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Reddit mentions of Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles: Winning for a Lifetime
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We found 2 Reddit mentions of Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles: Winning for a Lifetime. Here are the top ones.
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Height | 8 Inches |
Length | 5.31 Inches |
Number of items | 1 |
Release date | February 2001 |
Weight | 0.56 Pounds |
Width | 0.76 Inches |
A couple of thoughts:
All of these people have obviously never had a teacher that hated them. I did, and it was awful. My middle school physics teacher singled me out because of some issue she had with my much older brother who attended the same school 10 years before me. She would pick on me in class, ask me questions about areas I struggled in and ridiculed me in front of the whole class. I hated physics (still do!), had perfect A's in everything else, and barely passed that damned class. It is possible for a teacher to be a total jerk.
You need to work on her attendance issues, and if you can, get her some therapy. Sounds like your little girl is under a lot of stress from the family situation and the school. If you make it a rule that she HAS to go to school unless she has a fever, as well as talk to her about her emotions and empathize with how she feels, maybe she'll be less likely to get sick.
I'd also talk to a doctor (maybe just a therapist/child psychologist) so you have their professional opinion to report to the teacher. If a psychologist decides that your daughter is under too much stress, and can send a note to the teacher, maybe that will shut her up about being late. I was more often late than not to school, and I never struggled with anything academic in my life (except for damn physics!).
To sum up, there's definitely something emotional and psychological going on here, and you should get professional help, as well as minimize her absences. All these people on here saying that missing 20% of first grade will ruin her life should stfu. I missed a lot of school due to serious illness (weeks at a time, with the longest absence being 3 weeks), and I was still the best student in class. A person is either smart or not. As long as she is learning to read and write, she'll be fine, just make sure this stressful situation is not permanent for her.
Oh, and read this book about managing your kid's emotions, it has excellent advice! Kids, Parents and Power Struggles