Reddit mentions: The best pillar candles

For some reason, Im drawn to these black trees for some sort of decoration, depending on how tall they are, they could be centerpieces maybe?

I like this wristband bracelet for bridesmaids to wear, if you have some, or even yourself, depending on your dress color.

I like the idea of black candelabras everywhere, I feel like they are very romantic/dark, if done right. Something like this minus the fake spiders, and these Bleeding candle sticks are very cool.

If you're serving punch, an intricate black punch bowl would look great. Maybe a bowl on every other table, since they're little?

Satin flower girl basket, but I think there is a whole set for this, with a guest book and ring pillow. The gems are white, but it looks like you could easily pop them out, and place them with purple.

Instead of having guests sign a guest book, you could frame this Map of Europe and take the glass out and have people sign it. It would look amazing with all the well wishes on it, but still have a neat background to it.

A set of these Apothocary jars, filled with candy or matches, placed at the bar, or around the cake table, just as little accents. And you could wrap them with a band of purple ribbon to help tie your colors together.

And lastly, I always love candles at a wedding I feel like they are the symbol of romance. Lots of candles, everywhere. They give off just the right amount of light.

Good luck, hope Ive helped just a little. <3

Thanks for the contest! I hope to see pics of how the wedding decorations look!!!

Since this is a rental, painting the walls and changing the fixtures is probably not allowed, right? So let's see if we can work with what you have.

First thing: put the plunger and the toilet bowl brush in the cabinet, or hide them in a tall basket or something.

Figure out which colors you'd like to use. Since you want to make it feel cozy, I'd suggest a soothing green or blue or even plum.

Since you can't paint, have you considered covering the walls with fabric? It'll look almost exactly like wallpaper, but you can just pull it down when you're ready to move and no one will ever know it was there. Here's a tutorial on how to do this. Use 100% cotton fabric and if you pick a pattern, one that uses whatever colors you like along with a bit of the tan that's the color of your countertop would look nice.

Hang some art on the walls. If you're on a budget and don't want to spend a lot of money, pick up a few inexpensive 8" X 11" frames. Stop by your local craft store and get some scrapbook papers in your color scheme and frame those.

Get a new trashcan and perhaps a tissue holder and soap dispenser. These have kind of a cozy feel: Trashcan or set

Frame your mirror. Since a permanent mirror frame is probably off limits, try putting some small hooks along the top of the mirror and drape some fabric around the mirror, as if it were a window. Or use ivy or some trailing flowers. I don't know how hot the lightbulbs on your vanity strip get though, so if they get very hot, this could be a potential fire hazard. In that case, you could try some contact paper. Try using long strips of contact paper to get an effect similar to this one or just space some contact paper cut-outs, like circles or leaves, along the outer edge of the mirror.

If you can remove the towel bar above the toilet, get rid of it and use an above-the-toilet shelving unit. Something like this one. If you don't want to remove the towel bar, use a shorter stand or just hang a small shelving unit above the towel bar. Fill it with pretty items, like folded hand towels, a covered box of tissues, a perfume atomizer, a basket of potpourri, fancy soaps, and some nice scented hand cream

Yes to the rug and possibly the candles. The problem with candles in the bathroom is that you aren't going to want to run and check them all the time, so flameless candles might be nice.

Try a vase of interesting twisty branches on the countertop, or go outside and pick some fresh flowers when the warm weather gets here.

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BTW, are there any restrictions or budgetary constraints in terms of the supplies you'll need? Can you afford to shell out twenty bucks for candles and stuff? If not, that's fine, just let me know what you can afford to spend. We could probably figure out a way to do it for next to nothing if need be. But if you can afford them, order up a green beeswax candle from Amazon. Order it now so that you'll have it by Thursday, so that on Thursday night you can "dress the candle" with herbs and such. This will be your primary offering. Also, you're gonna need some booze. If you're 21 or older, pick up some rum. Bune loves rum.

Here's a green beeswax candle like what I'm talking about:

https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B0143LZV7S/ref=twister_B07FNYVJCT?_encoding=UTF8&th=1

Another item, if you can afford it, is some "dragonsblood incense". This is the cheapest stuff I could find. If you can afford better, cool, otherwise this stuff will work:

https://smile.amazon.com/Hem-Dragons-Blood-Incense-Sticks/dp/B0016Z3BA4/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=dragons+blood&qid=1569887102&s=home-garden&sr=1-2

So, to recap, for materials, you'll need the candle (which we'll dress on Thursday), the Dragonsblood incense, and rum. You should be able to score all that for $20 or so. If not let me know and we'll prioritize.

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There are some forms of wax that melt at a higher temperature, if you find that you need a little more pain to help the urges. High paraffin pillar candles (the ones that stand alone and melt slowly) melt at 130° F, minimum, and is probably the highest temperature wax you can find easily online.

Amazon carries a nice cheap option that I occasionally use for wax play at munches. One of these candles will usually last up to two full-body sessions (usually neck/shoulders to ankles) so if you use them on yourself they'll likely last even longer.

Seconding Dollar Tree for the glass vases. For the candles you can do a search on Amazon for Bulk Pillar Candles and come up with a ton of options to price out based on your needs. [Example option from Amazon](candles4less - 3 x 6 inch white pillar candles (bulk/36 pcs), unscented white pillar candles with lead free cotton wicks, dripless and smokeless https://www.amazon.com/dp/B004HAY1DG/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_2GSZAbH718HA7)

Edit: idk why my comment is formatting so weird. Looks right on the edit version so??

How about something like this ?

Or this ?

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I ended up buying from Amazon dot com because local merchants do not stock colored candles that I wanted.
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Taper Candles

We had no wind, thankfully. Man, cleaning those cards in the wind would have really killed the fun. The bugs weren't bad at all, but we did use a bug candle

I can't really find anything to show what I'm talking about but I was thinking you could get some dark pillar candles or maybe even candle sticks for that creepy feel and dark red and black rose heads (fake or real) scattered around it for your centerpiece and add some of that fake cobweb stuff to each one.

This is the one we buy https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DB25IZA/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Here it is! Biedermann & Sons Baby Shower Birthday 1 to 21 Pillar Candle, Light Blue, 15-Inches Tall https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002LGQMH6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_IlhNBbV4MBE6V

Candles are dirt cheap now, you just don't know how to shop for candles. Here's some 16-hour paraffin candles for less than $1.50 each.

>And if all else fails mama knows how to throw down a decent salt line and chalk up a demon trap.

You might need some of these as well.