(Part 2) Best products from r/JUSTNOFAMILY
We found 21 comments on r/JUSTNOFAMILY discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 71 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. Safe People: How to Find Relationships That Are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't
- Zondervan
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22. Complex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving: A Guide and Map for Recovering from Childhood Trauma
- Play any PS3 game with arcade controls using Hori's Real Arcade Pro Controller
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24. RUBAN Notebook Lock and Security Cable (PC/Laptop) Two Keys 6.2 foot (Black)
- 6.2 Foot Universal Security Cable. Made of extremely strong and durable steel cable. Easy to install and theft deterrent.
- Cable comes with 2 lock keys as an alternative spare. Available for most notebooks,laptops,desktops with built in standard security locking slot hole.If your notebook has a security slot size of 0.28" * 0.12", you can use this product.
- Note:The following model can't be used. [Dell] May not work with 2016 and newer Dell laptops.XPS13/ SPX13/ 7000/ M3800/ Alienware/ Insprion 7000,7779,other Inspiron,Latitude,Venue,XPS with square keyhole.[HP] Chromebook 13.[Acer] Chromebook R13 /Aspire V Nitro /E571.[Apple] New Apple Macbook can't use it. Only old macbook Pro With DVD Drive can be used.[Lenovo] U41 / U31 / M41 / S41 / K41 / Ideapad / Flex3 / rescuer r720.
- You need to buy another kind of Security Lock with a glue-on locking mount if you have this above-mentioned devices.
- All Security Locks come with a 18 months warranty against manufacturing defect.
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25. DoorJammer Portable Door Lock Brace for Home Security and Personal Protection (DJ1 - DoorJammer (Original Edition))
- ENJOY PERSONAL SECURITY no matter where you are. Measuring 4.75 inches H x 2.75 inches W and weighing 8 oz, the portable DoorJammer door barricade keeps you safe at home, at the office, at school and on vacation.
- COMPATIBLE with all types of flooring, the innovative system of hinges and angles anchor the DoorJammer firmly to carpeted, tiled and laminate floors when outside pressure is exerted on the door.
- TAKES ONLY SECONDS to install and remove. No tools are required to implement this revolutionary home security device. In case of emergency, you can easily remove the DoorJammer with an upward motion.
- ADJUSTABLE neoprene extension foot needs only 0.3-inch of clearance, and can be used with doors that have high thresholds. Sleep tight in your dorm or hotel room, and protect yourself at work or school.
- 12-MONTH GUARANTEE against manufacturing defects. We are so confident of our products durability that we will issue a full refund of your purchase price if the DoorJammer fails to perform as promised.
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26. The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Third Edition)
- ‼️NOTE: The rechargeable battery is in the fan so you don't need to buy another battery or load the battery. Just use it and charge it when its battery runs out of power. Please do not place and direct sun light!
- 💨【Super Strong Wind】: The portable fan adopts high-effective motor, which is available to nearly 3,600 revolutions per minute for exceptional cooling performance. You can enjoy the powerful cooling wind in hot summer.
- ⏭️【3 ADJUSTABLE SPEED LEVEL】: Low/medium/high speed level. Adjust appropriate fan speed by pressing the power button repeatedly. And 6pcs fan blades, strong wind, wind distance up to 3m. Brushless motor makes the fan durable. Efficient power and conversion circuitry can minimize the loss to save energy and protect environment.
- ↩️【FOLDABLE& MULTIPURPOSE DESIGN】: The mini desk fan can fold up to 180°.You can use this fan: ①hold it on your hand, ②put it on the table, ③hang it on the sun umbrella, ④clip it on other objects; If you don't know how to use it, please look at the picture or contact us. If you find better uses, you can also tell us.
- 🏖️【HANGING UMBRELLA DESIGN】: Unique design style, you can hang the fan above your umbrella or parasol please check the fifthth picture. The design is ideal for outdoor crowds, and you don't have to worry about the outdoors even when the temperature is so high, because this fan can cool you down,It's a must-have for the summer.
- 🏕️【PORTABLE& LIGHTWEIGHT DESIGN】:When you go outside, you can put it in the bag with you,especially suitable for summer travel or outdoor sports, you can take it to anywhere,like NBA/World Cup Qualifiers/Football Game/or any activity.
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27. Locker Brand Inc. 157281 The Original Fridge Locker
- Chrome metal combination lock
- Select your own combination
- Walls securely snap together and lock
- Secures anything quickly and easily and is very portable
- Works in the fridge, freezer or pantry
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28. Sendt Silver Notebook/Laptop Combination Lock Security Cable
- Does not fit Dell laptops.
- 6 foot cable length. Silver color.
- 4 dial combination lock with up to 10,000 user-settable combinations
- Designed to secure most notebooks, projectors, LCD and Plasma Screens
- Fits devices with a Kensington security slot. Does not fit Kensignton Nano or Noble wedge security slots.
