(Part 2) Best products from r/NarcissisticAbuse
We found 18 comments on r/NarcissisticAbuse discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 35 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love
- Createspace
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- 24-bit/96 kHz USB 2.0 audio interface
- Analog 4 in and 6 out plus stereo input for reference source: S/PDIF coaxial I/O
- D-Pre Class-A discrete mic preamps supporting +48V;Latency-free DSP-powered monitoring with one REV-X reverb and four Channel Strips with any DAW by using the latest dspMixFx technology
- Native VST 3 plug-ins of REV-X and Sweet Spot Morphing Channel Strip additionally included
- Digitally controlled monitor level control with DIM, Mono, and Mute fed by a 3x3 monitoring matrix ;Cubase AI 6 music production software included
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▼ Read Reddit mentions24. THE NARCISSIST'S SECRETS: (Know the things they don’t want you to know!)
- Designed Specifically for Oneplus 3, will not compatible with any other model device.
- Hardness beyond imagination: Withstands 4H pencil hardness at 500 g writing pressure, making it highly scratch-resistant - Extremely scratch-proof, hard-coated Oneplus 3 Screen Protection Film
- Essentially invisible:The film's durable, multi-layered synthetic materials provide long-lasting mechanical protection for Oneplus 3 screens against all kinds of damage - The Oneplus 3 Screen Protector is exceptionally robust, durable and designed for continuous use
- Nice Experience:NO mucilage glue, easy to install free of bubbles after cleaning the screen
- Package Included:3 x Front Screen Protector, Alcohol prep pad, Squeeze Card, Dust removal tape, Installation manual. 100% Risk-free, Lifetime Replacement Warranty.
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26. The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence
- Dell Publishing Company
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28. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
- Penguin Books
- Ideal for a bookworm
- It's a great choice for a book person
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▼ Read Reddit mentions29. Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
- Rowman Littlefield Publishers
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▼ Read Reddit mentions30. Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level
▼ Read Reddit mentions31. GiftExpress 6" Award Trophy, Pack of 12
Includes 12 Gold Award Trophies.Each trophy statue at 6" tall in metallic gold tone.Looks like an Oscar awardGreat for birthday party, Award Ceremonies, First Place Prizes, Teachers & Just PretendingGreat for award ceremonies, photo booth, Hollywood award cake, Oscar themed party
▼ Read Reddit mentions32. POWER: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse: A Collection of Essays on Malignant Narcissism and Recovery from Emotional Abuse
▼ Read Reddit mentions33. The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation & ... (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
- New
- Mint Condition
- Dispatch same day for order received before 12 noon
- Guaranteed packaging
- No quibbles returns
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▼ Read Reddit mentions34. You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent.: What Everyone Affected By Addiction, Abuse, Trauma Or Toxic Shaming must know to have peace In their lives
- INCLUDES: This bakeware set contains (4) 6-ounce custard cups. Unlike most plastics and metals, glass is all-recyclable, won’t stain, and won’t retain odors. Enjoy a cleaner experience.
- DURABLE: Tempered tougher to resist chipping and handle high temperatures (up to 425). Go fridge-to-oven, oven-to-table, and table-to-dishwasher.
- COOK. STORE. CLEAN: These custard cups are microwave, fridge, freezer, dishwasher, and pre-heated oven safe. Nonporous glass protects food flavors and will not warp, stain, or retain smells.
- 5-YEAR WARRANTY: We’ll replace any chipped, cracked, or broken glass custard cups used according to instructions. Not sure about something. We’re here for you. Send us any questions so we can help you make the most of your kitchen.
- MADE IN USA.
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▼ Read Reddit mentions35. Wonder Woman Glow in The Dark Women's Cami/Panty Set (XX-Large) Red
Officially licensed DC Comics apparelSet includes a sleeveless tank top with hipster style underwearFeatures DC Comics The Justice League superhero: Wonder Woman!Elastic waist; Taped collar; Double stitched hemsExtra soft and easy to care for; Screen printed and sublimated graphics
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21. Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep-- Love
- Createspace
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions22. When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda
▼ Read Reddit mentions23. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother
- 24-bit/96 kHz USB 2.0 audio interface
- Analog 4 in and 6 out plus stereo input for reference source: S/PDIF coaxial I/O
- D-Pre Class-A discrete mic preamps supporting +48V;Latency-free DSP-powered monitoring with one REV-X reverb and four Channel Strips with any DAW by using the latest dspMixFx technology
- Native VST 3 plug-ins of REV-X and Sweet Spot Morphing Channel Strip additionally included
- Digitally controlled monitor level control with DIM, Mono, and Mute fed by a 3x3 monitoring matrix ;Cubase AI 6 music production software included
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions24. THE NARCISSIST'S SECRETS: (Know the things they don’t want you to know!)
