(Part 2) Best products from r/raisingkids
We found 22 comments on r/raisingkids discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 101 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
22. Raising Children Compassionately: Parenting the Nonviolent Communication Way (Nonviolent Communication Guides)
- Heat Shotels x2, Shield x1, Beam Submachine Gun x1
- Molded in separate colors, no paint required
- Easy to snap together, no glue required
- item package weight: 1.5 pounds
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23. PJ Masks 5-Minute Stories
- PJ Masks 5-Minute Stories Hardcover – December 11, 2018
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25. The Happiest Baby Guide to Great Sleep: Simple Solutions for Kids from Birth to 5 Years
William Morrow Paperbacks
26. Parenting the Strong-Willed Child: The Clinically Proven Five-Week Program for Parents of Two- to Six-Year-Olds, Third Edition
Parenting the Strong Willed Child The Clinically Proven Five Week Program for Parents of Two to Six Year Olds Third Edition
27. The EatingWell Healthy in a Hurry Cookbook: 150 Delicious Recipes for Simple, Everyday Suppers in 45 Minutes or Less
Countryman Press
28. Zojirushi NS-ZCC10 5-1/2-Cup Neuro Fuzzy Rice Cooker and Warmer, Premium White, 1.0-Liter
- 5-1/2-cup computerized rice cooker and warmer with advanced Neuro Fuzzy logic technology. Wall mountable
- Multi-menu selections; automatic keep-warm, extended keep-warm, and reheat cycles. Electrical Rating - 120 volts / 680 watts
- Spherical, nonstick inner pan allows for uniform heating; LCD clock and timer; retractable cord
- Menu settings include white (regular/sushi, softer or harder), mixed, porridge, sweet, semi-brown, brown, rinse-free and quick cooking
- Measures approximately 14 by 8 by 9 inches; 1-year limited warranty, Dimensions (W x D x H) : 10-1/8 x 13 x 8-1/8 inches
- Includes 2 measuring cups, nonstick rice spoon/scooper, rice spoon holder, and recipes . NOTE: Please ensure to measure rice in the cup that comes along with the product ONLY
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29. The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Parents are Going Broke
- Simon & Schuster
- Condition : Good
- Easy to read text
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30. Parenting with Reason: Evidence-Based Approaches to Parenting Dilemmas (Parent and Child)
32. Gossie and Friends Board Book Set (Gossie & Friends)
- Padlocks, Lockout/Tagout & Security Equipment
- Country of manufacture: United States
- Manufacturer: MESA SAFE COMPANY
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34. The True Colors of a Princess Coloring Book: Companion to What Does a Princess Really Look Like? (Brave Like A Girl Series)
35. The First National Bank of Dad: A Foolproof Method for Teaching Your Kids the Value of Money
36. WeeRide Co-Pilot Bike Trailer
Sturdy bike trailer for teaching your child how to ride a bikeAttaches quickly and easily to almost any bike with a seat postActs just like a regular bike, with handlebars, seat, and pedalsQuick-release detachment system; safety flag and handlebar padHolds up to 75 pounds; weighs 24 pounds; recommen...
37. Playful Parenting: An Exciting New Approach to Raising Children That Will Help You Nurture Close Connections, Solve Behavior Problems, and Encourage Confidence
- PARENTING
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38. Boar Bristle Hair Brush set - Curved and Vented Detangling Hair Brush for Women Long, Thick, Thin, Curly & Tangled Hair Vent Brush Gift kit
BOAR BRISTLE HAIR BRUSH – natural boar bristles promote healthy hair by stimulation of natural oils from the scalp.DETANGLING HAIR BRUSH – added nylon bristles help detangle thick hair and massage the scalp. With a mixture of natural boar bristles & nylon pins, this brush is perfect for detangli...
39. Original Blackout Pleated Paper Shade Black, 36” x 72”, 6-Pack
- Trim at home for the perfect fit inside or outside your window frame, then install in seconds without a drill, screws, or brackets — No Tools needed
- Block 99% of light for complete privacy, light control and UV protection for bedrooms, children’s rooms and movie rooms
- No cords for a clean look and child safety — use included clips to raise and lower shade
- Made of durable paper that will not yellow or crack from sun exposure
- Your No Tools window covering solution for over 30 years — works as a stand-alone solution, or easily layer behind existing window treatments
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40. Fisher-Price Fun-2-Learn Computer Cool School
The ready for school center is an expandable system with each additional piece of softwareThe five centers are reading, writing, math, art, music, and scienceEach center is represented by a physical button on the base hardwareChildren can also print out reward certificates and supplemental worksheet...
My son knew all his letters at age 2 as well. At 3 he was reading out street and shop signs, and now at 4 he can read simple books by himself. All we did was read books with him from a young age. He watches about an hour of TV/videos every day, stuff like Pingu or Dora or Thomas or kids' songs on youtube - none of which can be credited with teaching him to read, I think it was just reading with him.
