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Reddit mentions of Shattered Vows: Hope and Healing for Women Who Have Been Sexually Betrayed
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Release date | January 2008 |
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Hi there <3
I'm sure you read my story, and I must say that I can really relate to a good portion of what you're experiencing. It's an extremely dividing feeling inside yourself, trying to be a support for your loved one while also feeling destroyed inside... trying to set aside all your newly onset insecurities and doubts about yourself, in an attempt to be sexually appealing and appeasing to what he might want. But it all leads down a scary path and I think you described it really well with all your worries about how you look, speak, perform, how intellectual you are, how fun... I completely have felt all of this.
It is really worrisome how the content that he's looking at is worsening. I am no professional, but I'll give advice that my husband and I have done that has helped a lot.
This blocks all porn stuff, along with any other categories you choose, and will send immediate updates about what websites are being accessed to whoever the accountability partner is. Which brings me to point number 2.
The main point here is: his recovery has to be his. Ultimately, it is HIS problem, and he has to be willing to change. If he isn't, then you can't do anything at all and it will consume you and waste your time. If he is, and if you're willing to stick that out with him through all of this, then that's incredible. It will be exhausting, breaking up will cross your mind (divorce has played on my mind throughout the days during the worst of it), and it will have consequences on you. Right now, I've taken a big step back and am doing a lot of work on myself, on healing, on allowing myself to be angry and experience the grief. But thankfully, literally over the last 3 weeks we've been doing immensely better each week than a month ago.
Set up software, get a male accountability partner for him, and get yourself counselling and/or a female who you trust and can confide in, who understands that you want to work on the relationship and will help you on your end and not just bash him. You need someone too.
I hope that helps a bit. May you find peace.