(Part 2) Best products from r/internetparents
We found 20 comments on r/internetparents discussing the most recommended products. We ran sentiment analysis on each of these comments to determine how redditors feel about different products. We found 208 products and ranked them based on the amount of positive reactions they received. Here are the products ranked 21-40. You can also go back to the previous section.
21. Crock-Pot SCCPVL600S Cook' N Carry 6-Quart Oval Manual Portable Slow Cooker, Stainless Steel
- Spacious 6 quart manual slow cooker serves 7+ people or fits a 6 pounds; roast; polished, silver stainless steel exterior with black accents and plastic handles. The lid should be left unlocked while cooking, as the additional pressure can result in the food being overcooked
- Easy to use locking lid featuring lid gasket provides extra seal for less mess on the go
- Set cooking time to high and get a hot meal in no time or set it on low and tonight’s dinner can cook while you’re at work
- Keep food at an ideal serving temperature for as long as you need to with the convenient warm setting
- One pot cooking means there are less dishes to clean, plus the lid and removable stoneware are dishwasher safe
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22. Zinus 12 Inch Green Tea Memory Foam Mattress / CertiPUR-US Certified / Bed-in-a-Box / Pressure Relieving, Twin
THE RIGHT COMBINATION - Our special recipe for rejuvenating rest? Refreshing green tea and moisture-absorbing Activ charcoal infused into pressure-relieving memory foam that cradles your shape so you awake free of aches and pains and fresh as a daisyPRESSURE-RELIEVING FOAMS - 3 inches conforming mem...
24. RAVPower Portable Charger 22000mAh, External Battery Pack Power Bank with 3 USB Output , High-Capacity Phone Charging Pack Compatible with iPhone 11, Samsung Galaxy, iPad, and More
[Colossal Battery]: Our Portable Charger 22000mAh charge an iPhone 8 for 7.2 times, iPhone X 4.9 times, a Galaxy S8 4.4 times, or an iPad mini 4 2.6 times; fully recharge in just 11-12 hours with a 2.4A charger[Triple-Device Charging]: Power bank sports 3 iSmart USBs (5.8A total output) to charge up...
25. Pinch Dash Smidgen Measuring Spoons
With the Stainless Steel Pinch, Dash and Smidgen measuring spoons, now youll know how much to add tEasy to use and even easier to cleanSet of three stainless steel measuring utensilsA great addition to any cooks collection
26. Eureka PowerSpeed Bagless Upright Vacuum Cleaner, Lite, Blue, Purple
Powerful vacuum cleaner: The dynamic motor and brushroll can lift stubborn and heavy debris. Plus, the 12. 6” wide nozzle cleans more with a quickness.5 height adjustment: It works well on carpets, shag rug, hard floors etc. Smooth wheels ensures hardwood floors won’t sustain scratches or gouges...
27. Paddle Your Own Canoe: One Man's Fundamentals for Delicious Living
- Dutton
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28. Cooking Under Pressure (20th Anniversary Edition)
- William Morrow Company
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29. The Great Big Pressure Cooker Book: 500 Easy Recipes for Every Machine, Both Stovetop and Electric: A Cookbook
- Clarkson Potter
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30. Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High, Second Edition
- McGraw-Hill
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31. The Fifty Dollar and Up Underground House Book
- 428Wh lithium portable power station can power up to 7 devices at once (39,600mAh at 10.8V/119,000 at 3.6V)
- Continuous 300W, 1200W surge pure-sine wave inverter, 2.4A USB ports, 120W 12V ports
- Charge phones, tablets, laptops, cameras, and most small devices. Provides power for small appliances, lights, CPAPs and more
- Recharges from AC or pair with a solar panel (sold separately)
- Designed and engineered by power station experts with a US-based customer service center
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32. O-Cedar ProMist MAX Microfiber Spray Mop
Deep-cleaning microfiber removes over 99% of bacteria with just water*DUAL-SIDED MOP HEAD- The large, dual-sided microfiber mop head flips allowing you to clean floors fast without having to change the mop pad.REFILLABLE BOTTLE - Just fill bottle with water and add 2 small teaspoons of your favorite...
34. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts
- Northfield Publishing
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35. Hanna Kay Luxurious Queen Comforter Down Alternative Duvet Cover|Moisture Wicking, Fluffy, Soft, Hypoallergenic, Washable & Lightweight Blanket|Enhance Your Sleep Quality, Feel Comfy, Wake Up Refreshe
PLEASANTLY WARM – SUPRISINGLY COMFY: Our queen comforter duvet is the perfect image of coziness and warmth. Cuddle your whole body from head to toe and enjoy the most rejuvenating sleep. No more sleepless nights. No more tossing and turning. No more waking feeling all tired and cranky in the morni...
36. How to Cook Without a Book: Recipes and Techniques Every Cook Should Know by Heart
37. Dxg Grocery Bag Holder Handle Carrier Tool Grip Your Tote, Shopping and Plastic Bags 2 Pack (blue)
Made by aluminum alloy; Strong and lightweight, bearing 50kg (110lb)Size of 140*80*20mm (L*W*H)The foam cushion handle provides a comfortable grip, eliminates hand fatigueGrip your tote bags, shopping bags, reusable bags, plastic bags with one handConvenient, fits in your pocket, purse, or gloves bo...
38. BaggyPal - Grocery Bag Handle/holder (2 Pack)
The easiest to use; and most comfort ergonomic grocery bag handle.Protects your hands; and prevents arthritis and joint pain.Easy to load and unload the grocery bags.The best to bundle grocery bags together.Engineered and patented product.
39. Crane & Co. Ecru Correspondence Cards & Envelopes (CC3116)
Correspondence cardsCards measures 4 1/4 x 6 3/8 inches10 Cards / 10 Envelopes100% cotton paperEcruwhite Kid Finish100% cotton paper10 Cards / 10 EnvelopesCards measures 4 1/4 x 6 3/8 inchesCorrespondence cards
40. Loving Our Kids on Purpose: Making a Heart-to-Heart Connection
- ★ 20W MR16 Halogen Bulb (BAB)
- ★ Long Lasting halogen light bulb Life 2000Hr Halogen Light Bulbs
- ★ GU5.3 Base 12V 2950K. This bulb HAS a glass cover
- ★ MR16 20W Flood Beam Angle-36° Flood MR16 bulb
- ★ Perfect halogen light bulbs For Your Use for office, exhibition, home, hotels, museums, restaurants, retail shops
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Lots of good suggestions in here, but I'm going to add two things: canned soup for a cheap meal in 3 minutes, and getting a slow cooker for some of the easiest recipes you'll ever make.
In terms of simply making a super-quick, cheap, hot meal, keep some canned soup in the pantry. Not the condensed stuff (the kind that needs to have water added); get Campbell's Chunky or some other such canned soup. They usually run under $3 a can, and you can get them under $2 on sale. I stock up on about a dozen anytime they're on sale, and anytime I need a quick meal, it's ready in 3 minutes (or a little longer on the stovetop). Most soups are going to have meat, vegetables, starches...a good well-rounded meal. If you want something solid to go with it, add a grilled cheese (two slices of bread, slice of cheese, and butter on the outside--to make it a little tastier, spread a little mayo on the inside of the bread; cook over low/medium heat, a couple minutes each side).
Now, if you want some easy home-cooking, buy yourself a slow cooker (aka a Crock Pot). [Here's a perfectly good one for $30] (http://www.amazon.com/Crock-Pot-SCCPVL600S-6-Quart-Portable-Stainless/dp/B003HF6PUO/ref=lp_694666_1_1?s=kitchen&ie=UTF8&qid=1407627658&sr=1-1). Crock Pot recipes are the easiest thing you'll ever make -- basically throw some chicken or beef in the pot with some broth, add vegetables and/or potatoes, and then let it simmer all day while you're at work. When you get home, you've got a hot meal ready to go, and you'll have leftovers for a couple days.
