Best products from r/genderqueer
We found 25 comments on r/genderqueer discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 60 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the top 20.
1. Bracoo Waist Trimmer Wrap, Sweat Sauna Slim Belt for Men and Women - Abdominal Trainer, Increased Core Stability, Metabolic Rate, SE20
- Burn More Calories with a waist trimmer which effectively insulates and raises the temperature of the abdominal core thereby increasing the heart rate, which in turn results in more calories burned; the most visible effect of this is increased sweat around the waist
- Improved Core stability through mild compression, reduces excessive motion & energy leaks during kinetic loading and results in fewer muscle injuries from cool downs between weight sets, drills, or exercise routines; suitable for indoor or outdoor use
- Easy To Wear wrap features tactile anti-slip grid surface along the internal lining, keeping the trimmer in place during cardio routines such as jogging, running, or cycling; lightweight belt fits comfortably beneath clothing - always wear directly against the skin
- Quality First design philosophy with superior grip Velcro, and neoprene which is odorless & completely non-toxic
- Unisex Design is intuitive, easily adjustable, and fits waists up to 40” in circumference
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2. Lock and Love WT1038 Womens V Neck Short Sleeve Dolman Top L Light_Blue
*** NO ELASTIC SHIRRING DETAILS AT SIDES ***Lightweight fabric with great stretch for comfort / Loose fit dolman sleeve topDouble stitching on sleeves, neckline and bottom hemHAND WASH IN COLD WATER / DO NOT BLEACH / LAY FLAT TO DRY / DRY CLEAN IF NEEDEDPlease check the size chart below to ensure yo...
4. Fruit of the Loom Men's Low-Rise Brief (Pack of Five)
- Five pairs of briefs each featuring logoed waistband and contoured pouch
- Colors may vary
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5. Rapiddominance Heavy Weight Field Bags
Military Specs100-Percent Cotton CanvasOverall dimension: Approx. 10.25"W x 10.5"H x 4.0" DTotal Volume: Approx. (350 cu in) (5.7 L)Brass buckles and rivetsMilitary Specs
6. FreeTress Equal Invisible "L" Part Wig - JANUARY (OF2730613)
- FreeTress Equal Synthetic Hair Wig Invisible L Part January
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7. Sensationnel Empress Natural Synthetic L-Part Lace Front Edge Wig NIA (1B) by Hair Zone
- Comb Location: Side & Back
- Adjustable Strap: Yes
- Drawstring: No
- Cap Size: May vary slightly by brand. Circumference: 21.25" Ear To Ear: 13.5" Front To Back 14.25"
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9. HowYouth Womens Vintage 8 Panel Wool Beret Newsboy Cap Cabbie Baker Boy Peaked Hat Unisex Adjustable 56-58CM (Navy)
- ✔ ADJUSTABLE SIZE - Unisex. One size fits most adults & teens. Hat circumference about 22~22.8"(56-58cm). Outside diameter about 11"/28cm. Inside diameter about 5.9"/15cm
- ✔ Fully soft lining, small stiff brim in front. A little puffy style in back, not too much, looks more stylish
- ✔ Suiteable for outdoors, performances, costumes, dress-up and casual wear
- ✔ A great gift for Mother's days, Christmas, Thanksgiving Days, Family Parties and Friend's Birthday
- ✔ We are the rights owner of this product,and registered the Trade Mark (5359799) under our brand HowYouth
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10. Seamless Ribbed Sleeveless Mock Neck Turtleneck Shaping Tank Top Hot Tee (Black
One Size Fits Most: XS S M L | Shirt Length: 22" before stretched / Width: 12" before stretchedHand wash in cold water, Line Dry, No Bleach | 92% Nynon 8% SpandexStretch Material, Tight and SlimmingSoft and Comfortable, Skin Friendly FabricLength: 22" before stretched / Width: 12" before stretched
11. Eshow Men's Drop Leg Pouch Tools Bags Tactical Leg Bag Fanny Pack Thigh Bags Bike Cycling Hip Bag Canvas Waist Packs
- 【Material】Using natural cotton canvas, durable and lightweight. With honeycomb mesh material, designed for maximum breathability. A good choice to give friends or father as a gift.
- 【Dimensions】6.89 x 2.36 x 12.6 inches. Waist belt: 26.77-41.34 inches, leg belt: 21.65-31.49 inches. Weight:340g. Within the suitable sizes, the leg bag for men fits for daily working for example repair your personal roof, even in the outsides activities, camping go hiking, etc.