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30. Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse
- Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse
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31. Kensington MicroSaver Keyed Laptop Lock - OLD MODEL - (64068F)
- Older model of our Micro saver lock – not compatible with most newer laptops
- Steel computer security cable with Kevlar brand fiber
- NOTE: Will not work with Dell laptops and tablets; See Kensington part# K64440WW or K68008WW
- This item is no longer in production and no warranty is available
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33. Anndason Door Stop Security Alarm with 120 DB Siren - Great for Home & Travel (Set of 4)
- Replacement Ear cushions for SRH440 Professional Studio Headphones, fit also SRH240 (SRH440 pads have larger opening for ears)
- The Earpads are manufactured in soft black leatherette material with soft plush foam core
- Dimensions: Oval shape 102mm X 84mm (4" X 3.3")
- Color: Black
- Color: Black
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34. Belwith Products 1840 Lock Swing Privacy, Polished Brass
- Polished Brass Swing Privacy Lock
- Painted or plated steel privacy lock
- Locks or unlocks with flip action
- No mortising required
- Easy installation
- Polished Brass Swing Privacy Lock
- Locks or unlocks with flip action
- No mortising required
- Easy installation
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35. Home Security Door Lock with 8 Screws, Childproof Door Reinforcement Lock with 3" Stop Withstand 800 lbs for Inward Swinging Door,Upgrade Night Lock to Defend Your Home
[Additional Secruity Design]:Hardened screws and 3" Stop metal construction Home security Door Lock designed to Withstand 800Ibs of force, 12times stronger than a normal deadbolt to against being kicked in. EVERPLUS secure lock make sure your home is safe.[Easy to Install]: Use power screwdriver and...
37. BigMouth Inc.Retirement Countdown Timer, Beach Themed –Countdown Clock for Retirement, Can be Reset, Makes a Great Gift
COUNTDOWN CLOCK:The BigMouth Inc. retirement countdown clock is a fun way to know exactly when it’s time to retire! Count down the hours, minutes and seconds with this desktop countdown clock.MAKES A GREAT GIFT:Abeach-themedretirement countdown clock makes a great gift forco-workers, friends or fa...
38. Dengguoli Size 3 inch Mini Violin Dollhouse Miniature Musical Instrument Wooden Model Decor with Bow, Stand Support, and Case
May be is one of the smallest violin in the world !Material: Wood with 4 StringViolin Size:3.15" x 1.18" x 0.59" / 8cm x 3cm x 1.5cmMiniature for dollhouse or as a gift, or as the decorationPackage Including 1x Violin Miniature, 1x Bow, 1x Stand, 1x Case
39. uxcell Home Interior Door Mounting Gold Tone Metal Security Chain
- Product Name : Door Chain;Material : Metal
- Chain Size : 21 x 1.2cm/8.27'' x 0.5'' (L*W);Other Part Size : 8.5 x 3.5 x 0.4cm/3.35'' x 1.37'' x 0.15''(L*W*H)
- Bore Hole Dia. : 0.4cm/0.15'';Color : Gold Tone
- Net Weight : 77g
- Package Content : 1 x Door Chain
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40. Safe Rx Locking Pill Bottle | Combination Lock | Prevent Pill Theft, Secure Medication or Small Valuable Items | Certified Child-Resistant, Senior-Friendly | 4.5″ x 1.5″ (1-Pack), Amber
- SAFE RX LOCKING PILL BOTTLE: Our small locking pill bottle is 4.5” tall and 1.5” wide. Opaque hard plastic keeps contents safe from light and moisture. The combination lock comes preset with a fixed 4-digit random code for your convenience.
- PREVENT PILL THEFT: Opioid addiction often involves sneaking 1-2 pills at a time. Our patented design makes undetected pilfering near impossible. Deter theft from visitors, at-home help, children, teens. Perfect for home, assisted living, college dorm.
- TAMPER EVIDENT: If the bottle is broken into, you’ll have clear evidence. When the cap has been forcibly removed, the grey tabs in the locking ring will be visibly deformed and the locking mechanism will no longer work effectively.
- EASY TO USE AND SENIOR FRIENDLY: Simply turn the rings to align the 4-digit code and pull the cap straight off. Replace the cap and scramble the rings to relock. No hand strength required! 91% of seniors during testing could use the bottle as intended.
- CERTIFIED CHILD RESISTANT: Proved 100% effective when tested on kids age 5 and under, and easier to use than the existing child-resistant bottles that were designed 50 years ago. Protect your curious toddler from accidental overdose or poisoning.
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Totally understand. It doesn't have to happen all at once. Just pick something that's driving you crazy (like the step son) and say "no" until she acquiesces or escalates. Then you can say "I am my son's parent, we've told you our concerns. Again, I'm telling you "no"".
This is a good book (it's a bit churchy, but not in a "go to church way") about how to set healthy boundaries with those around you. It helped my SO become not a doormat to the toxic people in his life. http://amzn.to/2v6aq9U
Oh I'm sorry, your story just makes me want to give you a hug.
