Best products from r/JustNoSO
We found 20 comments on r/JustNoSO discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 29 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the top 20.
1. A Guide to Rational Living
- Seeds may be used whole or roasted dry
- Primarily used in Indian and Middle Eastern cuisine as a spice and condiment
- The dry roasted Nigella seeds flavor curries, vegetables and pulses
- Great ethnic addition to your pantry
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3. Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition
- NOTE: iMac Mid 2010 27 inch iMac 11,3 (3.2 GHz) and 21.5 inch iMac 11,2 (3.06 GHz/ 3.2 GHz/ 3.6 GHz) ONLY SUPPORT 4GB, DO NOT SUPPORT 8GB.
- DDR3 1333MHz PC3-10600 204 Pin Unbuffered Non-ECC 1.5V CL9 Dual Rank 2Rx8 based 512x8 Module Size: 16GB KIT(2x8GB Modules)
- Compatible for Apple Mac Book Pro -13 inch / 15 inch / 17 inch Early 2011, 13 inch / 15 inch / 17 inch Late 2011 - Mac Book Pro8,1 Mac Book Pro8,2 Mac Book Pro8,3
- Compatible for Apple iMac - 27 inch Mid 2010, 21.5 inch / 27 inch Mid 2011, 21.5 inch Late 2011- iMac11,3 iMac12,1 iMac12,2
- Compatible for Apple Mac Mini - Mid 2011 - MacMini5,1 MacMini5,2 MacMini5,3
- Guaranteed Lifetime warranty from Purchase Date Free technical support
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4. Acceptance:: Time to Self-Reflect for Personal Growth
- Made in South Korea ,
- Size : 2.00 Feet X 6.56 Feet, Thickness 0.20mm , Material : PVC (By receiving the Eco-Labels, ROSEROSA products have no detection of harmful heavy metals over standard value.)
- Feature : Matte Finished, Water Proof, Eco-friendly products , Shelf Liner Table and Door Reform
- Application : Table & Furniture Reform, Countertop, Wall Decoration, Backsplash , Laptop, Cell Phones, any other smooth surface
- Package : 1 Roll , Coverage per Roll : 13.12 square feet
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5. Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved
- Berkley Publishing Group
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6. Klymit Static V Sleeping Pad, Lightweight, Outdoor Sleep Comfort for Backpacking, Camping, and Hiking, Inflatable Camping Mattress (Insulated and Non-Insulated), Green
- Country Of Origin : Taiwan
- The Package Height Of The Product Is 4.5 Inches
- The Package Length Of The Product Is 4.5 Inches
- The Package Width Of The Product Is 1 Inches
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7. Petstages Tower of Tracks Cat Toy – 3 Levels of Interactive Play – Circle Track with Moving Balls Satisfies Kitty’s Hunting, Chasing & Exercising Needs
- MENTALLY ENGAGING TRACKS TOY: This interactive cat toy is designed with 3 levels of tracks and 3 brightly colored moving balls to attract kitty’s attention
- GREAT FOR SINGLE and MULTIPLE CAT HOUSEHOLDS: Whether you have one cat or more, the Tower of Tracks will keep your furry friends enticed with bright colors and spinning balls
- UNIQUE SAFETY BAR DESIGN: A small safety bar across the top central opening keeps overly curious kitties from getting stuck while playing with this track toy
- STURY CONSTRUCTION and NON-SLIP BASE: Durable plastic and a non-slip base hold the Tower of Tracks in place during vigorous play
- PLAY IT SAFE: No toy is indestructible. Do not leave toys with unsupervised pets. Remove and replace toy if damaged
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8. Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship
- Category name: pouches-pockets
- Country of origin: taiwan
- Brand name: Maxpedition
- 4.5” high x 3.5” wide x 1.5” thick low-profile modular pocket
- main compartment has an accordion divider with a rear portion protected in soft felt
- Classification: Low profile modular pocket, utility pouch, accessory pouch, MOLLE pocket, MOLLE pouch, camera case.