- 【Pockets Design】Five pockets in total: one large main pocket for wallet, cell phone etc, two zipper pockets and two pockets with hook&loop for cards, chewing gum, keys and tools. Multi-pockets to meet your different needs.
- 【Applications】Useful and effective: make your hands free while you are working camping or traveling.You can use this leg bag more conveniently in a variety of conditions, just like outdoors, evem in the military.
- 【Details】Very firm stitching, high quality hardware and zippers, the further quality guarantee of the leg bag.
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12. Adult Navy Blue Train Engineer Conductor Driver Hat Costume Accessory
- as shown
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13. Eye glasses string holder - Sunglasses chain -Eyeglass chain for women
- 【Color/Material/Size】Color: Silver(1Pcs). Material: stainless steel.Total length: about 76cm 30-inch
- 【Keep Glasses Secure】Stylish Snake Eyeglass Chains , Works with prescription glasses, sunglasses, reading glasses, safety glasses, and more.
- 【Anti-skid & Adjustable 】 Concise and anti-slip design. They are comfortable to wear, don't tangle her hair, and are easy to adjust.
- 【Package Contents】 1 PCS Glasses Chains , a Sunglasses cleaning cloth , a thank you card and a cute Gift Packing Bag.
- 【Delivery】 Shipping by Amazon warehouse in USA, Please rest assured that shopping.
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14. Brixton Mens Fiddler Black Hat,Small
- Fisherman cap featuring center band with brassy anchor buttons at sides of brim
- Embroidered Brixton side logo
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15. Maggie Tang Fitted Off Shoulder Long Sleeve Blouse Top Size M Color Black
- ☛【Material】50% modal +45% cotton +5% spandex ;Super soft Modal,all natural and eco-friendly,Soft and stretchy and will be comfortable in any season.
- ☛【100% satisfaction guaranteed】. If you are not satisfied with our products, we can give you a full refund or exchange for a better size for you. Our size is different from Amazon's,To get your a proper and right fit size,please check the size chart in the product description,thanks
- ☛【Great to pair with your various clothes】Whatever you are going for an elegant, professional look or a casual, cute look, you will always look gorgeous in this top. Great for summer matches with pants, shorts, short skirts. Or pair with skinny jeans and boots adding cardigan, blazer, jacket or knitwear as layering top in fall, winter or spring.
- ☛【Occasions】This trendy off shoulder top can suit any occasion. Suitable for casual,work,date,weekend,holiday,party,club,pub,office,house,outdoor, vacation, etc.
- ☛【Easy care& wrinkle free】This high-quality tshirt top is an essential that every lady needs.Our tops for women are always soft, lightweight and breathable after every machine wash.Machine wash cold on gentle cycle, tumble dry low.
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16. Matymats Women's Active Full-Zip Track Jacket Yoga Running Athletic Coat With Thumb Holes,Large,Black
- ✪TRACK JACKETS WITH THUMB HOLES: This women workout jackets offers thumb holes to increase hand coverage and warmth. Perfect to help to keep your sleeves in place during sports and keeps your hands warm in the cold weather.
- ✪FUNCTIONAL POCKETS: Our sport jackets with ziper is designed for active women and girls. Do you worried about carry a bulky purse? Our performance jackets has two side zipper pockets, which is convenient to put your money, keys, phone and other belongs.
- ✪UNIQUE DESIGN: Bodyfit design, simple but chic, highlghts your sexy silhouette. Stand collar training jackets helps to keep you warm when you exercise. You will love the performance jackets for comfort and accentuating your silhouette while provides stretch fit without constriction.
- ✪GREAT FOR ANY OCCASION: Perfect jackets for yoga, workout, athletic, running, active, jogging, track, running, dance, skiing, casual, parties, work, office, sports, gym, hangout, winter sports or any other specilal occasions.
- ✪KINDLY REMIND: This is a Slim Fit Jacket that is designed to be form fitting. If you like wearing loose fit, plese order one size up than usual. Please check our size chart in the left picture instead of Amazon’s.
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17. Klorim Men's Stand Collar Single Breasted Long Walking Coat Woolen Overcoat (36, Black)
- Shell: 50% wool & 50% polyester. Lining: 100% Polyester
- Dry clean only
- Stand collar, side on-seam pockets
- Over knee, about 48" length.
