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I was younger than almost my entire team, only had 2 others younger than me of a 7 person team. It can be a bit challenging but the key thing to remember is that you were hired for your skills to be a people manager and they are the professionals in their skills.
There was probably someone on that team wanted your job. I tend to acknowledge their desire for leadership positions and ask them if that is what they still want in their career. If so then we make a plan to help make them more marketable for the next role or as my "heir-apparent" when the time comes.
Be humble and let their expertise and opinions be a welcome thing. It is paramount to hear their advice and more importantly to hear why things are done the way they are. People (typically) don't do things without a good reason. Respect that.
Couple other random bits and pieces I recommend to new managers:
This is what I try to do when taking over a new team.
Things I strive for as part of my team as their manager:
A few books I would recommend in no particular order:
I know what you read.
I am not an expert, and neither I have much experience of dealing with situations like this. I am here just to tell you that I follow one philosophy in my life and it has helped me a lot :
"Whether You Think You Can, or Think You Can't ... You're Right" - Henry Ford.
It's all about what you believe. Rest talking about self confidence, confidence comes from the character, you will have to work on yourself, you'll have to sharpen the saw. For this I would like to recommend a book : 7 habits of highly effective people. I believe author's idea thatfirst 3 habits build character is absolute truth and it helped me. Maybe it'll help you too. Audio book/ presentation.
Just believe in yourself for once and watch the changes it brings in your life.
I got you covered dude. My company lives for this and provides books on the regular, but the ones below are pretty much the industry standard, and top companies all over the world recommend that every one read these. I have to admit, they've helped me:
Those are the quick ones I can think of. If I come up with more I'll add them to the list. Also, welcome to the corporate world - good luck in your career!
Edit: Holy shit, gold? This is my first time receiving so thank you for being gentle!
Hay mate, that way never works, you'll probably get a head of a lot of the nicer people out there, but people who lie, cheat and steal to get ahead it always ends up catching them in the end and becomes their biggest downfall, honestly never been the best course of action.
I think its why usually people are looking for other ways in creating successful businesses and why many are doing much better lately. Maybe its best to check out:
Remember any group/class/religion that claims to teach you about lying, cheating or stealing, is probably lying, cheating and stealing from you instead :p.
THIS. If you really want to be a filmmaker, then start filming.
What do you mean by "never got to shoot my own"? Were people supposed to set up your shoot for you?
You have to make the work, you can't expect it to come to you. Read the Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. Then read it again.
Watch movies with the commentary on. Watch shorts other people have made on vimeo and youtube. Get inspired.
Talk to the people around you about wanting to film something, see who else is interested. It might surprise you how many people are willing to throw themselves in front of the camera for fun, as long as you have a concrete vision of what you want to film.
But like /u/madism said: dig deep within yourself to remember why you want to be a filmmaker. Nobody's going to make you one.
There was a video on here that I can't find again, it was a guy giving a pep talk to creative people and he said something along the lines of "you'll never get full-time results by putting in part-time work." That's what finally got me off my duff and filming.
Edit to add another great, inspiring book: [The Magic of Thinking Big] (http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Thinking-Big-David-Schwartz/dp/0671646788/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1406073375&sr=1-2&keywords=think+big)
I am not a mom but I have some advice :) (pardon my language but I am going to refer to your kid as the pronoun him)
Watch this video first, hell watch it before reading the rest of the post
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Things you need to do (these are the inbetween steps 1 and 2, 2 and 3, 3 and 4, 4 and 5)
What makes me feel better is having a cuddle party with my friends and kitties, watching movies or TV show reruns together and eventually falling asleep in a huge heap of warmth and love. <3
I love this book and have no idea why I don't own it yet.
Keep up the good work and keep moving forward!
I enjoy lots of different kinds of books. Recently I started re-reading the Oz books by Frank L. Baum. Maybe you'd like it?
Or, if you're looking to read non-fiction I can't recommend The Seven Habits of Successful People more strongly.
Just to give some more context, let me list out what I've tried so far:
Anything else I should try?
This little epiphany literally came to me in the shower this morning. It is a distillation/unification of one of the underlying lessons taught by all the books, articles, and webinars I have recently read/listened to/watched, including but not limited to:
Willpower Doesn't Work: Discover the Hidden Keys to Success by Benjamin Hardy (https://www.amazon.com/Willpower-Doesnt-Work-Discover-Success-ebook/dp/B073P421QC/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1539392606&sr=8-1)
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey (actually I am just barely getting into this one) (https://www.amazon.com/Habits-Highly-Effective-People-Powerful-ebook/dp/B00GOZV3TM/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1539392756&sr=8-1)
Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown (https://www.amazon.com/Essentialism-Disciplined-Pursuit-Greg-McKeown-ebook/dp/B00G1J1D28/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1539392939&sr=8-2)
The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondō (https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing-ebook/dp/B00KK0PICK/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1539393096&sr=8-2)
I really enjoyed reading "The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck"
It taught me about giving a fuck only for the things that deserve it.
I also enjoyed "How To Win Friends and Influence People" which taught me that it's not about me - it's about being genuine with, and interested in, other people. My pride? Who gives a fuck! I'm embarrassed? Who gives a fuck!
I then read "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" which talks a lot about how to identify what it is you want, and what you care about, and how to align yourself and your life with that. It's a really positive book that I highly recommend reading!
Edit: I also absolutely loved "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelious which is generally about stoicism. The version I read was all "thou shalt", but I've seen somebody on Reddit quote a modern one which made for much easier reading! But Marcus Aurelious basically kept a journal of things he wanted to remind himself of, about his place in the world and his duty. I really, highly recommend it.
You can be far better than me, anyone can. Your unhappiness isn't caused by your shitty situation, it's caused by your perception of your situation. You put value in things that are not essential to your happiness, therefore you've told yourself you can't be happy without a better external situation. In that case, life will always be ahead of you dragging you behind it, instead of you being in front of life and pulling it in the direction you've determined to be the most attractive. The only things in life you should concern yourself with are the things in your control. If something is beyond your control, greet it with nothing more than supreme indifference.
Do you read and learn valuable knowledge every day? Do you do the work that needs to be done? Do you do proactive work that isn't urgent but necessary for your life goals? How much time do you spend on activities that are mere entertainment and don't improve your life tomorrow? I've found that doing the next right thing and being productive is most of what is required to feel great and stand tall.
Two great books that will get you started on thinking this way, which I can't recommend highly enough, are these:
Stoicism and the art of happiness
The 7 habits of highly effective people