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9. PetSafe SSSCAT Spray Pet Deterrent, Motion Activated Pet Proofing Repellent for Cats and Dogs, Environmentally Friendly
- PROTECT FURNITURE: Place SSSCAT Spray Deterrent on countertops, next to the trash can or near rooms to keep curious pets out of certain areas of your home
- MOTION-ACTIVATED: When your pet is within 3 feet of the spray deterrent, the motion-activated sensor releases a quick burst of spray
- SAFE FOR PETS: This odorless and harmless spray is safe to use around your pets and does not leave any stains or residue on your furniture
- REPLACEMENT CAN AVAILABLE: Each can of spray deterrent holds approximately 80-100 sprays; when your current can is out of spray, simply purchase a SSSCAT Replacement Can
- BATTERY OPERATED: Motion sensor requires 4 AAA batteries to operate (batteries not included)
- QUALITY PROMISE: PetSafe brand has been a trusted global leader in pet behavior, containment and lifestyle innovations since 1998 to help keep your pet healthy, safe and happy
- U.S.-BASED CUSTOMER CARE: Our pet product experts are here to help you and your pet and are available by phone, email or chat if you have any questions
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10. PetSafe Freedom Aluminum Patio Panel Sliding Glass Dog and Cat Door, Adjustable 76 13/16 in to 80 11/16 in - Large White Pet Door
Quick installation: Simple do it yourself project without cutting into walls or doors; Patio panel adjusts from 75 7/8 inches to 80 11/16 inches to fit your door frameVariety of sizes and colors: Use the sizing chart to find the perfect size door for your best friend; Door is available in 3 color op...
11. Charlie’s Soap Laundry Powder (100 Loads, 1 Pack) Fragrance Free Hypoallergenic Deep Cleaning Laundry Powder – Biodegradable Laundry Detergent That Is Both Safe and Effective
- ECO-FRIENDLY CLEANING POWER: Concentrated powdered laundry soap works on all your laundry, from high-tech fabrics to delicates, washing away smells, stains, and left-behind residue from previous detergents.
- HYPOALLERGENIC: Washing soda and powerful, natural ingredients work together to deep clean, rinse from fabrics completely, and leave nothing on your clothes. The fragrance-free formula is ideal for those with sensitive skin and will not cover stains or odors with artificial brighteners or perfumes. Our powder laundry detergent is safe for hand washing.
- CLOTH DIAPER FRIENDLY: This detergent is safe to use on baby fabrics, effectively deep cleaning cloth diapers and other baby clothes between wears perfect along with your other baby essentials .
- LESS IS MORE: Each bag contains just four ingredients and one tablespoon per dose. No suds, just a deep clean that leaves fabric fresh and soft and your washing machine cleaner by removing old laundry detergents left deep in your machine.
- EPA SAFER CHOICE CERTIFIED: Charlie’s Soap laundry soap and our other sustainable products are certified safer for the environment and is septic safe. The eco-friendly formula helps remove fats, oils, greases, and odors from sewer lines, saving your town money and water making it the perfect laundry solution.
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12. YI 1080p Smart Home Camera, Indoor IP Security Surveillance System with Night Vision, AI Human Detection, Activity Zone, Phone/PC App, Cloud Service - Works with Alexa
- Optional 24/7 Emergency Response Service: YI’s motion alerts and live video feeds are equipped with the option to involve Noon light's Certified Emergency Dispatchers, who coordinate with police, fire, and EMS agencies on customers’ behalf to ensure the situation is promptly handled
- Smart AI Detections: YI cloud storage comes with the latest in Smart AI capabilities which can distinguish Person, Vehicle, or Animal accurately and reduce false alarms significantly (Subscription Needed)
- Reliable Wi-Fi Connectivity - Access your camera with YI Home App on mobile device at anytime, anywhere; support for 2.4Ghz (5Ghz currently not supported) Wi-Fi band
- Cloud & Local Storage: Store all your footage using the YI Cloud service, keeping it safe and available even if unfortunate events occur; for local storage, micro SD-cards up to 64GB are supported (micro SD-card not included)
- Works with Alexa and Google Assistant
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13. Instep Quick-N-EZ Double Tow Behind Bike Trailer, Converts to Stroller/Jogger, Orange
Take your child along for the ride with the InStep Quick-N-EZ double tow-behind bike trailer carrier16-inch pneumatic tires with molded rims provide performance, safety, and timeless style. A five-point harness ensures your riders are protected in both tow and stroller modeThe folding-frame design a...
