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My wife isn't as, ass crazy as me, I'm not worried about anything, I'll stick a finger tongue whatever, but she ordered these little finger covers called fingerdoms lol. They are basically as you can guess, finger condoms! These are nice because especially starting out you will resist more strongly against something pushing in, ie fingernails!

The fingerdoms and some good water based lube is the ideal combination for starting out, for clean up and comfort, also as others have recomended, a prostate massager works very well, or there's a Doc Johnson plug shape I particularly enjoy that comes from very small to pretty large that has a similar shape to a prostate massager, and can simulate that pressure during regular Intercourse preparing you for future play.


I'll grab you a link or 2 in a second if you'd like.

Also, all the lube, think how much lube you'd use for anal with your wife, and double it, because you haven't done this much. Then after that, reapplication. If there's awkward friction, more lube, if there's sharp pain, slow down or go smaller, it should not hurt, their may be discomfort, pressure while adjusting,

TLDR: if theirs pain you need to, slow down, size down, lube up. Ohhh BREATH, relaxation is important, get comfortable, put a pillow under your hips enjoy!

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Fetlife membership is free, once you sign up, then you can click the links and see. Between the two groups they have over 10k members and a ton of posts on the subject. If you don't get a good recco here, try over there.

My recco is here

For what they are, (a plug + bullet kit? big whoop) I personally feel they are overpriced but then again I have never actually used one. This one is their top of the line, they do have them a bit cheaper as well if you look.

For something a little less elaborate,(not multispeed or type of vibration, just ON/OFF) but still high quality this

If you are looking for something a bit more fulfilling, you might try the standard plug kit and when you get to the biggest one and still want MOAR you can pick up something that's even fatter. This one is close to 3 inches wide (2.85 according to the review) which is no joke.

It's tough to rationalize spending 130 bucks on one toy when you could get all the others I mentioned and still have cash for dinner and a movie but the reviews on the Aneros are chock full of dudes singing it's praises . You already have what amounts to a nonvibrating knock off so you may be really impressed or you might be really 'meh'

If you are short on funds and looking for a toy that can be multi- purpose, consider a hitachi magic wand. Keep your current toy and just add the wand touching the base or tuck it under sack when um, researching it's scientific value.

I think the um, thesis that explodes out of you is comparable to anything that 130 buck glorified bullet vibe is going to deliver and more to the point if you ever find a research assistant of the fairer sex, it will be a lot of fun to have around because it's well, versatile.

Hope this helps.

Ooh, yay glass! I have this one and love it.

But yes, the size for Adam is wonderful, and definitely great for the puss all by itself.

My first time went well. Good communication is key to mutual enjoyment and whatnot. My favorite water-based lube is Slippery Stuff Gel. It doesn't run and get everywhere like other lubes.

Um...angles are a little different when it comes to anal sex, so be prepared to alter your favorite positions a bit. Have pillows and/or folded up towels so you can be comfortable.

If your dildo is separate from the harness (IT SHOULD BE!) remember that you can turn it so that the curve of the cock is better positioned to stimulate your prostate. For example, if she's doing you doggy style, you can flip the dildo so that it curves downward. It also allows for crazy positions like her on her knees, you laying on your side, dildo in the harness sideways. (you need to set up an incline for this one or a low bed)

I went ahead and invested in a RodeoH panty for the wife and had already previously had a Vixen Mustang I used myself. The wife liked the panties. The Mustang seems to be perfect for me as it's the right length to hit the right spot in all the positions we've done so far.

I use Sliquid Sassy and like it. Might try Gun Oil as I've heard good things. In addition, I sometimes will use a cube of frozen coconut oil and slide it in just before activities to make sure everything is lubed up well. I just throw the coconut oil into a pot, melt it and pour it into these, https://www.amazon.com/Prepworks-Progressive-Bottle-Stick-Trays/dp/B00J21CAWE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1472925056&sr=8-1&keywords=bottle+ice+tray put them in the freezer and when they're frozen I transfer them into a zip lock bag and leave them in the freezer.

We don't use a condom

I bought one of these, http://www.cvs.com/shop/health-medicine/digestive-health/constipation-relief/cara-adult-enema-syringe-8-oz-prodid-743891?skuId=743891 haven't had any issues to date with anything on the dildo. I also ensure I do a daily fiber drink to make sure everything comes out like it should to begin with.

We use hot water to clean the dildo with soap. Keep in mind that the FDA just banned soaps from using anti bacterial. http://www.nbcnews.com/health/health-news/fda-orders-antibacterials-removed-consumer-soaps-n642036

Tip, I find it MUCH easier to let her bend me over the bed first to get things initially inserted and loosened up a little. From there we can move into different positions and insertion isn't an issue.

