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1. The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You
- Harmony
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2. Running on Empty: Overcome Your Childhood Emotional Neglect
- Tandy Leather Eco-Flo Gel Antique 8 oz Saddle Tan 2607-05
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3. Radians CEP001-R Custom Molded Earplugs (Red)
- Soft, permanent custom fit; All-day comfort
- Simple, easy to follow instructions
- Safe, non toxic and hypo-allergenic silicone, no mess
- Long lasting and washable
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4. Thunderplugs Pro -26dB/-18dB Filtered Earplugs for Music
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5. 3M Ear Plugs, 200 Pairs/Box, E-A-Rsoft FX 312-1261, Uncorded, Disposable, Foam, NRR 33, Drilling, Grinding, Machining, Sawing, Sanding, Welding, 1 Pair/Poly Bag
OUTSTANDING COMFORT: E-A-Rsoft ear plugs have an advanced foam with a smooth texture - offering in-ear comfort for wearing over an extended time.NOISE REDUCTION RATING 33 dB. CSA Class AL. *EASY FITTING: Bell shape allows for easy fitting and removal of ear plugs.SOFT SOUND-ABSORBING FOAM: Soft foam...
6. The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You
- The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You
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8. Uvex Skyper Blue Light Blocking Computer Glasses with SCT-Orange Lens (S1933X)
- PROTECTS YOUR EYES: Orange Lens features Spectrum Control Technology (SCT) that absorbs 98% of blue light from laptops, computers & tablets, which helps prevent cataracts and macular degeneration
- REDUCES EYE FATIGUE: SCT-Orange lens reduces eye strain so you can work longer & more comfortably; also makes for more screen contrast with sharper details for improved focus and further reduced eye fatigue
- MULTI-ANGLE VIEWING: 3-Position lens inclination system allows for optimal screen viewing at different heights & positions; helps prevent neck strain while working, sitting, standing or stretched out
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9. WorkTunes Connect Hearing Protector with Bluetooth Technology
- Communication Direction: Two-Way
- Bluetooth Technology Lets You Seamlessly Stream Entertainment From Your Mobile Phone And Any Other Bluetooth Enabled Device.
- High-Fidelity Speakers Provide Premium Sound Quality
- Integrated Microphone Lets You Make And Take Phone Calls Without Removing The Hearing Protection
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10. ClearArmor 141001 Shooters Hearing Protection Safety Ear Muffs Folding-Padded Head Band Ear Cups, Black
- SonicSeal - ClearArmor's exclusive sound technology provides better protection to save your hearing.
- Comfortable, premium quality, lightweight, super soft ear ring foam for maximum long wear comfort.
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- Compact folding design for efficient storage. . . Snug reliable fit to keep our muffs on your head.
- ANSI S3.19 & CE 352-1 Tested Certified. . . Over head ear muff, perfect fit swivel cup design
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11. The Anti 9-to-5 Guide: Practical Career Advice for Women Who Think Outside the Cube
- Logitech 980369-0403 PC Premium Stereo Headset General Features:
- Stylish, convenient, and comfortable High-quality, noise-canceling microphone Soft foam earpads
- High-grip, premium rubberized headband
- Convenient inline controls let you adjust volume and mute the microphone Frequency Response:
- Headset: 20-20,000 Hz
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12. DownBeats Reusable High Fidelity Hearing Protection: Ear Plugs for Concerts, Music, and Musicians (Clear Ear Plugs, Black Case)
- High-Fidelity Sound Filters for Optimal Hearing Protection – Unlike regular ear plugs, DownBeats music ear plugs cut down background noise, by up to 18 decibels. They allow you to listen to music and speeches at a safe level without muffling.
- Helps Protect Your Ears from Long-term Damage – With these noise reduction ear plugs, you can enjoy loud live events with ease. These ear plugs for concerts reduce sounds moderately and deliver high quality music to your ears at a comfortable level.
- Filters Distracting Noises – Designed to reduce unwanted sounds, these high fidelity ear plugs are a necessity for your listening convenience. They diminish loud sounds. So, you can hear great music, conversations, and your favorite musicians safely and clearly!
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14. The Depression Cure: The 6-Step Program to Beat Depression without Drugs
- Da Capo Lifelong Books
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15. Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships (Nonviolent Communication Guides)
Nonviolent Communication A Language of Life 3rd Edition Life Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships
16. Become The Most Important Person in the Room: Your 30-Day Plan for Empath Empowerment (Empath Empowerment® Book)
- Women s Intuition Worldwide
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17. Verilux HappyLight VT10 Compact Personal, Portable Bright White Light 10,000 Lux Therapy Lamp with 20 sq. in. Lens Size
- USA BASED - Verilux, with over 60 years as your Healthy Lighting Company, is the creator of the original HappyLight brand with live customer support located in Vermont.