14. Divorcing and Healing from a Narcissist: Emotional and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery. Co-parenting after an Emotionally destructive Marriage and Splitting up with with a toxic ex
- Pours a thin stream of wine
- Hand-blown recycled glass
- Comes with cork
- Fun at a party!
- 34 oz wine pitcher
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15. ScotchBlue Original Multi-Surface Painter's Tape, 2090, 1.41 inch x 60 yard, 1 roll
- Designed for use on multiple surfaces such as smooth or lightly textured walls, trim, baseboards, tile and glass
- 14-day clean removal leaves behind no damage or sticky residue
- Medium adhesive
- UV and sunlight resistant
- Size: 1.41 in. x 60 yd.
- Pack Size: 1 Roll/Pack
- CREATE SOCIAL DISTANCING MARKINGS: Create box or “X” queues for waiting areas or make lanes in aisles in a fast, easy, and efficient way – whether it’s short- or long-term use
- Tape Application Tips: For great paint results make sure the surface is clean, dry and dust-free so that the tape sticks properly. Next, apply the tape onto the surface while pressing down firmly as you go. And lastly, let the tape set for about 30 to 60 minutes before painting.
- Tape Removal Tips: Wait until the paint is dry to the touch before removing the tape. Lift the tape up by slowly pulling it back on itself, then removing at a 45-degree angle.
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16. 3M 8511 Respirator, N95, Cool Flow Valve (10-Pack)
- NIOSH-APPROVED N95 for at least 95 percent filtration efficiency against certain non-oil-based particles and aerosols
- 3M� COOL FLOW� EXHALATION VALVE helps direct exhaled air downward and allows for easy breathing.
- UP TO 50% EASIER BREATHING. Compared to non-valved 3M� 8200 Testing
- ADVANCED FILTER MEDIA for easy breathing
- M-NOSECLIP helps provide a custom and secure seal
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17. Premier 9' x 12' 1 MIL Clear Plastic Drop Cloth Rolled, 3 Pack, 69730
- Lightweight covering when painting
- One-time floor protection in light traffic areas
- Covers furniture, walls, wood surfaces, windows, cabinets, counters, floors, and carpets
- Protects against paint, water, dust, and debris
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18. HomeRight C800766, C900076 Power Painter, Home Sprayer Tool, HVLP Spray Gun for Painting Projects, Finish Max
- BETTER THAN A BRUSH OR SPRAY CAN: The HomeRight Finish Max paint sprayer is an easy-to-use electric paint sprayer that applies a smooth finish without brush marks. It’s the best paint sprayer option for painting furniture, cabinets, trim, and more
- ADJUSTABLE SETTINGS, EASY TO USE: You can adjust the air cap to spray horizontal, vertical, and round. You can also adjust the material flow control knob to quickly increase or decrease the material output
- SPRAY A VARIETY OF MATERIALS: Spray a variety of materials such as thinned chalk type paint, milk paint, latex paints, enamels, primers, clear sealer, polyurethane, stain and varnish. It also comes with a viscosity cup to easily measure paint thickness
- BRASS SPRAY TIP TECHNOLOGY: The HomeRight Finish Max paint sprayer uses a 2 mm. precision brass spray tip and nozzle, which provide superior performance over plastic counterparts
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19. Presa Premium Paint Brushes Set, 5 Piece
- PREMIUM: Increase your productivity with thoughtfully constructed premium paint brushes for pros
- MORE PAINT: Blending the finest SRT filaments gives brushes up to 30% more paint holding capacity
- SMOOTH: The premium filaments provide a smooth, even release: more finesse and precision
- HEAVY-DUTY: Can withstand even the most abrasive surfaces for versatility and heavy-duty jobs
- TIMELESS: SRT filaments are also durable and easy to clean, making them easy to reuse several times
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20. Rust-Oleum 285143 Ultra Matte Interior Chalked Paint 30 oz, Aged Gray
- Use on a variety of interior surfaces like wood, metal, ceramic, canvas and easily distress to create a vintage look
- Low-odor, latex formula allows for easy clean up with soap and water
- Dries to the touch in just 30 minutes and covers up to 150 sq. ft.; one-coat coverage allows projects to be completed easily
- Excellent adhesion and easy application with minimal prep
- Dries to an ultra-matte velvety, smooth finish
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No therapy is probably going to make this harder. Have you looked into anti anxiety medication with your GP? Even if it's to get the edge off while you try to work things out?
