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I suggest a slow introduction to your " middle head space", head space is the place you go to when your " older neighbor" makes you feel vulnerable in a safe and loving environment, allowing you deeper still into your head space.

The first step or really rule to head space intro is: to recognize that there is no such thing as too slow

Second step : Set up perimeters in what is ok and what is not, boundaries such as: no daddy Role Play, but what can he call you ? Or you him? Naughty Neighbor? Dirty Girl? Sir? Terrible teen? etc.. Safe words such as Banana means stop- Banana cream means continue but your doing too much of one thing, but you may continue- Banana bread means STOP EVERYTHING get me out of this predicament NOW!


The Game: Let's get the giggles out

I have found a GREAT head space intro in tickling while tied.
In order to work he must be merciless, demanding, in control, and most importantly safe.

To prepare start with a basic wrist bind tie

http://youtu.be/Hixu3CHwEXw

Don't worry if you get the giggles as the scene doesn't start till after your bound, next as illustrated in the video take the rope lead or extra and secure to a fixed object ie.. bed post, sofa legs, horizontal closet bar. Any place that can take a thrashing and pulling

The Scenario:
Terrible Teen has been playing in the rosebushes and now, she's stuck! The only one who can hear her cries for help is her older perverted neighbor, who always watches her when she leaves to school, and it looks like he's going to take advantage of the situation.

Rules: No erogenous zone touching for at least 30 mins, the game is to find places you didn't know your lover was ticklish. Back of the legs-feet-rib cage- pelvic bone, back of calves, under arms or even (?) YOU find it

Keep moving, don't let her get use to one spot, be relentless. Use your hands, your mouth, your beard if applicable. TALK!! Tell her this is what she gets for teasing you, bending over and flashing her panties, etc... Illustrate you're the dominant one and she is the vulnerable one

IMPORTANT: *** Keep a pair of sheers close by listen for safe words, but unless you hear them, regardless if she cries for mercy, says stop, pleads, laughs till it hurts, keep tickling. Slower, faster, bombard her all over, concentrate on THE most ticklish spot, just keep tickling until she admits her weakness and agrees to do neighborly favors OR until a time limit only he knows has passed, or even keep a ticking timer, so she could hear the timer, but keep it faced away, maybe you won't stop even when the timer goes off, only you know

Pre-game: a wonderful sensual warm oil message

Post game: Cuddles ( very important), even if the scenario didn't lead to sex, but especially if it did. The goal is head space not sex, however the two can be intertwined when great head space is achieved. TALK about what you like best, what you both liked least, LEARN each other's minds and bodies is what it's all about


Good reference points:

http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Main_Page

Jay Wiseman SM 101 Great book for beginners
http://www.amazon.com/SM-101-A-Realistic-Introduction/dp/0963976389


P.S Don't worry about her giggling, it's merely nervousness that needs to be released, this game is designed to release PLENTY of giggles, also bring a towel as she will sweat a lot, and you can use duct tape instead of rope

1. 26
   
2. I'm more of a Daddy Dom than a little, and when I regress I don't have a set age. I'm attracted to littles who have a little age around 4-12, if they have a specific little age.
   
3. 3+ years
   
4. I discovered it via the Big Little Podcast ( http://www.biglittlepodcast.com/ ).
   
5. No I'm currently single. If I was in a romantic relationship, ageplay and DD/lg would be a necessary component.
   
6. Yes both.
   
7. I'm friends with some littles. Also looking for Big friends.
   
8. Ageplay is a healthy and natural expression of human sexuality.
   
   Psychologically, ageplay can be seen as an extension of healing and embracing the inner child, which popular psychology considers a very good and healthy thing.
   
   Many people are into ageplay-like things without seeing it as ageplay - for example many adults love going to Disney World, collecting stuffed animals, or coloring. ( http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2015/aug/17/coloring-books-adults-therapists-opinions )
   
   Sexual age play is not that strange or unusual, and is in fact related to more mainstream sexuality, such as The Natural archetype as describe in Robert Greene's international best seller, The Art of Seduction.
   
   While there is overlap between DD/lg and ageplay, the two are different kinks, and many people enjoy DD/lg without littlespace/age regression, and many people enjoy ageplay without it being a whole D/s relationship that exists in DD/lg. For more information on ageplay please read the Toybag Guide to Ageplay by Lee Harrington ( http://www.amazon.com/The-Toybag-Guide-Play-Guides/dp/1890159735 ) and listen to The Big Little Podcast.
   

I've written two novels about ageplay.

There's "Auntie Eva's Boarder", which is about a college freshman who moves in with an older lady and becomes her baby.



Then there's "Concerning Littleton", which is about several different people who are age players and trying to figure out their own sexual identity, or explain it to their partners. It's got straight, bi, and gay characters, babyfurs, d/s relationships, and polyamory too.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1847285554/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=biglitpod-20&linkCode=as2&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=1847285554

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00JMNLLCC/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=390957&creativeASIN=B00JMNLLCC&linkCode=as2&tag=biglitpod-20