Reddit mentions of Charlie’s Soap Laundry Powder (100 Loads, 1 Pack) Fragrance Free Hypoallergenic Deep Cleaning Laundry Powder – Biodegradable Laundry Detergent That Is Both Safe and Effective

So if you would like an additional neutralizer which I've found works for a surprising array of things: Charlie's Soap. I'm a farmer, which means that sometimes the damnest things have to go through my washing machine.

What I do is I dump a large amount (about a cup) of Charlie's Soap into the machine with a 'junk' shirt or the like (basically something I don't care about, it's just there for the purpose of running a clean cycle equivalent - may I suggest you use his favorite pair of jeans? ;P) and run it on the hottest, longest, roughest cycle available. I do this two or three times and it really works very well.

As for his damn shop rags, I wouldn't even burn them, I would get rid of them completely. And I would clip an ad for a local laundromat for him; he can do his washing there from now on, on his own.

I use Charlie's soap, but only 1/2 a scoop. Its cheaper than tide powder (around 17cents/load if you use a full scoop). It works well for us. A lot of it is trial and error with what type of water you have. I've heard that trader Joes' laundry powder is very similar to charlie's soap if you have a TJs around you.

Charlie's soap is better than Persil in my front loader and much cheaper. I never use fabric softener -- Charlie's leaves no residue. Cold water always except for whites. Shout advanced for stain pretreatment.

I get exactly the same thing, dermatitis from gi rubbing against my skin. I used to get it back in high school from playing sports with pads, too. It's embarrassing and it itches like hell, plus you don't want open abrasions while training.

1. Wear long sleeve rashguard and spats under your gi. I only get the rash on my hands, wrists, and tops of my feet when I wear spats and a longsleeve rashguard. I used to get it on my elbows and behind my knees too, longsleeve rashguard and spats immediately stopped it from appearing.
   
   
2. Apply lotion (I use this stuff) after every time you shower to the areas that typically get rashy (again for me it's my wrists, hands, feet). Apply the lotion whether you trained or not.
   
   
3. Try using this detergent when washing your gi, rashguard, spats, belt, etc. I cannot recommend it enough. It's scentless, not too expensive, non-abrasive so your gi wears out more slowly and it will help save your skin. It's perfect for bjj too, cleans great. Goes right in with the wash. If my gi starts to get a little funky I just add a little white vinegar as well.
   
   Doing these 3 things has stopped me from getting the rash completely. Hope they work for you too.

• There is absolutely nothing wrong with going back and forth. Any amount of cloth diapering you can do will be beneficial - so dont sweat it. I used disposables for the first 5 weeks (until he was big enough for the BG's to fit well, and until his stump fell off). You are not a bad person for using disposables temporarily.
  
  
• I currently use 4.0's and love them. They are easy to take care of, and I very rarely have a problem with leakage. Breastmilk poops were almost always contained well, whereas when I was using disposables, almost every single time he pooped it was up his back. edited to add I currently have about 40 of the 4.0's but I have WAAAAAY more than is necessary. I had more than enough at 24 or so, I am just lazy and like to wash every three days instead of every one or two (my kid is like a freakin water fountain - we are ALWAYS changing wet diapers so I got more than was really necessary..)
  
  
• My wash routine is this: one long (normal) cycle, cold water, heavy cleaning, extra rinse, extra water. Then one short cycle on hot (NOT sanitize - just hot) heavy cleaning, extra water, extra rinse and I use Tide Original Powder (although I'm thinking about switching - I'm starting to get a smell that I can't get rid of..) If you breasfeed, you dont have to spray off the poops until you start solids because the poop is water soluble until then. If you use formula or are on solids, you have to spray/dunk/whatever to get the poop off before they go in the washer. I just recently switched to formula (booo... :( ) and was worried that spraying them off would be a huge PITA, but its really not at all. Super easy and takes about 30 seconds. Totally easy.
  
  
• I have heard good things about Soap Nuts, Nellies, Charlies, BumGenius brand, and Rockin Green. I dont have experience with any of those but I have read good reviews and bad for all of them. You would have to figure out what would work for you and your family.
  
  
• I have tried All Free and Clear and was not happy with how it left the diapers (had major buildup/stains/smells out the wazoo) after using that for a month. Also tried Soap Nuts and I am neutral on them. The clothes were clean, but it irritated me to no end to try to find that stinkin drawstring bag in the load of wet diapers so I wouldn't throw it in the dryer. And I'm now using Tide Original Powder but I'm starting to get a little smell. Although Tide has worked the best so far. I think I just need to strip my diapers again.
  
  Cloth diapering is SO much easier than I originally thought. Just keep in mind that EVERYTHING is negotiable. There is no one set way of doing things that will work for everyone. It really is a lot of trial and error.

I'll throw in a recommendation for Charlie's Soap. I'm so sensitive that even the dye & perfume free detergents cause me to break out, but Charlie's Soap rinses out clean and I've never had a reaction. It's non-toxic, biodegradable, inexpensive, made in the USA, and works better than any laundry detergent I've ever tried. It's the only detergent I've used in my HE washer, and I have zero soap buildup after using it weekly, an average of four loads a week, for five years. It's not just the laundry soap, either - every cleaning product I've tried from Charlie's Soap has been fantastic.

I met the president of the company a few years ago and gushed at him like a fangirl for a good five minutes. It's beyond brand loyalty at this point; it's more like brand fanaticism. Seriously, the stuff is amazing, and as long as the Sutherland family keeps making it, I'll keep buying it.