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How do you feel about hand-jobs? Do they do anything for you?

I've never been brought to orgasm by a partner using just her hands. Believe me, I'd like to have it done to me but there are two problems. The first issue is overstimulation. This is the same reason why I rarely ever come from oral sex (only 2 women have been able to make me come with their mouths alone). It feels wonderfulfantasticholyshitilovethis but it can get to be a bit too much very rapidly. Add to this, the common practice of drawing a vacuum with the mouth. It's okay but not necessary for good oral skills.

The other reason is because once i'm wound up, there is simply no place I'd rather come than inside my partner with the exception of between her breasts, which is a close second.

Lately I've had this desire to meet a couple (MF) and spend a night giving hand/ blowjobs to the guy with the girlfriend/ wife looking on and participating. I'm very tactile.

Do you like any form of roughness (spanking, hair-pulling, etc.)?

Yes. The hair pulling and spanking are mandatory for me. There are other areas that I've explored but not to the degree that I want to- breast slapping, flogging/ being flogged, restraining, teasing/ denial. I had a partner that liked my running a jagged fingernail, a callous, the tip of a knife or even sandpaper on her. I'm sure there's more to add to what I'd like to explore.

I am very toppy with very little sense of what is appealing about being a sub. Having said that... there are some things that I do enjoy.

When I am seriously turned on, I like my girlfriends to bite the head of my cock- and I mean fucking sink their teeth into it. Same with the base or side of my hand when I'm inside of her.

Being flogged is seriously relaxing. I've had it done to me once and it was amazingly calming and serene. If you're interested in flogs and the sort, I've seen this woman's work in person and her craftsmanship is absolutely amazing.

Sometimes I like to grab a closet rod or rafter (I'm tall) and be spanked. Hmm... to be spanked and given a handjob at the same time. Oh yeah- that's gonna go into the bucket list right now.


List three of your biggest turn-ons and three turn-offs if you want!

Good stuff: Being emotionally connected to my partner, threesomes (both FMF and MMF), face sitting and shaving my girlfriend.

Ungood stuff: Lack of confidence, abusing my trust and nasally/ squeaky voices.

Have you ever used a homemade or normal object as a sex toy?

Does hand lotion count? Because if it does, the Mango Vera lotion, which is ballz deep in lanolin is fucking fantastic. Other than that, only semi warm bagels and donuts- but in fairness, they really deserved it and that's what I tell the workers at the bakery every time they give me, "the look".

How do you feel about someone finishing on you? Hot or gross?

I've had women finish on my face and grind against my leg to orgasm. Not sure if that counts.

As for giving, I'm okay with coming on my partner if that's what she wants (as stated, I much prefer to come inside of her) but have no interest in going off on her face.

Are you down to be pegged or to peg someone?

I've never had anal sex. Rimjobs? Check. Pushing a finger in during doggie style? Frequently. Penis in anus? Nope. There are reasons but they aren't because I'm against it.

And even though I'm no where close to being a submissive, I have to say that I'd like to be pegged by the right woman/ women. It's just one of those bucket list things.

What is your favorite food mixture? (coke and pizza, etc) Sorry couldn't all be sexy questions :3

Oh gods- the fucking brain cocktail of Tryptophan, serotonin, Phenylethylamine and Anandamide that can be found in chocolate is only made moar betterer [sic] with dipping it into some peanut butter (smooth, of course).

Do you think sex toys can be good as the real thing or better?

No opinion since I don't have any. I know there have been advancements in male sex toys beyond the fleshlight- I'm just ignorant of what's out there.

I do know that there are inherent design flaws in warm bagels and donuts. They just seem to fall apart after only one use. I've complained and complained to the donut shop but all they do is give me "the look" and start to dial the police again. I don't know what their problem is but I'm really tired of their oppressing me.

Do you have any kinks or fetishes you wish people understood more

As a general statement about the public at large- a better understanding of dominance and submission. Submissives are exceptionally powerful. If you parse the dynamic of a dom/sub (top/ sub, alpha/ sub- whatever you want to call it), the sub is really the one that holds all of the power; it's just not overt.

As for my own understanding, I never understood the entire DD/lg dynamic. "Incest" is all that I could think of. But one night on the TS server, someone explained to me that it (to her) is about intimacy, trust and nurturing. Since it was a woman that I trust and respect, once she gave me that paradigm, a light went on. Ironically, not two hours later, someone approached me via Skype and we had a DD/lg session that was positively amazing.

There are other similar dynamics such as Teacher/ Student that I'd like to explore as well as dynamics such as, "Sweaty NHL Player/ Innocent Sports Reporter", "Toaster/ Bread", "Bar of Thick Chocolate/ Jar of Smooth Peanut Butter", "Disgruntled Cop One Day from Retirement/ Possibly Guilty Librarian with Tourettes Syndrome" and "Mildly Tainted Cookie Dough/ Spork".

edit: added a verb