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I'd stick with something relatively small to start out but work your way up.

A brand I've had good success with is Tantus:

• This one is small and a good warmup. Although you might be wanting more after a little bit of use.
  
• This one is a bit bigger and may be more what you're after.
  
  Other brands are pretty solid as well:
  
  
• The Njoy is a top tier anal toy for prostate play but costs a little bit more. I'd caution use of the large end for you right now. I've come close to getting that side stuck before and that can be a rough situation. Most of the other products they sell are equally high quality.
  
• I also have an affinity for Bad Dragon toys as well. Top tier material quality but it comes with a few caveats:
  
  

1. The sizes can be deceptive (e.g. one of the toys in "medium size" has a 10in circumference and is 10in long) pay careful attention to the size chart on each toy.
   
2. You get what you pay for (I'd expect a base price of $100 usd for most toys)
   
3. Custom products can take a while to ship (4-8 weeks for something custom. A few days for anything premade. The premade items don't last long in the store though)
   
4. The shapes they come in might not be your style.
   
   

• I've also heard great stuff about Aneros from other people. I have one, its great to keep in while topping, but for "pure" anal play I'd prefer what I previously listed.

So, I'll make my standard reco to anyone who asks. Start with silicone toys. Dildos and plugs.

• Tantus
  
• Vixen
  
• FunFactory
  
• Vamp
  
  All of them are top quality silicone.
  
  For your first dildo, don't go too big. 5-6" and no more than 1.5" (and probably thinner) is a good idea. The Tantus silk line is good as it has a range from quite small to fairly decent sized. Firmer silicone than I like, but it's probably a good start. Something you'll need to learn is what style of toy you like. Even among dildos there's a range of sizes (both girth and length), textures (smooth, veiny, ridged, etc.) and levels of realism. For myself, I like big and semi-realistic (hence I'm a fan of the Tantus Uncut #1 and the Vixen Outlaw). YMMV
  
  For buttplugs specifically, I like Boss Silicone Stopper series from Japan. No. 4 / No. 5 are what I'd classify as modest but not impossibly large (not for beginners, though). Numbers higher than that start to get crazy. I own the No. 4 and it's large enough that I know it's there, but it slips right in and stays put. It's definitely an option for long-term wear, if you learn to like that sort of thing. However, as a beginner, I'd recommend the Stopper I (if you can find it) or any of the smaller plugs from Tantus. (The Ryder plug is an old fave.)
  
  I like to use condoms on my toys to keep them cleaner (particularly ones that have little ridges and details). But if you're barebacking them, then you can use oils. Some people really like coconut oil and the old gay fisting standby is reportedly crisco.
  
  Partly because of the condom thing (and partly because silicone lubes are bad for most silicone toys), I prefer water based lubes. Lubricant wise, I like Wet Uranus (the blue version ; the red version is silicone). However, you'll probably have to mail order it.
  
  If you have to go to the local store, I like Astroglide Gel. However, Astroglide's probably not the best stuff long term. It's got a few funky chemicals in it that I'd prefer to avoid. (But, in a pinch, it works awesome.)

Don't know if you already bought one, but for me it's the bulbous styled glass plugs that get me good. That's the one that I use, but if you can fit 4 fingers pretty easily you might want one a little bigger. I've got other plugs that are silicon, but I like glass the best. Metal would also be a good option. You want something hard to put pressure on your prostate when you rock back and forth.

To answer your questions:

1. Taking a good long shit and a shower before starting is usually enough for me. Some probably like the extra squeeky feeling of an enema, but it's not necessary. (Though I recommend increasing your fiber intake as it promotes regularity and cleaner passage). Trim nails if you're using fingers.
   
2. All of them? Seriously though, what works for one ass might not work for yours. Generally I think things that vibrate are a good way to start once you figure out where things are.
   
3. Something long lasting (so not water based). Silicone to be condom safe. Something like that hybrid spunk lube to be condom and toy safe. Oil-based if you aren't worried about condoms or potential stains.

I just ordered the n-joy wand, it should be here this week. Lots of folks have used it to good success!

https://www.amazon.com/Njoy-Pure-Metal-Polished-Steel/dp/B00FEKPCTU

edit: opps not under $30 sorry.

Looks like an NJoy Pure wand. Pretty expensive.

This is the lube I use now! https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B006X73KJ2/ref=mp_s_a_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1481600791&sr=8-1&keywords=spunk+lube&pi=SY200_QL40

I'm gonna go in the opposite direction actually, instead of brute force I'm going to try a precision strike

https://www.amazon.com/Njoy-Pure-Metal-Polished-Steel/dp/B00FEKPCTU