Best products from r/SexPositive
We found 18 comments on r/SexPositive discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 33 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the top 20.
1. It's Perfectly Normal: Changing Bodies, Growing Up, Sex, and Sexual Health (The Family Library)
- Createspace
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4. Overcoming Unwanted Intrusive Thoughts: A CBT-Based Guide to Getting Over Frightening, Obsessive, or Disturbing Thoughts
NEW HARBINGER
5. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
- Penguin Books
- Ideal for a bookworm
- It's a great choice for a book person
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6. The PTSD Workbook: Simple, Effective Techniques for Overcoming Traumatic Stress Symptoms
- New Harbinger
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7. The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD: A Guide to Overcoming Obsessions and Compulsions Using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
The Mindfulness Workbook for OCD A Guide to Overcoming Obsessions and Compulsions Using Mindfulness and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy New Harbinger Self help Workbooks
11. Tryone Gooseneck Tablet Stand, Tablet Mount Holder for iPad iPhone Series/Nintendo Switch/Samsung Galaxy Tabs/Amazon Kindle Fire HD and More, 30in Overall Length(Black)
- 【Statement:】Kindly note that this item is suitable for viewing or reading only. It will shake quite a bit and make you uncomfortable if you need to touch or tap the device frequently. However it is inevitable due to some law of physics.
- 【Using Tips:】1.When you are holding a heavy tablet, you could try to loop the gooseneck into a "S" shape or circle shape which would provide some more stability. 2.Bend using two hands and bend just the gooseneck when adjusting the position because it is stiff. Pull the device violently when adjusting may broke the nut. 3.Also, don't overtighten the base clamp too much so it won't break easily.
- 【Reinforced Bolt Clamp Base:】Reinforced and thickened base. Won’t break easily. Fit for 3 inches(75mm) thickness countertop or headboard.
- 【Flexible Stiffened Arm:】Made of Aluminium-Magnesium Alloy, stiffened material, very sturdy and flexible. 30in Overall Length from bottom to top.
- 【Compatibility:】Compatible with any devices from diagonal 4.7 to 10.5 inches.
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12. 10 SPEED WATERPROOF MAGIC WAND RECHARGEABLE CORDLESS MASSAGER PINK
Waterproof Design100% SiliconeRechargeable Wireless
13. CAD Audio USB U1 Dynamic Recording Microphone
- Dynamic microphone element designed for vocals and instruments
- Cardioid pick-up pattern isolates the main sound source and minimizes background noise
- Smooth, extended frequency response is excellent for singing, speech and instruments
- Built in pop filter minimizes "P-popping"
- On-Off switch for instant mute
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14. What You Really Really Want: The Smart Girl's Shame-Free Guide to Sex and Safety
- Diamond Comics
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16. Triple Pleaser Wand Attachment
- Increase your pleasure from wand massagers
- Achieve anal and clitoral stimulation
- Fits most hand held wands
- Country Of Origin: United States
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I love, love, love the book It's Perfectly Normal, and it's what my daughter and I read together. (I gave her the choice of reading it on her own, and she chose to read it together.)
It's not only sex positive, but it is very inclusive about non-heterosexual relationships. The section on masturbation is lovely. I appreciate that there's a two-page illustration of tons of naked people (pseudo-realistic cartoons), and it's every kind of body you can imagine—elderly folks, handicapped, various ethnicities, skinny, fat. It gives a great sense of how we're different, yet so much the same.
I also appreciate that it has a sense of humor while keeping it very real. The title says it all, really, and "It's perfectly normal" is a theme that runs throughout the book.
Edit: Wow, just checked out the one-star reviews on Amazon. The fact that people have their panties in a bunch about it should be proof enough that it actually tells the honest truth.
This book is awesome for what you're looking for: http://www.amazon.com/This-Party-Started-Frances-Hill/dp/0811848701/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1375875395
There are a ton of games ranging from mild to wild designed to get people in the sexy mood. Probably won't be able to get it by this weekend but check it out for next time.
Edit: I'm feeling nice and if you'd like, I'll scan a few of the games that have been more successful for me. Can't post them till this afternoon though.
Thats a bummer. Sorry about your friend. Those things sound convincing because they tell you that dating can be controlled with a little rationality.
