(Part 2) Best products from r/askseddit
We found 25 comments on r/askseddit discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 52 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
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22. Hudson Men's Derby Lace-Up
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23. What Every Body Is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
- Product Condition: No Defects
- Good one for reading
- Comes with Proper Binding
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24. How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds or Less
- Used Book in Good Condition
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25. How To Win Friends and Influence People
- Psychology, How To Win Friends and Influence People..Psychology..Dale Carnegie.Copyright 1936.Copyright renewed 1964 by Donna Dale.Revised edition copyright 1981 by Donna Carnegie and Dorothy Cornegie.. Manufactured in the United States of America 10... ISBN:9781439167342...Manufactured in the United States of America 10.How to win friends
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- Simon & Schuster hard cover edition November 2009
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26. The Social Psychology of Gender: How Power and Intimacy Shape Gender Relations (Texts in Social Psychology)
Used Book in Good Condition
27. The Cure - Secrets Everyone Should Know To Become Immediatly Successful With Women
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- no latex smell
- very sensitive
- thin condom
- lubricated
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30. How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
- How to Talk to Anyone
- 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
- English
- First Edition
- Paperback
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33. No More Mr Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life
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- Ideal for a bookworm
- It's a great choice for a book person
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- Great product!
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36. The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists
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- Language: English
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37. Self-Coaching: The Powerful Program to Beat Anxiety and Depression, 2nd Edition, Completely Revised and Updated
38. She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman (Kerner)
- William Morrow Paperbacks
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Yeah, I've done hundreds of approaches, and my recommendation to newbies is always the same: The Rules of the Game. I'm assuming you've read The Game first, of course. It'll will start you off slow and easy with important foundational material you won't see elsewhere and teach you everything important you need to know to begin in a coherent 30 day system. To use philosarapter's baseball analogy, you could go out and just start swinging for balls (which is extremely frustrating) or you could pick up a book that teaches the fundamentals of baseball; stance, grip, keep your eye on the ball, etc. This is that book. Of course, nothing beats having a great coach but they are extremely expensive and really only good once you've got the basics down. Naturally, you'll want to get on a team and actually play soon enough, and that's where you want to join up with a Lair and find some good wingmen. But yeah, start with Rules of the Game.
Ok, here is some advice since it seems like maybe you are close, but don't quite get the hygiene thing. First, piercings/tattoos aren't a turn off to chicks, they are a turn on. I'm not big into them, but women don't think you're dirty for having them.
Second, in my opinion, and a lot of other PUA's, a little stubble, or some facial hair is good. It's not a sign of bad hygiene. Facial hair is a distinctly masculine feature. Chick's dig manly men, so a little stubble or well groomed beard or 'stache is a turn-on to most women.
Actually, nearly every PUA I know has some kind of facial hair unless they simply don't grow enough for it to look decent.
Being well groomed means not smelling, principally. Brush your teeth twice a day. If you just got done eating something smelly, chew some gum for a few minutes.
If you sweat like a whore in church, carry some antiperspirant that works well in your car/backpack and use it.
Groom your nails. If you bite your nails, stop. If the skin and cuticles are fucked up, get it fixed.
If you've got hair coming out of your ears/nose, trim that shit. Really these are signs of a guy with good hygiene.
Also, I'm sure you've heard it a million times, but hitting the gym 2-3x a week will do wonders for your inner game, and consequently wonders for your sex life.
Good luck bro.
Being able to play this, ordering a pair of Hudson Livingston's that fit, (hopefully), and observing the lunch area from the row of benches, organisation my thoughts
Also end of term holidays just started, so that's quite fucking sweet
RELAX then just do what you are doing and acknowledge when your body language is off and stop. Read some books on body language to learn to project more confidence. I recommend What Every BODY is Saying: An Ex-FBI Agent's Guide to Speed-Reading People
This isn't really what I am looking for but thanks. It looks like it is about gaming your social circle which is the last thing I want to do right now. I'm looking into just connecting with people. I'm reading this at the moment and wouldn't mind recommendations along these lines.
There's always the classic How To Win Friends and Influence People
You could take a straw poll. Or you could read scientific research on the subject. Something like this? There's gotta be some free info on the internets about social psychology and gender.
naw, congrats on first comment though!!!!
Not all condoms are created equal my friends. I personally use crown skinless condoms. 14 bucks for 100 from amazon and they are as close to bareback as I've ever felt. Seriously I'll never use another unless it's an emergency and I'm out of these. Plus theyre pink. I like pink.
If you're interested in having a serious conversation. I'm willing to talk.
