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u/BeckyRus · 1 pointr/crossdressing

I can say that you're completely justifed in feeling worried - it's a new thing for you. Communication and discussion are very important in many issues and here they are important too. Talking about your concerns and fears with your bf might help and I do hope you two can discuss it and come to compromise that doesn't dissmiss your worries and puts all blame on you. Yes it is hard for him, but don't let that diminish your issues and make them insignificat.

I've read a number of books on kindle and I'd like to recommend you some that I think could be relevant:

1. [Something to Confess by Karen Adler.] (http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B008BI8GQS?redirect=true&ref_=kinw_myk_ro_title)
Written from perspective of a crossdressers wife is about her dealing with her husband telling her and his crossdressing. I really like it as a good example of open communication between two adult people.

2. The Cross Dresser's Wife - Our Secret Lives by Dee A. Levy, B. Sheffield Hunt

3. Men in Bras, Panties and Dresses: The Secret Truths About Transvestites (European Medical Journal)
A medical study results conducted in UK. Could be interesting read and comparing your bf to different ppl that took part in that study and seeing how different crossdressers can be.

4. Out & About - The Emancipated Crossdresser by Lacey Leigh

*5. 7 Secrets of Successful Crossdressers by Lacey Leigh

Two books by Lacey Leigh. I really like her approach to crossdressing and dealing with society. She also talks about how she made it work for their family.

First two books might be more relevant then other 3 and I do hope they help.
Girlfriends and wifes of crossdressers (they could be named significant others) have a number of support groups and forums. You can google them and read or join.

I'm a crossdresser myself and I can try to answer your questions if you have any. Just rememeber that every person (and crossdresser) is different and my answers could be different from what your bf thinks or feels.

u/AbbyCats · 3 pointsr/crossdressing

Both Kara and Harleen have covered most bases.

Personally I always look up brands own sizes, these can be found on their websites, and compare them to my own measurements before buying. This is obviously important if you intend to buy online.

At 5'8" and 140lb you'd think I'd find fitting a little easier than most but I still struggle. We don't have the same body shape as most women, my main struggle is with my chest as I'm very broad and barrel chested. This means sometimes I find clothes that fit my chest and not my waist and vice versa. Hips and shoulders are a common problem area. There are ways to get around problem area, I wear belts to pull in dresses at the waist, buy tops that cover the shoulders, little tricks to cover those manly areas.

Accessories help too to finish a look, you'll see next no women who don't wear a necklace, bracelets etc.

I would also recommend padding, I just posted in the general discussion thread a bit on padding and the products I use an enhancer and additional pads. I am also considering getting a corset as even though I have a small waist for a man my shape is far from feminine.

EBay and sales are going to be your friend if budget is an issue. I would also say if money is an issue make sure that only purchase items that you really like. Spend sometime first considering the look and fashions you like before diving in. Make each purchase count, even if you can afford only one dress make sure that is a dress you love and makes you feel happy.

I hope some of this is helpful but my main piece of advice is to enjoy yourself don't worry too much about passing and just be happy.

u/Majestic_Ex · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

Greetings, greetings and welcome to this post about a self-birthday gift and how I need lot of help with sizes!

Please, bear with me with the (probably) long post. The introduction is that I'm looking for something that will fits me nice but also feel femenine. I've been orbitating around a "rockabilly look" for a while, because these dresses are amazing, and also a good excuse to get some proper heels.

So, my checkout should be:

  • The dress (d'uh).
  • Petticoat.
  • A (6-suspenders) garter belt. (Already got the stockings).
  • Heels.

    I'll go through Amazon because prices are low, nondescript packaging and free returns, but if there's an alternative with the same qualities, please post it here.

    Now, first chapter: The dress.

    I'm looking into this but I have a doubt on sizing: I have belly and don't have boobs (d'uh), for what I'm reading and measuring, my (flat) chest is a at 98cm's (XL Size), while my (fat) belly is at 100m (XXXL size). The fabric seems to be a bit elastic, so I have some room here to work with. Which would you suggest? Maybe look into something different? Wait until I lose a bit of weight? Going with the medium and fill the chest with some padding?

    Second chapter, the petticoat:

    I've more or less found one that I could use, altough this also looks good. My doubt is if both are of the same lenght and the first one is made to be wore above the waistline where the second one is made to be wore below it, or if I'm mixing things up.

    Third chapter, the heels:

    I'm looking into these bad boys. The comments talk about looking at the sizing table ("longitud del talón a la punta", "length from heel to toe") which is more or less 25cm (which would put me between 40 and 41.