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Anyways, fellow depression/anxiety/lashes out when stressed sufferer here. There's a couple of things that have helped for me:
- Build alternative communication skills. One of my biggest problems was that I didn't know how to properly voice my issues with my SO or anybody else for that matter. My first method of action was being passive aggressive or snide. When I realized what I was doing, I jumped to the other extreme and bottled it all up. Can't ruin things if you're not saying anything, amiright?! But then that would just explode later and cause more problems. A book that helped me very much is Crucial Conversations. It speaks about the thinking fallacies people tend to have (choosing between being honest and being nice), common communication mistakes and a step by step plan on how you can bring hard topics to the table. I use these basics in normal conversations too, when the "stakes" aren't as high. Having an alternative method for me to switch to, instead of my old ones, really helped.
- Change your internal narrative. Another thing that has been absolutely exhausting to deal with is the constant internal monologue about not being good enough, nice enough, kind enough. I should, I need to, if I was a great person I would... If you constantly beat yourself down, you stay down and words have meaning and a certain weight on their own. If I keep telling myself that I suck and I was an idiot for doing xyz, that feeling will stay. I would strongly advice reading A Guide to Rational Living by Albert Ellis. It's a bit of an old book, but I felt like they guy described perfectly what goes on inside my head. By telling yourself that you did something "less than ideal" instead of "incredibly stupid" you kind of take the edge off the situation. I know it sounds stupid, but I've been trying to get into the habit of this and found that after a while I went from having a meltdown of "OMG HOW COULD I BE SUCH AN IDIOT, I WILL NEVER LEARN?!" to facepalming, sighing at myself and be very firm in doing better next time. The energy I save with that, that I would otherwise have wasted, is very useful for other things.
- Change your external narrative. Words have a meaning and interpretations. Sometimes we're raised with ways of phrasing things and don't even realize what exactly it is we're saying. I found that I had a tendency of trying to subconsciously manipulate those around me through language. Basically shoving my feelings onto someone else, so they would make me feel better. Obviously things like bullying are big, clear markers, but there's a lot more subtle ways that people do it and don't even realize. The Gentle Art of Verbal Self-Defense by Suzette Elgin discusses how one would use language against others without being overly aggressive. It made me realize how people were actually manipulating me, but also how I was manipulating them. Have you ever used something like "Well, if you really loved me you would..." or "Even someone like you would understand...". Big communication nono's, but because they're not as aggressive like "You're a bitch" or "Get fucked", people tend to not notice them. By recognizing these patterns being used on you and you using themselves, you can stop using them but also learn tools on how to deal when someone uses them on you.
- Self reflect, self reflect, self reflect. Through my education I was forced to constantly look at my strong and weak points. I had to write assessments twice a year on what I did right and wrong, with proof. And believe me, if you either had an assessment that was all negative or all positive the teachers would have a talk with you about how well you were reflecting. Then after college I landed in a job where every year I had to do the exact darn thing. What had I learned this year? What did I improve since last year? What are my goals for next year? How do I plan to achieve those goals and why did I have those goals? What are reasonable, doable steps to not only achieve the goals, but to also improve some weaknesses? Again, and again, and again. It's hard to say you suck and can't do anything write and you don't have any good qualities when you're forced to look at yourself and point out what your good qualities are. You start usually with small or general things like "well... I'm always on time to work" or "well... I don't maim animals." While I learned this through circumstances, a friend recommended Acceptance: Time to Self-Reflect for Personal Growth by Dr. Olivia Miller as a good starting point. Where are you at now and where do you want to be next year around this time? How are you planning on getting there? What are small, reasonable steps to get there?
