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I know how you feel. And I think as you get older you will find your passion and get better at coming up with great ideas. 26 is still very young.
Creativity isn’t just something people are born with, it’s something you practice at. Even coming up with good ideas comes with experience. Sure some people seem like they are naturally good at it, but those same people lack other qualities that you have. As an ESFJ I think our natural superpower is empathy, emotional IQ, whatever you wanna call it. It’s also our greatest weakness, which is where all the guilt and depression can come from.
For the longest time I felt unfulfilled and struggled to find my passion in life. I also would get really frustrated because I didn’t feel like I was creative or would be able to come up with a great business idea, which are things I always wanted to do. Even after having cofounded a successful company, I couldn’t give myself any credit, because it was my partner who came up with the idea.
Now that I’m 36 things have changed. I practiced being creative at things I felt frustrated with before, and it actually comes easier to me now. (For me specifically that’s writing songs.) With the business experience I have now, I’m also better at coming up with ideas. The reason for all that is because I’ve made a bunch of mistakes before. Without those mistakes I wouldn’t have that confidence or abilities.
I also realized what my passion is. And it was right under my nose the entire time. For me it was pretty simple - I like helping people, and dogs make me happy. So I foster rescue dogs, and also I mentor people who are recently released from prison. It’s the ESFJ in me I guess.
When I was really lost I got this journal / book called “Start where you are”. Honestly it didn’t give me all the answers I wanted immediately, but it helped me visualize where I wanted to focus my energy.
Start Where You Are: A Journal for Self-Exploration https://www.amazon.com/dp/0399174826/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_kBTnDbEV7SPBS
Don’t be too hard on yourself. You’ll get there at your own pace.