Reddit mentions of Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On Harness, Black (AE158)

For the best beginner experience, the dildo needs to have an adequate insertable length and a comfortable diameter. I advise strongly against pegging kits I've seen from otherwise great brands; they are a waste of money and can provide a bad first time pegging experience. Why? Dildo is too short at 4-inches and harness is flimsy (straps don't provide a snug fit low enough on her pubis bone which you need for control). I've been pegging for 15 years and have taken many pegging v-cards. My number one recommendation for a dildo is the Vixen Creations Mistress Dildo. You can find it on Amazon for $42. The best reasonably priced harness I have used as of late is the U Strap Avalon Jock Style Strap on Harness also available on Amazon for around $30. I have suggestions on how to improve the harness out of the box if you go with this one. DM for those. I suggest water-based for pegging because silicone lube ruins silicone toys and lube gets all over the giver's hands making them very slick. The giver needs her hands free and clear to guide the dildo. I keep a damp black washcloth by me at all times when pegging to deal with excess lube on my hands. I use Wet Light Liquid Water-Based (also available from Amazon at about $8) All USD. I can give you reasons why all of the above are my tried and trues for budget friendly pegging but this would make the post long. Wishing you and your pegging princess happy pegging. Welcome to the #peggingrevolution. :)

Lube: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00CPQUP3E/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_image_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&th=1

Didlo (link is to a glitter dildo, but they come in black too): https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00L06BDYK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Harness: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00R6WVV2Q/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00R6WVV2Q/ref=oh_aui_detailpage_o03_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 i own this and actually love it its comfy