Reddit mentions of Mag-Torch MT200C Propane Pencil Flame Burner Torch

So you take your nail which is usually made of titanium or quartz. You torch that bitch until it is hot, then you take your concentrate material and vaporize it on the hot surface. Some nails require and extra piece of glass called a dome to reduce the airflow around the nail when you dab it. Male female is pretty self explanatory, the piece you have in the picture here is male. The joint on that is designed to go inside of something else, not unlike a penis ;) the vast majority of weed smoking bongs are female.

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http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B000692UYE/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?qid=1427394577&sr=8-1&keywords=bernzo&dpPl=1&dpID=31LKTYYr2uL&ref=plSrch&pi=AC_SY200_QL40

Get one with a click on and off button. But yeah this.

I own this: http://www.amazon.com/Mag-Torch-MT200C-Propane-Pencil-Burner/dp/B000692UYE/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1420669575&sr=8-2&keywords=propane+torch

Would suggest something like this: http://www.amazon.com/Electric-Propane-Push-button-electric-starter/dp/B007R84M7A/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&qid=1420669575&sr=8-5&keywords=propane+torch

While those will certainly work I'd suggest getting a better torch setup. Something like this and thise. I've went through a 1 lb tank (slightly bigger than what I linked) since I started with RBA's around 6 months ago, I can't imagine how much butane I would have went through in that time.