All of these people sound horribly abusive. Violence or not, they were supposed to be protecting you, caring for your needs and loving you. Whatever their reasons, they did a shit job of it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with struggling to deal with that. I'm willing to bet that your sister isn't nearly as functional as she leads everyone to believe.
As good as it felt to try to tell your aunt off, she sounds just as bad and no contact is probably a great idea. Have you considered low contact with your parents?
Try and find a therapist if you can. You need someone impartial to talk to. You've done very well to get through all this crap that your family has put you through and a therapist will say the same.
Try looking into CPTSD. I'm not saying you have it, but I bet you will find the symptoms familiar. Check out this book if you're interested.
I find it interesting that you were pushed here from JustNoMIL, since my first stop was the JustNoMIL wiki, reading list.
I've also heard good things about Out of the Fog: Moving From Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
by Dana Morningstar (Author)
Just bouncing around their website might be helpful.
> DD is in therapy and we don’t tell her BM because of the freak out.
Her therapist might also have some good suggestions.
I came here to see if someone said this. Maybe use one of [these](RUBAN Notebook Lock and Security Cable (PC/Laptop) Two Keys 6.2 foot (Black) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00WJHQFLU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_HQ1BCbZC1V460). They come in both lock and key and combination lock styles. Though in your situation I would suggest the key which you could keep with you at all times.
Another option that doesn't damage the door: DoorJammer
Would getting a fridge locker be an option, or do you think they'd see that as a challenge to their right to your food?
https://www.amazon.com/Locker-Brand-157281-Original-Fridge/dp/B001UFNCHM/ref=sr_1_1
> I don't even know if I'm justified in my feelings.
I totally get this. This is what I try to tell myself: You don't need anyone to tell you whether or not you are justified in your feelings.
Your intuition is very good, you just need to learn to trust it fully. It sounds like your sister needs a lot of help, and you have tried helping her and she is not receptive to it. I honestly think the best thing for both you and her is to not have contact. If your instincts are telling you you shouldn't even be seeing her at family events, then don't. I mean, I do feel badly for her, as she is clearly struggling with something and is putting herself in danger, but that doesn't mean that you need to invite that danger into your life.
Unsolicited advice that you can choose to ignore: I told my husband about my past sexual assaults and emotional incest by a family member. It was one of the hardest things I've done, and I had to work up to it, but I'm glad I told him. Those past things were affecting me in ways I didn't realize, and it was putting strain on our relationship. If you are interested in reading an amazing book, I recommend The Sexual Healing Journey. I had read a lot of other books about sexual assault, self esteem, etc., and none of them ever helped me or spoke to me. This book wrote out and explained all of my feelings and actions. It was so amazing. It detailed things that I do in my life that I didn't even realize I was doing, or why. It was so validating. The book is even for people who were never actually assaulted, but have negative views on sex due to upbringing or the media. Anyways, I'm sorry if my advice is unwelcome or hurtful in some way. I just wanted to share since that book is changing my life so much for the better. I feel so lucky to have found it.
Get a few sets of jacks https://www.amazon.com/Metal-Jacks-Ball-Set-joisso/dp/B002Q0S388/
If he's a reader get him this
Get one of these and lock it to your trolly
A Kensington lock would probably do you. Almost any laptop made today has a little slot for it.
https://www.amazon.com/Kensington-64068F-MicroSaver-Laptop-Business/dp/B00000K4KH
Seconding this. I apparently bought it back in 2013, and I still go back and re-read it every once in a while.
I'll probably go back and re-read it once I do my yearly re-read of the Dresden files.
This will keep him out without damaging the door: Addalock
This one causes an alarm to go off (which I like because it may train him): Anndason Door Stop Security Alarm with 120 DB Siren
Something like this but smaller and more discrete.
Belwith Products 1840 Lock Swing Privacy, Polished Brass https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000PINS0Q/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_NcFYCbNZ44TRY
Home Security Door Lock with 8 Screws, Childproof Door Reinforcement Lock with 3" Stop Withstand 800 lbs for Inward Swinging Door,Upgrade Night Lock to Defend Your Home
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07DR9CMGZ/ref=cm_sw_r_em_apa_i_u7EYCbH0PHAGC
Seriously! He wrote a book that's coming out in... October. The Ravenmaster: My Life with the Ravens at the Tower of London https://www.amazon.com/dp/0374113343/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_Yuv2AbEKK3P31
You should pick up a couple of these...
The inner paper can be flipped/removed/replaced, so you could print something up like "Time left before I kick X's ass out"....
Down to the second.
So how many tiny violinsare you ordering for the shoot?
Late to the thread, but wanted to suggest chain locks for when you're home alone.
There are pill bottles with combination locks on them!
If those still make you a bit uneasy, there are sturdier bottles to choose from and different styles of locks.