- Please choose your size according to your bust size. The size 34 is suitable for 34 inches bust, The size 36 is suitable for 36 inches bust, size 38 is suitable for 38 inches bust, size 40 is suitable for 40 inches bust.
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18. ENVY BODY SHOP Silicone Breast Forms,Mastectomy Cross Dress,A/B/C CUP,No Bra Needed!
- Size: 15x10.5x5.5cm, 560g/pair
- Our size 5 will generally fit bra sizes 32-34C, 34-36B, 36-38A. Fit can vary from bra to bra so this is a general guide only.
- Quantity: 1 PAIR - HIGH QUALITY SILICONE BREAST
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I always wear men's underwear and haven't experimented with anything else. In terms of widely available things that you can find in most stores, I personally like low-rise fashion briefs. (They're a little harder to find than the mid-rise ones, they're useful though because a lot of short shorts are lower-waisted and mid-rise briefs will show above the top of them, awkwardly.) Here's a link I'm kinda between two sizes and I pick the smaller size and they hold things in place just fine. My second-best choice is sports briefs, which are looser and more breathable, but generally still keep things in place. Like, this link shows some.
I've found that these always keep everything in place...the only risk is like, your underwear itself spilling out of the shorts if they're super short.
Also some tips for buying the shorts themselves:
Just try on lots and lots of stuff...don't be shy. Seriously when I look for shorts I go to thrift stores and I might try on 4-7 pairs and sometimes I don't buy anything at all...other times I find a bunch of stuff I look cute in. The more you try on the more you'll get an idea of how it fits and how to find what you're looking for!
And remember, women's sizing is ridiculous. I've bought shorts in sizes 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, and 10 that all fit nearly identically. When you find your size, look a little higher and lower too, especially if you're in a thrift store that has different brands on the same rack. Look at the size of the actual item, I find once I find one item that fits I hold it up to others to compare sizes because it's more reliable than that number.
Good luck!
Well I clicked this post without thinking, and I thought, why did I click this, I know nothing about purses! But when I read your description it sounds just like what I have! I have one of these in khaki. I really love it. It's small enough that it's not a pain to carry around, and I normally keep just my wallet, keys, and a few other random things like headphones, or a hat and gloves, or a water bottle. It's not big enough to fit all that at once but I think it's the perfect size. It's really sturdy, but the material is very flexible and it's more like a tote bag than a box with a shoulder strap. It's perfect for me but now that it's winter I kind of wish I had it in black. The only problem with it is that the velcro is starting to peel off a little because of constant use, but I might just remove the velcro since it's not 100% necessary. Anyway, I love this bag and I would recommend it. (It's also cheap!)
I recently started purchasing wigs. I can't afford the nice, human hair wigs, which can be at the cheapest $400 and go up to near $1,000. On a slightly cheaper scale, I couldn't justify spending $60-$100 on a wig without trying it on to see if it fit, if the color(s) compliments my skintones, how the cut suits my face, etc.
Sooo, I started buying costume wigs and lace front wigs on amazon. Most in my price range($10-$40 dollars) have not worked out because the cut isn't the same as the photo, the color doesn't suit my skintone, or there are tiny, very short hairs poking out randomly from the wig cap/glue sticking out, which makes it really obvious that it's a wig. I don't mind this too much because the cost is so cheap. I can afford to chance a few bucks once a month.
There have been some that were great. I reeeeeaally loved this one. It looked JUST like the photo in every way. It sheds quite a bit, but since I won't wear it every day, I don't mind. Two others that I liked(although they're natural in color) was this one and this one. They don't shed, the lace front can be trimmed, they are full and luxurious, and they don't have a high shine, so they're more realistic looking.
I read that you can sprinkle cornstarch on synthetic wigs and then brush it through, to dull their shine if you want to but I haven't done that.
I look up reviews for wigs on youtube. I like the way she does hers because I can see what the wig looks like and I also get a general idea of what to expect if I were to order a wig she mentions. I actually want that bob wig that she shows in that video. I also like her videos because she does bright or pastel colored wig reviews.
Some people prefer their wigs to have lots of clips in them, because they grip onto wig caps better, so there's a lesser chance of movement. Others prefer to just slip their wigs on and off and buy clip less wigs. There are also wigs that only have one or two clips. Which kind you will buy will be a personal preference, which you'll get an idea for, once you start wearing wigs regularly.
Lastly, sometimes wigs can be cut and brushed to look better than when they arrived. I don't have any success with this yet but I practice on the wigs that I don't like.