    Some of the shoes have an extra sizing table which points that if you have a wide feet, order half a size up. How do I know about this? I'm thinking on getting the 41,as it seems it comes with some padding, but I have no real experience on what a "heel" feels when actually fits.

    Also, I've mispelled "heel" as "hell" twice, lol.

    Fourth chapter, the garter:

    The garter belt comes again with belly problems. Link. I'm thinking on getting the XL, as it fits my hips, but not my waist. Would you advice to go for it? Can I increase the sizing on the waist somehow?

    Thanks!

    P.S. I'm not a native english speaker and I'm actually impressed of my vocabulary for clothing related stuff, wow.
u/WeeklyVacation · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

Thanks! I got pretty much everything you see in this picture from Amazon. Lol. Shoes, accessory set, and dress. Here is a link to the dress: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0779N567S/ref=twister_B06ZYRKWKX?th=1&psc=1


They have that style in Red too and that same company makes a few other flapper style dresses. I would check them out first, because I was very surprised with the quality for the price.


I did the flapper look because I already had the wig (Also an Amazon purchase, for $12!!) that fit with the costume. Happy with how it turned out though :)

u/[deleted] · 1 pointr/crossdressing

For those thinking about getting breast forms I thought I would post some information for you about these. Previously I had "breast form inserts" which are meant to enhance (add a cup size) to current breasts. Since I am a flat chested male they really didn't "enhance" much and were always a little small for my desire. They are size 7 (34DD/36D/38C) and I ordered them off Amazon for $45 from a seller named Envy Body Boutique. (http://amzn.com/B004GP05TQ)

First off, I am very impressed with the quality and feel of these. They have some weight to them and jiggle around nicely. I am very happy with them. Secondly, I am very happy with Envy Body Boutique. I contacted the seller asking if I could get priority shipping since I really wanted them for this coming weekend (make over and photo shoot is scheduled). She was very nice, made sure I had ordered the size that I wanted, and got them shipped out in under 14 hours! I received them in two days. I cannot recommend that seller enough.

TL;DR: New bewbs, they're great, if you're looking to buy some get them from Envy Body Boutique on Amazon.

u/LilVioletta · 1 pointr/crossdressing

I bought some cotton dust masks off of amazon a few years ago ... the cute kind you usually see Asian girls wearing in like animes and stuff.

These are the ones I actually bought; though sadly they're not available anymore

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00PVXUSF8/

Closest thing I can find on amazon now is these ones; not as cute in my opinion but they're an option.

https://www.amazon.com/Cotton-Masks-Mouth-White-Facial/dp/B071V6ZP1Y

Depending on how fast you need them could always look on other sites for things like that. Etsy has some that might work, or aliexpress has a bunch of the cuter ones for example but shipping usually takes a couple months.

Could also look for like a face veil from a belly dancing costume? They tend to be a bit transparent but a dark enough color may work. A nice scarf may also work; but you'd have to build an outfit around those items I think instead of them just being an accessory - in other words a belly dancing veil would look weird on a normal outfit, etc. That's why I originally went with the cute cotton dust masks.

u/Ann_Lee14 · 1 pointr/crossdressing

That looks like the pair I started with! I upgraded to these, which I really like. They were affordable and are comfortable and look much more natural. Feel free to browse my profile page and see what you think of them in action out in the real world - all the pics from the last couple of months are sporting these babies.
https://www.amazon.com/Vollence-Adhesive-Silicone-Crossdresser-Cosplay/dp/B07HJ1PJDX/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=vollence+self+adhesive+breast+forms&qid=1574957304&sr=8-1

u/Thomas_A_Anderson_33 · 1 pointr/crossdressing

Thanks! I haven't advanced too far into makeup yet, so I'm just making sure I get a strong base down before trying to do anything else. My wig was from amazon. It's this one. It's been a decent wig so far. I'm saving up for a higher quality one, but I'd recommend it for a good starter wig.

u/Ginalewinski0 · 1 pointr/crossdressing

You can find the adhesive tabs for false nails on amazon. I use them when I know I cant keep my nails on for more then a few hours, otherwise I put a coat of clear topcoat on my real nails and glue the false nails on top of that ( makes it easier to get them off when I need to take them off) Hope this helps. here is a link to the ones I use https://www.amazon.com/enForten-Total-False-Sticker-Manicure/dp/B00GD6J12S/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1526230618&sr=8-1&keywords=false+nail+tabs

u/andrealolita · 1 pointr/crossdressing

I bought it from Amazon. I love this dress as well. 😁

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06WLN5LNZ/ref=twister_B00YV51XU6

The color I chose was pink space.

u/Genevieve_Vavance · 1 pointr/crossdressing

Okay, so if I went with these, which say 44C.. I could just go out and buy a 44C bra and put them in and have a C cup? The next size up are these and they say 44G, which I think is too large.

