Reddit mentions of Sorry I'm Late, I Didn't Want to Come: One Introvert's Year of Saying Yes

Hey! I can totally relate. But one thing that helped me was [this] (https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1449499236/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1572667170&sr=8-2) book.


Basically it's just an introverts journey to make deep meaningful connections. It has some great tips and is really a funny and light read.


Check it out

you’re welcome this might be a good read for you

I would work on enjoying your time alone and if you’re bored figure out what would change that or what you would rather go do learn to separate your emotions and desires from the status quo around you your satisfaction goes deeply beyond whatever group of people you are in

maybe work on how you present yourself too conversationally online etc I think the things you like are what a lot of people like and I don’t see stigma unless you’re some forever alone gamer nerd

also be careful of how you talk about yourself and your circumstances language like disgust me, people are fake, whatever else of this defeatist attitude seeps out can be a real turn off and you want to be as authentic but also as attractive as possible (especially since you have such little dating experience)

meetup is a website for groups of people with shared interests to have a meetup about that and get to know new people