My stance:
Negging and the number system are fine. I have no problems with them. First: The number system [this is the whole attractive 1-10 scale]. Its not an evaluation of how much the person is worth. Its how attractive are they to you. Women do this and men do this. They have different reasons for doing this. Claiming that it's a crappy thing to do is disingenuous to yourself and who you talk to. If you don't use a number system, you still compare others. The other benefit [and why pua uses] to the number system is that its easy to describe to others without going into the appearence details or personal identifiers of the girls online. As the community, we're not interested in identifying the person. We're interested in the interaction.
Negging: Its teasing. It's not a compliment and it's not an insult.
From a lot of feminists that I"ve read their arguments, their opposition tends to stem from extreme situations or the lack of social IQ. When you go for a kiss with a girl, both parties don't confirm that the action that is going to take place is going to happen.
In a perfect world:
It would be easy to get to know the opposite sex and come to a mutual agreement about what each other want. However, games are played. Girls, in general, are playing a game that the guys aren't aware of. However, guys are thrown into the game and are expected to play well. I am of the opinion of lets stop playing games and have a bit of fun together. Everyone could be direct and clear about what they want and don't want. However this is not the case in the real world.
Marketing
When PUA information is sold, it is typically sold by marketers. They're going for what appeals to a base desire of the demographic (guys), sex. Guys want to be able to communicate what they want without the negative reprocutions that have been getting worse. [There are women out there that want to ruin a guy's reputation for hitting on her or just wanting sex. Thats screwed up, but again... some women] I think there is a lot of bad marketing out there. I'm referring to the types "have sex with any girl you want." A lot of the fear about the pickup guides/classes/bootcamps comes from the same fears about hypnotism... its "forcing people to do what they don't want to do." You cannot make any girl, without the threat of violence or coercion, have sex with you if they don't want to. Where am I going with this: Seduction/game requires that you learn how to be your best self, be aware of the situation, and to become very approachable to the opposite sex. From the perspective of strategy, coercion and violence is a very bad idea and it would limit your opportunities. Seduction/game: We want to meet agreeable people, and to have fun with others.
How men are treated
I think something that should be address is how men are treated in modern society. As a man, you're not given a lot of opportunity to be social, or to be apart of a community unless you really work for it. Norah Vincennt might be able to explain this point a bit better: http://www.amazon.com/Self-Made-Man-Womans-Year-Disguised/dp/0143038702
[However, after the experiement she found her self to be in such a bad state that it required a stay in a mental insitution for depression.] (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norah_Vincent)
Does anyone have any expereince with this book?
How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
"Older guy" here. Experience matters, but as with all things, it is much faster to learn with some guidelines. The sooner you hear this, the better:
Do this with 2 different girls and you're set for life. "older" won't matter, won't let you take her comment like this.
Bonus: Do /r/NoFap for extra energy. But this one is a tough one.
My recommendation is to head over to /r/NoFap and also check out No More Mr. Nice Guy.
Energy, chattiness, and catch/release.
E.g., this girl asked me a random question which was pretty interesting, then gave her opinion on it. I want to stress the second part... she didn't just patiently listen to me (I get tired of my own voice), and while she didn't disagree or argue, she threw out a pretty profound opinion and asked me about it. All of this with energy - faster-paced than a normal conversation - and a smile.
After we chatted for a bit she disappeared to do who-knows-what, and then came back. I felt that although she approached me, she was only talking to me because she wanted to - and she could just as easily have not come back.
Turns out she was a bit of a Siren... I ended up nicknaming her Belladonna for two reasons.. means beautiful lady and it's a poisonous plant. That aspect kept me around, though, despite temptations. If she had had slightly more control of the poison I'd have stayed.
PS: For women's mindsets in seduction... Normally I don't recommend it, but Robert Greene's Art of Seduction has a chapter on the Siren. I have to say, of the many (many...) girls in my life, the ones who still stand out were sirens.
I would recommend this book: http://www.amazon.com/The-Way-Superior-Man-Challenges/dp/1591792576/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1367893046&sr=8-1&keywords=the+way+of+the+superior+man\
The power of now by Eckhart Tolle is a fantastic book for this. I am definitely not the spiritual type, but this book seems to capture more than just spirituality.
r/seddit is for everybody. It's a pickup reddit. It's not specific to getting women.
That said, Magic Bullets was where I got my start. It's a book by the master PUA Savoy. It works on men just as well as on women.
i agree that philosophy books are very important, but i found one self-help book really interesting. http://www.amazon.com/Self-Coaching-Powerful-Program-Depression-Completely/dp/0471768286
it really is an interesting book as it points out common insecurities within a person. it addresses them and allows you to work through it and ultimately be a more confident person. i think this book is essential if you ever find yourself insecure, depressed, anxious in any situation.
I'm thinking of this book, this book and this book
Man up, approach and get over your fears. Learn from each failed approach and always remember, you're the fucking man.
Edit: Read this