Reddit mentions of Tom of Finland 3 Piece Silicone Cock Ring Set

I can't exactly recommend to another dude what is going to be the best experience out of any. I had to Google what "Nix and Lily" were, and I see they're Bad Dragon masturbatory things. Neither comes with any movement/vibration stimulation and Nix apparently has a stumpy tail to make it more difficult to fuck or something. These toys are $95 as well.

I don't know your budget, but it may be worth trying a couple of things out if you can afford to. Different stimulation may lead to different orgasms.

For straight thrusting and east of cleaning, I use this Fleshlight Quickshot. I bought the clear version and find it's one of the easiest to use I've ever had. Was less weird to clean than a regular Fleshlight and the like, plus easier to conceal if I want, it's close to the size of a coke can. Use water-based lube.

I have also found that I can cum from using vibrations on my dick, and I use a Hitachi Magic Wand and occasionally an accessory, placing it behind my head and flexing my prostate (imagine trying to flex/move your dick or stop peeing). The first time I did this, it surprised the fuck out of me and I came HARD. Ever since I've been chasing that dragon lol. I will add that due to my size, that accessory that goes all the way thru is difficult to fit into. I'm only a little over 6 inches long and taper from my base some, kind of thick there. With a lot of patience and lube, I can just barely fit into the sleeve, it doesn't have much give. You, based on what you mention in your post and most guys probably will be able to comfortably fit into it. The vibrations are no joke, though. I went from using my hand, having the occasional partner but not one at the time, to this and it was a whole other level. I couldn't use a cock ring like I do regularly, I'd only barely be able to get my head into that sleeve and almost cry due to those bumps inside the sleeve. If you can, try it out though. You should fit and it may fuck your whole deal up. No one's going to see you for like 2 days.

I might also suggest getting some cock rings. If you've never used any before, go with silicone to start. Wood and metal are great, but not recommended for beginners. Silicone ones will stretch and wont get stuck. I recommend staying away from any that say "jelly" in the title, those are terrible and will break before long in most cases. I use the brand name Tom of Finland which was recommended by a gay friend. Definitely not exclusive to gay men, it's just a well made set of rings. I have found most of those cheap ones with the little bullet sized vibes on them break easily. The lasso-style may work as well, there's more adjust-ability at the cost of possibly pinching initially. A little practice and it gets easier. If you want to give metal ones a try, I recommend these as a set of 3. I find the smallest one is nice to use just behind my head. It can slide off easier, so don't have sex with one just behind your head!

If you occasionally like conversation, back rubs, bonding, and challenges - you can always try to find someone willing to play with your dick for you. Some prefer that, others can prefer masturbation.