Just with some googling, here's [a simple pot roast] (http://allrecipes.com/recipe/maries-easy-slow-cooker-pot-roast/), here's [one for chicken noodle soup] (http://www.realsimple.com/food-recipes/browse-all-recipes/chicken-pasta-soup-00000000039971/index.html). Best thing about a slow cooker is you really can't screw it up -- it's just putting your ingredients in broth and letting it simmer all day. You can also buy seasoning packets at the market that help with more complicated things like pulled pork by mixing all the spices you need -- all you do is add it to a couple ingredients and put the meat in the pot.
Be prepared for your income from you uncle to disappear if things go south when you leave. Don't expect anything you depend on to be there after you leave.
All of this saving is important to your stability, but if things get bad before these funds are fully funded don't be afraid to pull the trigger. It doesn't sound like there is any immediate danger for you, just lots of feeling uncomfortable. You feel terrible right now because your stuck somewhere with no reasonable means out. You'll be surprised to find out that once you have some savings and the ability to move out when ever you want how much more bearable the situation is. Regardless, don't move out before you are financially ready to do so. Feeling uncomfortable and weird around you family isn't good enough reason to move before your finances are right.
I'm going to just add another comment because now I've read your post history. Here's what I see:
https://www.amazon.com/Love-Addiction-Stanton-Peele-ebook/dp/B00IVAQQOK
I'm sure there are other, more recent books, but this is the classic and it's what I read 31 years ago.
It gets better, OP. I am married now and have a great life and two grown kids. I would have missed out on all this if I hadn't confronted my own obsession and unwillingness to give up a relationship that felt like a drug. And no, my marriage does not feel like that. And yes, I do still think back on that other relationship, even after all this time, because it helped me to see where and how I needed to change to be a whole person. It's really hard to do, but most of us have had to do it.
Let go of how special she is, and how special you are by extension. Let her go.
I’m gonna be the unpopular person who says that you don’t have to pack light. Especially if you’re staying put in the same hotel etc. You’re most likely checking your suitcase in transit so who cares if it’s bigger or packed to capacity? I travel with larger bags (on wheels) all the time and I can honestly say that if my bag is a few inches bigger or a couple pounds heavier it makes zero difference. Just make sure you’re within the airlines guidelines.
SO. My point is, don’t put too much pressure on yourself to pack perfectly. If you can’t decide between a couple shirts, just bring both. You’ll be happier later when you have the choice. Check the weather for the time of year or dates you’re going and then look at your wardrobe. What would you be comfortable in? Pack those things. Look at your itinerary, what do you need to dress for? Pack those things. Stick to just a couple pairs of shoes. They take up the most space/are bulky. Good walking shoes are probably a must and then a pair to dress up a little with if you go somewhere nicer. If you can do laundry somewhere great, if not it’s ok to pack a few more pairs of underwear and shirts. Also consider packing some Shout Wipes in case you stain something you had hoped to rewear. Plan on wearing pants multiple times. For Scotland def pack some rain-appropriate things like a jacket etc.
Get some travel size toiletries and think about extras you might need. Yes you could buy Tylenol while there if you have a headache but then you have to go find it and depending on where you are it may be more expensive. It’s a small and light thing anyway so just pack some just in case. Think about other things like that.
Bring entertainment for the flight as well as snacks if you don’t want to pay for them onboard (airplane snacks can be pricey). Download books, movies, shows onto electronics ahead of time.
Lastly you might need power adapters depending on where you are coming from. Make sure you have a few so you can charge all of your tech. You might also consider getting a battery pack so you can charge on the go. Nothing worse than your entertainment dying mid-flight or your phone dying as you try to get an Uber. I love this one.
