Reddit mentions of Storms Can't Hurt the Sky: A Buddhist Path Through Divorce

I feel your pain, same situation as you. Together 10 years, and only married 29 days before I found out about her six month ongoing affair.

Two years later, I have some bits of advice:

1. What you feel right now WILL change. I promise it will get better and will discover the real you again. It won’t seem like it right now however YOU are a better person without her.
   
   
2. Good days are always followed by bad days, that’s just normal life, but the bad days do not define who you are or the type of life you will always have.
   
   
3. Your ex didn’t intend to, but she has given you the best gift in the world. FREEDOM. Talk to friends, and spend time with people who love you. Family will always have your back and support you without judging.
   
   
4. As hard as the first session might be, I urge you to go and talk to a therapist or counsellor. Family have your back however a therapist will give you unbiased advice and revelations which I PROMISE will help with recovery and allow you to become a better mentally healthier person.
   
   Resource worth checking out :
   
   Gabriel Cohen The Storms Can't Hurt the Sky, A Buddhist Path Through Divorce
   
   I’m not a Buddhist but found this really calming and eye opening.

The writer's book about divorce the Buddhist way looks really good too - I've just ordered it, thanks for the link!