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I mean, I'm not sure what your budget is, but I'd buy the heck out of this:
https://smile.amazon.com/Intency-Pink-Princess-Children-Playhouse/dp/B01LWDC1FF/ref=sr_1_14?ie=UTF8&qid=1525475021&sr=8-14&keywords=play+castle

...and theres like a ball pit attachment. Dang.

Really, any search on Amazon for "play castle" brings up amaaaaaazing stuff that isn't terribly pricey or too massive. All of it looks collapsable so it can be folded up and put away if/when needed, too.

You could even just pick out a cute carpet you like, maybe get a sleeping bag to put down, and create whatever you want. What do you enjoy in little space? Would you want toy cubbies to store things?

I have one of these with a Whale on it : https://smile.amazon.com/Sprouts-Toy-Chest-Elephant-Grey/dp/B00LIX3AW8/ref=sr_1_6?s=toys-and-games&ie=UTF8&qid=1525475313&sr=1-6&keywords=toy%2Bstorage&th=1

It's a very nice toy chest and storage for my very tiny plushies <3 you can use it to help create a "wall" to define your physical little zone.

I'd also probably go to somewhere like Squishables.com and buy two or three of the larger size squishables and use them as reclining pillows if you were to sit on the floor, or maybe the bigger size squishmallows? I guess it all depends what you like to do, or what you'd like to use the space for. coloring, reading, watching shows, playing with dolls, it all could have different accessories :3

Thank you, so much this. I'm seeing a lot of posts lately that appear to be making this mistake. It's my opinion that you may be a little, you may love being comforted and cared for by your caregiver, but first and foremost you are an adult and responsible for your own mental health. We can strive for healthy interdependent relationships, but being in a CGL relationship is not an excuse to be codependent. Or in other words, to recognize "that you need your partner and your partner needs you., but both of you also need to be individuals."

I'd like to add if therapy is still out of reach for folks, this DBT workbook could be a great stand in for now to help you develop mindfulness, as well as better emotion regulation and self care.

I don't mean to invalidate anyone's feelings or imply that it isn't hard -- It's so hard! And scary! But after taking so many difficult steps forward, it does get easier. Better. And the process is forever ongoing, I'm still learning the tools I need to be a healthier self, partner, and little.

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EDIT: Better yet, here is a CBT workbook you could use in Little Space!

DAZCOS US Size Plaid Skirt High Waist Japan School Girl Uniform Skirts (Women XS, Pink) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071JBQJDC/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_QJZyCbYX9WBWC

here it is!!!! i got it in the pink color!!!! and a size medium!!!!!! it’s a little bit short on me but i’m kinda tall 🥰💓💞☺️😋💗 i hope you get one too we can be twinsies!!!!

oh my god theres so much cute stuff in the related too! Im a boy but sometimes I want to dress up and be pretty Im 6 foot 4 though so id feel silly going out in public though its all leg though from my foot bottom to the top of my high hip is 4 feet! Im 160-165 lbs so lots of the girls I know always ask me if they can have my legs haha! I used to get mistaken for a girl from behind though when I had longer hair, and even once with my head shaved (by a very drunk homeless man who was trying to hand my flowers saying I was the most beautiful girl hes ever seen until I turned around at the last second)

https://www.amazon.com/Harajuku-Sweater-Print-Cosplay-Japan/dp/B00PRWH07M/ref=pd_sbs_193_6?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B00PRWH07M&pd_rd_r=71GY7VFKZ0PQGEHGP2A4&pd_rd_w=3uP3u&pd_rd_wg=iLfhE&psc=1&refRID=71GY7VFKZ0PQGEHGP2A4

https://www.amazon.com/Sailor-Moon-Stick-Print-Dress/dp/B01MQEBZD2/ref=pd_sbs_193_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=B01MQEBZD2&pd_rd_r=71GY7VFKZ0PQGEHGP2A4&pd_rd_w=3uP3u&pd_rd_wg=iLfhE&refRID=71GY7VFKZ0PQGEHGP2A4

I have some pictures of me all dolled up from a photoshoot a friend did of me once when I was house sitting my sisters apartment, which turned into a small party, which turned into 2 girls egging me on into cross dressing hahaah but I ended up looking great! Id post them but now I feel liek im totally hijacking your post and stuff so I wont post em unless you want to see them!