"Season to taste" is often hard at the beginning while you're learning but honestly - it's always hard for some people. You might be like most people who learn by trial and error or you might be like my best friend who just has a very limited sense of taste. (I'm not exaggerating. He can describe a sauce as "red" but can't tell if it's tomato-based.) If, after trying for a while, you find you're one of those few who continue to struggle, then look for "staple" dishes you enjoy eating and take specific notes about the seasoning levels everyone likes so you can just replicate the measurements down the road.
With things like salt and pepper, remember that you can always add more later so you don't have to figure out the perfect amount while cooking the larger portion; folks can just season their own servings if needed.
These are kind of cute and give informal measurements of "A dash = 1/8 tsp, a pinch= 1/16 tsp and a smidgen = 1/32 tsp." Maybe you use measurements like this as a "cheat sheet" until you figure out what tastes good to you.
For your kitchen:
For your bedroom:
For your bathroom:
For general cleaning:
First aid kit, because mom isn't there to help when you get sick:
(23 F bisexual, with a varied relationship history w/ men, non-binaries, and women)
I think a major issue with TRP is that they are determined to think of women as a hive mind. You can see how easy that mindset is to get into by looking at your search history - unfortunately, asking 'what do women want' is about as useful as asking 'what do men want' - we all know there is vast variation at the individual level.
The difference between you and them is that if a woman were to walk up to you and say 'i would like to be respected and not be subordinate to you', your response would not be 'you don't really mean that, because what women really want is [insert horrifying statement]', because at the end of the day you're aware that women are individuals.
Knowing that women are in fact people is not a magic bullet to getting the girl/relationship you want, and it's worth remembering that sexism is a systemic issue, which means that women can also believe it (I really liked someone else's comment about 'lizard brain' versus human brain) and gravitate toward it.
However, I really do think I am a person, and I only date men who I won't have to convince of that fact. If a dude makes statements like 'you're not like other girls', he goes straight out the window, because I am not going to date a man who thinks 'other girls' are a monolith of shit. However, no redpill dude is ever going to come close to me, which is why it's so easy for them to reaffirm their worldview.
You are on the right track to being a trustworthy and wise person, and I would encourage you to keep on your track. Maybe look for dating advice authored by women!
edit: I grabbed a link to one google drive that's (I think) totally authored by women, talking about 'emotional labour', which is a huge thing you can be aware of if you want to be a good partner: here it is!
another link is to Nick Offerman's book/audiobook, which I listened to with my old boss (I used to do leatherwork, very manly), which I think is a really good perspective on manliness. jordan peterson may tell you that women are 'the dragon of chaos', but nick offerman is actually a success in the entertainment and woodworking world, and it does appear he's had positive relationships with women.
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You've received a lot of great comments and tips. My two cents: instead of a crockpot/slow cooker, consider getting an electric pressure cooker. I have the Instant Pot, which is primarily an electric pressure cooker but also has a slow cooker function. Best of both worlds in one unit! Then, you can make all the excellent slow-cooker recipes you have here on top of the quick and super-easy pressure cooker ones. My favorite pressure cooker sites are:
[Dad Cooks Dinner] (http://dadcooksdinner.com/)
[Hip Pressure Cooking] (http://www.hippressurecooking.com/)
Favorite PC cookbooks - either [Great Big Pressure Cooker] (https://www.amazon.com/Great-Big-Pressure-Cooker-Book/dp/0804185328/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1483205095&sr=8-5&keywords=pressure+cooker+cookbook) cookbook, or any of the Lorna Sass books like Cooking Under Pressure, etc.
Best of luck to you!
I read a book that talks about different ways to approach and solve arguments. Your post reminded me of it and it really helped me out.
Maybe it will help you manage or be able to see her point, and likewise if she reads it both of you can come to an understanding as well. It's called Crucial Conversations Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High. I'm not much of a book reader myself but part of the book is very clear about communication styles, how people can shut down or approach a situation when they are uncomfortable, how to pull people out of their shells, and more. I really recommend it.
