Reddit mentions of Wahl 4120-200 All-Body Massage Powerful Therapeutic Massager in Pharmacy Box

External clitoral vibrator may help. I didn't have my first orgasm till I was 21, and that was only with the help of a wahl. I didn't know what it was supposed to feel like so I could never get myself 'over the falls'. I too would shut down.

I have found orgasming comes easier as you get older and more comfortable with your sexuality. Don't worry, you'll get there.

I think she's talking about this one

EDIT: Just read reviews, yeah that's the right one.
EDIT2: Wow, downvoted for helping.

Well, then might I suggest this little number for those that can afford it, and this is a good substitute for those who couldn't afford the Hitachi in the first place...

Do you have a good vibrator? Not necessarily a dildo - but something like this:
http://www.amazon.com/Wahl-4120-200-All-Body-Powerful-Therapeutic/dp/B000EQS33G
or
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B01D59PBGA?psc=1

For women, masturbation is really about your mind, not the toy. Getting comfortable and finding the right fantasy or erotic literature or video porn is the key. Good luck - and don't give up, you are only 18.

Hitachi Magic Wand for deep thrum

Or the Wahl "Massager" if you need something a bit more quiet

I have both and like each very much. This is my second wand, the first having finally given up the ghost after five wonderful years together. :)

Wahl?

Probably Hitachi from the "round tip" part, though. Wahl looks more like a mixer to me than the Hitachi.

The Wahl is the Hitachi's quieter, cheaper, more discrete cousin.

Not quite as powerful, but still well up there.

Just your basic massager. My wife has one. Good ole tried n true.


http://www.amazon.com/Wahl-4120-200-All-Body-Powerful-Therapeutic/dp/B000EQS33G

Alright, here's the deal.

If you want quiet and not-embarrassing, you cannot beat the Wahl Coil. It's nearly dead silent (I mean so silent that if you turned it on and stop across the room from it, only a person with good hearing would even pick up the faint humming noise it makes). Furthermore, it's non-phallic and lots of people use it for actual muscles massage, so if you're worried about your toy stash being discovered it's significantly more tame looking than a realistic penis vibrator.

The Wahl Coil is like $20-25 and you can buy it anywhere (Amazon, your local Bed Bath and Beyond or other department store type place that would have back massagers, Wal-Mart, etc.)

If you're looking for a phallic vibrator, however, I can't recommend the LELO line of vibrators enough. They're not cheap (most of them are around $75+), but they're incredibly well built and you'll get more enjoyment out of one of them than you would a chest of cheaper toys.

> The noise from magic wands is honestly my biggest issue with them.

They're really not very loud at all. If you want something similar that's quieter though, try this product from Wahl.

I agree that the focus needs to be on the clit. I needed to learn to orgasm with my fingers first. I also need to rub the hood fairly gently or it is too sensitive.
Have you tried a plug in vibrator yet? http://www.amazon.com/Wahl-4120-200-All-Body-Powerful-Therapeutic/dp/B000EQS33G
That one isn't overpowering and if you don't like it it actually works for body massages.
Good luck!