(Part 2) Best products from r/JustNoSO
We found 17 comments on r/JustNoSO discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 29 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. Fast Fit Pet Patio Door 80" Medium (Mill)
- Designed To Fit ALUMINUM Sliding Patio Doors Only
- The Ideal Choice For Rentals. Installs Easily, No Tools Required
- Adjustable Height: 77-5/8 To 80-3/8" (80") (Measure flush at top track to the inside bottom track of your sliding patio door frame)
- Medium size 7 x 11-1/4" flexible, transparent vinyl flap
- Patio panel frame color is Mill (Satin Silver) with clear tempered safety glass
- Manufacturer Warranty does not apply to product purchased through Amazon Warehouse Deals
- Need Assistance? E-mail Ideal Pet Products expert US-based customer care specialists seven days a week!
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22. The Door Angel - Anti-Bumping Deadbolt Safety Door Security Lock
PROTECTS AGAINST KEY BUMPING - The Door Angel is especially designed to deter unwanted entry into your home by people with keys or intruders using the “Key-Bumping” method.EASY TO USE - Easily attaches to most deadbolt locks, quickly and effortlessly and INSTALLS WITHOUT ANY TOOLS!QUALITY CONSTR...
23. DoorJammer Portable Door Lock Brace for Home Security and Personal Protection (DJ1 - DoorJammer (Original Edition))
- ENJOY PERSONAL SECURITY no matter where you are. Measuring 4.75 inches H x 2.75 inches W and weighing 8 oz, the portable DoorJammer door barricade keeps you safe at home, at the office, at school and on vacation.
- COMPATIBLE with all types of flooring, the innovative system of hinges and angles anchor the DoorJammer firmly to carpeted, tiled and laminate floors when outside pressure is exerted on the door.
- TAKES ONLY SECONDS to install and remove. No tools are required to implement this revolutionary home security device. In case of emergency, you can easily remove the DoorJammer with an upward motion.
- ADJUSTABLE neoprene extension foot needs only 0.3-inch of clearance, and can be used with doors that have high thresholds. Sleep tight in your dorm or hotel room, and protect yourself at work or school.
- 12-MONTH GUARANTEE against manufacturing defects. We are so confident of our products durability that we will issue a full refund of your purchase price if the DoorJammer fails to perform as promised.
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24. Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
25. Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
Abusive husbandControling menAbusive relationshipdrugs and alcoholcounseling
26. Classic Retro Silent Non Ticking Quartz DoubleTwin Bell Alarm Clock Movement Bedside WIth Night Light And Loud Alarm,Battery Operated Copper
Alarm Clock.Size: 8 x 4.5 x 12cmColor: Bronze,Copper,SilverMetal bell alarm clock, super loud,very suitable for people who snoozeNight light function, you could see the clock at night clearlyAlmost mute scanning movement, just a little sound in the night ,but will not disturb your rest.
27. Spy Camera Wireless Hidden - USB Wall Charger Camera -Nanny Cam with Cell Phone App - Spy Camera WiFi - Home Security - 1080P HD - Motion Detection - Smart Snap Cam
- Tastes delicious spread thinly on toast
- Try it on crispbread with cottage cheese
- Good source of B Vitamins
- 100% vegetarian
- Product of the United Kingdom
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28. 500"for Rectal Use Only" Stickers Waterproof - 1.5" x 3/8" Fluorescent Orang Stickers with Permanent Adhesive (Orange)
500 For Rectal Use Only labels per roll. Each "For Rectal Use Only" measures 1.5" x 0.375"You can place these anywhere! Cheese graters, pencils, hot sauce bottles, pens, mouses, hand cream, drugs, controllers, etc..... They’re small so they also perfectly on writing utensils. The only limit is you...
Also, I BEG you to read the book Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved by Lundy Bancroft. The Amazon reviews alone may give you pause:
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>[The book] helped me understand why I was able to tolerate a final year of angry explosions, open raging, infidelity and systematic social humiliation. It helped me understand and cope with my failure to get support from friends and family. It encouraged me to try with family and friends in a different way. When I finally had an emotional break, I took myself to a local office of HAWC, completely beside myself. Me? Asking for help and support from woman's help center? I make donations to that charity.
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>They lent me Lundy Bancroft's book Why Does He Do That? That led me to this book. Because of the resonating humanity and clear understanding of what I have gone through, I am finally able to face the truth. It's not possible to "behave" in a way that would make my husband be nicer, more fair, more caring or more civil to me. Conventional strategies failed because he does not want our marriage to be different. He chooses to abuse me. I have to love myself the way I love him. I have to be a support to myself. I have to surround myself by people who agree I am worthy of love, care and compassion. I am using this book first to rebuild my outer and inner strength to have clear, strong boundaries with him to manage him out of my life. Step by step i will use the resources to disengage from this man who seems to possess an unending need to hook me for reasons that I may never fully understand and will eventually stop caring about completely.
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I am not a shill for Bancroft, I should add. I just know how powerful his work is, and how it's changed the lives of a lot of people who spent years trying to make their relationships with their SOs work and blamed themselves for the failures.
They make ones that go into sliding glass doors. We had one like this
Ideal Pet Products Fast Fit Pet Patio Door 80" Medium (Mill) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000UV4MH6/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_-6DVDbGS2TR1K
Tomorrow, go down to your home improvement store and get an Angel lock. If that doesn't fit your door, look for a floor lock.
Keep your phone charged and keep it with you. Look up how long average police response times are in your neighborhood, and make plans accordingly.
Stay safe.
SO and I wake up every 2hrs during Jen night to test my blood sugars (yay type 1 diabetic)
We recently got this - KING DO WAY Classic Retro Silent Non Ticking Quartz DoubleTwin Bell Alarm Clock Movement Bedside WIth Night Light And Loud Alarm,Battery Operated Copp https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B01MYT54YJ/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apip_A5YFNCPSbT3Qm
It's the loudest fucking thing in the world. And it's like fiddly to turn off. Might help.
I used to think this to. That my lack of education or caring somehow triggered the violence in my life. If you can find a library, many offer free audio and ebooks, please check out this book. It helped my world make sense.
https://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656
Ok, there are relationships that therapy can help. This? Probably not one of them.
Contempt is the killer of marriages. The top predictor of divorce. And he treats you with contempt. This is not likely to ever, EVER get better.
You pay less in bills? Get a little studio so you can get out. Save your money. If you must, see if you can salvage the relationship when you live apart- but get out.
I suggest you read this book- https://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656
And possibly this video I made about micro agressions- shit, can't find the link. Here's another one that might be helpful https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hg9BzxsInOg
I would also suggest standing up for yourself, Most of the time guys like this act like that because they can get away with it and the more you let them get away with, the more they will escalate.
https://www.amazon.com/Spy-Camera-Wireless-Hidden-Detection/dp/B07QC2FDKW/ref=sr_1_5?keywords=wifi+usb+camera+tiny&qid=1565502156&s=electronics&sr=1-5
500"for Rectal Use Only" Stickers Waterproof - 1.5" x 3/8" Fluorescent Orang Stickers with Permanent Adhesive (Orange) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QP7DKY1/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_v5uMDbWY9WA1J
Paste these stickers on everything he owns.
Abusers are not angry and violent all the time - if they were, no one would ever get close enough to be trapped in a relationship with them.
If you are looking for more insight on his behavior, many people on the JustNo forums highly recommend this book:
https://www.amazon.com/Why-Does-He-That-Controlling/dp/0425191656