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I too got dumped out of nowhere without any real explanation. I'm going to skip the "time does its job" speech because every second feels like torture for you. Time does its job but you don't want to rely on it. So here's what I personally did and continuing to do.
I can certainly give you some advice on what I did to get me out of my pit of despair and onto the road of becoming happier by myself.
I think this is a good place for you to start. One thing I highly recommend is do a one-time bargain with your depressed side. It's no use fighting it right now. I totally understand that. Pick a free day you. Whatever day works for you. (I picked a Sunday night). Get into your pajamas, get a tub of ice cream, turn on Netflix (or whatever you prefer), and cry and indulge yourself away for the night. You deserve it. Let this be your final cry before a start to a better you and lifestyle. And do not have another night like that. This isn't a do it every once in a while type of thing, this is to bargain with your depression so you have no excuses to start the next day.
Listen, it sucks ass right now. I know it does. But it does get better. Time helps and all that bullshit but the true source of you getting through this is if you help yourself and not waiting for time to do its job. Grab the bull by the horns and ride it into the unknown.
Good luck and if you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to pm anytime about anything. Whether to chat up or for some advice. :)
Your assumption that everyone is on the take is just wrong. I've lived a long time, met a lot of people in a variety of locations, and the one thing I can tell you for sure is that there are many more good, kind, helpful people of both genders (or all), than bad. Most people just want to get along in their lives, and understand the golden rule, "Treat others how you wish to be treated by them."
The thing is, people live up to our expectations. If you expect people to lie, cheat, steal, those are the people you'll notice and gravitate towards. If you expect them to be decent people who will help if asked--and who will often volunteer without being asked--you'll notice those people.
Yes, people make mistakes. We sometimes mistake our own intentions, or come across situations that change our minds about other people, but that's part of life, which will never quite follow the life scripts I mentioned. And yes, there are those who will use anyone and everyone--but you know them by their actions, not their words. 'Trust, but verify' might be a better approach than 'mistrust everyone.'
This may sound counter-intuitive, but I was once in a relationship I had a hard time letting go of after it ended. I spent my fair share of time wallowing, but eventually knew I had to let go and move on. A book I found, "How to fall out of love," has simple cognitive behavioral exercises that helped me identify and change my own negative thought patterns.
The reverse side of that, of course, is that there are also simple exercises that help you make better choices in pursuing the next relationship. (Google 'cognitive behavioral therapy' for a broader view.)
No one's perfect. We all struggle, even those labelled as 'normies' and 'Chads'--you just haven't seen their struggles because you're focused on your own, and it's easier for you to think, naturally enough, that their life is just easy. It isn't, though.
That's why you got such a kind response from /u/ceDrowRanger. She recognizes that life is hard and you're struggling too.
Good luck to you!
I liked the book "How to Fall Out of Love" - Deborah Phillips & Paul Judd
Not specifically redpill, but it might give ya some new ideas.
The methods are good for all parts of life. Helps to see how our thoughts and beliefs about a situation create our emotions. Good practice for developing mental control & strength of mind.
I highly, highly, from-personal-experience HIGHLY, recommend the techniques in the book, [How to Fall Out of Love] (https://www.amazon.com/How-Fall-Out-Love-Revised/dp/098558100X) by Debora Phillips.