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Reddit mentions of Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes
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Reddit mentions: 9
We found 9 Reddit mentions of Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes. Here are the top ones.
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Height | 10.5 Inches |
Length | 8 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Weight | 1.11553904572 Pounds |
Width | 0.25 Inches |
Remote Vibe First one was DOA, but the replacement worked wonders.
Also just in case you're curious, here's a bunch of other things I've bought off of Amazon:
Rabbit Vibe: NO, breaks too easily
Dual Bullet: Great while it lasts, but sadly breaks after a few sessions
Scissors If you don't have some GET SOME
Two Knotty Boys I highly recommend if you need some knot help
Condoms More are always useful to have
Weighted Nipple Clamps LOVE THESE, your sub might not though
Whip Going strong for two years
Bullet Held out for a while but ultimately broke after a few months
Numb Throat Spray doesn't work
Anal Trainer Set good for training but the middle to biggest is a bit of a jump
Lube Great stuff, lasts a while too
Blindfold Very comfy and durable
Bondage Tape Works well for hte purpose, doesn't adhere like Duct Tape, perfect
Vibe Fantastic Vibe
Rose Petals Show your girl a good, romantic time
Suction Dildo Get it and make her fuck herself on the floor, highly recommend
Butt Plug A good intermediary between the large and medium from before
Mouth Wash Make sure your breath smells clean for sex
Pillows Sleep better
Mini Massager Works reasonably well
Rose Gold Heart Necklace Classy way to show ownership out and about
Rose Gold Heart Bracelet Sams as above but for alternating days
Okay that's a quick overview, let me know for more detail on any, yes I have have bought all of these on Amazon, Dear God I did not realize how much I bought there before now.
Also here's a fun list of tasks and punishments
Fur further ideas just look over this sex map and for a bit more utilitarian, check out this list of Limits I made (pdf version or .xlsx version i.e. excel). For some fun orders steal some from the Contract I wrote (Word Version or pdf)
First and foremost, hello and welcome.
Secondly, this is our media subreddit, which is for published media relating to BDSM. Our discussion subreddit is located at /r/BDSMcommunity, and you should post future discussions there for a wider audience. It should not be necessary to resubmit this post, though. I also highly recommend you spend all the time you have available devouring our FAQ over at /r/BDSMfaq.
> My girlfriend recently read 50 shades of grey and decided she would like to try a dom/sub sexual relationship.
You should both be aware that the relationship depicted in 50 Shades of Grey is not a healthy BDSM relationship. It is thought that Anna lacks agency and consent, and doesn't engage in kink for herself, but just to be with him. For his part, Christian is regarded as heavily manipulative of her (and everyone else around him), a stalker, and a bit of a sociopath -- but he's rich and good looking so that works for him, I guess. You can learn more about 50 Shades from a BDSM perspective by checking out The Curious Kinky Person's Guide to 50 Shades of Grey.
> The first time we tried this, I bound her hands with a tie, blindfolded her, and just generally had my way with her.
I should caution you, as someone who is extremely interested in bondage, that ties are not the best bondage implements. In fact, they're pretty poor. For one, they have very short lengths typically, which doesn't give you a lot of options for ties. For two, they have very small diameters typically, which makes them require more wraps around a column to distribute pressure safely (and you've already got less length to do the wrapping). Finally, they are usually made from material that is very slippery and prone to hold knots so tight that you cannot untie them. These are terrible properties of bondage rope!
You should get some 6mm - 8mm (which is equivalent to 1/4" and 3/8" respectively) diameter rope in either cotton, nylon, or hemp (jute is similar but more expensive). Cotton is the cheapest and easiest to get a hold of. You will want 15 feet to 30 feet lengths. Most people find shorter lengths are too short to do much with, and longer lengths are far too long to work with effectively. Besides, you can always join ropes together to extend them should you fall short.
> I honestly really enjoyed being the dom.
That's great to hear! You should probably, being recently vanilla, take a read through BDSM for Nice Guys. They also have a nice selection of BDSM scenarios which should give you lots of ideas.
> We're looking to continue this type of sexual relationship but are unsure of our limits, what all we might be into, what we could even try. Any suggestions in exploring this?