- Designed Specifically for Oneplus 3, will not compatible with any other model device.
- Hardness beyond imagination: Withstands 4H pencil hardness at 500 g writing pressure, making it highly scratch-resistant - Extremely scratch-proof, hard-coated Oneplus 3 Screen Protection Film
- Essentially invisible:The film's durable, multi-layered synthetic materials provide long-lasting mechanical protection for Oneplus 3 screens against all kinds of damage - The Oneplus 3 Screen Protector is exceptionally robust, durable and designed for continuous use
- Nice Experience:NO mucilage glue, easy to install free of bubbles after cleaning the screen
- Package Included:3 x Front Screen Protector, Alcohol prep pad, Squeeze Card, Dust removal tape, Installation manual. 100% Risk-free, Lifetime Replacement Warranty.
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions26. The Gift of Fear and Other Survival Signals that Protect Us From Violence
- Dell Publishing Company
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions28. The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
- Penguin Books
- Ideal for a bookworm
- It's a great choice for a book person
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions29. Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist
- Rowman Littlefield Publishers
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions30. Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level
▼ Read Reddit mentions31. GiftExpress 6" Award Trophy, Pack of 12
Includes 12 Gold Award Trophies.Each trophy statue at 6" tall in metallic gold tone.Looks like an Oscar awardGreat for birthday party, Award Ceremonies, First Place Prizes, Teachers & Just PretendingGreat for award ceremonies, photo booth, Hollywood award cake, Oscar themed party
▼ Read Reddit mentions32. POWER: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse: A Collection of Essays on Malignant Narcissism and Recovery from Emotional Abuse
▼ Read Reddit mentions33. The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation & ... (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook)
- New
- Mint Condition
- Dispatch same day for order received before 12 noon
- Guaranteed packaging
- No quibbles returns
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions34. You're Not Crazy - You're Codependent.: What Everyone Affected By Addiction, Abuse, Trauma Or Toxic Shaming must know to have peace In their lives
- INCLUDES: This bakeware set contains (4) 6-ounce custard cups. Unlike most plastics and metals, glass is all-recyclable, won’t stain, and won’t retain odors. Enjoy a cleaner experience.
- DURABLE: Tempered tougher to resist chipping and handle high temperatures (up to 425). Go fridge-to-oven, oven-to-table, and table-to-dishwasher.
- COOK. STORE. CLEAN: These custard cups are microwave, fridge, freezer, dishwasher, and pre-heated oven safe. Nonporous glass protects food flavors and will not warp, stain, or retain smells.
- 5-YEAR WARRANTY: We’ll replace any chipped, cracked, or broken glass custard cups used according to instructions. Not sure about something. We’re here for you. Send us any questions so we can help you make the most of your kitchen.
- MADE IN USA.
Features:
▼ Read Reddit mentions35. Wonder Woman Glow in The Dark Women's Cami/Panty Set (XX-Large) Red
Officially licensed DC Comics apparelSet includes a sleeveless tank top with hipster style underwearFeatures DC Comics The Justice League superhero: Wonder Woman!Elastic waist; Taped collar; Double stitched hemsExtra soft and easy to care for; Screen printed and sublimated graphics
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This is an awesome book you should read. I personally think everyone should read it, because it covers every day life skills relating to personal safety.
Yah, NC is the only way to go.
And I think you are close with the analogy to addiction. This book has been of great help to me, and it discussed how the neurological effects of a breakup are similar to drug withdrawal.
https://www.amazon.com/Exaholics-Breaking-Your-Addiction-Love/dp/145491825X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1478700917&sr=8-1&keywords=exaholics
Read “Attached. The New Science of Adult Attachment.” It addresses exactly what you experience. Practically in your exact words. I’m listening to the audiobook right now.
