(Part 2) Best products from r/askwomenadvice
We found 19 comments on r/askwomenadvice discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 260 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. DARE TO DREAM: This Life Counts: A Secret Guide to Making Your Dreams A Reality
- FITNESS WITH FUN – Simply Fit Board is the effective way to get fit in minutes a day. Twist your way into your fat burning zone. Improve balance and coordination. Gain strength by toning your abs, legs, core, and upper body!
- STRONG, ANTI-SLIP MATERIAL – Made from Premium Quality ABS engineering plastic. Lightweight, strong and durable. Your Simply Fit Board will support up to 400 lbs, designed with special Anti-Slip Surface that makes training safer and more comfortable.
- LIGHTWEIGHT – Due to its weight of just 3.2 lbs, the Simply Fit Board can easily be packed into a suitcase or backpack for convenient travel. Board measures: 26”L x 11”W x 4”D.
- IMPROVE YOUR BALANCE – Ideal for home training, our balance board is great for men and women alike. Keeps you fit at any age. Best if used on carpeted surface. Great for everyone even if you don’t like exercising because you’re twisting into shape!
- VERSATILE – The Simply Fit Board is the ideal choice for making your workout fun! Use this multifunctional balance board as a plank board, a push-up support or a twist board and reap all the benefits this amazing product has to offer!
- AS SEEN ON SHARK TANK – Lori Greiner takes a low impact, easy to use workout board to the next level. You will see highly effective results and can even use hand weights to take your workout
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22. O'Keeffe's Working Hands Hand Cream, 3.4 ounce Jar
- O’Keeffe’s Working Hands Hand Cream is a concentrated hand cream that heals, relieves and repairs extremely dry, cracked hands
- Creates a protective layer on the skin’s surface that instantly boosts moisture levels and helps prevent further moisture loss
- Makes a difference you will feel within days
- For best results apply after hand washing, after bathing, and at bedtime, as these are the most effective times for moisturizing extremely dry skin
- Safe for people with diabetes
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23. Badger - Cuticle Care, Soothing Shea Butter Cuticle Balm, Certified Organic, Nourish and Protect Cuticles and Nails, Fingernail Care, Protect Dry Splitting Cuticles, 0.75 oz.
SOOTHING CUTICLE BALM - Nourish, soothe, and protect dry, splitting cuticles with creamy Shea Butter and vitamin-rich Seabuckthorn CO2 extract. One of natures most powerful skin restoratives and ideal for everyday use, soothing East African shea butter helps to moisturize and protect dry, splitting ...
24. Magic Wand AF427 Massager with Free Wand Essentials Speed Controller, Blue/White/Black, Pack of 1
- MAGIC WAND a best-selling massager for over 30 years
- Includes a Wand Essentials Variable Speed Controller
- Heavy Duty motor and 2 VIBRATING Massage speeds
- Provides RELIEF to sore back, neck, and shoulders
- Sold as "Massager with Free Wand Essentials Speed Controller"
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25. Bobbi Brown Teenage Beauty: Everything You Need to Look Pretty, Natural, Sexy and Awesome
27. Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
- ✔ HIGH QUALITY, LONG LASTING - We use only first-class materials to manufacture our signs. Made from 100% rust free strong aluminum, and will stay good as new even after many years of indoor or outdoor use. Plus, our signs are made in the USA!
- ✔ NO FADING - The graphics and wordings will withstand the elements and will not fade, no matter the sun, rain, or other extreme weather.
- ✔ PRE-DRILLED HOLES FOR EASY MOUNTING - All of our premium signs have 4 pre-drilled holes and can be easily mounted on every surface. No need for adhesive or special equipment!
- ✔ PERFECT SIZE - We have carefully designed this sign, considering every aspect. This unique size gives the ability for the wording to stand out and be easily understood without creating an aggressive environment!
- ✔ PROFESSIONAL GRAPHICS - Ideal for both home & yard use and for professional businesses, our signs are carefully designed to look sleek, authoritative, and easy to read.
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30. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change
31. Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
34. It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy
- Great product!