As for calming down, it would help to be vocal about needing some time to process your feelings and to think about the topic at hand. It gives insight and shows you're letting her in rather than giving the impression that you're shutting her out. Better to chill than talk with guns ablazing (aka being volatile). It is not healthy to talk while volatile. The book I mentioned talks about this too. In an argument when you feel like you're shutting down, you should let her know that you need some time before talking again.
You can buy property with cash as soon as you have the money.
A house with all those bits will cost around 25k and need work. You will find cheaper but have to do a lot of work to fix it up, shacks and foreclosures and the like.
Under the age of 18 you cannot be legally held to a contract, so you really can't get a loan or financing (I believe that you could still with a co-signer, but that does require some legal research on your part)
My advice? Get a job and save up money until you can afford a plot of land out of the way. Then look into building "tiny houses" or finding a camper or trailer that fits your needs, so long as you can repair it by yourself. Cheap, DIY, and... erm.., "builds character."
Home/property ownership is an insane level of responsibility, ours was a foreclosure that took a ton of work to make comfortable, and we've long acknowledged that it will never be finished.
Good internet is nearly impossible in the areas your talking about though, more than 5 minutes out of a small town in Texas and your lucky to get a 10mb/s connection with a 10gb monthly cap for $50.
I had a similar daydream when I was a teenager, its cool to see there are still people that want a little disconnect from the rest of the world.
If you are REALLY feeling frisky, pick up this book: The Fifty Dollar Underground House Book
It is crazy out of date, but the principles are still there and filled my head with fantastical ideas when I was your age.
For that matter, just google up some pictures of Tiny Houses. They can be made for a couple of grand and if you made one it would impress the hell out of your parents ( and any date you might be able to fit through the door :-) )
Did your contract come with a home warranty? That saved us a lot of money the first year. You can still get one yourself if it didn’t come with one.
Things I think you should buy:
Ceiling fan duster here. I use it to not only clean my ceiling fans but it does a fantastic job of cleaning the air vents on tall ceilings. I literally love this thing.
Speaking of air vents we have washable filters for ours here. I set a reminder on my phone to wash them out once a month. No having to remember to go by Home Depot or Lowe’s to get them all the time.
Also a spray mop that you can put your own cleaning solution in. I don’t trust swiffer to know how much juice I want in my mop haha. You can find it here.
These are all the exact models of the ones I have so I do recommend them!
There's a cooking for beginner's subreddit as well by the way.
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I found certain cook books more helpful than others. As a science type, I deeply appreciated this time which should be in your local library. It explains what "meat" is: muscles, and how it all works, and how heat affects it chemically. All the steps are very clear, the photography is beautiful, and steps are written exactly like a chemistry lab.
The meat chapter explains why different cuts of meat are different and what to do with each.
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Start with beef or good quality fish: both are safe to eat even if undercooked. Maybe take a scientific approach, even: cut up different chunks of the same size, blot dry with paper towel to minimize splutter.
Put pan on stove at medium setting, add about teaspoon of oil and spread across surface evenly. When you can feel heat on your hand about 3 inches from the heated surface, add meat.
After one minute remove one chunk and rest on plate. After another minute remove another. And so on. Observe the differences. Now taste them. Then add little salt and pepper and taste again.
Small steps. :)
I used to be the kid who threw pop corn kernels on the stove without oil and almost set the house on fire. My then boyfriend needed to walk me through cooking my first egg. We all start somewhere.
My wife and I both read the [5 Love Languages] (https://www.amazon.com/Love-Languages-Secret-that-Lasts/dp/080241270X) book from the library. It really helps with examining the way you express love and also helps identify how others express it. If you're both the same, then it's pretty easy, but it gets a little difficult when you are different (which is most people). If nothing else it's been helpful at just training you to think about things like showing love in a format that your partner is most receptive to and helps a little with communication across styles.