- UV-FREE, FULL SPECTRUM LIGHT - Delivers up to 10,000 lux (light level) intensity for effective light therapy. Lens dimension: 20 sq in.
- EASY TO USE, COMPACT DESIGN - Simple on/off button makes operation easy. Smaller size ideal for frequent, longer session times and perfect for desktop or kitchen table.
- IMPROVE SLEEP, MOOD, FOCUS, ENERGY - Bright light from the HappyLight Compact light therapy lamp provides signals to the body to help you feel energized, focused, and revitalized.
- SAFE AND NATURAL LIGHT THERAPY - Non-invasive and drug-free; perfect for office workers, seniors, shift work, jet lag, insomnia, and sunlight deprivation.
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>If I could stay home all of the time, I'd have PLENTY to do. I would have so much time and energy... I could go to the gym regularly, clean my house regularly, start my huge backlog of games/books/tv shows, learn how to do so many hobbies: drawing, painting, web design, writing, creating music, and more. I could volunteer at animal shelters and be surrounded by the things that I love.
>Why can't I do these things now?
Oh man, I have SO felt the same way. And the thing is, you can do those things, it just may take some time to transition into a lifestyle that you find more fulfilling.
My goal after working a 9-to-5 and realizing it just didn't agree with me (normally people would think that sounds entitled, but as HSPs I think you guys know exactly what I mean!) was to find a way to make a more sustainable life for myself, which meant becoming self-employed. Is the IT work you do something you can do from home for different clients as a contractor? If so, that would mean flexible hours (or at least more so), giving you the freedom to volunteer at an animal shelter and pursue your happy-place hobbies so your life doesn't feel so meaningless.
You can do it. You can have whatever life you want, if you have the skills that can afford you more independence and the determination to make a big change. Not sure of your gender, but this book is great for women who, like me, wanted to escape the rat race (could be applied to dudes too, I think). Sometimes just making the promise to yourself to take a leap, even if it takes months or even years to put it into practice, can rev up your motivation, since you'll be thinking about what you truly want and how to make it happen.
TM has also been a huge boon in my life. It's an energy recharge twice a day and has helped with my anxiety. Might be worth checking out!
Keep us posted! We're rooting for you! :)
I can relate well to what you say with regards to a specific tone of voice. A relationship I was in recently had a similar challenge. My partner would raise issues in what I interpreted as a reprimanding & condescending tone (I called it a teacher tone - a non-exploratory more I'm right dictatorship type of tone). It immediately put me on the defensive & shut me down emotionally (I believe HSPs are more prone to emotional flooding during conflict). I had to repeatedly ask for her to please adjust her tone. Sometimes we don't realize how we are coming across. It was only once I introduced her to NVC that she began to understand that her style of communication wasn't constructive. The way I understand NVC is that the tenet is all conflict arises from unfulfilled needs. NVC works by equipping you with the tools to be able to communicate those needs in a constructive manner. There are some videos you can watch to get an idea. It may sound a lot like fluff, but communication is one of the toughest relationship challenges we face and Marshall Rosenberg makes a lot of excellent points.
Also from my own experience, sensitivity around certain topics could also stem from conditioning from past experiences (I'm overly sensitive to authority figures - hence my strong negative reaction to the teacher tone). A slow process of reconditioning is needed to help with that, along with a great deal of patience and understanding from my partner. Check for patterns or themes that might emerge within your conflicts to try to pinpoint root causes. These may be a tell-tale sign of incompatibility (difference in values) or it could very well be repeated miscommunication. Over sensitivity can also be (as has been mentioned) due to additional pressure from situations or circumstances outside the relationship. Something else you can watch for is if your interactions involve the 4 horsemen of the apocolypse.
If you're willing to delve a bit deeper the book The Highly Sensitive Person in Love is an invaluable HSP relationship resource. There are chapters specifically on the types of challenges that you'll face as a non-HSP with an HSP as well as some of the benefits. Of all the resources listed here, I'd highly recommend you start with this as it contains a great deal of quality advice. Amazon link to the book
Lastly, I want to thank you for putting in the effort you have. It's clear that you value the relationship and you are working hard on it. It's not easy dealing with HSPs (I can be a very difficult person at times). But in the right environment, we can really thrive. And our partners will benefit from that. I hope that armed with these additional resources you'll make the right decision and that the both of you will be able to have less melt downs and more harmony.
Finally a topic I'm passionate about!
I don't have a specific answer for you, but that's because I have a lot of experience with ear plugs, and I know taste and fit will vary immensely from person to person.
Unfortunately, that means the best advice I can give you is try a whole bunch of different ear plugs, and see which ones fit best and work best for your purposes.
Judging from my experience, I'm certain you're going to need more than one type of earplug.
A bunch of tips:
If you have any questions or just want to talk earplugs, let me know. Like I said, I'm an earplug aficionado!