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35. Earthly Body Round Massage Candle, 6 Ounce, Lavender
- 3-IN-1 MASSAGE CANDLE - Specially formulated to melt a couple degrees above body temperature, our 3-in-1 massage candle doesn’t just provide romantic light and fragrance—the melted wax can also be used as a warm massage oil or moisturizer.
- ALL-NATURAL BENEFITS - Our unique blend of six natural oils provides a professional slip that moisturizes skin, leaving it healthier looking and hydrated, with a youthful looking glow.
- BURNS LONGER - Soybean oil burns cleaner and longer than paraffin, so these candles will burn for up to 60 hours, depending on how much melted wax you dribble out for other endeavors—wink, wink.
- HOW TO USE - Experience this rich hemp seed, coconut, apricot & soybean oil by pouring it directly onto the body for a warm massage, or in place of your daily moisturizer!
- UNITING THE WORLD THROUGH BEAUTY - Kevin and Mare Wachs started Earthly Body in 1996 with the mission to create quality, all-natural personal care products made with no harmful ingredients.
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36. Lush Velocity Massage Wand - Waterproof, Wireless, Powerful Vibration - Personal Therapeutic Massager (Slate), Large
37. Magnasonic Professional Ultrasonic Jewelry Cleaner Machine for Cleaning Eyeglasses, Watches, Rings, Necklaces, Coins, Razors, Dentures, Combs, Tools, Parts, Instruments (CD2800)
Powerful cleaning system works to gently remove dirt, dust, and grime from your valuable items including jewelry, eyeglasses, and watches in minutes without damaging them42,000 cycle ultrasonic energy wave creates millions of microscopic cleansing bubbles that attack and remove even the most stubbor...
38. COCOSHIP Pineapple & Aqua Floral Retro 50s Halter High Waisted Two Piece Bikini Carnival Swimsuit XXXL(FBA)
Fast Ship(FBA):Fulfilled by Amazon with two-day Shipping (Ship from USA)Hand wash cold, line dryPattern:Vintage, Black/Blue Flora,Halter High waisted Bikini SetsAdjust Halter ,Bow StrapsPackage Includes: 1 x Bikini set
39. Garden of Life RAW Probiotics Women - Acidophilus Live Cultures - Probiotic-Created Vitamins, Minerals, Enzymes and Prebiotics - Gluten Free - 90 Vegetarian Capsules *Packaging May Vary*
- Digestion Support: This 85 billion CFU probiotic supplement contains Lactobacillus acidophilus and Bifidobacterium (Bifidobacteria) for digestive health.
- Probiotic for Women: Promotes bowel regularity, digestive functions, and health nutrient absorption with probiotics to support constipation, colon, and vaginal health.
- Immune Support: 85 billion CFU and 33 probiotic strains for immune system health and thyroid support.
- Digestive Enzyme Supplement: Delivers probiotic-created vitamins, minerals, and prebiotics as well as dairy-digesting enzymes to help break down lactose and casein. This probiotic is vegetarian, RAW, gluten free, soy free with no binders, fillers, carriers, or allergens.
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Girl, I (25f) feel for you so hard. You sound like you are in quite a similar place to where I was last year. Trying so hard, going through one rejection after the next, exhausted in every sense of the word, with a desperate need for hope but a constantly depleting supply. I cried in bed and in the car most days, if not every day. But I’m not there any more. I have an amazing job I love that loves me back, an amazing boyfriend I love that loves me back, a healthy body, a really nice, finally stable housing situation, and I feel okay, and I’m doing things I love.
Here is what helped me, I hope these ideas might help you:
I really hope this is helpful. You will do great things, you will be so proud of yourself! <3
You can find anything online these days. Pinterest has a category just for women's fashion. You can find any tutorial under the sun on YouTube, especially anything to do with skincare, makeup, haircare, hair styling, and fashion. You could even just search YouTube for "look put together". Find a YouTuber whose personal style you enjoy and see what they have to say! There are even personal stylist courses on Udemy for like $10.99.
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I had a 3 year long relationship that had some similar hurdles.
We dated from 18-21, but even at 18 he had erectile dysfunction, and he didn't have the best hygiene practices.
We talked about it a lot and eventually, we had a bit of a breakthrough with hygiene.
Instead of me complaining or nagging at him, if I was feeling frisky I would lead him to the shower and I would wash him.