I'm fat and large-framed so I think big breasts would be good for my body shape, but I don't want huuuge gigantic breasts because I don't want to encourage people playing with them... I'm kinda self conscious about people playing with my breasts when I know they're fake. I think a C cup at minimum would be best, maybe D or DD better, but that company doesn't have 44D's.

My family members have C cups. One got DD or DDD's and I think they're too large because she's quite skinny. Maybe D's would look great on me because I am overweight/tall/large-framed.

It's a scary thing picking out breast forms because they're $100+ and probably not returnable. Could be a $100 mistake!

u/synthiaCd · 1 pointr/crossdressing

MelodySusie Mid-length Curly Wig - Attractive Women Mid-length Layered Curly Wig with Free Wig Cap and Wig Comb (Light Reddish Brown) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B019GVYVQC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_WDngAb4WXFV2V
Thanks so much :)

u/Jaimiestar · 1 pointr/crossdressing

Heres the pair I got:
Feminique 2400gr Silicone Breast Enhancer Forms Size 40DD/42D/44C/40B(Size 12) for Cross Dresser Nude https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01ENVOUIO/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_0U93Db5GPWPP9
I can't speak to their relative quality because I haven't tried other brands but I've used them every day for a year now and they're holding up great!

u/chrkchrkchrk · 1 pointr/crossdressing

I recently got these off amazon for around $30 and they're great. You could probably shop around for something similar for cheaper, or downgrade a bit to a pair of "cutlet" style silicone bra inserts, they usually run about $15 - $20 online and you still get a little of the same weight and jiggle and an A-cup or so's worth of boob.

u/CD1729 · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

I got these breast forms online, and they're pretty good yet at a reasonable price: https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B015YJ6BJU They have lots of different sizes, so you can get them smaller or larger if you want.

u/biqriusguy · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

I bought these ( https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B06XG1X5SB/ ) and I've been happy with them. They require a bra unless you want to glue them on, but they feel appropriately heavy, and the shape is good.

u/PeekleMeekle · 1 pointr/crossdressing

Sure thing. I bought it from Amazon.ca, as I'm Canadian: https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B073XGC3BL/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_apa_i_UD3KDb7D2P82B

It's also available on amazon.com though:
https://www.amazon.com/CH%C3%82TEAU-Womens-Pointy-Leather-Ankle/dp/B073XGC3BL

Mine are the Bordeaux color, which is actually like a dark wine red color. It's kinda hard to tell in both my photo and the photo Amazon has of the color. I was actually a bit surprised by how much of a red hue they had when I received them.

u/abadabad12 · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

I'd defer to others (like girlforaday and the guide she posted), but wanted to throw out a short wig I found: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00QLZR4ZW/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1 I had previously made the subconscious and incorrect assumption that long=girly, but was pleasantly surprised at how this shorter look came out. For $10, it is a cheap way to experiment with a different shape.

u/fabulousmsjuliet2 · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

MelodySusie Mid-length Brown Curly Wig - Attractive Women Mid-length Layered Curly Wig with Free Wig Cap (Light Reddish Brown) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B019GVYVQC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_5FM4Bb8QC0H6B

u/Shelli_and_Page · 2 pointsr/crossdressing

Gendered emotions? Emotions are human, we all have all the same ones, unless we are sociopaths. Are you talking about acceptable emotional expression based on presentation at a given time?

What type of paper is this? This is all awfully anecdotal. Have you read any of the stuff out there? You could try;

Men in bras, panties & dresses... it is short and not a bad read.

Or if you're looking for something more in depth try Crossdressing, Sex & Gender



u/felesaerius · 1 pointr/crossdressing

That is a interesting question... I think there's places like this like.... this.

u/rebornfenix · 4 pointsr/crossdressing

Unless you want to shell out a couple hundred, any breast plate (where it covers your chest) will be highly disappointing.

I would recommend breast forms from amazon. Or if you want higher quality (for possibly not much more) I have these and love them.