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Hi honey. I just wanted to give you a big ol' huuuuugggg because relationships are hard and hugs make everything better. Guys are jerks sometimes.

I do the same thing to my gf sometimes, and I know that it is mean and hurts her but for some reason my stupid guy brain just says "eh she'll get over it. eat daa foooods." or whatever I'm doing at the moment. I think part of it is not wanting to accept responsibility for hurting her, as if ignoring it is going to make it go away. Psshhh.

He is probably feeling a cocktail of emotions when this is going on. He is annoyed, frustrated, maybe even angry. But he is probably also feeling guilty, and may have anger turned inward for hurting you. Focusing intently on video games or whatever it is, is just an escape so that he doesn't have to acknowledge what is going on or apologize, or maybe he is even (subconsciously?) trying to protect you from hurting you anymore by saying something else stupid - and thus doing the very thing he is trying to avoid.

The reality is that the ball is in his court. It sucks, but there isn't much you can do about it. Eventually he will have to man up and apologize. Maybe he doesn't realize specifically what it was that he said that hurt you? What I would suggest is finding a time that you can have a serious talk, with no distractions. This means a time when he is not playing video games, or cooking/eating, or whatever, and he is awake and attentive and also calm.

My partner and I have one of the best relationships I have ever seen, simply because we communicate about everything. I know it's cliche, but communication is key. If you need talking points or anything feel free to ask! I'm sorry that you're going through this, but just know that it is totally possible to fix things.

Also, I just thought I would show you this video. I think it's freaking hilarious. I watch it every freaking time I get sad. I laugh my ass off every time too. My girlfriend doesn't like it, but idk why. But maybe you will! Worth a try :) Anyways, hang in there! :)

This puzzle would cheer me up a lot because it would give me something to seriously focus on, other than the fact that my mommy is gone. :c Thank you for the contest. Diary of a Madman.