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u/blissando · 4 pointsr/chickflixxx

For learning about sexuality in general I also recommend the following reading material, post haste!

  • Oh Joy Sex Toy (Comic blog that started out with reviewing sex toys and evolved into that + thoughtful discussion about multiple aspects of sex including depiction of people in porn, body image, anatomy, psychology of desire, etc.!). They also have their comics bound into an illustrated multi-volume work (and growing!). 1. The Comic! 2. Online store. 3. Vol 1. & Vol 2. via Amazon Smile (Supporting Planned Parenthood).

  • Dr. Emily Nagoski's epic Come As You Are, a book that debunks sexual myths and seeks to create a new feminist framework for understanding and exploring sexuality. It includes psych and physiological research, anecdotes from Nagoski's time working in sex therapy and counseling, thoughtful discussion on the state of sex in our world today, and ~BONUS~ handy worksheets/activities for working through some sexual questions. I love love love LOVE this book. 1. Check out her blog too, The Dirty Normal. 2. Book Info. 3. Amazon Smile link (supporting Planned Parenthood.)

  • Even if your friend is straight, Girl Sex 101 is a great illustrated guide to sex and sexuality, also from a feminist and gender/orientation/lifestyle-inclusive perspective. It walks you through anatomy, practice, nuts/bolts of sex, and so many of the important emotional concepts having to do with sex. It's broken up into chapters covering a range of topics from sex and sexuality to gender and relationships, with input from multiple authors and illustrators, includes really helpful diagrams and illustrations, and in between each chapter has a story narrative centered around 2 female characters that relates back to the material. Such a great read. 1. Check out their website. 2. Native Store link. 3. Amazon Smile link (supporting Planned Parenthood.)

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    Sex, sexuality, and porn especially can be tricky topics to navigate when you haven't engaged with much material, and when you're not sure about yourself and sex. Before tackling porn, which as your friend has aptly picked up on can be very ideologically problematic, I would recommend your friend get comfortable with just herself and her own sexuality. Have her do her own research, reading, exploring. Let her figure out what she likes.

    When she's up for it, for more inclusive porn, start trawling tumblr! She'll be able to really tailor her experience and curate her tastes, without having to commit to watching things she might not be comfortable with. There is some serious quality erotica on there, mostly in .gif and photographic form, most of it original, which is inclusive, feminist, empowering, artistic, and just down right sexy. You'll have to hunt for the blogs you like (and be warned, there is still a lot of tumblr porn which just parrots the mainstream professional porn industry content) but once you find one, you'll find that blogs with similar content link/repost to each other.

    Anyway, good luck to you and your friend! Power to you for trying to help with her experience! :) Happy hunting
u/dontlookuphere · 8 pointsr/chickflixxx

Well this is awkward.

I am a fledgling erotic writer and I just came to this subreddit for inspiration for a sex scene that I'm writing.

So I was surprised by this question and my first reaction was: "Ooo me! Pick me! I'm a good erotic story writer!"

My first erotic short story has been on sale on Amazon for a while now, and it's doing okay. But I don't want to be a self-promoting jerk, so all I'll say is this:

If you want to read my story (it's about a lady who gets up to sexytimes on a public beach) PM me with your filetype of choice and I'll send it to you! And if you wanted to give me feedback on Amazon, that'd be great too...

Here's the link to the description on Amazon, if you want to find out more details: http://www.amazon.com/People-Beach-Exhibitionism-Threesome-ebook/dp/B00DROP1I2/

Oh god, I feel like a self-promoting douche. I'm just proud of my story and I wanted to share.

If this is against the rules of this sub, please delete this comment with my blessing!

TL;DR A wild erotica author appeared!

u/Landscapeplease · 2 pointsr/chickflixxx

Thank you for taking the time to respond and also for giving us such a great new idea. Heres an update. Watching porn together is NOT something that we will be doing in the near future. I can respect that. Now you bring up a great new opportunity. Im not a huge reader but she is. Maybe having her search out something she finds erotic and then having her read to me, might be an option. Thanks you very much for your help with this.
We also really enjoy the lighting in our bedroom. They are Phillip Hue colored bulbs and flameless candles

u/NotThrowawayButPorn · 4 pointsr/chickflixxx

I really like Abigail Barnette's Bossverse series. It's BDSM erotica written in response to the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey. (The BDSM elements are more pronounced, and the protagonists are actually respectful of each other.)

I'm not sure if I'm really doing it justice, but I love the series. And the first novel, The Boss, is available online for free. I have it on iBooks and I'm putting Amazon and Smashwords links below.

Kindle link:
https://www.amazon.com/Boss-Abigail-Barnette-ebook/dp/B00ENTIAJM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1390538853&sr=8-1&keywords=the+boss+abigail+barnette

Smashwords:
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/348970

u/roxannesmith32 · 4 pointsr/chickflixxx

this is a great amateur channel on pornhub. https://www.pornhub.com/model/bedgasm

as far as what makes good sex good- communicate with your partner. "does that feel good?" "can i do X?" etc etc. listen to and watch their reactions. you'll know if its good or not in the moment.

READ ABOUT SEX. from sex educators, not just erotica. i think thats what has helped me the most, just learn as much as you can about bodies, different things people like, different ways of having sex, emotions sex brings up, etc.

I read this book in college and it was FUCKING GREAT. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1885535171/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=lioness0e-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=1885535171&linkId=2e4da25680db9359de9c8ec4b17f02c2