- Get to know yourself. Last tip I can give you is that YOU focus on YOU first. Do you have a clear self image of who you are? What do you want in life? What are your likes and dislikes? What would your ideal self and world be 2, 5, 10 years from now? Would you want to be a successful writer? Would you rather have traveled the globe? Or be a doctor, communication expert at a company, mother of 2 kids, have 2 dogs and a cat? People who don't have a clear outline of who they are, tend to be less secure and more often to lash out to others. Having a relationship with someone, while you don't like or know yourself tends to be a disaster. Because people will tend to try and get an identity or validation through the other person to feel good. Then when that other person does something away from the partner (like go on an outing with friends, talk to another person of the opposite gender or just not pick up the phone) the partner become insecure and might lash out because of it. This combines with the self reflecting, who ARE you? What do YOU want? Things like self confidence and high self esteem are nice and dandy, but they can't exist if you don't have a good idea of who you are. Start with looking at yourself first, before looking at your SO. Start small: what food do you like and dislike? What's your favorite color? Favorite way of eating an egg? Then build up the scale: Do you want a pet? Cat or a dog or something completely different? How many? Go higher again: Do you want kids? If so, why and how many? Would you like to be married? Why or why not? And higher again: What do you look for in a spouse? What would your ideal career look like? Until you've got a clear picture of who you are.
Obviously there's a lot of other stuff you can do, but I'd start with those five and go from there.
Also, I BEG you to read the book Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved by Lundy Bancroft. The Amazon reviews alone may give you pause:
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>[The book] helped me understand why I was able to tolerate a final year of angry explosions, open raging, infidelity and systematic social humiliation. It helped me understand and cope with my failure to get support from friends and family. It encouraged me to try with family and friends in a different way. When I finally had an emotional break, I took myself to a local office of HAWC, completely beside myself. Me? Asking for help and support from woman's help center? I make donations to that charity.
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>They lent me Lundy Bancroft's book Why Does He Do That? That led me to this book. Because of the resonating humanity and clear understanding of what I have gone through, I am finally able to face the truth. It's not possible to "behave" in a way that would make my husband be nicer, more fair, more caring or more civil to me. Conventional strategies failed because he does not want our marriage to be different. He chooses to abuse me. I have to love myself the way I love him. I have to be a support to myself. I have to surround myself by people who agree I am worthy of love, care and compassion. I am using this book first to rebuild my outer and inner strength to have clear, strong boundaries with him to manage him out of my life. Step by step i will use the resources to disengage from this man who seems to possess an unending need to hook me for reasons that I may never fully understand and will eventually stop caring about completely.
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I am not a shill for Bancroft, I should add. I just know how powerful his work is, and how it's changed the lives of a lot of people who spent years trying to make their relationships with their SOs work and blamed themselves for the failures.
You got this. Start sneaking the things that matter to you into the truck you want to take so long as your wife won't notice (i.e. put the tarot deck you like in the glove box). It's not much but it will feel like something.
One trick I've heard from people who voluntarily lived in their cars was that they joined a cheap 24 hour gym so they could shower. When you're ready to leave, check Good Will for secondhand camp gear if you need it. If you want to splurge, this is the one I used at a music festival. It was great.
If you feel like putting down roots on the east coast and need a safe place to park, give me a buzz.
I am glad you figured this out now rather than later. I can't imagine being tied to someone like that forever. It was such a low blow and you deserve an apology. She is acting like a spoiled, entitled brat and I'm sorry about that. It seems that her parents feel that they raised her better than that.
At least you got kitties! I can reccomend some toys my cat loves. They have these cardboard holiday houses at [Target] (https://www.target.com/p/basic-cat-scratcher-hyde-38-eek-boutique-8482/-/A-76200981) (Halloween right now) and they are also scratchers. My kitty also loves a [three tier ball thing] (https://www.amazon.com/Petstages-Tower-Tracks-Cat-Toy/dp/B00DT2WL26/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?keywords=three+tier+ball+toy+cat&qid=1569670771&sr=8-3).
