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I have yet to experience a prostate orgasm either anally or through sounding. I've had a hard time getting anal play to activate much but I've also only used my fingers. I have some toys coming in that will let me try it a bit differently and hope to achieve a prostate O with those.

Via sounding, after getting use to sticking something in there (it takes a while), I finally got in far enough to feel something really unique. The first dozen sounding sessions were with a straight rod that was 6mm in diameter. I couldn't reach my prostate with the straight rod but I had a more snake-like rod that was 6mm and 8mm in diameter which could get around the final curve to start reaching the prostate.

The first time I used the snake was as uncomfortable as the 3rd time I used the straight rod. After easing it in enough I felt some minor discomfort near my perineum. That part of the urethra is less sensitive so I was taking an extremely cautious approach to pushing myself. The discomfort wasn't painful but I could tell that part wasn't use to the new diameter yet. All I did was gently, slowly pull out and push in for a while to ease that part of my body into handling the larger diameter. When I pushed in I noticed something faint. Besides the minor discomfort down there, I felt a slight need to pee (like all the pleasing sensations of needing to pee without the bloated discomfort) as well as some sort of tingling in my head (not penis, but cranium). It wasn't like a tingle in my muscles or anything. More like the first 1% of the buildup sensation of a normal orgasm. It did feel nice but was so faint and I was paranoid about the discomfort so I stopped.

Second time with the snake I felt a bit more confident and the discomfort was less. Again, I reached that point where something faint yet pleasing was building up. I didn't push too hard since I'm still new to prostate O and figured my body is still adjusting to the new size, but I was able to push a bit more this time. I don't know if I went deeper (it's hard to measure because there's still a couple of inches of snake sticking out when I get there but I plan on counting the balls to start keeping track). The sensation to pee was greater as well as the tingling in my head. It felt really, really good and I knew I was on the right track. If the first time was 1% of an orgasm, this time I think I got to about 3%.

The problem I'm bumping into is unfamiliarity with what will happen if I keep pushing. Most session with my sounding rods has been while I'm flaccid. It took a while before I built up enough confidence to try getting hard while the rod is in, and inserting the rod is such an invasive feeling that I couldn't keep it hard once I started trying to push the rod in. Also, the pressure in my urethra is greater when fully aroused, which means my urethra is tighter. That tightness is enough to make inserting a rod more painful. Too painful for me for now, despite being a masochist.

When I finally reached full mast while the straight rod was inside already, any clenching caused a bit of pain. The urethral walls are so sensitive. I did like the pain from clenching but I was barely clenching. I did some edging with the rod in but I was too worried about the clenching to try for an orgasm. As hard as I try, I usually can't NOT clench a lot when I reach orgasm, and I knew if I couldn't control it I could wind up clenching really hard and harming my urethral walls.

So, that's why I haven't tried pushing for a prostate O with the snake yet. It feels so good to gently poke at it directly like that, but I don't know what would happen if I reached prostate O while it's inside. I'm afraid any jerking or clenching would quickly make the experience really bad, so I'm giving my body an extremely long time to adjust before trying anything too serious.

I'll keep trying. It's a lot of fun and that pleasure I felt from reaching the prostate is absolutely wonderful. I highly recommend it. Best to read up plenty on it if you haven't already and start with something that is around 5mm (I started with 6mm). If you think your urethra is smaller, 4mm is good to start with. If you think it's a bit bigger, 6mm can work. I bought the snake first and realized right away that the 8mm balls were too much, so I immediately stopped and went with the 6mm straight rod which worked fine (still hurt the first few times and burning while peeing happened for a couple of days).

Edit: For lubricant to use with sounding rod (please read about sanitizing and caring for sounding rods! that's the most important part of owning a sounding rod), I use surgilube which you can get on Amazon for super cheap right here.

I have a very similar “toy”, and it is my go-to...

Empower Back and Neck Massager... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06Y2D4FDD?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

It lets me lay back in a comfortable position, but still massage my prostate. The curvature and angles are perfect. And the big ball is about the same size as the big side of the Njoy Wand (very slightly bigger). I actually have an Njoy wand and I prefer this toy due to its comfort and ease of use. I just wish it was the same metal finish as the Njoy, but it works great.

A few others that I'll recomend as personal favorites:

Adam Male P-Spot Vibrator Fairly large head, but it does have a targeted vibrator. Good angle, plastic and non toxic. Can be difficult to orient and doesn't have a flared base, but it's long so I wouldn't worry about that.