This is a wonderfully intimate practice, and it helps you open up to each other's bodies.
Even now, at 28, with a husband that travels all the time, I'll have gorgeous lingerie on when I get him from the airport, but he's funky after a day of travel, so we'll get in the shower while I'm still in lingerie, and I'll wash him and initiate sex while we're in the shower together.
That could be a workable option for you guys, it'll open up your intimacy and help with the hygiene, as he'll subconsciously also begin to associate cleanliness, showering and the overall sensations with arousal and this will likely result in him being more hygienic overall.
As far as his quick ejaculation, men tend to be very sensitive about this, and believe it's incurable, when the reality is that it must be worked through.
Given that he has had very few partners, and he does this, it's likely there's never been an opportunity to learn to build up tolerance before ejaculation.
There are numbing lubricants that can help with this as well.
But ultimately, the best way to build resistance to finishing too quickly is to practice being physical and intimate without bringing him to completion.
Using your hands, mouth, toys.
Have him pleasure you with a toy while you stroke him or give him oral, this way you'll get satisfaction and you can manipulate when he is allowed to ejaculate.
The best toy I have ever used is the hitachi wand with variable speed control, you can also get a ton of different attachments for it, so there are many different options to try and find what you enjoy the most.
I would assume he will enjoy seeing you aroused and enjoy being a part of it, and you can work together to get you to finishing, then maybe you can mount him to have him finish inside of you.
There are so many remedies for these issues and I hope you find some things that work for you to help heal your marriage and build your intimacy together.
Feel free to PM me if you have any more questions. I wish you all the best.
I would also recommend the book ‘Bobbi Brown: Teenage Beauty’ it is beautifully written for young girls and truly helped me feel more comfortable in my own skin during my pre-teen & teen years.
https://www.amazon.com/Bobbi-Brown-Teenage-Beauty-Everything/dp/0060957247
— ‘Your teen years are the most emotionally charged of your life. Your body's developing at a rapid pace, your skin changes from day to day, and your hormones are raging (in case you didn't notice). Everything in your life is in total flux. Bobbi's mission is to help boost your self-esteem and confidence. By listening to Bobbi's straightforward and useful beauty principles, you'll gain a sense of control over your body, your looks, and your life. Bobbi's hip, no-nonsense, and timeless advice covers such real teen problems and issues as:
Zits! - Being Overweight - Braces - Beauty School 101 Eight Simple Steps to a Pretty, Natural Makeup Look - Preteen Basics - Prom Beauty - Global Beauty - Mother-Daughter Beauty - Rock 'n' Roll Babes: Hip Beauty Style - Go for It: Experimental Beauty
Written with sensitivity to help you navigate the difficult self-image issues that you face, Bobbi Brown Teenage Beauty empowers you to discover and celebrate your own unique, natural beauty. This fresh and honest makeup guide is your ultimate source for advice, tips, and lessons for achieving beauty inside and out.’
PS: You’re during a really good job!
If you can afford it, please purchase yourself a copy of Our Bodies, Ourselves. It has almost everything a young woman needs to know, from safe sex practices, masturbation, hygiene, relationships, etc. I was given a copy as a going to college gift when I was 18 and it honestly was the best thing in the world.
But the short answer: of course condoms! But please engage in sex with a partner you trust with your health. Someone who respects your desire for safe and consensual sex. Maybe you both get STD checks first and always, always use a condom.
From my experience the best sex is with someone you can feel relaxed with because you trust them. You can laugh and feel good and not worry about compromising your health. Practicing safe sex also frees you from worrying about pregnancy and other stuff, so just always be safe. Love yourself and have fun!
So... I was that guy.
It's somewhat painful to think about how much of a lazy ass-hat I was. I went through several relationships, roommates, jobs, and residences before eventually getting my shit together. Even now (in my 30s), I haven't fully shaken off the 1.0 Beta Version of myself.
I'm not sure what 18 year old me needed to kick my ass into shape, but I can tell you this: no one can change you but yourself. You're not going to be able to change him. He needs to value hustle and grit and tenacity. If you care about him, leave him. He is not in a good place to be in a relationship. His relationships are likely based on the ease and convenience of those relationships. For example, his parents giving him money when he could get a job, you travelling to him, living at home; these are all out of convenience. Ask yourself about his friendships and how he interacts with people. How convenient/easy/effortless are his relationships?