Hope that helps!
You have got to read Kate Bornstein. She is absolutely awesome.
http://www.amazon.com/Queer-Pleasant-Danger-Memoir/dp/0807001651
A Queer and Pleasant Danger is a really REALLY awesome and hilarious memoir of her life and her journey from a jewish boy, scientologist, a woman, and now somewhere in between. It's a wonderful story. HIGHLY recommend 10/10 to anyone.
Auntie Kate is one of my heroes and one of the oldest/historically prominent veterans of non-binary gender movements (or Gender Anarchy as she calls it <3).
Edit: She also has two version of her "Gender Workbook". Also, HIGHLY recommended.
As another similarly gendered person, (I ID as neutrois/neutral gender) I can get behind this statement.
It is really hard to dress "other gendered" because so much just gets shoved into binary boxes. My best guess would be mixing masculine and feminine stuff, or picking clothes that are considered feminine on dudes and masculine on women. Or just pioneer your own style with clothes you like!
I personally am a huge fan of sleeveless turtlenecks, and stretchy, clingy, form-fitting clothing combined with sturdy boots and black slim fit jeans. I use a utility thigh pack and a belt full of pockets to carry things. If the weather is cold, I like to layer with off the shoulder long sleeve shirts, exposing my shoulders but covering my neck with the turtleneck underneath.
I also really love jackets with long sleeves and thumb holes, and long or double breasted coats. Top off my outfit with a great hat! I like newspaper boy hats, train conductor hats, and fiddler caps. Also accessorize with a chain on my glasses.
I have silicone prosthetic breasts that I for on amazon for like 30 bucks and they're pretty awesome! http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B005S4CS4Y/ref=mp_s_a_8?pi=75x49&amp;qid=1345606473&amp;sr=8-8
Hopefully that works I'm using my phone for this. O.o they're pretty awesome, comes like a front latch bra, feel pretty good. I put tissue or cloth behind them because you get a little sweaty but I love them.
omg I'm exactly the same way - DDDs here. I've heard that regular binders for ftms don't work as well for large breasts, and I'm on a tiny grad student budget so I recently bought a back brace from walmart and this thing http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B005VRLT6Q/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&amp;psc=1
and I've found that they work really, really well as binders. My mtf gf was amazed at how masculine I could get my torso ... now if I could only get my face/ hair to match sigh.
I agree, button ups are our best bet, but I need help finding good ones as well. Help anyone?
Using a sharp blade and shaving with the grain is what is going to make all the difference.
I have a double edge safety razor that I bought from amazon. The blades for it are SUPER cheap and way more sharp than cartridge razors. There is a higher initial higher cost with using a DE razor because you have to buy some more expensive hardware, but it's cheaper in the long run.
Use good soap
http://www.amazon.com/Proraso-Shave-Soap-Sensitive-150ml/dp/B001JHEY14/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1382915459&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=proraso+white
You will need to get a brush to make lather with that soap, but it's pretty good for sensitive skin. The aerosol stuff doesn't come close.
also check out /r/wicked_edge/ for everything there is to know about shaving.
I've heard that this helped for some people:
https://www.amazon.com/New-Gender-Workbook-Step-Step/dp/0415538653
It didn't do much for me because I was way beyond that point, but it was comforting to know that many others had the same opinion on gender I did (that it's confusing and unhelpful)
Besides what the other poster said about experimentation, I'd like to say that "depression/anxiety" and "trans identity" co-occur a lot and you can easily have both. Gender dysphoria can manifest like--or in some cases, exacerbate--depression symptoms.
Zinnia Jone's articles about dysphoria and depression might be useful here.
The biggest hurdle I overcame was my shame about the way I felt about gender. The second biggest hurdle was doubt--I felt that I couldn't tell anyone about my feelings until I had everything "figured out"
Once I realized that these were obstacles and that I was probably suppressing something, I made an effort to talk more about how I felt and express myself freely, even if all I had to say was "I'm not sure." And the more I did it, the better I felt and the easier it got.
Bottom layer is a black women's tank, the lovely blue top is one of my favorite round-cut loose women's tops, and then the outer top is a men's Guess-branded button-up. I'd love to link it, but I don't think they make it anymore.
Total look is about $60-70!
All of Ivan E. Coyote's writing is great! Especially their latest book which is a collaboration with a genderqueer musician. It's called Gender Failure
try starting with this and see if it helps.
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