Best products from r/agender

We found 3 comments on r/agender discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 3 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the top 20.

Top comments mentioning products on r/agender:

u/muninn_gone · 1 pointr/agender

Sounds like you're the one in the closet, OP, and that sucks. It must be hard for you to hide who you are. Saying you don't want to look like a homo while you're actively dating someone from the LGBTQ+ community is pretty stupid, yeah. You're dating a trans person. On the positive side, you have a chance to be a hero here. You have a chance to be the ally your partner and everyone like them needs. Stay safe and don't out them, but don't talk about your love like it's shameful when it isn't. That doesn't make you cooler. Misgendering for your own comfort does make you kind of a dick.

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Words you can use to describe them:
"My partner" instead of gf or bf
"They/them/theirs" pronouns if that's what your partner likes best. If they prefer he/him/his and they're public about it, don't stop using those pronouns just to make yourself feel better.

Books for how to explain they/them pronouns to other people:
A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns


Most importantly, DO TALK TO THEM. They deserve to know, and you don't want them finding out later that you misgendered them.

u/Thanatos02 · 4 pointsr/agender

This sounds a lot like how I identify. I label myself agendered, because most of the time, I don't like being gendered one way or the other, but if I have to be gendered, I prefer feminine pronouns to masculine pronouns. I also went through a stage thinking I was MtF trans, which eventually helped me realise that I didn't want to be identified as either.

As others have said, it's basically up to you how you identify. Ultimately, it's just a label to communicate with others roughly where you're at with gender, not a definition you have to fit into. What you should do really depends on how you want to express yourself and how important it is to you that others recognise your identity.

I found it useful to talk to people about my experiences, as the questions they brought up I often hadn't asked myself. I also found the My New Gender Workbook to be a helpful exercise in figuring myself out.

I was on hormones on the time, which resulted in a bit of consternation on my part, but I've decided that if I have to be one way or the other, I'd rather be in a feminine body with varying expression than in a masculine one. I'm going to talk to my endocrinologist next time I see him about non-binary/androgynous hormone options.

PM me if you need someone to talk to about it.

u/Marinaisgo · 1 pointr/agender

My mother in law became a disciple of cute slouchey hats when she was on chemo and her hair fell out.

They look like this (although this one is sold out): https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01LW0GURE/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_DE0KBb2J0ME0B