As for the rest of you, I can't recommend the earplug lifestyle to people on this subreddit strongly enough.
Earplugs are like a warm, cozy blanket for your mind.
Once you start using them regularly, you'll wonder how you ever managed to live without them.
Well, you can start by not throwing books in the trash. That is not where they go. I'll assume he gave you the core HSP book. Suggest to him that he read the book on HSPs in the workplace and create a list of suggestions that the two of you can discuss and implement.
Don't come in here and tell us we have an "affliction". It's rude, and oh yeah, insensitive.
> I have adopted the following managerial operating system for him.
If it's for him, he's better suited to tell you if it's useful than we are. But fine, since you want our input...
Bottom line though, it will benefit both you and your employees if instead of just skimming the book on the topic, you develop an honest desire to actually understand the HSP characteristic.
All of it and the lifestyle changes in The Depression Cure. My therapist told me that fish oil is like motor oil to our brains, and I learned the hard way that my supplements were pulling real weight when I ran out of them for a few weeks, long enough for them to leave my system. Naturopaths often have extra tools at their disposal that regular MDs don't, but a naturopath MD (key part being MD) will also understand the traditional western med side as well, and in my experience, they can help you navigate a broader range of options so you can be as aggressive as you feel comfortable with. I told mine I wanted to try what I lovingly refer to as 'hippy shit' first, then go to antidepressants later if needed. They supported that approach and provided great care along the way. But I feel my best when I have an all irons in all fires approach - the meds, the supplements, and all the lifestyle points.
Maybe the crying stems from being overwhelmed by your emotions and thus a bit too carried away.
I use several techniques to help me not get "up there" too much. Focusing on my breathing can be one of them, paying attention to my posture is another, directing my attention to body parts (especially the feet) and bodily sensations... I use several, but the general purpose is to re-ground myself.
Another explanation could be that you are unable to express your feelings in a way that would be satisfying to you (or maybe even that you are judging yourself for your feelings).
You could look into NonViolent Communication (this is a nice introduction), I found it to be a great tool to learn self-compassion and expression.
Good luck out there, I bet you are a beautiful person.
I've had this kind of thing before too. At first I thought I was sensing the future somehow, but after learning I'm HSP, and empathic, I now realize I easily pick up other people's "stuff"--what they think, feel, and want--though it doesn't come labeled as someone else's, so it's hard to tell whose it is. I also tend to be passive, so what the other person wants often does come to pass--makes it seem like I foresaw it, but actually I just felt their desire long before they made their desire into reality.
I've found this ability comes with major drawbacks, and I went looking for ways to have better control over what I'm picking up and from whom. I found a rather woo-woo book for empaths called Become the Most Important Person in the Room and I have to say it's really helping.
As u/scippie implied, how much you pick up has a lot to do with how much attention you pay to someone and how much interest you have in them.
A light for seasonal affective disorder has been a life saver for me!
When it’s gloomy out, and we have less exposure to the sun’s rays, our bodies produce less serotonin. I think we HSPs are often especially affected by this, I know I get super blue when it’s dark all day. I get really tired, too.
Light therapy has really worked for me and I’m glad I found it! I highly recommend getting a lamp for light therapy. There are a bunch on amazon. Here’s their best seller’s description:
Our brain’s chemistry and body clock are affected by light, and light stimulates hormones and neurotransmitters that greatly influence our overall feelings of well-being. Bright light exposure early in the day stimulates our body's production of serotonin (which improves mood and happiness) and regulates melatonin in the evening (which promotes sleep). Adding a HappyLight to your daily routine allows you to stimulate the production of these important hormones naturally, to keep your body running like clockwork.
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I use one that’s also an alarm clock. It gradually wakes me up with a “sunrise” and sounds of birds chirping, so nice :)
I hope you give it a try and feel a boost in your mood and energy! <3
Yes! Meditation! Specifically, Mindfulness. I started off with this. There is an older freebie too. Of course you'd need a relatively quiet place to practice first, maybe take up hiking? The only thing I can say about it, is that it shows you a different way of looking at reality in a non-judgemental way. I don't mean we go around judging people, but our minds judge the noise and deems it "irritating". Being in a mindful state bypasses this judgement the mind puts on things like that. It's not a magic cure, and it only works short term for me but is highly effective in that short term. The default "20 mins" the material suggested starting with is the longest i've been able to truly tolerate and accept an irritating thing in my environment, which is 19 minutes and 59 seconds longer than I ever could before. I don't mean i'm sitting in a meditative state like some idiot while the neighbor is sawing wood either, i'm able to passively accept the noises for about 20 minutes while doing other tasks, i'm assuming as a consequence of my practice and education about my self. I hope the amount of time increases with practice. I only just started two months ago myself and have already seen some improvements.
Sorry to hear about what you went through. Things will only get better. Glad that you're reaching out to other HSPs.