This feels like my specialty, having fielded such questions in great volume in the last few days.
You should spend some time going through mojo upgrade, a BDSM checklist, and/or exploring the human sex map together with google/urban dictionary for things you don't know about.
Basically, you need to figure out which kinds of activities interest and excite your partner, which kinds of activities your partner is disinterested in, and which kinds of activities your partner absolutely does not want any part in. You should also figure out these same things for yourself!
Finally, go slowly, communicate, communicate, research, still more communication, and when you're done with that, communicate some more. You can always add in more later, but it is very difficult to "take back" things once they have gone too far.
Speaking of that, if you haven't already, you should definitely establish a safeword. One thing 50 Shades does have going for it is that they correctly represented the traffic light system of safewords which most everyone is familiar with. A very popular non-traffic light word is pineapples. Finally, unless you intend to actually engage in consensual non-consent (aka rape-play), there is no reason you should ignore words like "stop", "no", or "don't". If you do plan to devalue such words, using a safeword is imperative!
Here's my basic bondage spiel, should you be more interested in that.
Please check out our bondage basics article in /r/BDSMfaq. It is very informative and will say much of what I say here.
Depending on what you are looking to get into, I would highly recommend the following books, in no particular order:
For websites, you should most definitely check out Twisted Monk's video tutorials and the Two Knotty Boy's downloads. Rope specific subreddits include /r/shibari and /r/kinbaku.
For general knot-tying information, I like animated knots by grog, and of course your favorite search engine. Learning the basic terms can help you a lot, and if you really get interested in knots and rigging in general there's always /r/knots and sailing related stuff.
The New Topping Book - For good general Dom knowledge
The New Bottoming Book - For good general Sub knowledge
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction - Nice Intro Book
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns - Another good book into BDSM
Two Knotty Books: Showing You the Ropes - Good knot book
Two Knotty Boys: Back on the Ropes - Another good knot book
Erotic Bondage Handbook - Another knot book
Shibari You can USe - Book on Shibari knots
Videos on knots - TwistedMonk
Link dump!
Threads:
1,
2,
3,
4.
Instructionals: Two Knotty Boys,
Twisted Monk.
Books: Showing you the Ropes,
Back On the Ropes, Complete Shibari,
Erotic Bondage Handbook.
Must Know Knots: One Comlun Tie,
Two Column Tie.
Subreddits: /r/bondage, /r/kinbaku+shibari, /r/bdsmdiy
That should be a good start. Also, look for any related posts to this one, there are about a million (This question is asked every few days, and there are some great answers in the logs.)
My required reading list:
Ties that Bind by Guy Baldwin
SlaveCraft by Guy Baldwin
Urban Aboriginals by Geoff Mains
Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes
The SMTech educational series are pretty good, Lolita Wolf's are some of my favorites.
I love xeromag's intro and especially the intro for 'nice guys'.
Love the pervocracy although Cliff's more blogger par excellence than resource. Lot's of resource-y links on there.
Not specifically BDSM, but since consent is discussed amongst kinksters more than at the world at large (which is a tragic shame for the world at large), I recommend some yes means yes.
Since shopping comes up a lot, the stockroom, the collar factory, both highly recommended. Also /r/bdsmDIY for those who don't have the money for the high end stuff, or want to try out a new style of play before investing a couple hundred bucks on it.
Paper books I love:
That a start?
Just for the sake of reference... books I recommend are:
General Bondage:
Shibari:
camgnostic wrote:
I love xeromag's intro and especially the intro for 'nice guys'.
Love the pervocracy although Cliff's more blogger par excellence than resource. Lot's of resource-y links on there.
Not specifically BDSM, but since consent is discussed amongst kinksters more than at the world at large (which is a tragic shame for the world at large), I recommend some yes means yes.
Since shopping comes up a lot, the stockroom, the collar factory, both highly recommended. Also /r/bdsmDIY for those who don't have the money for the high end stuff, or want to try out a new style of play before investing a couple hundred bucks on it.
Paper books I love:
That a start?
Have you checked out the Two Knotty Boys second book,Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes?
(edit: moved book list)