Reposting from another thread. :)

I'd recommend you try a kids' one first, and see if it works for you. Most people (myself included) like orthodontic style best. I've bought lots of baby pacis and thrown out most, but I've kept my RaZbaby and Tommee Tippee MioMee. Lots of people like Nuk 3s, but they can be hard to find in shops, and they mostly come in latex. (Some people think latex smells/tastes gross. Some people are allergic.)

Aww So Cute has them for $14.95. Nuk 5 style, silicone, cute packaging, although I've heard they squeak a lot (big pacis are always going to make a tiny bit of noise as you suck them).

Baby Pants pacis start at $20.95. The latex ones are modified Nuk 5s, which you can find on ebay for a similar price. The silicone ones are $29.95, but have received uniformly great reviews, and it's my favourite ever. I reviewed it on my tumblr.

Pacifiers R Us are expensive, and honestly, compared to Aww So Cute and Baby Pants silicone options, not worth paying that much more for, even for having more options. Just adding it to be complete. I bought one when they were the only silicone pacis above 18 months on the market, and it's good quality and lasting well.

Fetware, $15.95, thanks /u/griz120. Classic Nuk 5, latex nipple, white shield. Not as cute as other options, but more affordable.

Well for some stuff thankfully dressing cutely ie lolita/anime stuff or wearing superhero shirts is in now.
Also if you like the harajuku scene,punk or goth it's easier to get away with leather dog collars or spike chokers.

amazon and some other online shops have these onesies with are hidden by a pleated sailor skirt so it looks like a kawaii sailor uniform.

activities you could try are video games riders of icarus has this cutesy anime class class called the trickster who wields a teddy bear and magical girl looking wand, cartoons/anime you both enjoy.

If you in a legal state and you both enjoy cannabis that might help loosen him up to the idea or give you the courage to explore more of yourself with him in conversation.

As someone with social anxiety it helps me at times.

Other things you might mull over depending on how you both feel if you're not looking for him to be your caregiver would you consider maybe both of you being littles/middles whatnot together if he finds he could enjoy getting in touch with his inner kid via games or anime or other stuff?

link to that onesie I spoke of
https://www.amazon.com/Littleforbig-Onesie-Diaper-Crotch-Pajamas/dp/B072Q75T94/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1525218096&sr=1-1&nodeID=7147440011&psd=1&keywords=bigforlittle

I'm not particularly tall, but I am not thin by any means. While I like pink and pretty dresses, I also love dinosaurs (just got this guy in the mail), sci fi, etc. So I like a lot of super girly things, but also a lot of not so girly things and I think that's ok.

It is a Munchkin 360 cup :) with this type of sippy you can drink from any side. Not as “little” feeling as a true sippy, but definitely does the trick for me and keeps from spilling my juice (good for clumsy me). They sell smaller ones in stores, but this is the biggest I’ve been able to find!


Munchkin Miracle 360 Tritan Spill Proof Water Bottle, Pink, 24 Ounce https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07HFTGBBV/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_n4i1DbEBMSVGD

US link!:
https://www.amazon.com/Munchkin-Miracle-Tritan-Spill-Bottle/dp/B07HFTGBBV/ref=mp_s_a_1_6?keywords=munchkin%2Bmirical%2B360%2Badult&qid=1573329780&sr=8-6&th=1&psc=1


Thank you for sharing this! It's gonna be my next good girl reward :3

Misfits Special It is awesome, so many nice pictures to do! Enjoy 😃✨

hammock!. they make small mesh like ones specifically for stuffies :) its cute, they are up off the floor, and there is always room for more!


something like this : https://www.amazon.com/Lillys-Love-Stuffed-Storage-Hammock/dp/B01COH2R98/ref=asc_df_B01COH2R98/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=198057681014&hvpos=1o1&hvnetw=g&hvrand=3947187230171246210&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9007455&hvtargid=pla-384996011945&psc=1

You discussed being open and honest with her, and she was with you. But - you weren’t with her.