Some of his favorite books (in chronological order):
I'm a stay-at-home mom so we probably have more time to read with kids than families where both parents work. But even so maybe you can still try: we only read about one book a day on average, so making it a bedtime routine would put two-working-parent kids on the same footing as ours.
My point of view differs from the other comments that I've read in this thread.
I feel a lot of trepidation while reading most of the comments in this thread. I'm afraid that perceiving kids as "manipulative little monsters", or as having "discipline issues" because they resist their parents' attempts to make them go to sleep when they don't want to, will result in damage to the relationships between parents and children.
I hope that you will make a strong effort to understand what's going on for your daughter. What is she feeling when she is resisting bedtime? What does she need that she isn't getting? Is she scared of going to sleep by herself? Does she need to be closer to you to feel safe? You may be able to find out what's going on by talking with her about it, and possibly making some guesses for her to comment on.
You might find it useful try to see yourself in her position. What would you want Daddy to do? What would help you feel that Daddy understands you and wants to make sure your needs are met?
If you are interested in thinking about parenting in this way, then you may find this book useful. It has definitely influenced my thinking.
As a fellow Dad, I wish you the very best.
I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old and they are absolutely enamored with PJ Masks (streams on Netflix, 12 minute episodes). I'm happy with the amount of screen time they are doing now (1 or 2 half episodes every couple of days depending), but we've been moving it into other areas as well which is fun. We have impromptu PJ Mask dance parties to the theme song on Spotify, we drive the Owl Glider, Cat Car, and the Gekko Mobile around the house, and read all kind of stories in the 5 Minute Stories variant. Its been a great source of imagination for the kids, though they don't appreciate when I change the lyrics to "Night time, is the right time, for bed time!" Haha.
My (3-year old) son likes some traditionally "girly" stuff and has been getting some flack from other kids about it at school. His teacher and my wife and I talked about strategies (his teachers are awesome) and one thing we did was check out a bunch of books about being different.
Two of them pull pretty strong on my heart strings:
Neither
https://www.amazon.com/Neither-Airlie-Anderson/dp/0316547697
Jamie is Jamie
https://www.amazon.com/Jamie-About-Being-Yourself-Playing/dp/1631981390/ref=sr_1_1?crid=31CS9009VZAPK&keywords=jamie+is+jamie&qid=1570198131&s=books&sprefix=jamie+is+%2Cstripbooks%2C137&sr=1-1
They're both great. The drawings (of all sorts of odd hybridized creatures) in Neither are fantastic, as is the story. It is the "younger" book of the two.
But Jamie is Jamie brings me (a reasonably masculine man) almost to tears. It's about a kid (Jamie) that likes doing girly and boy-y stuff, and their classmates like Jamie a lot and have an interesting conversation about whether they are a boy or a girl, then decide they don't care.
But what really makes it special in my mind is that it doesn't end there--it shows how after that, the other kids start playing with whatever they actually want to, regardless of gender norms, and are happier for it.
I think it touches me because I can remember being a kid and having interest in some "girly" things--gymnastics, dress-up, cooking... but never letting myself do those things. I think books like this would have helped me try things I wanted to do but was afraid to, and I hope it is that way for my son.
You can do it! The first few weeks I recall the baby waking every 2 hours or so to eat. It gradually gets longer, and when they sleep for 5+ hours it feels like a miracle! Just remember, it's only a phase, they will learn to sleep through the night, and you guys will quickly learn what works for your little one. The 5 s's worked great for us, especially the swaddle and shushing(white noise), the other ones are side lying/stomach (when you're holding them!), swinging, and sucking. The book "happiest baby on the block, the sleeping edition" was great for me when I was first learning the ropes. I'm 10 months in and ours sleeps 12 hours with 1 feeding before I go to bed, it's a dream come true. You'll get there!
Edit:link to the book I referred to: http://www.amazon.com/Happiest-Baby-Guide-Great-Sleep/dp/0062113321
I am so sorry this is so hard.
Here is an interesting article called that may help a bit:
"Parenting your strong-willed child".
Which I found when searching for this book: Parenting the Strong Willed Child
I have heard wonderful things about this book - seriously, it's been very helpful to a number of people I know who have intense kids.
EDIT: I've also heard good things about this one: Raising your spirited child
We purchased the EatingWell Healthy in a Hurry cookbook about 3 years ago and it has been a great addition to our routine. There are some great quick and healthy recipes in there. Some take longer than 30min, but most are pretty close. Family favorites include:
We generally do at least one stir fry (with a Zojirushi rice cooker that cooks the rice before we get home--worth every penny!) every week. We also try to use the crockpot at least once a week, but that usually means you have to cook 2x in one night, but we usually manage after bedtime.
Edit: Just for reference we both work full time and have a 6 year old and a 3 year old. We generally eat out at least once during the weeknights. To limit the complaints, we usually let each kid pick out a dinner (the cookbook has great pictures btw) for the week.
There's no correct answer, of course.
