Reddit mentions of How to Be Invisible: Protect Your Home, Your Children, Your Assets, and Your Life

A lot of people are giving great advice, but if you actually want to know how to do it, just search.

These 2 are pretty good, but keep in mind there is a lot of complexities involved

How to Disappear

How to be Invisible

You are welcome.

Note that "Mark's" scenario I described above was extremely commonplace before same-sex marriage was legal, especially in decades past. For estate tax planning purposes, it was common for a gay man or woman to "adopt" their partner as it was one of the few legal options to absolutely ensure a partner's inclusion their estate plan. I have estate planning experience with several cases like those. Perhaps your husband has a family member that would be willing to formally adopt you and that could sever your ties to your biological family forever.

Ensuring your privacy is also partially dependent on state law, as well. Nevada, for example, has some very robust privacy laws that allow for individual shareholders (owners) of companies to be completely anonymous. There are several good books out there that can help you direct your life and help you become more "invisible" even in this modern age where privacy has become rare and precious.

You can do much of this yourself. A good starting point is a book like this: https://www.amazon.com/How-Be-Invisible-Protect-Children-ebook/dp/B0065QZVB6.

If you ignore the conspiracy-type books, there is plenty of information out there on how to make your personal information more private. It takes time and effort, but it is possible.

Good luck.

Not legal advice but you might find "How To Be Invisible" by J. J. Luna a helpful read https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0065QZVB6/

Here is a book with excellent advice on how to make yourself disappear. I highly recommend that you purchase a copy of this, it gives all kinds of tips and suggestions on how to make yourself invisible.

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us, too!