This dude needs to learn that working for things is important. Effort is important. If he wanted you, he would do the work necessary to keep you. His laziness likely stems from fear of failure and fear of success, as well as his parents coddling him.
Leave him, but might I suggest, you also leave him with some suggested reading material:
Grit by Angela Duckworth
7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Outliers, The Tipping Point, Blink, David and Goliath by Malcolm Gladwell
Last, but certainly not least: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski - This one isn't so much for him as it is for anyone he dates in the future. This book discusses female sexuality, anatomy, and sex drive. It has helped me get laid with the wife a BUNCH.
I don't know if it is just growing up and maturing, but I can not emphasize enough how much these books have changed my life. These books have kicked me in the ass and made me a better man. My wife also played a major role in kicking my ass into gear, but we got married young and we were basically forced to make it work if we didn't want to get divorced, so I do not suggest staying with him to "fix him". He's got a ton of work to do on himself. You seem like you've got your shit well enough together, so don't tie yourself to a weight that heavy. It will hold you back and drag you down. It will get worse before it gets better. You can absolutely find someone who makes you happy and who contributes to the relationship. I've been married for 11 years, with 4 kids, and both my wife and I are pursuing our passions (I also happen to be a musician/creative type), while holding down full time jobs. We are madly in love, she is my best friend, and I am forever grateful for the work she put in to help me along.
Hell, just have him read this:
Bruh. I was you. Things seem to take so much effort, don't they? You probably have visions of yourself making music for a living, right? Record deals, and stage lights, and recording in fancy studios, right? Well, guess what? It's absolutely possible to make that happen. But you need to work for it. If something is worth wanting, it is worth working for. If you aren't really working for it, do you really want it? You need to make small steps toward an ultimate goal that you want to pursue and stick to it. By 28 years old, you could have a record deal. You could be touring. You could win a Grammy. I'm not kidding. You could if you hit the ground hard, right now, and start kicking your own ass. Get up and move or you're going to be in your 30's just starting to pursue your passions and you'll feel like you've wasted so much goddamn time.
I wish you both the best of luck. I hope this helps.
If someone wants you to change fundamental aspects of your personality and appearance in order to be acceptable to them as a partner, you aren't compatible. Don't force it. I got a piece of advice before I was married (forget where--maybe the pre-marital counselor): Look at your partner. Know that it is entirely possible they will never change. They may, but it's not guaranteed and you can't force it. Will you take this person to be your partner, now, with all their flaws, and not plan on changing them later? Love them for who they are?
I suppose in a way it's good that he's telling you this now, rather than trying to change you after a wedding. He's being clear that you, as is? Aren't what he's looking for. You can either go to therapy and the gym to change who you are for this person, and hope that's all on his list of your shortcomings, or send him on his way so he can find someone who already fits his checklist. (NO shame in a checklist, I had one for a partner, but not as an ultimatum list--more like a checklist for potential dates!)
That's not a judgment of you and your worth. High five for a fellow introvert who saves the emotional demonstrations for close family and friends, and works in the garden instead of the gym! You are fine as you are, and there is someone out there for you who also doesn't enjoy crowds, will think you're an awesome mom to your kids, and won't dictate how you should be spending your free time. Who will love your body the way it is, or figure out a way to keep fit with you instead.
I highly recommend this book: https://www.amazon.com/Its-Called-Breakup-Because-Broken/dp/0767921968
It saved me from an abusive relationship and helped me stand firm in my own worth. Easy, fast read that will change your life.
There's a lot of good advice in this thread, but there's one thing I'd like to add. You mentioned foreplay and sex, as though they're separate. The purpose of oral and fingering/hand stuff is not to get her vagina ready for a penis, it's to feel good. Because it's sex as well. PIV (penis in vagina) sex is not the only thing that counts as "real sex", ANY genital contact is sex. Oral sex is sex. Using your hands to get each other off is sex.