Yesterday, I was watching a podcast with Brene Brown and Russell Brand where they discussed their own kids' behavior and compliance. I hope you relate to the segment as she mentions choice theory.
I also recommend reading the book [Running on Empty] (https://www.amazon.com/Running-Empty-Overcome-Childhood-Emotional/dp/161448242X/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=running+on+empty&amp;qid=1574127505&amp;sr=8-2) by Dr. Jonice Webb
Best of luck! ♥
I had to log in to respond to this. I have a similar issue with noise, I live in NYC and the subways can be unbearable sometimes. I now walk around with earplugs, and I've found these to be awesome too. https://www.amazon.com/Radians-CEP001-R-Custom-Molded-Earplugs/dp/B002XULPSQ/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=custom+earplugs&qid=1562964521&s=gateway&sr=8-3Maybe poke a tiny pin prick in them to allow air to ciculate and not create pressure on your eardrum when walking. You'll still get the dampening they provide and it could make all the difference.
You can get tan colored ones that blend in with your skin color (provided you match the tan color that is). People don't seem to GAF what I look like when I wear normal buds that stick out. These ones can sit more flush with your ear and no one will notice.
I have to say, walking around when I need these has been an amazing help with living stable. It's basically body armor for your ears.
Always carry earplugs with you. Simple as that. It's very hard to change people, it's very easy to buy earplugs.
Two options: the throw-away kind, which is extremely good. Or the washable kind, which is good enough so you can still hear people that are standing next to you.
I have very good experience with Thunderplugs. They come in a small bullet-style aluminum case and last almost a year:
https://www.amazon.com/Thunderplugs-26dB-18dB-Filtered-Earplugs/dp/B07DFBQVTD/
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I don't know of any articles, but [this book](The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You https://www.amazon.com/dp/0767903366/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_z2.Eyb1TH3XY9) was recommended to me by my therapist. I'm still waiting for it to arrive, so I can't give a personal review, but it's well rated on Amazon.
I got mine off amazon too the best investment ever. Here is the exact one I got https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07BPBHWLG?ref=myi_title_dp&th=1
I was just about to post something to this effect! As long as I can remember I've felt unable to make connections with people, I've only ever had one serious romantic relationship (in my 20s) and I'm 41 now. I started reflecting on my childhood (authoritarian parenting, probably not much attention paid to my emotional needs) and I started doing some research. I'm currently reading this book https://www.amazon.co.uk/Running-Empty-Overcome-Childhood-Emotional/dp/161448242X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3XIQRRSYKEJW&keywords=running+on+empty+overcome+your+childhood+emotional+neglect&qid=1567155056&s=gateway&sprefix=running+on+%2Caps%2C140&sr=8-1 and trying to work out if I was emotionally neglected growing up. A lot of the symptoms of that in adulthood are just as you, and many of us, describe and experience.
EDIT: I know you were talking specifically about siblings, weren't you, but I thought this book might help someone anyway!
I love these - https://www.amazon.com/Uvex-Blocking-Computer-SCT-Orange-S1933X/dp/B000USRG90/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=orange+light+glasses&qid=1566905224&s=gateway&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER&sr=8-5
I just got a pair of Work Tunes and they are fabulous!
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I understand about the dreaming aspect . . ! My crush dominates my dreams weather it's her trying to kill me or her and I traveling the world together.
Then when I wake up it's as if they really happened, more real than real life sometimes.
Don't feel silly for feeling sad just identify your emotions and let them pass [easier said than done, I know!].
You choose how you react to anything so don't let your unconscious control the show. Just know that your sensitivity is an advantage. It just takes hard work and positive affirmations to see it as that.
I would recommend that you read these books [The Highly Sensitive Person](The Highly Sensitive Person: How to Thrive When the World Overwhelms You https://www.amazon.com/dp/0553062182/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_065Kyb4FFYYTD) and The Highly Sensitive Person in Love](The Highly Sensitive Person in Love: Understanding and Managing Relationships When the World Overwhelms You https://www.amazon.com/dp/0767903366/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_785Kyb4K5KH0Q)
They are authored by the woman who coined the term HSP who after living a life of being highly sensitive, interviewed thousands of people with HSP symptoms and issues. If you have to choose one just read The Highly Sensitive Person because it touches on relationships.
Excellent book, I recommend it as well.
Elaine Aron coined the term HSP, and she is one herself. She knows her stuff :)
I am now reading another one of her books "The Highly Sensitive Person In Love", which discusses more about relationships (mostly romantic ones, but others as well). Learning how to maintain relationships sounds like a practical way of fighting the loneliness.
Edit: There are new issues from 2016 with updated research:
The Highly Sensitive Person
The Highly Sensitive Person in Love
Have you had an opportunity to read this book yet? I'm asking because it helped me understand my upbringing, which sounds similar to yours.