be self conscious about this type of thing sometimes and the more he feels like you're willing to be accommodating and the less he feels like you may think it's weird or off putting or whatever, the better. I'm not saying you would do that intentionally, just that it's important that he feels comfortable and like you're both having fun with it.

As for surprising him, maybe get the bed all set up and ready to go with the restraints, light some candles if you want, throw on something sexy and tell him you have a surprise for him in the bedroom. But that's really up to you and what you feel comfortable with and what you think he'd like.

Anything else you might like to know about this from a guys perspective, just ask.

I gotchu fam

I also recently joined the kinkier side and I was given the following advice. Unfortunately, the comment I saved has been deleted, but this is the gist of it:

• Sportsheets Underbed restraints - not as rough as handcuffs and easy to set up. Like these
  
  
• Wartenburg wheel - run it along her thighs while she's tied down, it'll get her twitching like she's having an exorcism.
  
  
• Blindfold
  
  
• Hitachi Magic Wand - to tease her during your refractory period and keep her wet.
  
  This is relatively mild compared to some stuff you see here, but its a start. Definitely recommend the underbed restraints though. Very fun and easy.

These are always better I find. It's an x harness that goes under the bed. That towel rack, if in drywall will just rip out when things get heated. If you want to spend less get heavy duty d-rings with hangers... you can get em for a couple bucks and bolt them to the corners of your bed frame. GLHF

This is what i use, it is perfect. http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

Edit. Just pick a safeword. You need one.

If you don't have an easy way to attach restraints to the corners of the bed, something like this: http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW works great.

Can I recommend getting some velcro cuffs or buckle cuffs, and using the D-rings on those to tie to bed posts? Will be easier on you (less knots), and less worry about cutting off circulation/nerve damage if you do a knot wrong.

Less tying, more fucking: http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW/ref=sr_1_17?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1420310378&sr=1-17&keywords=wrist+cuffs

Get this!:
http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

I just got it for my boyfriend and even though it was cheap, it works really well and we've been having a lot of fun with it.

What about an under the mattress restraint system instead?

Same idea, different brand:

Sportsheets

If you are simply looking for some restraints and not concerned about rope specifically, I really like the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System. Relatively strong, comfortable, easy to set up.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

I have had many a fun evening being tortured while spreadeagled in these.

We have the Under the bed restraints system. It's a nice beginners thing, not too tacky and once the straps are in place there is very little preparation needed. Lots of fun.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

There are a couple of product demo videos that you could shpw your SO if you want to gauge her interest first.

Easy!

• Dictate what you want him to wear to bed.
  
• Get creative with clothespins
  
• Invest in this Under the bed restraint system
  
• Actually ask him if there is anything he wants to try. BDSM is all about communication. Show him this post.

Method 1: My NSFW WL and this is the item.

The reason that I like it is that it's a fairly straight forward male masturbation aid, and is super easy to clean up. It really does change the sensation.

Method 2: looking at /u/kerensky2202 WL, I see they have the under the sheets restraints system. It's pretty freaking awesome, and people don't even notice it since it does hide fairly well. Restraints are comfortable, but keep you in place.

It's kind of tough with the campus furniture, but one of my friends swears by this:

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

It works with the bedframe and is really discrete/easy to set up and put away.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000VHH5DW

Thats it well worth the price

I bought the same exact set from Amazon for 28 dollars instead of the 60 on that site. They work great.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000VHH5DW/ref=oh_details_o04_s00_i00

If you're uncertain how the ribbon will work try it on your ankles first. You'll get some practice tying it securely without having to mess around when the time comes, and you can give it a few tugs to make sure it's reasonably comfortable. I think the hair ribbon idea is great, by the way!

An under the mattress restraint system is fun is you don't have the type of bed frame that makes tying him to it easy. It's basically 4 straps that join in the middle like an X that go under your mattress, leaving the 4 ends (with carabiner-style clips) free to attach wrists or ankles to. You can make your own easily with some rope and some carabiners, but they aren't expensive to buy either: http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000VHH5DW?pc_redir=1406357131&robot_redir=1

Bondage tape is fun and easy to use, and pretty much every adult toy store seems to carry it for around $10. It sticks to itself, but doesn't stick to skin at all, even hairy skin.

I recently got this and I have found it insanely fun. I hadn't ever done much with bondage or anything like that and I find this thing to be great. It is well made you can pull and tug and it is going to hold you in place but if the person really wants out they can get to the latch and free themselves so it keeps things from getting too intense.

[Sport Sheets under the bed restraint system] (http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1382381465&sr=1-1&keywords=bondage)
I swear by this thing

Nice advice, thanks! I'll get my hands onto this: http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

LOL we ordered ours from Amazon. http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW We paid ~$25 for ours

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000VHH5DW/

Cheap. Simple.

I recommend an under the bed restraint system.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

This is my favorite NSFW item on my wishlist.

/r/GoneWild, of course.

Probably anything skimpy to dress up in. Bonus if it's destroyable.

Doggy, or cowgirl.

I like it when you tie me down. ;)

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We started with these. Definitely a starter type thing. Its nice because in terms of the handcuffs, these can be separated from the rest of the system. So if you want handcuffs you are all set. Nice and soft, easy to get in and out of, completely non threatening, but totally good at their intended purpose - to restrain. And when you are ready, you can move to the full bed restraint system for more/different fun!

SportsSheets might be something you two would be interested in. I don't know how your boyfriend would react, but I know if exs of mine who were interested in kinkier things had jumped the gun and bought it, my reservations towards light bondage would have gone ignored.

