Reddit mentions of Advanced Calculus: A Differential Forms Approach

i have three categories of suggestions.

advanced calculus

these are essentially precursors to smooth manifold theory. you mention you have had calculus 3, but this is likely the modern multivariate calculus course.

• advanced calculus: a differential forms approach by harold edwards
  
  
• advanced calculus: a geometric view by james callahan
  
  
• vector calculus, linear algebra, and differential forms: a unified approach by john hubbard
  
  out of these, if you were to choose one, i think the callahan book is probably your best bet to pull from. it is the most modern, in both approach and notation. it is a perfect setup for smooth manifolds (however, all of these books fit that bill). hubbard's book is very similar, but i don't particularly like its notation. however, it has some unique features and does attempt to unify the concepts, which is a nice approach. edwards book is just fantastic, albeit a bit nonstandard. at a minimum, i recommend reading the first three chapters and then the latter chapters and appendices, in particular chapter 8 on applications. the first three chapters cover the core material, where chapters 4-6 then go on to solidify the concepts presented in the first three chapters a bit more rigorously.
  
  smooth manifolds
  
  
• an introduction to manifolds by loring tu
  
  
• introduction to smooth manifolds by john m. lee
  
  
• manifolds and differential geometry by jeffrey m. lee
  
  
• first steps in differential geometry: riemannian, contact, sympletic by andrew mcinerney
  
  out of these books, i only have explicit experience with the first two. i learned the material in graduate school from john m. lee's book, which i later solidifed by reading tu's book. tu's book actually covers the same core material as lee's book, but what makes it more approachable is that it doesn't emphasize, and thus doesn't require a lot of background in, the topological aspects of manifolds. it also does a better job of showing examples and techniques, and is better written in general than john m. lee's book. although, john m. lee's book is rather good.
  
  so out of these, i would no doubt choose tu's book. i mention the latter two only to mention them because i know about them. i don't have any experience with them.
  
  conceptual books
  
  these books should be helpful as side notes to this material.
  
  
• div, grad, curl are dead by william burke [pdf]
  
  
• geometrical vectors by gabriel weinreich
  
  
• about vectors by banesh hoffmann
  
  i highly recommend all of these because they're all rather short and easy reads. the first two get at the visual concepts and intuition behind vectors, covectors, etc. they are actually the only two out of all of these books (if i remember right) that even talk about and mention twisted forms.
  
  there are also a ton of books for physicists, applied differential geometry by william burke, gauge fields, knots and gravity by john baez and javier muniain (despite its title, it's very approachable), variational principles of mechanics by cornelius lanczos, etc. that would all help with understanding the intuition and applications of this material.
  
  conclusion
  
  if you're really wanting to get right to the smooth manifolds material, i would start with tu's book and then supplement as needed from the callahan and hubbard books to pick up things like the implicit and inverse function theorems. i highly recommend reading edwards' book regardless. if you're long-gaming it, then i'd probably start with callahan's book, then move to tu's book, all the while reading edwards' book. :)
  
  i have been out of graduate school for a few years now, leaving before finishing my ph.d. i am actually going back through callahan's book (didn't know about it at the time and/or it wasn't released) for fun and its solid expositions and approach. edwards' book remains one of my favorite books (not just math) to just pick up and read.

I think these days it's really important to make it to the generalized stokes theorem, not just for an honors crowd but in general. This means covering differential forms. Hubbard and Hubbard has been mentioned.

Not a book but in my mind a very nice update on H&H is Ghrist's video lecture on multivariable calculus which covered traditional integral theorems (Green, Gauss and Stokes) while showing their full relationship to generalized stokes in a very natural way. I really think this is a kind of template how modern courses on multivariable/vector calculus should be taught these days. it's not just the content but also the order of presentation that is very neat and maximizes clarity.

There are a bunch of books that had treaded this path over the years. Loomis & Sternberg, and Harold Edwards are books worth considering, though H&H is in some sense most detailed while also having a nice pace.

I actually believe that there is a dearth of really good updated and polished books in the area, and that there are so few really good options calls for some effort to develop lecture notes into books on the topic.

For me, a "good read" in mathematics should be 1) clear, 2) interestingly written, and 3) unique. I dislike recommending books that have, essentially, the same topics in pretty much the same order as 4-5 other books.

I guess I also just disagree with a lot of people about the
"best" way to learn topology. In my opinion, knowing all the point-set stuff isn't really that important when you're just starting out. Having said that, if you want to read one good book on topology, I'd recommend taking a look at Kinsey's excellent text Topology of Surfaces.

If you're interested in a sequence of books...keep reading.

If you are confident with calculus (I'm assuming through multivariable or vector calculus) and linear algebra, then I'd suggest picking up a copy of Edwards' Advanced Calculus: A Differential Forms Approach. Read that at about the same time as Spivak's Calculus on Manifolds. Next up is Milnor Topology from a Differentiable Viewpoint, Kinsey's book, and then Fulton's Algebraic Topology. At this point, you might have to supplement with some point-set topology nonsense, but there are decent Dover books that you can reference for that. You also might be needing some more algebra, maybe pick up a copy of Axler's already-mentioned-and-excellent Linear Algebra Done Right and, maybe, one of those big, dumb algebra books like Dummit and Foote.

Finally, the books I really want to recommend. Spivak's A Comprehensive Introduction to Differential Geometry, Guillemin and Pollack Differential Topology (which is a fucking steal at 30 bucks...the last printing cost at least $80) and Bott & Tu Differential Forms in Algebraic Topology. I like to think of Bott & Tu as "calculus for grown-ups". You will have to supplement these books with others of the cookie-cutter variety in order to really understand them. Oh, and it's going to take years to read and fully understand them, as well :) My advisor once claimed that she learned something new every time she re-read Bott & Tu...and I'm starting to agree with her. It's a deep book. But when you're done reading these three books, you'll have a real education in topology.

Harold Edwards book takes this approach.

https://www.amazon.com/Advanced-Calculus-Differential-Forms-Approach/dp/0817637079

I learned from Differential Forms: A Complement to Vector Calculus and Advanced Calculus: A Differential Forms Approach. In first book many of the exercises seem tedious, but you should do them anyway.