Thing is, dating "rules" are just super variable. There will never be a universal guide because there's just too much variation by location, culture, and taste. Everything I've seen opposing this have been pseudo science. Sure, there are some assumptions that are safe bets, but there's just too many exceptions to every "rule" for them to be rules.
I really recommend the book From Front Porch to Back Seat. It wont give him a how-to guide, BUT it will knock down a bunch of Seduction Guide bullshit. Those seduction guides tend to frame their rules as based on "natural" and universal behavior between gender, usually rooted in some pseudo-science evolutionary psychology. This book will tell him how all those cultural conventions around dating that we think have always been there are actually very recent and therefore, unless human beings evolve like Pokemon, definitely are NOT coded by evolution into our DNA.
Dan Savage stuff also helped me out a lot when I first started dating, but honestly I haven't been following him for a while so I dont really know any particular link that would be most helpful.
What you are experiencing sounds really awful and yet it's entirely normal. The basic principle of the brain is "what fires together wires together". When you had that very intense experience combining orgasms and suicidal thoughts because of medication, it simply made a literal connection in your brain. You can break it, and any good therapist can help you (doesn't have to be a sex therapist).
This can be treated like an OCD symptom where you are having intrusive thoughts triggered by a stimulus. There are great books on how to do this and I highly recommend them:
https://www.amazon.com/Overcoming-Unwanted-Intrusive-Thoughts-Frightening/dp/1626254346
https://www.amazon.com/Mindfulness-Workbook-OCD-Overcoming-Compulsions/dp/1608828786
Mind you, I'm not saying you have OCD, or any disorder. But your brain is "locked" in linking these two parts of your life in a very unpleasant way. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you and this could happen to anyone who was set off with nasty side effects of medication.
You may also approach this like an experience of Post Traumatic Stress, which can also show up with intrusive thoughts. Good resources for that exist too:
https://www.amazon.com/PTSD-Workbook-Effective-Techniques-Overcoming/dp/1626253706
https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748
You didn't do anything wrong and you can definitely get past this. The harder you try to fix a mental association the more you can strengthen it, so you need some techniques. Tools for OCD and PTSD are designed just for you in that regard.
I'd buy all 4 books and then find any good therapist to work through them with.
Good luck. I know with the right tools and practice you can separate these two aspects of your experience and get back to enjoying sex, which you deserve.
"Traversing Gender" is pretty general, but it does a good job of describing and honoring non-binary and fluidity.
https://www.amazon.ca/Traversing-Gender-Understanding-Transgender-Realities/dp/194273381X
Jane sexes it up (amazon link) was pretty well the only book I used on my journey to where I am today. It's really fantastic and offers a lot of different perspectives.
I have it on good authority that Sex For One by Betty Dodson is an excellent source: http://www.amazon.com/Sex-One-The-Joy-Selfloving/dp/0517886073/ref=pd_sim_b_1
May I suggest something like this if you have something to anchor it to next to the bed?
Otherwise there's ones out there that have a base that can sit on the floor and you can maneuver the bendy cable to your comfortable eye level.
This is the one I use and love. I've had no issues with it and it is more than capable of getting the job done without breaking the bank.
https://www.amazon.com/SPEED-WATERPROOF-RECHARGEABLE-CORDLESS-MASSAGER/dp/B013GUAGO0
If it is just you recording I would suggest http://www.amazon.com/CAD-U1-Dynamic-Recording-Microphone/dp/B000ULQTE0 a USB microphone. You get better control of the audio. A pop filter helps too. Context, I think about doing my own videos and did research on what equipment I would use.
Well, you might want to check out this book - it's aimed at women, but relevant to what you seem to want. This one is similar and very well thought of.
Guide to Getting it On is a great sex ed book--should be in every High School Library if I had any say in it.
Have you ever tried any of the attachments like "http://www.amazon.com/Trinity-Triple-Pleaser-Wand-Attachment/dp/B003156GFO/ref=acc_glance_hpc_ai_ps_t3_t_3" for instance?
Our kids liked [Its So Amazing] (https://www.amazon.com/Its-So-Amazing-Families-Library-ebook/dp/B00XJQZCGY/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1E0EQIICAZKA1&keywords=its+so+amazing+book&qid=1555365287&s=gateway&sprefix=its+so+ama%2Caps%2C133&sr=8-1)
Get this book to help you understand:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0073WNSV6/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1