Reddit mentions of The Elements of User Experience: User-Centered Design for the Web

Depends on what you want to do — UX is a pretty broad field. I'm a user interface designer with a UX background, which means I've designed sites, web apps and mobile apps, but there's plenty of UX positions that don't require any sort of visual design or front-end development experience.

For example, there are labs that conduct user research and interviews, run focus groups, or do user testing. Hell, you could even apply to be a user tester at a site like usertesting.com. Not sure how much money you can make from that, but it's something.

Also, there are UX positions that go from beginning research and discovery for projects up through the wireframing, which doesn't require any visual design experience. You'll usually hand off your UX work to a designer or a developer to implement.

Some good books to read about UX are:

• Don't Make Me Think by Steve Krug
  
• Rocket Surgery Made Easy by Steve Krug
  
• About Face 3 by a couple people
  
• The Design of Everyday Things by Donald Norman
  
• The Inmates Are Running the Asylum by Alan Cooper
  
• The Elements of User Experience by Jesse James Garrett
  
  There's also plenty of online resources about UX. Smashing Magazine has a ton of articles on it.
  
  If you are good at puzzles, love solving complex problems, and contain any shred of empathy, user experience could be a good field for you.

I started in market research as well before transitioning to a UX Researcher. These are the standouts from the reading list I started with:

The Elements of User Experience - A great intro to the whole field of UX. In-depth and covers the user centered design process.

Don't Make Me Think Short but comprehensive book on usability.

Handbook of Usability Testing Everything you need to know about usability testing.

Interviewing Users This book is great and is one I go back to regularly. The author Steve Portigal, also has a podcast on user research, "Dollars to Donuts" which is worth checking out.

Another comment mentioned the Jeff Sauro book which is very good, and also the Userfocus blog and newsletter. I've done David Travis' courses as well and would recommend them to people new to the field.

https://www.usability.gov/ is a great resource for templates, methods, definitions etc.

NN/g and UIE are my two most read blogs/newsletters.

Well, - the coding you said.

Get this:
http://www.amazon.com/Elements-User-Experience-User-Centered-Design/dp/0735712026/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1215177295&sr=8-1

I know that the title makes it look like a book on usability, but it is not. It is a great resource for planning a website.

Also recommended is this list:
http://blindapeseo.com/books/10-essential-books-for-web-developers