Since I see this thread isn't going anywhere positive anytime soon. I'll hand out this piece of sex advice. If you have issues with feeling emasculated in the bedroom, and are embarassed about your penis size, I'd recommend trying some light bondage play. Buy a 4 point bed restraint kit (I recommend this one by sports sheets http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW), and use a tie or bandanna as a blindfold. Tying a woman up will give you complete domination over her, and she'll feel like your little sex slave. You don't even have to take your pants off in front of her. In her eyes, regardless of your size, she'll feel like shes being fucked by the manliest of men. Just feeling you in complete control will turn her on to the point where she won't even care if you have a dick at all. You'll feel like a real man since you wield the power of being able to do whatever you want to her, and suddenly your insecurities will disappear as the testosterone & adrenaline take over. If you use a blindfold, she won't even be able to see how big your cock is anyway. You can use a dildo on her if you think she needs that really really full feeling. I guarantee if you do that, along with some oral, she'll cum harder than she would getting fucked by some monster cock.

I've never met a girl who isn't into it...even the seemingly prude ones. You'll seem like a confident sex god before you even put it inside. Its all about working with what you got. If you think your tool won't do the trick, just gotta figure out how to make yourself stand out from the crowd in other ways. Maybe some other guy gets the title as the biggest, but that doesn't mean you can't still be the best, the kinkiest, the one who gives her the most intense orgasms..etc.

This works pretty well. Just have the cuffs come out at the top and bottom of the mattress.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

She's all yours.

Approach this with caution. Be sensitive to his needs, and -if- he agrees to this, just ask for a little at a time. It may be a month or two before the next stage. If bondage does it for you, I would start with something mild, and something he can perceive as reasonably safe (such as this). I would ease him into bondage, before the S&M play. Once he is more comfortable with restraining you, get yourself a collar and maybe a gag (again baby steps). Once he is feeling comfortable with the bondage aspect, I would bring the dominance into play, and only after all of that, would I bring up the S&M play.

Bring up the safe word, Green/Yellow (more please and not my thing) mostly as comforts to HIM so that he -knows- your the one really in control. Also, safewords are not just sub only. If the dom feels out of whack they can pull it too.

I would recommend checking Mojoupgrade with him to start with, then bring this up. He may have some other fetishes himself that he doesn't feel comfortable bringing up himself, and then bring up -aspects- of play that you want, not the full blown situation.

Best of luck. Also, I would consider reposting this to r/bdsmcommunity

I'll jump in here...Under the bed restraint system.

Best sex purchase I've made in a while.

So there are many items I would like to add to our collection (ok, maybe everything on my wishlist) but here are a few:

• Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System - Because why not? Also it would come in handy for things...
  
  
• Steel Gem Butt Plug - These look awesome and we haven't tried metal ones yet
  
  
• Doc Johnson 18" Crystal Jellie Double Dong - For those times when we have a friend to play with ;)
  
  
• Clone a Willy kit - Why not?

This is my list, and these are my favorite item on it currently available without finding an updated version of it, because sometimes I'm just not interested in taking the time for the knots. all the hanky-panky fun with much less effort.

I have a similar question as the OP. I am thinking of buying this but have no imagination of what positions we can try with this. I was hoping to find a series of images that depict everything you could do with a system like this.

Anyone have any experience with this product?

Everyone needs a good basic bedroom bondage set. This particular one is super portable. In my college days of yore, I'd rip it off my mattress and chuck it into a bag for sleep overs. Aaah, undergrad.

I also kind of want this dumb heart shaped flogger thing even though I KNOW it'll be wimpy. Oh, and a hitachi, so I know what all the fuss is about.

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

I have those, and they will work with any bed regardless of headboard etc. They just go under the bed and you have 4 cuffs at each corner of the bed. They are AWESOME!

edit: someone else already posted this down below... that's what I get for jumping the gun

Likely. For instance.

The SportsSheets Under the Bed Restraint system is a great starting place.

https://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

Sportsheets Under The Bed Restraint System https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000VHH5DW/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_4PH3CbV1N036D

This is the one we use. You can tighten it pretty well where there won't be too much movement.

We also use leather straps/belts if we want less movement.

/r/bdsmcommunity would be a good place to check out. Also, I'd say a lot of bondage video stuff online is super crazy hardcore, you don't have to get that deep into it right off the bat, or ever for that matter. Maybe start with a beginners restraint setup and see if you like it. Or look into Shibari <classy rope bondage>

One of my first purchases was an under-bed restraint kit, very inexpensive. Cuffs are comfortable with velcro fasteners, and hold up pretty well. I still use mine on occasion, although I've bought leather cuffs since then.

Try these:

http://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW/ref=sr_1_3?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1331011728&sr=1-3

Actually, Amazon has lots of good bondage-type stuff, for decent prices.

I have this under-the-bed restraint kit.

Velcro, portable, and affordable!

I motion to the box, in which there are both a heavier set and a more relaxed set of restraints

Th-the heavier ones might be better, mistress.

https://www.amazon.com/Sportsheets-Under-Bed-Restraint-System/dp/B000VHH5DW

Under the bed restraint system.

You look better with the lights off.

Well, I'm probably a leg man, but I love alllll parts of the ladies. I love my gf's legs in particular because they're amazing, but also so ticklish. Its so much fun to tease her.

The missus said she'd really like these, but here's my list so you can pick ;)

I LOVE NSFW items! What an awesome contest!

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  thanks for the contest!!
  
  oh, and congrats on the nice new girlfriend! :)

Can't say enough about Sportsheets Under Bed Restraints

Very easy to use, and to hide. And you can figure out lots of different positions.

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Been dying to have these.

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