Evolved Novelties Get a Grip

Much smaller head, but the design is a bit better and you can get some good leverage. Small enough that you can probably put it under your foreskin and clearly a flared base.

Lux LX-2 Plug

This one is one of my favorites - although not a vibrator. Great shape, really comfortable, silicone.

I ejaculated like I was masturbating after only about 3 or 4 minutes of using it. I've been using a few different sizes of butt plugs and a manual prostate massager thingy for a few months now once in a while. I've only ejaculated without masturbating once after massaging my prostate quite intensely the first time I used the massager. After that I've been combining prostate massaging using either the massager or my fingers with normal masturbation. The orgasm is a little more intense than without the massager but not very.

My experience with the Lelo Hugo was good but I didn't really know what to expect. I kinda just slid it in (it didn't fall out at all for me, but I guess that's just anatomical) and used the remote to vary the intensity. I also moved it around a little to massage different parts of my prostate. And then I orgasmed and ejaculated (a lot, more than usual) without much warning. The feeling you have a few seconds before orgasming from masturbating wasn't really there. I guess I expected something more intense as I've read some very intense things in some reviews of prostate vibrators... I'll probably to do it in a more relaxed and slow way next time.

> I'm 18, and I live with my family, so I can't order toys and lube,

Maybe you could get away with one of these and some plant-based cooking oils. I've heard of coconut, grapeseed and avocado oils being used as good, safe sex lube. I tried some avocado oil just a couple days ago because I had some in my kitchen and I was curious. I only tried it once, but I think I might like it better than Astroglide. I have some more experimenting to do.

Get a medium sized plug(preferably glass) and a dildo. The plug is necessary to prepare for the dildo without discomfort for beginners.

In my experience:
dildo = more work, better results
vibe = easier, harder to get anywhere


Get a reasonably sized dildo, around 5-8 inch insertable length. Textures vary a ton and make a big difference to the experience.

I recommend this plug:
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00N6KXV8O/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o08_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I've had it for 3 years and its still my goto warmup plug. I also recommend hybrid lube, my favorite is Bad Dragon cum lube or if thats not available on amazon i get Spunk brand lubricant.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00FG83940/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_5Hn6AbF3RN47B

This one has become one of my favorite toys of all time. Sometimes I suck it (when not vibrating. It is a good size & shape for deepthroating!) while my SO fucks me for a nice spitroast feeling, and sometimes use it anally to get the DEEP vibrations. It is a great size and shape and is bery comfortable

Okay. I wasn't sure.

The Aneros toys you can find on their website. I like the Helix Syn because it's silicon and softer than most toys of that type

This is one of the first toys I bought. CalExotics booty rocket
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00725VDW0/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_UNLPCb57TPCS5

This next one is a vibrating egg made for vaginal use. If you cum with it in, it's a bit difficult to remove and you might get the feeling that the attached handle might break. Patience patience. I've used it at least 100 times and it hasn't broken yet. And the POs I get from it are amazing. Once I get going, it feels like it's moving in and out and darting all around inside me. Incredible sensations
https://www.edenfantasys.com/vibrators/bullet-egg-vibrators/adventure-rechargeable-remote-control-egg?tag=48e7ae50-85f1-5bc7-6ac4-2ad9b2211c5e&pnid=43919336

And last but not least, my favorite. I finish off with this one. The Utimi vibrating prostate massager
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01EMYJPWS/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_-OLPCb9ZFB348

All these toys except the booty rocket, stay inside me, freeing up both hands to stimulate my nipples and the rest of my body.

The Zwei doesn't vibrate and I don't recommend you use it in a sitting position. The Zwei actually thrusts. If you really want to get a decent vibe that you can use while sitting, I'd recommend picking up a Magic Wand and the G-spot attachment. Since the Magic Wand only has two speeds (both are very intense) I would also recommend picking up this dimmer switch, because you can use it to get much more control over the intensity of the Magic Wand's vibrations. I personally find it better to start on slow settings, then gradually work my way up.

These are really fun as well: https://www.amazon.com/Aneros-Peridise-Unisex-Stimulators-White/dp/B004NXRMEW/ref=sr_1_17?fap=1&keywords=aneros&qid=1574814999&s=hpc&sr=1-17

Pressure Positive Co. The Backnobber II (Cobalt Blue) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0010B8CGM

This is what I have. Looks like a back massager cause it is.

It separates in the middle and the section on the right in the first picture is larger and longer than the other side so you get a choice. It’s half the price of the Njoy Pure Wand and works the exact same way.

Don't know if they're safe, but the back nobber is a giant s curve and I know some people use that.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0010B8CGM