(Part 2) Best products from r/ForeverAlone

Thanks for the kind words! The questions put to me there kind of inspired me.

The reasons I likely couldn't have written that most recent book without first getting that young woman friend, and that GF, are many. For instance, having been held off at arm's length by women my whole life, I'd always been on the outside, looking in, with no opportunity to learn things first hand from them, about what they're like, how they think, etc. Or how BF/GF relationships developed and worked at all. That really crimped my novel writing efforts, big time! Because for one thing, I feared not being able to write believably about things I'd never experienced myself.

Then I got my new female best friend. And she spoke to me more than any woman ever had before, and about a much wider variety of topics. Including a woman's perspective on the world, and sex, and men, etc. She taught me a tremendous amount, for which I will always be grateful. Then she even gave me fantastic starting premises for several books, which I seized upon, and wrote up forthwith (well, I haven't yet wrote ALL of them up; but I have a few!).

Interacting with her also taught me a little about relationships between men and women as friends; but of course, was limited in what I could learn about BF/GF relationships. For while we are close, and frank with one another, and can get into some pretty racy discussions at times, we don't do truly intimate stuff.

So for that, I needed a GF. Then I got one! Yay! :-)

And so learned much of the remaining bits I needed to know.

Having these two women in my life also seemed to help heal some of the hurt and regret I still felt over my original crush, from so long ago.

Don't get me wrong: my crush never did anything bad at all. Never did anything to encourage me, or to hurt me. In fact, I did the best I could to prevent her from ever knowing just how crazy I was over her. So she never had the chance (or need) to reject me. But I'm pretty sure if I had given her that chance, she would have tried to be as polite and gentle with it as possible. For she was a pretty decent person, from what I could gather at the time from afar. Almost certainly better than average in that respect.

However, even with the gains I'd made, I still felt a little haunted by the crush that set me on the path to FA status, for so many decades; and how I was never brave enough to at least approach her directly, and get soundly rejected. For maybe that would have been good for me. Who knows? I sometimes wonder what different path my life might have taken, if I could have been brave in that moment.

So, when an idea came to me to possibly wrap all that up in a fictional way, I embraced it.

The book is Anne Maddison’s Secret Admirer. It's a Kindle ebook. You can find it at:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B06XTZT985

If you read it, I hope you like it! :-)

PS: I wrote this under a pseudonym. I have lots of them.

The trick is to not take the silences and whatnot personally. It's hard, but that's the trick.

So, I know this is going to sound cliche, but the book that helped me quite a bit is How to Succeed with Women. I would highly recommend it, as it not only helps with talking to women, it also is really good at teaching you to gain confidence by re-evaluating rejection as a good thing, instead of bad.

I like ICP, too, but I don't really care for their music outside this song, which I think is amazing. I will have to give that record a listen. What I really like about them is how their fans tend to come from the more downtrodden parts of society, and how open they are to letting outsiders in. All you have to do to be a juggalo, I think, is call yourself a juggalo. Have you read this book? Very highly recommended.

Oh, it is. I kinda want to read it tbh.

Edit: It appears it is free https://www.amazon.com/Xis-One-Sandra-Coupland-ebook/dp/B01N1XZ33L

Edit #2: I got it for free and read it. Yes, it includes sex with Xi Jinping in the last chapter. I really hope this book is a parody.

Mine is really similar to this except that mine is blue. It's not the exact same because I don't remember where I bought it but it's pretty close. It takes up enough space that I feel like I'm sharing my bed with someone.

Okay understood especially if she seemed to be chasing something for the wrong reasons. The Carl Hart book and his podcast appearances definitely (check the Joe Rogan ones) provide an alternative perspective on drugs (including the comparison with the damage of alcohol) thats worth consideration. Looking back I wish I would have been a lot more open minded in high school as I would have probably had a bit more of a positive experience overall (zero social life lol).

Micheal Pollan is worth a check as well https://smile.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mind-Consciousness-Transcendence-ebook/dp/B076GPJXWZ. His Joe Rogan podcast was pretty informative too.

The Game is a fun read.

I got a lot out of reading Prometheus Rising, and a great deal out of reading Monsters and Magical Sticks

They are game changers for me. It helped me connect with people a lot more efficiently, once I got the basic ideas of each down.

You’re the man OP!!

Really this is just what a bunch of guys do if they want a girlfriend. There’s actually an entire subreddit called r/seduction that just focuses on talking to and asking out women.

There’s also a very famous book called Models that the subreddit basically draws from too.

This is a HUGE success story whether she liked you or not. You took a moment and put yourself out there which 99% of the men here would never do.

Congrats!

I got you fam. It will be like hugging a giant u shaped girl. Bonus points if you put two daki covers on and create a saimese waifu.

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How about a good game coach? Not typical PUA stuff, but deep, inner or natural game? I've also heard good things about the book 'The Alabaster Girl' (full disclosure, have not read).

From what I've heard (59 seconds) that is the way to go, basically when talking to an eventual mate it's good to bring up weird stuff. Then you can quickly tell if you connect, or something like that.
Hope that helps.

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> "unmanly has to do with just me not being manly in any way. I am a coward of fighting, I am short, I do not really do manly things, and I am not well endowed if you know what I mean."

None of those things make you unmanly. Your definition of 'manly' is flawed. Pointless brawling abilities don't make you manly. You want self-confidence in that area take some Tae Kwon Do or similar. There is nothing wrong with being afraid to fight, as fighting is a pretty stupid thing to do unless necessary.

And not well-endowed? Compared to who? I remember puberty missed me penis almost completely and it was childishly small until I was like 22, maybe your bloomers are late, or maybe you're just of average size (5"-6" erect).

Also being short is not unmanly! Your definition of manhood is skewed, that much is certain.


> "I just know most women do not find gamers, hardcore readers, history buffs, and everything else I am, interesting."

Lots of people have varied interests and do just fine with finding mates. You don't have to share all your interests with your significant other. You lack context. You need to get out of your high school mindstate and spread your sights into the larger world. You are not alone in those interests, and countless others of either sex do just fine with similar qualities. That's not holding you back. Be yourself and keep doing what you love, that's a big big positive and attractive quality.

BTW: "hardcore readers, history buffs" are hugely attractive qualities to intelligent females (intelligent people in general). Really though. Them be positives.

> "I mean, I have too many faults. I am ugly, pathetic, unmanly, boring, not funny, uninteresting, etc."

Keep up that hardcore reading and book-learning and you can't help but develop a versatile sense of humor. Intelligence and being well-read general breeds good humor.

> "Btw, why is too much to ask for a virgin? I am sorry I hold virginity so "high." But, I want a virgin (and I am a virgin too)"

The Purity Myth. Virginity purity stuff is harmful bullshit. Noy only that, but you're 18, it's unlikely you're going to find many virginal females, and within a couple of years it'll be extremely unlikely.

> I just know I will always be alone.

Unless you are unreconcilable facial deformity it is unlikely you can say you'll always be alone. You sound more like you're having major teenage angst episodes, and those too will pass, really seriously they will.

I recommend you read this book:

https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062457713/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_q2OOBbCWPWEER

(You can get the PDF from b-ok)

Especially Chapter 5.

Good luck mate.

I love my Scott Adams. I have this http://www.amazon.com/Dilbert-2-0-20-Years/dp/0740777351 along with many of dilbert books.. funny that he made me question reality as much as matrix, talking about science experiments and whatnot

Try this book out. http://www.amazon.com/Models-Attract-Women-Through-Honesty/dp/1463750358/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1371316971&sr=8-1&keywords=models+mark+manson