Over time, my wife and I have used combinations of a nanny, grandparents, and day care since my son was two months old, as we both had to return to work for various reasons. In terms of his health and development, we have no complaints: he is thriving. That doesn't mean much, as I'd probably say the exact same thing if my wife were working at home, or if I was. He is in a full-time day care that he loves. There have been plenty of tears along the way, but your husband's view of day care as something out of Dickens is just wrong. He cherishes his little friends, the teachers, and the lessons he gets each day.
For me, an important factor is the total cost to the parent who stays at home. Some people have mentioned depression, etc., but I would focus on career issues. I'm in my 40s. With one exception, the women I know who stayed at home to raise kids are simply erased from the work place. Whatever their level of achievement before --- these are women I know with PhDs, MBAs, etc. --- they never manage to find a full-time job again. The stories (excuses?) are different, but the results are the same, whether they tried in elementary school or later.
The parental choices you make include what your life will be like after the children have come and left the house. If you have an advanced degree, or work in an area that you love, I would urge you to consider full-time or part-time child care. I don't know you, of course, or your field, but your remarks about part-time projects struck me as probably unrealistic. I'm a hiring manager, and the vast majority of the resume I see with side-projects do not lead me to hireable candidates. Many people fool themselves; don't be one of them.
You also mention living in the SF Bay Area. You two should plan out some realistic budgets that go out to school age for your two kids. As you've noted, many of our public schools are simply awful, in part due to the lingering disaster that is Prop 13. You may well have to move or use a local private school.
Finally, I strongly recommend the book The Two-Income Trap, written by now Senator Elizabeth Warren and her daughter. As you may know, Warren is a bankruptcy specialist, and she came about the topic of the book from an unusual angle: she was looking at why couples got into financial straits. The book is too long to summarize, other than to say that every couple needs to look thoughtfully at their real risks and their actual obligations. Genuine love of children is one element of the two-income trap, as the book explains.
Very reasonable and thoughtful, certainly. But is it objectively true? Some people go with a "seems to work for me" mode of thinking, and that's fine, but others, like myself, want to know the hard science and learn the truth about these things.
Simply put, the plural of anecdote is not evidence. While there may be lots of parents who appreciate his advice, there is little to no science supporting his opinions, and quite a bit of conflicting science negating it.
If you're at all interested in said science, I recommend picking up this book: http://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Reason-Evidence-Based-Approaches-Dilemmas/dp/041541329X
We just finished reading The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane (https://www.amazon.com/Miraculous-Journey-Edward-Tulane/dp/0763680907).
Our daughter had it read to her class (2nd grade), and liked it so much she wanted us to read it as a family. We all liked it so much we read the whole thing in 5 days. There are some sad parts (a little girl dies from an unspecified illness), but it's handled well, and overall it's a great book about a rabbit that starts out completely self absorbed, but learns how to love. There is some challenging vocabulary for a young child.
CSM says 7+:
https://www.commonsensemedia.org/book-reviews/the-miraculous-journey-of-edward-tulane
This book covers this topic along these lines but in much more detail:
https://www.amazon.com/First-National-Bank-Dad-Foolproof/dp/1416534253/
I've found it to be super useful. The part about paying kids way higher interest because of their time horizon and inexperience is especially important for my kids.
Sorry this got caught in the spam filter. The gyrowheel looks pretty interesting.
We've got an attachable trailer with pedals & 3rd wheel, kinda like this:
http://www.amazon.com/WeeRide-96455-Co-Pilot-Bike-Trailer/dp/B003XNFMLS
I think it is helping my daughter with her desire to ride, because together we can go pretty fast & she can see how much fun that is. Also she can get used to the feeling of balancing on a bike and pedaling while I do most of the work.
The Wet Brush is good, or we have had good success run this one.
Boar Bristle Hair Brush set –... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01D3Y6WFG?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Also leave in conditioner is key- honestly I buy a salon one! My five year old has waist length, thick hair so I need all the help I can get.
Do you have Instagram? Check out "takingcarababies". She offers different types of classes that you can pay for, but I have gotten SO much good, free advice just from following her posts.
I also second what people are saying about the blackout curtains and sound machines. I got these for blackout curtains--they are cheap and efficient. You want something that actually blocks all light, which most curtains don't do.
Original Blackout Pleated Paper... https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000SDROMG?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
Seriously though, taking Cara babies. Its a game changer!!
Minecraft, you will have to help him get started.
Jumpstart online, great free or paid
my son loved this:
http://www.amazon.com/Fisher-Price-Fun-2-Learn-Computer-Cool-School/dp/B0015KVW56/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1342796646&sr=8-1&keywords=cool+school
variety of software options to go with it.
I can!
The main book in the article is "What Does a Princess Really Look Like?" and the link is: www.amazon.com/What-Does-Princess-Really-Brave/dp/1945448172
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It comes with a companion coloring book, "The True Colors of a Princess" and that link is www.amazon.com/True-Colors-Princess-Coloring-Book/dp/1945448369