I can understand why she’s avoiding you if she saw what she perceived to be a revolted expression on your face.

You really need to sit down with her and explain what you’ve said here - but don’t mention which friend had the horrific childhood experience. Explain that what she was telling you about her ‘littleness’ challenged everything you thought you knew about people with those kinks. If she knows where your aversion is coming from, I bet she’ll understand your initial reaction.

When my fiancée first told me about her little, I had a very similar reaction. I was all “WTF?” And my little likes to be told just how old she is when we’re intimate too - and that’s something I’m still struggling with even after 5 months of knowing.

But I did my research, (like obsessively until I’d read everything I could find) and I’m working to be there for her more effectively in the way that she wants/needs.

Got yourself a copy of this: The Big Book for Littles: Tips &... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1535100818?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share and show her that you’ve bought it. Although targeted more at littles, it’s brilliant for caregivers (which is what you’d become if you pursue this with her just FYI) too.

Do let us know how it goes for you OP 🙂

Edit: Perhaps buy her a stuffy (because who doesn’t love stuffies?!) as a gesture to say “I’m sorry I freaked. But I am trying to understand this.”

Funny I thought I did and realized I didn't actually post it lol

Littleforbig Adult Baby Diaper Lover (ABDL) Button Crotch Adult Baby Onesie Bodysuit - Mad Love Onesie Black https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07K3VG3C3/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_ZI-GDb9Z8GR9Q

Amazon here's the link Fucking Adorable - Cute Critters with foul Mouths https://www.amazon.com/dp/1537498649?ref=yo_pop_ma_swf

You could probably find some at thrift/dollar stores, but, the 10$ adult coloring books on Amazon are all very well worth it, for what you get!

The ones by Johanna Basford are incredibly detailed, and I'm surprised they are so cheap for the quality and quantity (80-96 page books.. front and back of each page..!) that you're getting. I have this one, and I've only completed 2 1/2 pages from it... in the 5 months I've had it (granted I don't color that often cause my thumb goes numb, but it would take me at least a few hours to finish one picture!)

I know right! they're so cute! you can get them on amazon if you want. 💕 https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B010HJGOZS?psc=1&ref=yo_pop_mb_yo_pop_mb_pd_t2

https://www.amazon.com/Littleforbig-Onesie-Diaper-Crotch-Pajamas/dp/B072Q75T94/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1499586132&sr=8-3&keywords=littleforbig 😊

Don't forget to throw the word anime in your gothic clothes search. To see if it give you more options..

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Edit: the search gives me results like

https://www.amazon.com/I-Youth-Princess-Ruffles-Bowknot-Costumes/dp/B07MDK17KS

Question is how good is it going to look in real life..

I got it from amazon! :)

That's so cool! I didn't know that the new ones were out now!

https://www.amazon.com/Tamagotchi-42835-On-Magic-Green/dp/B07R18MJGM

For anyone interested.

http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1780671067/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1422399680&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX200_QL40&dpPl=1&dpID=71Z8j-Y5qAL&ref=plSrch

That's the one! The artist has a second one coming soon, Enchanted Forest!

Yup Yup! https://smile.amazon.com/Fucking-Adorable-Cute-Critters-Mouths/dp/1537498649/ref=sr_1_3?keywords=fucking+adorable+coloring+book&qid=1550703170&s=gateway&sr=8-3

I would suggest one of those hanging stuffie holders maybe? Either the tower ones or the ones that hang in the corner.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B078J9FFN7/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_E-TyDbNFP7XEK
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01COH2R98/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_IaUyDb0P2QF2N