Amazon linkypoo: https://www.amazon.com/Attached-Science-Attachment-Find-Keep-Love-ebook/dp/B0049H9AVU/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1525026130&sr=8-1&keywords=attached+the+new+science+of+adult+attachment
https://www.amazon.com/When-Love-Lie-Narcissistic-Pathological-ebook/dp/B00D17093M/ref=nodl_
I was just going to post that book.
Here’s the link if anyone is interested:
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0143127748/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_QRMyCbJSSTKBR
I'm not Chinese, but that does match stories I've heard about the way Chinese people raise their kids unfortunately. But whether or not they should raise their children this way is something that even the Chinese are beginning to doubt.
I think a good way to subtly argue this point with your friend is to buy her a copy of the book Battle Hymn of The Tiger Mother by Amy Chua. The author describes how she tried to raise her own daughters in the typical Chinese manner and the resulting heartaches the led her to change her mind.
The new one from the Spartan is ringing bells for me on every page.
The Narcissist's Secrets: (Know the things they don't want you to know!)
I did a 1 year university course, and all the essay writing & going to class just caused the depression to lift quite a bit. It could be neuroplasticity,
Exercise, mindfulness training, positive psychology, behavioural therapy works. This book helped. You need to recognise the behaviour patterns.
Honestly any personality disorder is a road to disaster. They are very hard to treat.
I wouldn’t think about whether he will or he won’t come back - this will eat you up and disturb your healing process.
The reason he’s done those things is because he’s not normal - it’s all a game (sadly).
I’m only speaking from my own experience, so I could possibly be wrong (but I don’t think I am - not to sound arrogant lol).
I read this amazing book, check it out, it really helped me:
Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving A Relationship with a Narcissist https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/168261333X/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_uTc0CbV111MH2
Try this
Nasty People: How to Stop Being Hurt by Them without Stooping to Their Level https://www.amazon.com/dp/0071410228/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_84RszbFD86HAT
I think you should buy one of THESE, have it engraved with her name on it, and send it to her.
It can be really confusing when it appears that they are very distraught over losing you and you begin to wonder if they loved you and you are making a mistake. Ha. No. This is a performance. She really thought she could do anything to you and just cruise along with her disgusting trashy family, make things up and lie, and nothing would happen. Consequences. They are a biatch. Dont feel sorry or get taken in. She is the same person. Unless body snatching aliens landed on Earth, took over her body, and did all this for a science experiment, Imma gonna say full steam ahead on the divorce/annulment or hey both if your feeling lucky!
I've read this book a few times and it's helped - POWER: Surviving and Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse: A Collection of Essays on Malignant Narcissism and Recovery from Emotional Abuse https://www.amazon.com/dp/1945796324/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_i_mANBDbV7P50GS
I'm also going to try EMDR myself bc I find that I still carry a lot of trauma in my body and mind, even after 2 years.
The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook: Practical DBT Exercises for Learning Mindfulness, Interpersonal Effectiveness, Emotion Regulation & ... (A New Harbinger Self-Help Workbook) https://www.amazon.com/dp/1572245131/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_nUmkDbSDHCFXF
Let me know if that works. I was scared at first because DBT has a connection to cluster B people and I was trying to get away from one! Ack!
But I ultimately learned how to distract myself and calm myself down I was goi g stir crazy obsessing over that horrible man.
This is all so textbook narc and so exactly like what my Nex did to me! For gods sake it took me more than twenty years to get away for good so please please please stay away. He will continue to hurt you and it will get worse. They get even more evil as they get near 40.
> He goes back and forth between angry and sad. It’s so clear to me now that the sad is fake and an act. The anger is his normal self and anything else is manipulation.
This is such a good observation, don't forget it! They have 2 emotions: anger and shame. That is all. Everything else is a lie, an act, pure bullshit.
> He has said he can’t live without me and eluded to taking his own life.
More textbook narc behavior, threatening to kill himself if you won't take him back. Even threatening to hurt you, trying to scare you. Please be aware that this is what the really scary men you hear about on the news do to their exes. Read The Gift of Fear!
Psycho men who kill exes are the ones who say stuff like that.
> Then he admitted to physically abusing me (saving that message!!) and that he didn’t blame me for not wanting him in my life.
Save it, and anything else (screenshots of texts, emails, etc.) Make a new dropbox account and save it all there where he won't know about it.
> He blamed physically abusing me on alcohol and started pleading for another chance.
Save that one too.
If I were you I would file a police report and get a Restraining Order. If you have any proof that he raped you or physically assaulted you there are probably statutes of limitation on those.