My fiance and I have been enjoying pegging since the beginning of our relationship. We have tried different lubes, and our favorite is called Slippery Stuff Gel lubricant. It's a fantastic high quality water based lube and it works great for us. It stays where we put it and we have used it on me for many different toys and pegging positions. I highly recommend it.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B007P7LRI0/ref=mp_s_a_1_2?qid=1398720260&sr=8-2

That's a larger bottle with a pump. We switched to smaller bottles (linked below) and cut down the pump from a large bottle to fit. The small bottles are half of the size of the large one.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B005NDY0PU

Husband here, she will be back in a few. We use The Tantus Flame kit: http://www.amazon.com/Tantus-HK4404-Flame-Kit/dp/B000PHHFPQ/ref=sr_1_36?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1334623382&sr=1-36

Its not too big, and honestly i think i might be ready for something a little bigger because i can feel it "almost" being enough to REALLY rub my prostate. This does it pretty good though and i think great for beginner. She likes it cause the little vibrator bullet hits her clit. We have had issues with it slipping out of the harness sometimes but not often. Put a condom on the thing for easy cleanup :)

An enema bulb might seem extreme but if you want to be sure give yourself some time ahead of your session and go for it till the water runs clear. this one is pretty cheap and gets the job done: http://www.amazon.com/Cleanstream-AB904-Enema-Bulb/dp/B004LYEKQG/
as for the hair, it probably won't get in the way too much. Lube is your friend in this situation, for this and other obvious reasons. I wouldn't shave if I were you.

^Nice^! Thanks for sharing.

Double-Dils can be tons of fun. You can ride and fuck at the same time. xD

When you are able to get a new strap you should try this out. I bought it for an ex 'cause I figured ze lady should get more pleasure out of it (though she loved(s) the control aspect) too. I bought the largest ^^\^_^ but it comes in many sizes. She said it was great for G-stimulation. Really stayed in her well too, no having to hold it or anything. =D

I just got this one its pretty spendy but its really nice
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0059WW66A/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o04_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Heres another that you can use with almost any didlo and is much cheaper
http://www.amazon.com/Bare-As-You-Dare-Harness/dp/B000AOOBPG/ref=pd_bxgy_hpc_img_y

These are also nice
http://www.amazon.com/Tantus-Feeldoe-Slim-Vibrator-Blue/dp/B000PHJBCG/ref=pd_sim_hpc_3?ie=UTF8&refRID=1AWQCEW0H797J6DSCN7C

I have found that amazon is amazing with all the options, the only bad thing is you have too wait

Thanks a lot for responding! I was actually looking at the slim, and I think that I'm going to go for it. As for a strap this is what I've been looking at. It looks a little cheap, but its also a first, so I'm not sure that I want to invest in a great one.
I just watched the video, thanks for pointing it out!

This seems to be the one http://www.amazon.com/California-Exotics-Sophias-Rider-Harness/dp/B001RNI8SA hope that helps :) Also, that is a lot less than we bought it for... almost half off

My friend uses This she says it is very comfy and can handle the larger toys lol

Doc Johnson Super Big End I gotta warm up for this big boy.

Yup, getting to know your own body is the best place to start.

This book is really helpful. Second time I've recommended it this week, but it really does a good job of addressing both physical and mental aspects of ass play.

If you want the Cadillac of harnesses and a top-of-the-line beginner size dildo - these would be my suggestions. Comfortable, incredibly well-made and will last you roughly forever.

I have one of these and really enjoy it for prepping for pegging
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0044XLZ3A/ref=wms_ohs_product?ie=UTF8&psc=1

This one :)

We got the SpareParts Joque harness. I think if we like pegging we will get the Feeldoe slim or the More. Do you have any others?

The spareparts joque:

http://www.amazon.com/Spareparts-Joque-Harness-Black-Size/dp/B002DOJR1O

I HIGHLY recommend this. My wife didn't like pegging me for years because it was uncomfortable, took way too much time to get setup, and wasn't fun for her because once we did get going there was no "umph" behind her thrusts (loose harness) ... with this product its comfortable, goes on in seconds, and she can move naturally.

My wife just got this and this. No problems to be had and it feels great for both of us.

Hmm... then maybe the Joque, it's a Spareparts harness you can even get off Amazon.

It appears to be a california exotics from this harness/dildo set.

We have the Share but are going to be upgrading to the share xl soon.

While it's not a double dildo, if you want really big, check out the ultimate fantasy by bad dragon. We just got ours and it is definitely big. We're looking forward to breaking it in very soon