There's a great book, [Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-by-Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship] (https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002JPGQ34/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_oloaCb7Y8ZBPK).
It looks at different types of issues in a marriage and whether or not they can typically be fixed if one puts in the effort, and whether people with that relationship issue were generally happy with their decision if they chose to leave or stay.
It's a different approach to the question, which I found very helpful.
Anybody that yells at my cats gets kicked out of my house. End of story. You train animals, or you modify your habits, but you don't scream at animals. I'll admit I've had an incident in the past where our dog, a rescue who was bred and abandoned, shit all over the floor rather than let us know she needed to go outside. For some reason she would sneak downstairs, poop (like, liquid poop, all over the living room), and then sneak back upstairs. After 3 times in one week, while scrubbing diarrhea out of the rug, I lost my temper and yelled at her. I felt terrible after because I knew she wasn't doing it out of malice, but we just could not figure out a way to train her out of this awful habit.
Okay, but that's still my fault, honestly. I'm the human. She's the dog. I needed to keep better track of her, figure out a way to let her out more, or just control my temper. And your SO needs to wash the freaking dishes!
Thankfully, cats are pretty easy to train away from doing things. [Here's a great product you can buy that sends out a burst of compressed air when it senses motion. It's perfect for training pets away from countertops.] (https://www.amazon.com/PetSafe-Deterrent-Activated-Repellent-Environmentally/dp/B0721735K9/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1543245608&sr=8-1-spons&keywords=ssscat&psc=1) Alternately, you can use spray bottles to spritz them when you catch them in the act. You can also spray your SO from time to time if he won't do the damn dishes. You should not have to be putting pans in the oven, dealing with ants.
You can get sliding glass door inserts! I hope this helps! Although it sounds like he would find some reason that some solution like this won’t work.
https://smile.amazon.com/PetSafe-Freedom-Aluminum-Sliding-Adjustable/dp/B005CO91TK
So if you would like an additional neutralizer which I've found works for a surprising array of things: Charlie's Soap. I'm a farmer, which means that sometimes the damnest things have to go through my washing machine.
What I do is I dump a large amount (about a cup) of Charlie's Soap into the machine with a 'junk' shirt or the like (basically something I don't care about, it's just there for the purpose of running a clean cycle equivalent - may I suggest you use his favorite pair of jeans? ;P) and run it on the hottest, longest, roughest cycle available. I do this two or three times and it really works very well.
As for his damn shop rags, I wouldn't even burn them, I would get rid of them completely. And I would clip an ad for a local laundromat for him; he can do his washing there from now on, on his own.
Here is a smart wifi connected camera (with movement notifications/cloud recording/2 way voice chat etc) for only $30US
Might make you feel bit safer, and guarantee evidence if it happens again.
Product information: https://www.yitechnology.com/yi-1080p-home-camera
Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/YI-Security-Surveillance-Monitor-Android/dp/B01CW4AR9K/ref=sr_1_5?s=electronics&ie=UTF8&qid=1535562853&sr=1-5&keywords=yi+1080p+security&dpID=31IWy7IjmNL&preST=_SY300_QL70_&dpSrc=srch
When my son was in kindergarten we walked to school. 1/2 mile each way. And in really cold weather where the boy didn’t want to walk in the cold I used our bicycle trailer. Closed all the windows and put several sleeping bags inside each other and then he was pushed to school inside a closed environment wrapped in several layers to keep him warm. It worked really well for us. I could push 2 kindergarteners in it with no problem. The big wheels make snow easier to push thru. During bike riding conditions I could hook it up to the bike and get them there even faster.
I think they are fairly common now.
Like this one.
Pacific Cycle InStep Quick N EZ Double Bicycle Trailer,Orange/Gray
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002QAZ8ZY/ref=cm_sw_r_sms_c_api_Wwl.BbD9VCJW2
https://www.amazon.com/Divorcing-Healing-Narcissist-Narcissistic-Co-parenting/dp/1082431230
Great book. My husband is a marriage therapist and recommends it all the time.