Reddit mentions of 365 Questions For Couples

Sounds like your issue is an over-excited mind, anxious, fearful and obsessing with sex at the moment. To learn how to control that, try exteriorizing the problem, that is, look at it as if it's not your problem but you're observing someone else. Do you know Cesar Millan's dog show? If not, see how he's making dogs listen to him on NatGeo TV: http://channel.nationalgeographic.com/wild/dog-whisperer/ . He's always saying that he is curing the owners, not the dogs.

To find out what you want from a woman / relationship, make a list of what is important to you; write that in a file. Check the questions on OKC and see which of them make you say "hey, this matter to me". If you think there are too many or disorganized, check the ones from lovzen.com (the profiles are not linked to a service).

If you have the interest and are willing to spend the money, see:

• http://www.amazon.com/365-Questions-Couples-Michael-Beck/dp/158062068X = 365 Questions For Couples
  
• http://www.amazon.com/1001-Questions-Ask-Before-Married/dp/0071438033/ref=pd_sim_b_3 = 1001 Questions to Ask Before You Get Married
  
• http://www.amazon.com/How-Far-Will-You-Questions/dp/0375502424/ref=pd_sim_b_6 = How Far Will You Go?: Questions to Test Your Limits
  
• http://www.amazon.com/Book-Questions-Love-Sex/dp/089480619X/ref=cm_cr_pr_sims_t = The Book of Questions: Love & Sex
  
  If you want sexual education, see http://www.gardenerofthoughts.org/ideas/sexualeducation/sexualeducation/index.htm . You'll see that it deals with sexuality as a mental trait, not a physical one; if you like the introduction, read the virginity section.
  

https://www.amazon.com/365-Questions-Couples-Michael-Beck/dp/158062068X

Here is a book I have that has helped. I have a few others too. You can search for more online. Plenty of questions and scenarios that will help as conversation starters. Also, see if you guys have similar interests/hobbies that you can discuss or find one together.