Okay microfiber sheet great
Comforter and duvet. I bought my comforter on amazon and its amazing it was 30 bucks
My duvet was 80 bc I loved the pattern and its pottery barn on ebay. You can buy for less though
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00UXLH5JK/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
That is my comforter. I live in texas and the temps drop or rise without notice. I hate being cold or hot and I feel like it keeps me even
$250 certainly is not a huge food budget. Depending on how you feel about cooking, you can certainly work with it.
I recommend you look around at various food and cooking subreddits that take budget into consideration. We're talking EatCheapAndHealthy, not FoodPorn. Look at appealing and approachable recipes for common ingredients. If you cook those sorts of recipes, those common ingredients will be staples in your fridge & cabinets.
A few ideas:
On a related tangent, these are some sources that massively improved my cooking abilities. They might be useful to you, since you mention staying out of the kitchen.
Sounded like you were overwhelmed. Don't worry, you'll get it all done. And don't feel bad poking family and friends for help sometimes, just offer food or beer and watch 5 people move things in one single run. Moving is stressful and the cleaning willl get done eventually. Although flushing the sink and the fridge seals (which no one ever cleans) are the best first ideas.
Also grocery bag holders I mean these things. Around 5$ each. The first has a keychain hole and I'd just attach them to a bag. It saves your palms when walking groceries home for 25 minutes.
If your laundry is in the basement I'd also go grab the easiest to carry laundry baskets, probably tall plastic reinforced handle or generic wide low one.
Good luck with nursing school!! Luckily once your an RN you'll get paid enough you could have someone else clean if you needed.
This is a bad idea. It will seem ridiculous and socially inappropriate. At best, people will simply be a little confused and weirded out; and at worst, people will be insulted.
If you handed one to me, I would not want to take it. If you insisted, I would feel uncomfortable, and absolutely never ever 'cash it in' under any circumstances. I'd go home to my wife and say, "you know that guy /u/probably_bad_idea? He gave me this weird coin today. You ever hear of anything like that?"
Here's why: the give-and-take of favors is part of what creates trust between business associates. Commodifying the process, which is what you are explicitly doing, ruins that element of interaction. Whether or not this is actually true, it implies that you only do favors for others to earn favors in return, and expect that the people you interact with share the same worldview. It says, "I assume you're only doing this favor for me to get one in return, so I went to the trouble of making you this coin."
Another downside is, it's very impersonal. No mention of what they did or why it was helpful; just a grubby poker chip identical to what some other girl got.
[Edit to add: a third downside is the implication that you wouldn't remember what they did later on. "Hey, thanks for the favor. I won't remember it tomorrow, so here's a special coin you can cash in to remind me."
A fourth downside is the implication that you wouldn't have helped them out beforehand, but now that you owe them a favor, you will help them out once. "Hey, now that you've done me a favor, I've decided to offer you one in the future if you need it." That's not literally what you mean, but it is the implication.]
The adult thing to do would be to send a simple email. If you really want to send a special message, you could hand-write a short note instead. (Perhaps put some of your coin-designing budget toward buying some tasteful stationary like this).
In either case, here's what the note should say, in three or four sentences:
For example:
Thanks for bailing me out on those TPS reports today. Without your perfectly color-coded spreadsheets, I never would have gotten the reports to the client on time. If you ever need a hand collating widgets (or anything else), just let me know. Best,
It's a great start to say you don't want to do to your kid what your parents did to you. It's time to take the next step and start filling your parent tool belt with what you want to do as a parent. If your only reference point is what doesn't work, you'll have a hard time making good parenting choices. You don't have to figure out the good tools on your own. There are tons of resources for parenting advice. Personally, I'd recommend looking at Danny Silk. It's framed as "Christian" parenting advice, but the essentials are solid and I use them every day.
Source: I'm a real life parent with three kids. I had a stable upbringing, but when I had kids of my own, I didn't have a good reference point for how to parent. Finding good resources and practicing the tools radically changed my relationship with my kids for the better. We will all be different and better for decades to come, both individually and as a family.