Since PIV is hurting her, maybe don't do it for a while. Have sex for awhile using just your hands and mouth, figure out how to make each other relax and orgasm, then, when you feel like you both are 100% comfortable and in tune with each other's bodies, THEN try PIV again.
Also, buy a body wand. This one is $31 and body safe waterproof silicone. Sex with a vibrator is so rad. It can feel good for both of you, like once you two are having comfortable PIV sex, having her hold a vibrator on her clitoris during PIV is a game changer (my gf and I use a strap on but it's a similar act lol), and it feels good for both people.
I've worked for a retail jeweler for years in the past. Just walk into a jeweler and ask them to clean it, they will clean it free. When I was working there our main idea to keep people in the store to try and sell something was to offer to clean all the jewelry they had on and while they sit in the machine cleaning we would offer our help. But you dont have to be helped if you just want it cleaned.
Get on Amazon and buy some Gemoro cleaner. Or buy a machine, it shocks all the dirt and crud off here is a cheap one that will work, or give you an idea of what you want, if you want to do it at home. Just let it sit in machine for a minute to a couple mins depending on how dirty it is. But if you buy the machine please buy the cleaner chemicals to go with it so it will clean properly. You mix the chemicals with water based on the chemical brands instructions. Be sure to do some googling on what stones and metals can go into those machines. Stones like opal are precious, soft stones, that should not be placed in those machines. A lot of birthstones shouldnt be placed in those machines. They will discolor them and ruin them.
Edit: If its diamonds and real gold wear it whenever you want. The only thing that will degrade is the gold. But you can "re-dip" the gold whenever it starts to degrade or discolor. White gold will become more "matte" or not as shiny. When it comes to that just spend 25-40 bucks on dipping it. Yellow gold will start to turn into a white gold color, so dip it then. With yellow gold there is silver metals mixed into it so that's why itll turn white-ish after a while.
I hope this helps you. I recommended the machine incase you dont want to be hassled in the jewelry store, they're ruthless because sales are low 98 percent of the year. I recommend going to a local jeweler because you're helping your local community jeweler stay in business and they wont bombard you like retail will, like with credit card applications and all the bs. Good luck and congratulations!
Edit 2: Also, if its gold and diamonds, dont be so tough on yourself. Just was your hands in public with the ring on. Dont risk loosing it or forgetting it because you hear people say it messes the ring up or whatever cause of soap. It really wont mess it up like that. Just take it off when you put on lotion, sunscreen, etc.
I've been to Jamaica a couple of times and I'm sure you'll see there are going to be all types of body types wearing bikinis and showing skin on the beach. Not saying you need to wear a bikini, but just saying you won't be the only one rocking love handles and bellies.
I'm a thicker girl and I found this high waisted bikini https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01LYZRUPD/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1 to be SUPER flattering.
As far as things to wear for going out at night.....maybe consider some cute summer dresses? Those tend to be flowy and flattering.
Try not to overthink it too much. Its unlikely anyone will be judging you based on what you're wearing. You'll be on vacation.....try and relax and enjoy yourself!
Wow, that's all the professional advice your doc could give? D:
Let me tell you, I used to have issues where whenever I'd get sick, my vayenya would be the first to act up. If that happened, I would immediately cut back on carbs and sugar as /u/leesebro said. But there's also a magic weapon: coconut oil.
After you shower, try applying some coconut oil in and around your vulva. (might be good to put some on your anus too, I've never tried it but I don't see why it wouldnt help with relief). I've heard of people soaking their tampons in coconut oil and popping it in for a few hours, but I've never done it that way, and I'm not sure how long you need to do it. But I can almost promise you that if it doesn't clear it up, it will at least give you significant relief. And best of all, its natural and cheap! No stupid chems.
Since this has been plaquing you for a few years, I'd def suggest drinking lots of water and getting a good live culture probiotic. Not all probiotics do the job right, but that one I linked has helped me have a happy, healthy vajin.
I am no doctor by any means. But you asked how to deal, and that's how I dealt and put that nonsense behind me. Feel free to pm me too about if you want :)
edit: ugh! sorry but your husband sounds like a bag of dicks. Its hard enough for you to deal with that, he should be your #1 supporter while you work through this. When you get better (and you will!) I hope you make sex with him on your terms.