Reddit mentions of Vans VEE3BLK Unisex Authentic Skate Shoes, Black, 10 M US Men/11.5 M US Women

I think folks like /u/Ehsu and /u/backbank are on a good track. Androgyny is the key word here. Maybe also throw in some low profile shoes (Like this rather than this). Some drapey outerwear over a scoop neck. Maybe a scarf if weather permits (25 ways to tie one). Wear pants with a tight taper and maybe some elastine blended in to give it some stretch. Put more emphasis than usual on the hips when considering the silhouette of an outfit, like /u/trashpile does sometimes by wearing 3/4 cropped pants and pushing them up over his calves. You can throw on a crazy print, then balance it by muting the rest of the outfit. Try some bright colors.

Adding a feminine or androgynous element or two to an outfit isn't as "out there" as some would believe, and you'll see some crop up in the top WAYWTs if you know what to look for. Some people, particularly if they're skinny, can wear clothes with many androgynous elements and still get a lot of praise. Just make sure that what you're wearing is cohesive as a whole. Don't forget that it's still important to balance texture, color, silhouette, and all that other fun stuff even when building more unusual outfits. Perhaps even more so, as clumsiness can lead to accusations of affectation.

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Which shoes fam?

http://www.amazon.com/VANS-UNISEX-SLIP-FASHION-SNEAKERS/dp/B017AMFDRA/ref=pd_sim_sbs_309_2?ie=UTF8&dpID=41l8ivuefnL&dpSrc=sims&preST=_AC_UL160_SR160%2C160_&refRID=0RR0G6K8A94FWJ0TAJG5

or

http://www.amazon.com/Vans-Unisex-Classic-Slip--Royale/dp/B011SLE488/ref=sr_1_25?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1458165312&sr=1-25&nodeID=7141123011&keywords=vans+slip+on

or

http://www.amazon.com/Vans-AUTHENTIC-SKATE-SHOES-BLACK/dp/B000UYG5VE/ref=sr_1_1?s=apparel&ie=UTF8&qid=1458092335&sr=1-1&nodeID=7141123011&keywords=vans

(last ones in port royale/black. Actually now that I think about it, you can suggest any color you like for those ones lol.)